Jesssfam: Extreme Makeover (Modesto Edition) Part 89

[WheresMyCoffee]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

[Aboogabooga]

There's no way that Jess and Chris could manage all 7 kids at an amusement park with no help and as a mother myself that's pathetic.
I agree that the twins deserve time on there own to be made to feel special but Jess should of started taking them all on special trips like Disney etc . Why can't she make it a family thing and then give each child a special day individually on thrrr birthdays ?

Eh... I wouldnt handle 7 kids at a busy amusement park by myself and would not allow anyone else to take my kid to an amusement park if they were going to be 2 parents to 7 kids.
Not agreeing with her choice of taking some kids and not the others is fine (I couldnt do that) BUT calling her pathetic because she and Chris wouldnt want to take 7 kkids to an amusement park alone is petty. That's not even safe. Being home with 7 kids and taking 7 kids to an amusement park is totally different.

I agree that it's not safe. Daycares have an adult to child ratio for a reason. Do I think she should be ok running errands and stuff alone with her brood? Of course and for the most part she is, but to take all 7 kids to an amusement I think at least one more adult would be necessary.


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[whattheactual]

There's no way that Jess and Chris could manage all 7 kids at an amusement park with no help and as a mother myself that's pathetic.
I agree that the twins deserve time on there own to be made to feel special but Jess should of started taking them all on special trips like Disney etc . Why can't she make it a family thing and then give each child a special day individually on thrrr birthdays ?

Eh... I wouldnt handle 7 kids at a busy amusement park by myself and would not allow anyone else to take my kid to an amusement park if they were going to be 2 parents to 7 kids.
Not agreeing with her choice of taking some kids and not the others is fine (I couldnt do that) BUT calling her pathetic because she and Chris wouldnt want to take 7 kkids to an amusement park alone is petty. That's not even safe. Being home with 7 kids and taking 7 kids to an amusement park is totally different.

I agree that it's not safe. Daycares have an adult to child ratio for a reason. Do I think she should be ok running errands and stuff alone with her brood? Of course and for the most part she is, but to take all 7 kids to an amusement I think at least one more adult would be necessary.


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I grew up in a large family and my parent's rule was always one hand per child under 12. Kinda weird sounding, but it's what worked for us. Ya my mom could take all me and my siblings to the grocery store by herself if she needed, but an amusement park is totally different!

[Yue195]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Ashley did go to court to try and block Jess from filming T&C- the court documents should be in the screenshot thread. What happened no one is sure but she did try.

Also with the violence/aggression- I still remember the time when Jess's account suddenly went down Chris had 'traced' their IP address and was preparing to go after them (though I do believe he was just talking big). The knife pulling may have been isolated but the fact he brought a knife to use as intimidation to her is still concerning- but it's also up to the courts to decide if he's safe to be with the kids.

[gemmie]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Ashley did go to court to try and block Jess from filming T&C- the court documents should be in the screenshot thread. What happened no one is sure but she did try.

Also with the violence/aggression- I still remember the time when Jess's account suddenly went down Chris had 'traced' their IP address and was preparing to go after them (though I do believe he was just talking big). The knife pulling may have been isolated but the fact he brought a knife to use as intimidation to her is still concerning- but it's also up to the courts to decide if he's safe to be with the kids.

Wait... what happened now? I don't remember this incident.


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[Maisie_Claire]

Notice how jess worded the situation.. she didn't say that they asked, and Ashley said no. She just said they don't have that type of relationship, so did they even bother to ask?
I, too, wouldn't blame Ashley got saying no anyway. Chris and jess were the ones who pushed the custody to less frequent visits, jess won't keep the camera out of their faces, maybe they had plans, whatever the reason is not his time she doesn't have to let them.

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[JustBeingCurious]

Some of these comments really do make me laugh, honestly because majority of the time I can't believe what I am actually reading. Whatever custody schedule Chris has with his son's is between him and his ex-wife, nothing to do with Jessica whatsoever, and clearly his ex-wife is okay with his schedule and his relationship with their son's.

[Maisie_Claire]

Wait... what happened now? I don't remember this incident.


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jess's insta (and email?)got hacked and the login info gmail gave had an IP address coming from I believe Arizona. Chris was all huffy puffy acting life he was about to drive to Arizona and beat some ass. He's one of those short guys that tries to over compensate his manliness. It's so off-putting, especially knowing how feminine he is naturally.

