JesssFam: Facing Reality w/ Daiquiris & Taco Bell (Part 87)

[Blackswan]

So no Landen birthday video montage?

It's not his birthday until Friday, so that will probably be her Friday video this week.

Right right. I forgot it isn't his birthday yet.

[LilaLavender]

I mean, I have 4 kids myself but they range in age from 11 to 5 months. So they are spaced out.

How do you feel about that spacing? It's what I hope to go for once I start having kids; 4 in 12 years, but people say it's no fun to be in "diaper stage" in a long time. How do you like it?

[soma31]

Oh dear lord, when I posted that pic I wasn't expecting to start a 5+ page debate over paper plates haha. Sorry guys, it just seemed really weird to me as an Australian.

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


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[smom12]

Oh dear lord, when I posted that pic I wasn't expecting to start a 5+ page debate over paper plates haha. Sorry guys, it just seemed really weird to me as an Australian.

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


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It's all good. I wasn't expecting someone to come on here and vehemently defend him. I'm speechless.


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[Yogabbagabbat]

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


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I usually give him the benefit of the doubt when it comes to crazy jess stories lol but when it comes to the child support thing I believe jess. There are those dads who don't think it's "fair" that they have to pay $ because their ex's do okay financially, & that line of thinking seems very drake

[Yogabbagabbat]

I think it's great that gabe and jess have come out of the situation as friends, but how weird is it that like 1/4 of landen's birthday guests were there due to jess' love life lol. Talking about gabe & kally or whatever her name is

[soma31]

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


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I usually give him the benefit of the doubt when it comes to crazy jess stories lol but when it comes to the child support thing I believe jess. There are those dads who don't think it's "fair" that they have to pay $ because their ex's do okay financially, & that line of thinking seems very drake

I've even defended him when it comes to child support, thinking that money is probably tight working dead end jobs with 4 kids to support. But after seeing that ring and the "Natalie" tattoo there's no excuses anymore.


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[nadsbliss]

[quote="soma31"]Oh dear lord, when I posted that pic I wasn't expecting to start a 5+ page debate over paper plates haha. Sorry guys, it just seemed really weird to me as an Australian.

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


He can afford it. They bought their first house back in April last year. He furnished the house nicely before he invites friends or throw a party over his place. Nat and Bella comes first. The boys sure missed alot of family bonding with the Roque family. The boys only get to see the other families for special occasion etc birthday/thanksgiving.

[Aboogabooga]

So do they just hand out houses in Modesto? This is the same guy that was working at target right? And don't they garnish some of your wages for child support? A year ago, on landens b-day actually, she posted that pic of how much he owed. So he's paid that off and bought a house and furnished it?? Yet his custody was reduced to practically nothing? Was that for no reason? There's some lies in there somewhere


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[MamaJoAnna]

So do they just hand out houses in Modesto? This is the same guy that was working at target right? And don't they garnish some of your wages for child support? A year ago, on landens b-day actually, she posted that pic of how much he owed. So he's paid that off and bought a house and furnished it?? Yet his custody was reduced to practically nothing? Was that for no reason? There's some lies in there somewhere


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I thought that was a picture of him paying like $3 to her bank account for CS? They probably reduced his custody/visitation because he couldn't show up to court or something.

[Aboogabooga]

So do they just hand out houses in Modesto? This is the same guy that was working at target right? And don't they garnish some of your wages for child support? A year ago, on landens b-day actually, she posted that pic of how much he owed. So he's paid that off and bought a house and furnished it?? Yet his custody was reduced to practically nothing? Was that for no reason? There's some lies in there somewhere


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I thought that was a picture of him paying like $3 to her bank account for CS? They probably reduced his custody/visitation because he couldn't show up to court or something.

Yea but I think it showed how much he owed too or there's a screenshot of the amount somewhere. I can't be bothered to look for it. Regardless my point was that this is a guy that couldn't pay his child support or see his kids or even be bothered to show up to his court dates I guess but now he's supposedly mr responsible who bought a house and is super dad to his fiancée and daughter. Poor boys.


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[gnarlywalrus]

It really bothered me that Alena is wearing the Harley Quinn 'Daddy's Little Monster' t-shirt from Suicide Squad. What business does a kindergartner have seeing that movie or advertising an overtly sexualized character? I imagine that the 'daddy' being referenced is the Joker.... her psychopathic, emotionally abusive romantic partner. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I just don't think that belongs on a little girl.

[Blackswan]

Drake bought a house? As much as I dislike Jess those poor boys must mean nothing to him. And now they have an ass for a stepdad.

[whattheactual]

Oh dear lord, when I posted that pic I wasn't expecting to start a 5+ page debate over paper plates haha. Sorry guys, it just seemed really weird to me as an Australian.

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


He can afford it. They bought their first house back in April last year. He furnished the house nicely before he invites friends or throw a party over his place. Nat and Bella comes first. The boys sure missed alot of family bonding with the Roque family. The boys only get to see the other families for special occasion etc birthday/thanksgiving.

"Nat and Bella come first" um, wtf??? The boys are HIS KIDS too. Just because he isn't in a relationship with their mom shouldn't make them any less valuable to him. Drake is such a piece of shit.

[twomommies]

I came here to see 60 new posts and come to find out they're all about paper dishes.

Bottom line, paper dishes are trashy. That's it. No argument. Use real fucking dishes and get over yourself. Spending 15 mins washing dishes isn't that big of a deal.


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Unless it's a birthday party, that's really my only exception

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[ForeverGauc01]

Oh dear lord, when I posted that pic I wasn't expecting to start a 5+ page debate over paper plates haha. Sorry guys, it just seemed really weird to me as an Australian.

Also normally I like to give Drake the benefit of the doubt but that's beyond shitty to spend money on *another* ring, but he can't even provide for his boys.


He can afford it. They bought their first house back in April last year. He furnished the house nicely before he invites friends or throw a party over his place. Nat and Bella comes first. The boys sure missed alot of family bonding with the Roque family. The boys only get to see the other families for special occasion etc birthday/thanksgiving.

"Nat and Bella come first" um, wtf??? The boys are HIS KIDS too. Just because he isn't in a relationship with their mom shouldn't make them any less valuable to him. Drake is such a piece of shit.

I think the poster meant it as a put down to drake. Like the boys are always an after thought for him.


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[whattheactual]

"Nat and Bella come first" um, wtf??? The boys are HIS KIDS too. Just because he isn't in a relationship with their mom shouldn't make them any less valuable to him. Drake is such a piece of shit.

I think the poster meant it as a put down to drake. Like the boys are always an after thought for him.


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Still tho. They shouldn't. He should value the boys just as much as he does Bella and NAt.

[snarkyblonde]

So do they just hand out houses in Modesto? This is the same guy that was working at target right? And don't they garnish some of your wages for child support? A year ago, on landens b-day actually, she posted that pic of how much he owed. So he's paid that off and bought a house and furnished it?? Yet his custody was reduced to practically nothing? Was that for no reason? There's some lies in there somewhere


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I know this is about Drake, but I was curious so I looked for Jess. I'm in the process of selling my house in Northern Cal. right now so I looked up some of the pending sales for Modesto. There are a few nice 4 bd homes pending in the 360-425 range. A couple 3 beds pending for the mid-200s. There is even a pending 6 bed for 405. For california that is CHEAP...then again, it speaks to how trashy Modesto is

[soma31]

Wait, when did Drake buy a house? Everything happens so fast in the Shafer/Esquilin/Roque/Skube clan that it's so hard to keep up


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[Mamafirst]

Did Jess really post that picture of the child support Drake owes? God, she's so trashy and immature, it's so annoying.
The whole thing with Drake is so fucked up, I'm not even going to deny that. It's pretty evident he hasn't stepped up. But I really can't fathom putting that kind of information out there for thousands of people to see. What's the point? For pity? For ass pats for being a single mom? To bash Drake?
Idk, maybe it's that I'm really not into social media, I don't have a Facebook and rarely if ever post anything actually personal on my accounts, but putting business like that out there is so bizarre and unnecessary. It's not Jess' or the kid's fault that Drake left, but I'm not gonna pretend Jess wasn't an idiot for continuing the relationship by remarrying him and having Landon.
She really needs to learn to stfu and keep things private. Those kids seriously have crappy parents.


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