Jesssfam: Extreme Makeover (Modesto Edition) Part 89

[MRES83]

I think its an immature view.
Personal but it explains what I mean: When I was younger I thought my mom favored one of my brothers, because she always babied him. Now as an adult, I understand that children have different personalities, and parents do what they think will fit the individual needs of each child. She never woke me up and made me breakfast because I was independent and liked to make my own schedule and choose my own breakfast, not because she loved my brother more. Similarly I choose most of the trip destinations because I had distinct likes and dislikes whereas my brother was easily entertained and go with the flow. That doesnt mean my mother now loved me more. My parents spent a lot of time and money on my other brother, because he was in sports and they were always at his games. My other siblings and I didn't play sports, as a teenager I was jealous but now I understand that it was immature. My brother shouldn't have stopped playing football so that things were equal.
Jess has a lot of children, and each of them have different personalities. She doesn't like Kaden more (or Landen, Lilia and Addie depending on the day) than Kyson. Kyson is just laid back and isnt the type of child to have intense likes, whereas Kaden does. You can easily tell he enjoyed the trip, he said it multiple times in the vlog. Just because kaden spends hours putting together Lego sets, doesnt mean that Kyson doesnt like it just as much, because he isnt as obsessive over it. Its just who Kyson is. He is quiet, sweet, and go with the flow. Kaden is passionate, loud, and excitable. They are both good kids and you can tell they are happy and loved. Even with their unstable family home.

[Midia]

I criticize Jess as much as anyone else on here but to actually say she likes one twin more than the other is absurd. Idk maybe it's just cause I'm a mom and it doesn't seem possible to me to play favorites with my kids but I just don't believe it.


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I agree - it is crazy thinking. Some people here want to believe that Kyson is vulnerable and unloved and they keep finding fake evidence everywhere. It's kind of disturbing and says more about them than Jess.

I don't think Jess likes one twin more than the other but I think Jess ends up doing more of what Kaden likes to not because she loves Kaden more, but because Kaden is the "loudest" if you see what I mean while Kyson seems very quiet so if the parent dont pay "special" attention to him, it's easy to "forget" him (and with so many loud kids, I think that Kyson is kind of lost in the middle). I think that Kaden being so loud in general, he expresses everything very loudly (yes i am repeating the worg loud but this child really is loud...) so he is kind of taking over Kyson's space. I don't know if I am very clear in what I mean but for instance my mom comes from a big family (she has 10 siblings -I know - and she is the 5th one) and she told me that growing up she was very quiet and her parents didn't pay much attention to her because she had her siblings being louder so her parents were paying more attention to them and the louder her siblings were, the more "in retreat" she was so noone really asked her about what she likes or dislikes. The good thing in all that is that because she experiences this, as a mother, my mom always paid attention to all her children (we are 3 sisters) especially the one that for a reason or another was the quietest. Anyway personnal story aside, I think that's what happens with Kyson especially because K&K being twins, everything is organised for the both of them and Kaden is the one who says what he wants, so I repeat myself, I don't think Jess loves/likes one more than the other, Kaden is just the loudest one and since I don't think Jess were similar to Kyson as a child I really think she is not aware that Kyson doesn't really have a lot of space to communicate what he wants or likes and if he does, he does it so quietly compared with Kaden that it's easier to remember what Kaden likes. And I once again wrote a lot because I feel like I don't express myself clearly....

[cjl123]

I criticize Jess as much as anyone else on here but to actually say she likes one twin more than the other is absurd. Idk maybe it's just cause I'm a mom and it doesn't seem possible to me to play favorites with my kids but I just don't believe it.


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Sorry, but I disagree. Parents play favourites all the time. Not every parent, but it's by no means uncommon. I've even had my foster mum explain that whilst she loves her children all the same, would go to the ends of the earth for all of them, etc. - she prefers spending time with some over others because of personality and interests... So, it doesn't seem an unreasonable position that, due to some subconscious biases, Jess may prefer Kaden over Kyson. I'm not saying she's aware of it, but I feel she acts differently towards them


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I agree sooo much. As an adult, I definitely prefer my father over my mother because we just get along better. We have similar interest and sense of humor while with my mom our conversations are more forced. I think with Jessica it's easier to get along with the blonde one because he likes monster trucks or Legos, it's simple, she doesn't have the energy or time to created deeper bonds with her children.


