DAILYLYINGBRYAN&PISSYMISSY. PART #86

[actuallydear]

Sounds like you're giving Missy a pass because you also don't like to cook.

A relationship is about picking up slack if need be. That includes cooking a meal or 2. Doesn't have to be great, just has to be edible.

No passes from me, sorry.

[PosyGirl72]

Bryan already knows how to cook. If it's not her thing, she shouldn't have to just because she's the mom and the woman.

People in partnerships like marriage often divide the household responsibilities based on interests and abilities.

There are certain things I suck at, that my husband is pretty good at *cough*LAUNDRY*cough* and I have NO intention of ever learning to do it better. My husband has and will always do the laundry, and I don't feel bad for not helping except on very rare occasions.

There is no reason that Missy should have to learn to cook if she doesn't want to, when her husband is home, capable, and seems to enjoy the process. HE'S the one deserving of the judgement for letting his kids eat junk.


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They are BOTH parents. They are BOTH responsible for what they feed their kids.

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[PosyGirl72]

Bryan already knows how to cook. If it's not her thing, she shouldn't have to just because she's the mom and the woman.

People in partnerships like marriage often divide the household responsibilities based on interests and abilities.

There are certain things I suck at, that my husband is pretty good at *cough*LAUNDRY*cough* and I have NO intention of ever learning to do it better. My husband has and will always do the laundry, and I don't feel bad for not helping except on very rare occasions.

There is no reason that Missy should have to learn to cook if she doesn't want to, when her husband is home, capable, and seems to enjoy the process. HE'S the one deserving of the judgement for letting his kids eat junk.


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They are BOTH parents. They are BOTH responsible for what they feed their kids.

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Also, she's home all day too. There's no reason why she shouldn't know how. You're givjng her excuse to be lazy.

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[Theirmom]

Bryan already knows how to cook. If it's not her thing, she shouldn't have to just because she's the mom and the woman.

People in partnerships like marriage often divide the household responsibilities based on interests and abilities.

There are certain things I suck at, that my husband is pretty good at *cough*LAUNDRY*cough* and I have NO intention of ever learning to do it better. My husband has and will always do the laundry, and I don't feel bad for not helping except on very rare occasions.

There is no reason that Missy should have to learn to cook if she doesn't want to, when her husband is home, capable, and seems to enjoy the process. HE'S the one deserving of the judgement for letting his kids eat junk.


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I'm not saying goes she needs to learn how to cook a 5 course meal, but at least know the basics.

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She does know the basics. She's made croc pot meals, soups, chicken dinners, biscuits, etc. She can handle pasta and frozen foods. Those ARE the basics.

Expecting people to learn more than basics when they have no interest, and especially when their partner has the skill, knowledge and desire, based on their gender and "mom" role in the family is sexist nonsense.
I'm not seeing NEARLY the judgement of Bryan, who actually CAN cook and enjoys it, for allowing his family to eat junk. The only reason I can see for giving him a pass while judging Missy is antiquated gender expectations.

[Theirmom]

There's no reason why she shouldn't know how.

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

[PosyGirl72]

There's no reason why she shouldn't know how.

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

And if something where to happen and she's been left alone with the kids, you really think she'd step up? She already shows she has very little care to what the kids eat and medical treatments.

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[Theirmom]

Sounds like you're giving Missy a pass because you also don't like to cook.

A relationship is about picking up slack if need be. That includes cooking a meal or 2. Doesn't have to be great, just has to be edible.

No passes from me, sorry.

Nope. I LOVE to cook and bake. And I don't expect my husband to learn anymore than basics.

But I don't do dishes, and I don't do laundry. No interest. No intention to even help him with those tasks with exception to illness or absence.

And when Missy "picks up the slack", it IS edible, ffs. It may not be the healthiest ever, but she can whip something up.

I know she's lazy, but come on. She's the one who is responsible for pretty much everything to do with those kids. Bryan rarely does anything except play with Ollie, and maybe microwave frozen pancakes.
She gets them dressed, fed, takes them to swim and doctors appointments, shops for their necessities. She brushes their teeth and hair, gets them bathed and ready for bed. And the very rare educational interactions and discipline we've seen has been her.
What does Bryan do, other than laugh off poor behaviour and buy crap from Amazon?

He can cook the damn dinners. And I have no judgement against Missy for relying on frozen food, take out or the crockpot.

[Playsinrain]

Honestly, this is some sexist bullshit in here right now.


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It's not so much sexist, more so to me it's Missy not doing shit around that house. Bryan steps up and cooks, what does she do? She doesn't take care of the kids, she doesn't clean, she doesn't do repairs around the house. She takes care of the chickens and keeps the couch warm. I don't care if Bryan is the main cook, and it has nothing to do with her being female. But a mother (or father) should be able to fix simple meals for her kids, more than just popping pancakes in the microwave. If Bryan is out of town she has to have Mimi come cook or she gets take out. That's pathetic to me! If the roles were reversed i would say the same about Bryan. The fact that shes female has ZERO weight in my opinion, and i never even thought about it like that until it was brought up.

[PosyGirl72]

Honestly, this is some sexist bullshit in here right now.


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It's not so much sexist, more so to me it's Missy not doing shit around that house. Bryan steps up and cooks, what does she do? She doesn't take care of the kids, she doesn't clean, she doesn't do repairs around the house. She takes care of the chickens and keeps the couch warm. I don't care if Bryan is the main cook, and it has nothing to do with her being female. But a mother (or father) should be able to fix simple meals for her kids, more than just popping pancakes in the microwave. If Bryan is out of town she has to have Mimi come cook or she gets take out. That's pathetic to me! If the roles were reversed i would say the same about Bryan. The fact that shes female has ZERO weight in my opinion, and i never even thought about it like that until it was brought up.