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[Mamafirst]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Aren't there court documents showing Ashley trying to keep the boys off of all social media including her own? I'm assuming the judge just didn't let that happen. There's not much she can do at that point but grit her teeth and deal with it. There's proof around here somewhere showing that she didn't want the boys on Jess' stuff. Jess didn't care and did it anyway.
And Maybe Ashley doesn't think Chris will hurt the kids obviously, but he did pull some crazy shit with her and is right to be cautious about him. Especially when he involves himself with a stranger she knows nothing about. She probably doesn't feel comfortable with her kids so far away around a relationship she knows nothing about (other than whatever T+C tell her).
I feel like some here overlook the knife incident as a "heat of the moment" thing and not for what it is. Healthy people don't pull knives on other people in a fit of rage. I fought a LOT with my ex and never did either of us pull out of weapon. Chris is a violent, unhealthy POS. I don't see how people think otherwise. And can you imagine if Drake ever pulled a knife on Jess? Oh God, he would never, ever live that down. The world would fucking end if something like happened and Jess would never let us forget that shit. Hell, people would start a petition to keep Drake from getting any kind of visitation with the kids if that happened.

Anyway I think Ashley used the courts as best as she could and was able to get a decent schedule considering everything. She gets them most of the time, and that's probably a good thing.


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[JustBeingCurious]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

This.

[whattheactual]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Aren't there court documents showing Ashley trying to keep the boys off of all social media including her own? I'm assuming the judge just didn't let that happen. There's not much she can do at that point but grit her teeth and deal with it. There's proof around here somewhere showing that she didn't want the boys on Jess' stuff. Jess didn't care and did it anyway.
And Maybe Ashley doesn't think Chris will hurt the kids obviously, but he did pull some crazy shit with her and is right to be cautious about him. Especially when he involves himself with a stranger she knows nothing about. She probably doesn't feel comfortable with her kids so far away around a relationship she knows nothing about (other than whatever T+C tell her).
I feel like some here overlook the knife incident as a "heat of the moment" thing and not for what it is. Healthy people don't pull knives on other people in a fit of rage. I fought a LOT with my ex and never did either of us pull out of weapon. Chris is a violent, unhealthy POS. I don't see how people think otherwise. And can you imagine if Drake ever pulled a knife on Jess? Oh God, he would never, ever live that down. The world would fucking end if something like happened and Jess would never let us forget that shit. Hell, people would start a petition to keep Drake from getting any kind of visitation with the kids if that happened.

Anyway I think Ashley used the courts as best as she could and was able to get a decent schedule considering everything. She gets them most of the time, and that's probably a good thing.


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She clearly doesn't have that big of a problem with social media considering both her boys can be found on her and her boyfriend's twitter.

[Aboogabooga]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Aren't there court documents showing Ashley trying to keep the boys off of all social media including her own? I'm assuming the judge just didn't let that happen. There's not much she can do at that point but grit her teeth and deal with it. There's proof around here somewhere showing that she didn't want the boys on Jess' stuff. Jess didn't care and did it anyway.
And Maybe Ashley doesn't think Chris will hurt the kids obviously, but he did pull some crazy shit with her and is right to be cautious about him. Especially when he involves himself with a stranger she knows nothing about. She probably doesn't feel comfortable with her kids so far away around a relationship she knows nothing about (other than whatever T+C tell her).
I feel like some here overlook the knife incident as a "heat of the moment" thing and not for what it is. Healthy people don't pull knives on other people in a fit of rage. I fought a LOT with my ex and never did either of us pull out of weapon. Chris is a violent, unhealthy POS. I don't see how people think otherwise. And can you imagine if Drake ever pulled a knife on Jess? Oh God, he would never, ever live that down. The world would fucking end if something like happened and Jess would never let us forget that shit. Hell, people would start a petition to keep Drake from getting any kind of visitation with the kids if that happened.

Anyway I think Ashley used the courts as best as she could and was able to get a decent schedule considering everything. She gets them most of the time, and that's probably a good thing.


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I agree that that was a horrible incident and that he shouldn't be excused from it. I think he should've AT LEAST got some court mandated anger management therapy. However, the fact that the charges were dropped and he is allowed unsupervised visits with his kids leads me to believe that we don't know the whole story. No one here will ever really know what happened that night. And I also remember in those court documents that Ashley didn't want him taking the kids so far away. But she clearly didn't win that fight so I guess it doesn't matter what Ashley wants lol. And yea she didn't have to let him see the boys this weekend but then that's on her, not him.


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[Yue195]

Everyone always brings up the kinfe incident and Ashley not wanting the boys on camera everytime they try to make a point about how shitty Chris is but Ashley allows the boys to leave 6 hours away with Chris as well as be filmed. If he was really that horrible/violent or she was really so unhappy about the filming I think by now, something would have been done about it. I know you cant go to court for every old reason but those are two huugge valid reasons both concerning the boys safety.
Ashley may not love the boys being filmed and wish it were different but she hasn't done anything legal about it. She also must realize the knife incident was an isolated incident. (Just because I know people have poor reading comprehension here, I am not excusing the stabby incident I am saying Ashley knows what actually happened and believes he would never do it again to or infront of their kids)

Aren't there court documents showing Ashley trying to keep the boys off of all social media including her own? I'm assuming the judge just didn't let that happen. There's not much she can do at that point but grit her teeth and deal with it. There's proof around here somewhere showing that she didn't want the boys on Jess' stuff. Jess didn't care and did it anyway.
And Maybe Ashley doesn't think Chris will hurt the kids obviously, but he did pull some crazy shit with her and is right to be cautious about him. Especially when he involves himself with a stranger she knows nothing about. She probably doesn't feel comfortable with her kids so far away around a relationship she knows nothing about (other than whatever T+C tell her).
I feel like some here overlook the knife incident as a "heat of the moment" thing and not for what it is. Healthy people don't pull knives on other people in a fit of rage. I fought a LOT with my ex and never did either of us pull out of weapon. Chris is a violent, unhealthy POS. I don't see how people think otherwise. And can you imagine if Drake ever pulled a knife on Jess? Oh God, he would never, ever live that down. The world would fucking end if something like happened and Jess would never let us forget that shit. Hell, people would start a petition to keep Drake from getting any kind of visitation with the kids if that happened.

Anyway I think Ashley used the courts as best as she could and was able to get a decent schedule considering everything. She gets them most of the time, and that's probably a good thing.


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She clearly doesn't have that big of a problem with social media considering both her boys can be found on her and her boyfriend's twitter.

She's also not a YouTuber with almost 500'000 subs and has fans making accounts about her kids... she's got a private IG and if I'm looking at the right Twitter not that many followers.

[Ducklings4]

It is curious that she could not stop her boys from being filmed and nothing came from the knife incident. I imagine she will control what she can, and if that means she does not allow the boys to see their dad on her time , that's what she will do. Unfortunately 7 kids are the innocent victims in this whole mess. It does not appear any of the adults are mature enough to be parents, but then you don't have to pass a test to become a mom or dad.


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[Bsveach15]

Can anyone point me in the direction of the screenshots thread please?


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[Yue195]

Can anyone point me in the direction of the screenshots thread please?


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http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f=181&t=8524

Here you go!

[Bsveach15]

Can anyone point me in the direction of the screenshots thread please?


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http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f=181&t=8524

Here you go!

Thank you


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[happyfunmeowmeow]

posting pics of your kids for friends and family =/= overexposing them to over 500k strangers on the internet. but sure fam jesss and ashley are doing the same thing.

[dazzled]

No one said that it was the same, though. Some of you really have poor reading comprehension. All they said was that they thought Ashley stated that she was "trying to keep the boys off of all social media". Her instagram and her boyfriend's twitter fall under social media no matter the follower count.

[Haylnmo]

There's no way that Jess and Chris could manage all 7 kids at an amusement park with no help and as a mother myself that's pathetic.
I agree that the twins deserve time on there own to be made to feel special but Jess should of started taking them all on special trips like Disney etc . Why can't she make it a family thing and then give each child a special day individually on thrrr birthdays ?

Eh... I wouldnt handle 7 kids at a busy amusement park by myself and would not allow anyone else to take my kid to an amusement park if they were going to be 2 parents to 7 kids.
Not agreeing with her choice of taking some kids and not the others is fine (I couldnt do that) BUT calling her pathetic because she and Chris wouldnt want to take 7 kkids to an amusement park alone is petty. That's not even safe. Being home with 7 kids and taking 7 kids to an amusement park is totally different.

I agree that it's not safe. Daycares have an adult to child ratio for a reason. Do I think she should be ok running errands and stuff alone with her brood? Of course and for the most part she is, but to take all 7 kids to an amusement I think at least one more adult would be necessary.




I agree it's unsafe hence my pathetic comment . I wasnt saying take them all so the kids unsafe , my point is that it's pathetic she's had so many kids that she can't handle them !
She's not a god damn daycare she's the MOTHER !!!!
A mother should be able to take all her kids so where and manage on her own , not need an army of people to help !

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