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[storeynyx]

I criticize Jess as much as anyone else on here but to actually say she likes one twin more than the other is absurd. Idk maybe it's just cause I'm a mom and it doesn't seem possible to me to play favorites with my kids but I just don't believe it.


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Sorry, but I disagree. Parents play favourites all the time. Not every parent, but it's by no means uncommon. I've even had my foster mum explain that whilst she loves her children all the same, would go to the ends of the earth for all of them, etc. - she prefers spending time with some over others because of personality and interests... So, it doesn't seem an unreasonable position that, due to some subconscious biases, Jess may prefer Kaden over Kyson. I'm not saying she's aware of it, but I feel she acts differently towards them


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I agree sooo much. As an adult, I definitely prefer my father over my mother because we just get along better. We have similar interest and sense of humor while with my mom our conversations are more forced. I think with Jessica it's easier to get along with the blonde one because he likes monster trucks or Legos, it's simple, she doesn't have the energy or time to created deeper bonds with her children.


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Replying to a few posts in one hit, but - This is the kind of thing I mean. People are mixing up love and like. You can love 2 people the same but like one of them more. I think Jessica has a more similar personality to Kaden, so she relates to him easier. Yes, he is loud, and I think less mature than Kyson, which again makes it easier to give him more of her attention.
The part that makes me sad is that just because Kyson has a different personality, doesn't mean he doesn't have specific likes or wants. I do feel he often gets ignored - from what we see.
Drawing from my own experience, I'm quiet, my sister is pushy and loud. I always had to do what she wanted, and I often didn't put up a fight because it's not my nature. But, I did feel hurt that I was not considered, and felt that she was more special than me.
Just because the kid is "easy going", doesn't mean he doesn't have opinions or deserve attention, and his mother, of all people, should recognise that and relate to him on his level.
Having said all that, I'm not saying she doesn't love him


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[teahathspilleth123]

Did anyone else watch Kally's newest video called Should I get a lawyer?

Her daughter Miabella is swearing in it and apparently Kally thought it was hilarious because she replayed the swearing 5 times. At 1:35 Miabella says:
So fucking cute
and then Kally replays it 5 times.... wtf?

A while ago I posted a comparison list between Jess and Kally because I found so many similarities between them. Now there are even more similar things between Jess and Kally I want to add onto my previous list:

1. Jess and Kally both do not cook. They are both technically stay at home moms and don't cook. Their boyfriend (Kally) and husband (Jess) do the cooking and both of those men have daytime f/t weekday jobs outside the home then they have to come home and cook after a long day at work.

2. I saw Kally's new video and it's about baby daddy drama with Miabellas dad. He's taking her to court he served her papers and she has issues with the papers and more. It looks like Kally and Miabella's dad are about to battle it out in court.

[notapnutmommy]

I like Kelly's videos, but if you watch them and listen to her and her boyfriends stories and things like that, her daughter cussing makes sense.


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[teahathspilleth123]

I don't think it's cute for a 5/6 year old to cuss. Disturbing is more like it. It's especially disturbing that Kally the mom finds it hilarious that her 5/6 year old daughter says fuck and fucking.

[vonniebeth]

I don't think it's cute for a 5/6 year old to cuss. Disturbing is more like it. It's especially disturbing that Kally the mom finds it hilarious that her 5/6 year old daughter says fuck and fucking.

I think it's funny the first time a young'n cusses, but then you reprimand them and tell them to not say that word if it continues.

