OKClickbait - Part 13

[webbygurl626]

Not going to add the long quote but Kiera has said that she has kept naughty things that Levi has done from oscar because she didn't want oscar to get angry with him, that's not ok and what's makes anyone think if oscar gets angry or lashes out at Levi that they would put it in the vlog! They didn't film the punching of the wall and in fact tried to hide it, so they know people wouldn't like it if they knew he was aggressive with his family!


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[Whateverumean]

Married man who babysits a 3year old girl?? Is that your job? #just curious. Male nanny a thing? @rachel_rob

[itschelseeaaa]

I feel like Oscar's abusive attitude is way over exaggerated! Some of you just nit pick at every little thing and try and build some case to make him look like a selfish, abusive, sexist, horrible guy. Who knows, anything is possible. But the "proof" you all have is so ridiculous!

1. Yes, perhaps he did punch a hole in the wall. And? That's like saying people who go to the gym and punch a punching bag are abusive people as well.. Everyone lets out their pent up anger in different ways, and although punching a wall isn't the best looking, it's way better than him hitting Kyra or one of their kids. You guys say punching a wall is SO bad and such a big sign of abuse, but I really don't get how? Because you can see the evidence left behind?
If I get frustrated, I have punched a wall (didn't leave a hole because I'm weak:)), I punch my pillows, scream into pillows. And guess what? The thought of punching my wife or child has NEVER crossed my mind.
-Side note, you guys say how he has an "unhealthy mentality towards girls" and yet you all are the ones speculating! There is one girl and one guy in that house, and you all assume is was oscar? For all we know it could have been Kyra, yeah she seems weak but rage can make you strong:)
Yes, you may have had a boyfriend who punched a wall once, and later on ended up hitting you. Not everyone is the same. My wife has punched a hole in a wall and 7 years later she has never laid a hand on me or our children. So your one experience does not go for all of mankind. --> If ONE guy walks up to a girl and buys her a drink, and hits on her, and then drugs her --> That does NOT meant that suddenly every guy who buys a girl a drink is going to drug her.<--
Everyone is DIFFERENT.

2. Him saying that he hate when girls talk, or something along those lines. Again, blown WAY out of proportion! He was just saying that little girls talk a lot, and he hates when they ask "why" to everything. Yes it's completely normal, but it doesn't mean it doesn't get annoying! I babysit a girl who is 3 and I have been with her since she was 1, so I love her like my own. But the other day she began with the "What are you doing?" "Cleaning up" "why?" "because the house is a mess" "why?" "Because you guys were playing and made a mess" "why?" and this went on for a few minutes and it gets old fast!:) But you guys take everything these two say to heart, and get offended by EVERY joke. You can tell that they love to joke around and be sarcastic, and if you don't like that kind of humor, then go watch the Discovery Channel. Not everything has to be some secret cue that Oscar is abusive or hates women.

3. And lastly, why does everyone freak out that they aren't affectionate? And then I read on K&K's thread, who ARE affectionate, and everyone says how 'fake' they are. So if you aren't affectionate on camera, you don't love each other, but if you are, then your fake? That is so stupid:)
-My wife and I are not publicly affectionate. Neither of us have ever really been into PDA, and we are as happy as could be!
-On the other hand, my brother-in-law and his wife are over the top affectionate. His wife likes to 'prove' to the world how happy they are (always doing PDA, posting things online about how much she loves him, and how happy they are, and how he buys her everything she wants) and then I found out that they are SO unhappy and neither one of them wants to be together anymore. But yet she continues to post about how amazing and happy they are.

Point being, affection does not make a happy relationship. Some people like it, some people don't. (NOT saying that those who do show it, only do so because they are trying to pretend to be happy:) I know many people just truly like it)

A lot of the concerns on here are valid, but when people just start speculating and taking things the wrong way, it kind of waters down the real concerns. I can tell that pretty much every mean thing they say, is a joke. And people come here and post a joke they said, as if it was a legitimate statement that they said whole heartedly, and meant every word, and then the thread blows up with a bunch of speculating BS that came from a JOKE.

I watch these two, and in general I like them. But I don't get concerned by the things they SAY, but by some of the things they DO:
1. Leaving Levi in the bathtub alone :/
2. They way they leave Alaya so far away from them at stores, and the parks
3. The way they had her "strapped" in to the stroller
4. And the blankets. I do understand if they are RIGHT with her, or when it's just in a photo (You don't know if they just did it for a cute pic)... but when Oscar had her alone in the bed with that blanket!
5. It sucks they are behind.. But some people are capable of keeping up during stressful times, and others aren't. It doesn't make someone a bad person, some people are just able to handle a LOT, and others can handle the bare minimum. But I do wish they would just say "Hey, we need a few days to get everything in order" instead of promising videos that aren't coming. They JUST caught up and now they are like 4-5 days behind again.

Fun Fact: Your brain isn't fully developed until the age of 25.

While I don't agree with everything you said, I must admit you made some pretty good points.

[ytmamaviewer24]

Going along with the Oscar "woman should be seen and not heard" mentality talk, I recall him saying something along the lines of "My daughter won't date until she's way older" but then going back and saying he won't be as strict about that w/ Levi. That's such a messed up thing to think/say/do. If one child dates at 16, so does the other, regardless of gender.

(I dont remember if this was before Alaya's pregnancy, during, or after she was born.)

That's something all men say. My dad used to say it, my husband jokes about it too.. heck, I even have a video of my grandpa saying none of his granddaughters will get married till they're 40 with 2 degrees lol

[ytmamaviewer24]

OK is not someone I follow, but I have been reading their forum a bit more lately. I have not seen the houses they are looking at, but understand the house they are looking to buy (have already bought?) is fairly large. I imagine there are a lot of people who feel bitter, jealous, etc that they can afford such a large house, and feel they are undeserving of such a house given that it seems they do not have to work for what they have. (i.e. no uploading schedule, late videos, little education etc....) Their income completely depends on people watching their videos. Does anyone wonder if enough people will become annoyed with the "easy life" OK leads and it will lead to a sort of boycott where OK will suddenly lose views by the thousands? I don't see it happening to them anytime soon or really, anytime. But I sometimes wonder if that will eventually happen to a big youtuber where viewers will get sick of funding their (comparatively) lavish lifestyle?

Honestly? doubt it. They're not the worse family on youtube to be honest, and if the other people (example, couples that fake pregnancies and miscarriages for views) can still get a solid 200K views per video after 3 or 4 years, then I believe OK will be fine too. Unless they decide to do something controversial that will make them lose all the sponsors they have.

[ytmamaviewer24]

I can't believe the amount of people on here defending oscars behavior. I will say this every time it is brought up. Punching. Holes. In. The. Wall. Is. Not. Normal!! Comparing that to hitting a punching bag at the gym are you serious? I can't with the stupidity here. Oscar also joked that kyra was fat, smelled, and has done spiteful things to her during arguments. But he says just kidding so it's ok right? I keep seeing the same people here trolling.

how do we know it was Oscar? Did they say it?

[hippie_vegan_mama]

Although I absolutely cannot stand Oscar and think that if he is punching holes in walls then that is not in any circumstance ok. However, and I am embarrassed to admit that, several times I have moved furniture/ tried to fix something in my house and put holes in walls Lol, I am the epitome of a clutz. Not that this is necessarily what happened in their circumstance, but it is a possibility, accidents happen. However if he is showing aggressive tendencies, Kyra needs to get those kids out of there. Also to the people saying that making sexist remarks is just "something all men do" is like saying racism is okay because everyone uses derogatory terms. Just because something is "normal" in your community (i.e. Oscar is Mexican and some, not all, Mexican families have that whole Macho, extra masculine vibe that puts women as housewives, with the "to be seen not heard mentality") doesn't actually make it ok. Even if he is joking if he continues making remarks like that around his kids, they might pick it up/ believe that is their role, etc. which just perpetuates the problems. I find Oscar unbearable and usually skip through his parts but I also really don't like Kyra, despite how many people defend her. She is by no means a horrible mother or person but I do feel she is extremely superficial and just concerned with looks/ being that hot young mom that touts around her kids doing fancy things. And my stomach dropped when I realized Alaya was alone in that cart off in another aisle while the Oscar, Kyra, and Levi were doing something else. Honestly they are so childish.

[ACarATorchAJess]

So, did they get the house? I saw them packing again on snap so I'm assuming?

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[Unknowngirly]

I can't believe the amount of people on here defending oscars behavior. I will say this every time it is brought up. Punching. Holes. In. The. Wall. Is. Not. Normal!! Comparing that to hitting a punching bag at the gym are you serious? I can't with the stupidity here. Oscar also joked that kyra was fat, smelled, and has done spiteful things to her during arguments. But he says just kidding so it's ok right? I keep seeing the same people here trolling.

how do we know it was Oscar? Did they say it?

You have got to be joking lol

[ytmamaviewer24]

I can't believe the amount of people on here defending oscars behavior. I will say this every time it is brought up. Punching. Holes. In. The. Wall. Is. Not. Normal!! Comparing that to hitting a punching bag at the gym are you serious? I can't with the stupidity here. Oscar also joked that kyra was fat, smelled, and has done spiteful things to her during arguments. But he says just kidding so it's ok right? I keep seeing the same people here trolling.

how do we know it was Oscar? Did they say it?

You have got to be joking lol

I am not.. the person above asked, and I became curious too. Did they say it on the vlog or are we assuming it was him?

[teddyandmommy]

how do we know it was Oscar? Did they say it?

You have got to be joking lol

I am not.. the person above asked, and I became curious too. Did they say it on the vlog or are we assuming it was him?

It's just an assumption. They have not addressed the holes as far as I know. I think someone said Oscar used to box? So it's possible he punches to let out aggression. But no one knows 100%.


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[annapaulndaniel]

This might be a stupid question but couldn't the hole be from before they even moved in? Or an accident? It's just being stated like fact now that Oscar punched the wall in an abusive fit of rage and there seems to be no proof?

Also if he thinks talking too much is a girl thing he is in for a shock because it is a 4 year old onwards until puberty thing hahaha. My five year old is a boy and he talks from the second he wakes up until he falls asleep. It is 90% amazing and beautiful, 10% soul crushingly mentally draining to the point where I think my brain might actually scramble and short circuit by 11am hahaha

[sheebz]

This might be a stupid question but couldn't the hole be from before they even moved in? Or an accident? It's just being stated like fact now that Oscar punched the wall in an abusive fit of rage and there seems to be no proof?

Also if he thinks talking too much is a girl thing he is in for a shock because it is a 4 year old onwards until puberty thing hahaha. My five year old is a boy and he talks from the second he wakes up until he falls asleep. It is 90% amazing and beautiful, 10% soul crushingly mentally draining to the point where I think my brain might actually scramble and short circuit by 11am hahaha

definitely not from before bc the complex wouldn't rent out a unit without fixing that... i personally think it was a punch bc that's way too big to be something from furniture and it's not that easy to bang a hole into a wall moving furniture anyways. the house my family is renting is pretty cheap and thin walls and i've moved furniture and hit the walls and only scrape it so it has to be a punch.


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[Unknowngirly]

Well we know their beautiful new house won't come with holes in the wall. I'm sure we will spot more on the vlogs once they move. I don't see him stopping any time soon.

[CallieT]

I can't believe the amount of people on here defending oscars behavior. I will say this every time it is brought up. Punching. