JesssFam: Slutty Splits & Golden Tits (Part 88)

[Aaliyah_uk]

Ps the ugh was definitely for Jess not you lol

[pianogossiper]

Can they take apart the twins bunk like that? I thought the bottom was a full, so wouldn't that mean the twins would have different sized beds? That seems slightly unfair to me.

I think (if they can do it) they should put the top of T&C's bed in Landen's room and then the bottom couch bed in the "playroom", or whatever Jesssssss plans on calling what I *think* is supposed to be the dining room


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Yeah the twins one is the same size isn't it? I think Landens is the one with the full on the bottom cause of the couch? But yeah they should put that couch/futon/bed in the play room!


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I went back and looked at ther boys room tour and it looks like the bottom is a full and the top is a twin!

Yeah I thought that because Jesssss said that Landen slept on the twin bunk and the twins shared the full below it. I think she's going to leave the twins with their own bunks and then split Tommy and Caden's, give Landen the top twin bed and leave T&C with the fold out couch.

Or yknow. She could buy her kid his own bed. Since he's now three and has never had one.


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[whattheactual]

Can they take apart the twins bunk like that? I thought the bottom was a full, so wouldn't that mean the twins would have different sized beds? That seems slightly unfair to me.

I think (if they can do it) they should put the top of T&C's bed in Landen's room and then the bottom couch bed in the "playroom", or whatever Jesssssss plans on calling what I *think* is supposed to be the dining room


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Yeah the twins one is the same size isn't it? I think Landens is the one with the full on the bottom cause of the couch? But yeah they should put that couch/futon/bed in the play room!


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I went back and looked at ther boys room tour and it looks like the bottom is a full and the top is a twin!

Yeah I thought that because Jesssss said that Landen slept on the twin bunk and the twins shared the full below it. I think she's going to leave the twins with their own bunks and then split Tommy and Caden's, give Landen the top twin bed and leave T&C with the fold out couch.

Or yknow. She could buy her kid his own bed. Since he's now three and has never had one.


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I don't think she needs to buy like all new furniture, but landen defiantely needs a physical bed that is JUST HIS!! Even if she took apart some bunkbeds and gave him the top. He just needs his own bed!
T&C's bundbed looks kinda trashy tho. Definately not as nice as the one that was in the twins room!

[mrsbarnaby]

Or "We want to bring the kids over now, since paint is no big deal since I painted with my 3 month old in the room anyways, but Drake has the boys and is throwing Landen a b-day party and I don't want to admit that so we're just gonna go with we don't wanna bring the kids".

Edit: I just read some comments and minions are talking about Chris adopting the boys since "Drake never sees them" and some talk about Drake having last seen the boys at Christmas and guess what? Jess who is so quick to correct people about other crap is letting it go down that way. Please tell me how I'm supposed to trust everything Jess tells me about Drake when she is constantly either directly lying or lying by omission.

Probably because the kids can touch the railing while it's drying. Addie couldn't touch the walls as they were painting.

Blindly defending Jess. Wow, I did not expect this from you, I'm shocked. Feel free to reply to my comments all you want but fair warning: You are not changing my mind and I'm using the setting so that your messages aren't visible, starting now. I've yet to see you do anything other than defend Jess so I've zero interest in your posts.

Totally with you on that one.

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[courtney_benjamin]

Canadians- everyone listen to the hold music for West jet. Sounds exactly like jessicas intro

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[Captain Smooth]

Long time lurker, finally made an account. I'm a former Jess minion. I'm a couple of years younger than her and started watching when she was pregnant with Lilia, and pretty much wanted to be her until round about the time she got pregnant with Landen. Then I saw the light. A large part of it was probably wanting to feel loved, have a boyfriend, be needed by a baby etc. Now I can't get over how different our lives are, and how much older than me she looks. I look young for my age, but I'm only a couple of years younger than she is and she looks at least 10 years older than me. When I was obsessed with her as a teenager I had never had a boyfriend, was desperate to be loved, felt like a total freak because of it and totally envied her. Now I'm 22, still never had a boyfriend, only ever the weird self-obsessed guys show any romantic interest in me, all my friends are settling down with their boyfriends and I often cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so afraid I'm going to be alone and childless forever if nothing changes. But would I trade my life for hers as it is now? Hell no. And I wish her current minions could see that.

I had that phase as well when I was a teenager. I never wanted to be in a relationship, but I said to myself, well I'm 15, it'll come. I had crushes, but the thought of entering a serious relationship was just not as appealing as it sounded. I actually got really desperate at 17, because I thought everybody had at least one serious boyfriend at that point, but for some reason I backed out again when it came to romantic offers, apart from going on dates I wasn't really interested in taking it further. At 17 I also was really convinced that having children some day would be the thing that would make me happy and so far I still stand by that statement (I'm a familyperson in general), but I knew at 17 that's just general life-goals. At 19 I remember a lot of the pressure went away, because I realized that I feel like I need a boyfriend, because "everybody else does" and not because I want to be in a relationship, or because I'm in love. I started looking on my being single as a choice and not some neccessary evil so I could finally be "like everybody else". If I met a person and it clicked, than fine, I'd happily throw myself into a relationship, but until then I would not be pressured by any outside motives.
I'm only two years older than you, but I would recommend asking yourself if you're looking for a boyfriend, because you feel ready and want to be in a relationship, or because you feel you have to be, to prove something to others (and through that, to you in a sense).

I have a friend (who I mentioned from time to time, because she is Jess' twin, minus the kids) and she got into a relationship really young, with the result that she can't be alone and always meets dorky Idiots, that she keeps complaining about, but still tries to be in a relationship and settle down with, because she is desperate. She feels pressured to have a family young, because a lot of her college friends are married and have families. Everytime she tells me about her troubles I feel thankful that I don't have to be in her shoes and that's actually a terrible thing to say, but that's what I feel. I can put the phone down and do something productive and not be sulky all day, because I'm in an unhappy relationship that I don't have the courage to get out of.
Jess also couldn't control that she would have her third serious boyfriend and second husband (and at least two hook-ups) by the age of 23, because it was the guys who decided to end it. I don't feel like I missed much during my youth (14+), I just skipped a few years.

[Captain Smooth]

Lilia's constant dancing drives me up a fucking wall I swear I'd be telling her to sit the fuck down if she was dancing in front of me constantly.. she's definitely an attention seeker like Jess. Also Jess's baby talk just gets worse and worse she sounds like a fucking idiot. It's probably why the kids have speech problems baby talk from parents has been known to hurt children speech.

I will break hell loose here, but I feel like the only thing Jess asks her kids is "are you excided?!!" to which they can't do much else but scream and yell, because if they say "yeah", she keeps asking them something dumb until they they scream and jump around. Why will hell break loose now? Because Jess will read this and do that way more often now...

[nugget12]

Long time lurker, finally made an account. I'm a former Jess minion. I'm a couple of years younger than her and started watching when she was pregnant with Lilia, and pretty much wanted to be her until round about the time she got pregnant with Landen. Then I saw the light. A large part of it was probably wanting to feel loved, have a boyfriend, be needed by a baby etc. Now I can't get over how different our lives are, and how much older than me she looks. I look young for my age, but I'm only a couple of years younger than she is and she looks at least 10 years older than me. When I was obsessed with her as a teenager I had never had a boyfriend, was desperate to be loved, felt like a total freak because of it and totally envied her. Now I'm 22, still never had a boyfriend, only ever the weird self-obsessed guys show any romantic interest in me, all my friends are settling down with their boyfriends and I often cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so afraid I'm going to be alone and childless forever if nothing changes. But would I trade my life for hers as it is now? Hell no. And I wish her current minions could see that.

Aww you will find someone honey. It took me studying abroad in Ireland to find my husband and I was dating an Irish guy "biggest jerk ever" over there when I met him.lol It turned out he was from the US like me and was living 3 hours away from my home town. We didn't actually start dating until a year after studying abroad and we were already home. So my point is you will find Mr. Right don't give hope and faith. He will come around when you least expect if from a place you never expected. xx

[smom12]

Long time lurker, finally made an account. I'm a former Jess minion. I'm a couple of years younger than her and started watching when she was pregnant with Lilia, and pretty much wanted to be her until round about the time she got pregnant with Landen. Then I saw the light. A large part of it was probably wanting to feel loved, have a boyfriend, be needed by a baby etc. Now I can't get over how different our lives are, and how much older than me she looks. I look young for my age, but I'm only a couple of years younger than she is and she looks at least 10 years older than me. When I was obsessed with her as a teenager I had never had a boyfriend, was desperate to be loved, felt like a total freak because of it and totally envied her. Now I'm 22, still never had a boyfriend, only ever the weird self-obsessed guys show any romantic interest in me, all my friends are settling down with their boyfriends and I often cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so afraid I'm going to be alone and childless forever if nothing changes. But would I trade my life for hers as it is now? Hell no. And I wish her current minions could see that.

Aww you will find someone honey. It took me studying abroad in Ireland to find my husband and I was dating an Irish guy "biggest jerk ever" over there when I met him.lol It turned out he was from the US like me and was living 3 hours away from my home town. We didn't actually start dating until a year after studying abroad and we were already home. So my point is you will find Mr. Right don't give hope and faith. He will come around when you least expect if from a place you never expected. xx

I can't find original post to quote, but take it from me, a 40 year old about to be married again.... you will find someone! And just because you don't have anyone now doesn't mean you never will. Sweetie you are 22, you have your whole life ahead of you. Being single just means you have standards and respect yourself to not settle for just anyone. Enjoy your 20s girl! Party, gamble, all that good stuff.


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[Midia]

Long time lurker, finally made an account. I'm a former Jess minion. I'm a couple of years younger than her and started watching when she was pregnant with Lilia, and pretty much wanted to be her until round about the time she got pregnant with Landen. Then I saw the light. A large part of it was probably wanting to feel loved, have a boyfriend, be needed by a baby etc. Now I can't get over how different our lives are, and how much older than me she looks. I look young for my age, but I'm only a couple of years younger than she is and she looks at least 10 years older than me. When I was obsessed with her as a teenager I had never had a boyfriend, was desperate to be loved, felt like a total freak because of it and totally envied her. Now I'm 22, still never had a boyfriend, only ever the weird self-obsessed guys show any romantic interest in me, all my friends are settling down with their boyfriends and I often cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so afraid I'm going to be alone and childless forever if nothing changes. But would I trade my life for hers as it is now? Hell no. And I wish her current minions could see that.

I was kind of thinking like you when I was around 18, all my friends started having boyfriends and I wanted the same but nothing happens (and compared with my friends I was more focus on studying). Now I am 25, (so older than you!) never had a serious relationship and my friends are harrassing me to settle downs as they are doing but while they are settling down to a city they don' really like, doing a job they don't enjoy to be with their boyfriend, I left my country to live and work in Sweden last year and in a few month I will start a new job in a great company in Portugal (not my country either) and I can experience all that because I am taking my time before settling down. I stop trying to settle down to do as everybody else and honestly I feel like my life is full of new experiences that I would never have been able to have if I had done the same choices as my friend. We're young, I will find a good man and you too in the future, right now enjoy you 20's, noone is depending on you which means you can go wherever you want and enjoy you life! I am definitly happy to be single and to be able to move in another country just because I have a new opportunity and I feel like it, I can only advise you to do the same

[Gray]

Long time lurker, finally made an account. I'm a former Jess minion. I'm a couple of years younger than her and started watching when she was pregnant with Lilia, and pretty much wanted to be her until round about the time she got pregnant with Landen. Then I saw the light. A large part of it was probably wanting to feel loved, have a boyfriend, be needed by a baby etc. Now I can't get over how different our lives are, and how much older than me she looks. I look young for my age, but I'm only a couple of years younger than she is and she looks at least 10 years older than me. When I was obsessed with her as a teenager I had never had a boyfriend, was desperate to be loved, felt like a total freak because of it and totally envied her. Now I'm 22, still never had a boyfriend, only ever the weird self-obsessed guys show any romantic interest in me, all my friends are settling down with their boyfriends and I often cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so afraid I'm going to be alone and childless forever if nothing changes. But would I trade my life for hers as it is now? Hell no. And I wish her current minions could see that.

Aww you will find someone honey. It took me studying abroad in Ireland to find my husband and I was dating an Irish guy "biggest jerk ever" over there when I met him.lol It turned out he was from the US like me and was living 3 hours away from my home town. We didn't actually start dating until a year after studying abroad and we were already home. So my point is you will find Mr. Right don't give hope and faith. He will come around when you least expect if from a place you never expected. xx

I can't find original post to quote, but take it from me, a 40 year old about to be married again.... you will find someone! And just because you don't have anyone now doesn't mean you never will. Sweetie you are 22, you have your whole life ahead of you. Being single just means you have standards and respect yourself to not settle for just anyone. Enjoy your 20s girl! Party, gamble, all that good stuff.


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Girl you have your whole life ahead of you! [HEAVY BLACK HEART]️ travel, party, meet new people, try new things and foods, find yourself and grow as a person. There is so much more to life than having children.


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[sunshine1023]

New poster but I've watched Jessssss on and off since the beginning.

I have to agree about her moves- they always seem so stressful and chaotic. My wife and I bought a house last year and we started packing and prepping nearly a month before we moved in- and we don't even have kids. Even so, it was a stressful experience. I can't imagine doing it the way she does. Crap everywhere the morning of the move, kids running everywhere... ugh. But that's how they live day to day, so what's the difference I guess!

I was also silently yelling at my screen during Friday's video when Chris took the boys shopping. You don't let preschoolers run out into a parking lot like that! I'm honestly shocked that nobody has been seriously injured in that family (except Addy's scare). Those kids have no boundaries and no discipline. Lilia is already turning into a brat and the rest of the kids are next if someone doesn't lay down the law and give those kids some limits and rules.

[wasteoftime]

I do wonder why Gabe is so fine with having Lilia for such a small amount of time. It made more sense when Lilia was a baby, they were right out of high school, she was nursing, and Jess had a ton more support than he did.

But now? Gabe is an adult, he has a job, he has his own house, he's engaged, he presumably has Logan all the time.... Makes me wonder why he doesn't fight for more even custody of Lilia. He clearly adores her and has every intention of being an active part of her life.

Surely Jess, queen of "perfect blended families" would see the benefit of Lilia seeing her father more.

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Lilia was under a year old when she was on formula. Gabe always had family support as according to Jess it was actually his family that used to look after her when he had custody time.

It's only since Drake left that Jessss has shown Gabe as being around more and I think this is purely for convenience as she wanted his babysitting because she wanted to hook up and find herself a new man the minute she was single. She has more kids than she can cope with so she needs Gabe so that she could cope with the pregnancy and having a baby. She uses Gabe to make herself look like a good coparent and to make Drake look worse. Jesss and her army of babysitters because she can barely parent her own children. She does little to nothing to teach them how to behave appropriately and with all the drinking pics and stuff it looks like she likes a break as often as she can get one.

I think the reality is somewhere in between. Gabe probably used to be a better parent than Jesss ever said, and she probably encourages him more now for her own benefit and nothing to do with what's best for Lilia. He was always meant to have one week day and every other weekend and it doesn't look like it's much more than that anyway. She's only kept him close whilst it suits her for her custody and online persona. Gabe probably see's how she's treated Drake and realizes that he has to do whatever she wants so he doesn't get blasted online or have her obstruct custody. If Stabby left then suddenly Drake might become OK because she'd manipulate that situation to get more babysitting out of him whilst she went on the hunt for babydaddy #4 before she's even 30!

[JayJayOkay]

[quote="sunshine1023"]New poster but I've watched Jessssss on and off since the beginning.

I have to agree about her moves- they always seem so stressful and chaotic. My wife and I bought a house last year and we started packing and prepping nearly a month before we moved in- and we don't even have kids. Even so, it was a stressful experience. I can't imagine doing it the way she does. Crap everywhere the morning of the move, kids running everywhere... ugh. But that's how they live day to day, so what's the difference I guess!

I was also silently yelling at my screen during Friday's video when Chris took the boys shopping. You don't let preschoolers run out into a parking lot like that! I'm honestly shocked that nobody has been seriously injured in that family (except Addy's scare). Those kids have no boundaries and no discipline. Lilia is already turning into a brat and the rest of the kids are next if someone doesn't lay down the law and give those kids some limits and rules.[ Exactly! Remember when Kaden split his head open & needed staples, or when he had to get a BB pellet surgically removed from his ear? Another example of Jess's careless behavior & a resolve of her not paying attention. But I guess her excuse is "Kids are curious" or "kids will be kids".


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[JayJayOkay]

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[orangeblossom]

While I'm sure Jess makes it hard for him to see her (especially after their breakup), I still think he's 100% content with being a every other weekend dad. She would have to do something major for him to try for full custody, not just bring a new guy around and pop out a half sibling every other year.

[Aaliyah_uk]

I don't believe much Jessica says , I doubt Drake is as bad as she paints him , I'm not saying he's a good parent but I also think she is a very manipulative person.

[blackroses]

To the ladies above: in still super young but the second i learned to love myself and be happy single and independent my boyfriend came along out of nowhere and it hit me like a ton of bricks and I've never been happier. It seriously hits you when you least expect it

[gemmie]

To the ladies above: in still super young but the second i learned to love myself and be happy single and independent my boyfriend came along out of nowhere and it hit me like a ton of bricks and I've never been happier. It seriously hits you when you least expect it

I wholeheartedly agree. Learn to love yourself first and people will be drawn to you like magnets. You've just gotta filter out the good and the bad ones lol. But seriously, don't depend on somebody else to complete you.


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[wasteoftime]

Are the comments on all her videos so delusional or stupid? I don't normally read them but damn do her views ass kiss. They're such ridiculous comments. Like 'how do you do it all' -- she doesn't do it all, she has about 10 people helping her move and taking her kids. She has help all the time, her step kids are rarely there and 3 of her kids are at school every day. Millions of moms are home with a baby and toddler and are single parents and do a better job than jess. I laughed at the comment about how well behaved her kids are, could that even be for real?

Everyone thinks Gabe is there to watch the twins. As far as Landon going to him, that's a big change from him being glued onto Stabby so either he's now feeling neglected and looking for comfort from his 3rd daddy figure or Jesssss encourages her kids to go to Gabe. I've never noticed the twins interacting with him much either. I'm not defending Drake but it's interesting people think Gabe might be too busy working to take Lilia more often and that's ok but the exact same situation isn't acceptable with Drake, i wouldn't be surprised if he didn't even know about or get the chance to go to things the twins are involved in.