Personal story: When one of my sisters was younger (like 2-3 years old), she developed a liking to the phrase "goddamn it." Our dad says that multiple times a day and my sister decided she wanted to say it too. It got to the point where she would drop things on purpose just so she could say it. That was when my parents realized it wasn't funny anymore and told her to stop saying it. Said sister is 19 now, and she hardly cusses at all (whereas me and my 21 year old sis are pottymouths).

[whattheactual]

Did anyone else watch Kally's newest video called Should I get a lawyer?

Her daughter Miabella is swearing in it and apparently Kally thought it was hilarious because she replayed the swearing 5 times. At 1:35 Miabella says:
So fucking cute
and then Kally replays it 5 times.... wtf?

A while ago I posted a comparison list between Jess and Kally because I found so many similarities between them. Now there are even more similar things between Jess and Kally I want to add onto my previous list:

1. Jess and Kally both do not cook. They are both technically stay at home moms and don't cook. Their boyfriend (Kally) and husband (Jess) do the cooking and both of those men have daytime f/t weekday jobs outside the home then they have to come home and cook after a long day at work.

2. I saw Kally's new video and it's about baby daddy drama with Miabellas dad. He's taking her to court he served her papers and she has issues with the papers and more. It looks like Kally and Miabella's dad are about to battle it out in court.

Actually she said they are going mediation. 100% different than a custody court battle.

[Jm87053]

To respond about the bow thing..not sure if you follow them-
OK Baby (YouTubers) baby girl was born a couple weeks ago. At the hospital, She had a little bow glued on her head. I guess it's more common now. But after a certain age it's a little silly. Lol.
I'm so mad I had a better response and it disappeared after I submitted it. Lol

[AllyKattxox]

Did anyone else watch Kally's newest video called Should I get a lawyer?

Her daughter Miabella is swearing in it and apparently Kally thought it was hilarious because she replayed the swearing 5 times. At 1:35 Miabella says:
So fucking cute
and then Kally replays it 5 times.... wtf?

A while ago I posted a comparison list between Jess and Kally because I found so many similarities between them. Now there are even more similar things between Jess and Kally I want to add onto my previous list:

1. Jess and Kally both do not cook. They are both technically stay at home moms and don't cook. Their boyfriend (Kally) and husband (Jess) do the cooking and both of those men have daytime f/t weekday jobs outside the home then they have to come home and cook after a long day at work.

2. I saw Kally's new video and it's about baby daddy drama with Miabellas dad. He's taking her to court he served her papers and she has issues with the papers and more. It looks like Kally and Miabella's dad are about to battle it out in court.

About Miabella swearing, I'm 99.9% sure she just stumbled over the words "so fluffy and cute" and ended up sounding like "fucking". But if you listen closely you can definitely hear fluffy.

Edit: just after the 5x replay Kally voices over saying "ohh so fluffin' cute"

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[teahathspilleth123]

I'm 99.9999 % sure that Miabella says so fucking cute. Not so fluffy and cute. We both hear it completely differently I guess.

[pinkdiamond_3]

Lol, Mia definitely is saying "so fluffy 'n cute" in a muffled voice.


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[happyfunmeowmeow]

https://www.buzzfeed.com/krishrach/moms ... .lr7nVOVLr

Immediately thought of Jess of course

my parents used tape to glue bows on my bald head as a baby lmao.

[pinkdiamond_3]

Lol, Mia definitely is saying "so fluffy 'n cute" in a muffled voice.


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[blackroses]

Definitely heard fluffy

[lynnd]

Happy Birthday Kyson and Kaden.

[fortwendy]

5 years ago today, that doctor almost lost his arm in Jess' cavernous uterus.

[kalipali]

It disgusts me she can't even wish her 3 sons a happy birthday every year without making some passive aggressive jab implying that her life turned to shit when their father left her. Get over yourself, Jess. At least on the days of your sons' births, if you can't. It's not their fault Drake couldn't put up with you, and they don't deserve to be wished a happy birthday message each year that involves more about YOU than them. Ridiculous.

[phie20]

Kyson calling Landen was the cutest thing ever
I often feel like Kyson is more vocal than all his siblings, including Lilia...