Exactly this. Her parents aren't ways going to be around to bail her out.

I do the cooking 99% of the time in our house, but my husband will offer to help or cook sometimes. It's nothing fancy but he knows how to cook. Dame for other chores around d the house, he helps.

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[Playsinrain]

Bryan already knows how to cook. If it's not her thing, she shouldn't have to just because she's the mom and the woman.

People in partnerships like marriage often divide the household responsibilities based on interests and abilities.

There are certain things I suck at, that my husband is pretty good at *cough*LAUNDRY*cough* and I have NO intention of ever learning to do it better. My husband has and will always do the laundry, and I don't feel bad for not helping except on very rare occasions.

There is no reason that Missy should have to learn to cook if she doesn't want to, when her husband is home, capable, and seems to enjoy the process. HE'S the one deserving of the judgement for letting his kids eat junk.


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They are BOTH parents. They are BOTH responsible for what they feed their kids.

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This right here, when you become a parent it is no longer about what YOU like to do or want to do.. It's about providing for your kids. I 100% think that BOTH parents should be able to cook basic meals to provide for their kids. You never know when you will be left to fend for yourself. And you should not be 100% relying on other people to feed your kids as a mom OR a dad. I don't give a damn if you hate to cook, when it comes to your kids, you better know how to cook to provide for them. Zero excuses.

[lagenialester]

I grew up in a house where my dad was the main cook (he was a cook in restaurants in his 20s) and my mom worked part time and was the main parent home with the kids. We all grew up eating healthy meals and learning how to cook from a young age. My mom had two or three staple healthy meals that she could cook when my dad was working. Otherwise she had my dad cook on the weekend and freeze meals and she would supplement with healthy things like salad and sandwiches.

My dad may have been the main cook, but my mom RARELY resorted to fast food or processed meals.

That being said, they're both home so they both need to be responsible for providing healthy meals, whether Bryan is the one who cooks them or not.


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[Playsinrain]

Bryan doesn't even cook for his kids...we are giving him too much credit... everything he cooks is for him and Missy after the boys go to bed. If their microwave went out the boys would starve.

[onbreak]

Honestly, this is some sexist bullshit in here right now.


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I'm not saying anything sexist
More power to all of us women.. women should be able to do what we want

I wish my husband was a Gordon Ramsey
...but cooking rice krispie treats and microwaving nuggets is not nutritious or worthwhile for her and the family.
For people aiming to be #lifegoals- I'm just expecting more.
There's a maid, lawn guy, Jeff, tal, Mimi, papa, cassie, Michelle.. who knows who else
she has more passion in walking a bowl of undesirable refrigerator food to her chickens than feeding her family

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[onbreak]

Bryan is a loser .. 14 hours on bacon.. making a balanced meal after kids are in bed and had noodles , nuggets, and Apple slices for their dinner
He does get the kid dressed, pull Finn out of the crib, put on tv shows.. that's sexist, end the vlog... Both irk me, that's why I'm here
But he gets no pass from me

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[marshmallowfluf]

There's no reason why she shouldn't know how.

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

I didn't realize that "disinterest" was a valid reason to not cook my kids a healthy meal. I don't like to cook so I'm glad I've found a good excuse now! McDonalds for everyone!!


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[PosyGirl72]

There's no reason why she shouldn't know how.

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

I didn't realize that "disinterest" was a valid reason to not cook my kids a healthy meal. I don't like to cook so I'm glad I've found a good excuse now! McDonalds for everyone!!


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[Puppiedogeyes]

Let's not forget Missy cooked a perfectly fine meal for Corbin and Kelsey!

I don't think there is such a thing like "not knowing" or "can't" when we have internet and smartphones!
There is pretty much nothing (referring to housework, cooking or anything related to that) you can't learn!
If she would spend just a small part of her time reading or going through recipes, she would "learn" how to cook in a minute!
I do get though that there are things you may not LIKE to do.. but that's no reason or excuse to just not do it.

I am 36weeks pregnant and have to lay in bed almost all the time. My husband (engineer, fulltimejob) does everything at home right now. He cleans, does laundry, the dishes, he cooks and takes care of our daughter when she is home from kindergarten.. everything I did before my pregnancy turned a little
I know he is tired and overworked and it breaks my heart. But he says it's his job, because we are married and decided to have another kid.

I think it really is THEIR job to cook, clean.. whatever! Not just ones..
If Bryan (for whatever reason) doesn't cook, she should be able to cook since their children's health should weight way more than not wanting or not "knowing" how to cook.
I do think though they both just don't care and it's not about who should cook but about how to get the easiest meal which in their head is to go out of the house and eat somewhere else
When I think about Bryan and Missy LITERALLY not having to do a single thing at home (cleaning, gardening, laundry and and and) it really is pathetic how they choose to raise their kids.

[onbreak]

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

I didn't realize that "disinterest" was a valid reason to not cook my kids a healthy meal. I don't like to cook so I'm glad I've found a good excuse now! McDonalds for everyone!!


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They have Nintendo toys , guyzzzz

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[lagenialester]

I mean, let's be honest. My almost four year-old can already make herself scrambled eggs with spinach. If they don't want to cook because it's hard or they aren't interested, the should hire somebody with all of that disposable income they love spending so much. As a PARENT (of any sex) it is a basic necessity to provide your child with nutrition.


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[Playsinrain]

There's no reason why she shouldn't know how.

Disinterest is a perfectly valid reason.

I didn't realize that "disinterest" was a valid reason to not cook my kids a healthy meal. I don't like to cook so I'm glad I've found a good excuse now! McDonalds for everyone!!


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*slow clap*