Coolowl wrote:lurkernomore wrote:madi_b_123 wrote:What does being gay have to do with creativity?
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Seriously. What's with all the latent homophobia on this board?
I know there's several queer girls (including myself) that frequent this space and I can't speak for them, but it definitely grinds my gears. That shit is not cool.
I know a lot of guys who are pretty feminine and are not gay. There is an assumption that he may be gay because he "isn't very manly" or doesn't do "manly things". I would be more concerned if we actually saw his eyes wandering towards men in a suspicious way or if he was having a lot of one on one guy getaways with the same guy "friend". Just because he likes to do his hair, cares about clothing, cooks (when he does), has some fem hand and body gestures doesn't mean he is or has gay tendencies.
Also, I don't get why people would think that if a person is gay it automatically means they are creative....like really, wtf?
Yes!!!! It is not homophobic to wonder if he's gay, but it is a big problem that whenever he does or likes something "girly" that it means he's gay. It's very stereotypical and VERY harmful as well. The reason we have so many tough, emotionless men is because they are taught that things are feminine or weak, so they do everything to avoid such things. I think it's okay that Bryan got the unicorn frappe, or likes hair, etc.
And being gay has nothing to do with creativity. The reason we see more gay men in theatre, doing crafts, decorating, etc. is because, again, men are taught that those ARE gay or girly. There are plenty of creative men who are just too afraid of being seen in that way. It's a real shame.
When Bryan wants a penis up the butt or to put his penis in a man's butt, THEN we can assume he's gay (or bi) lol.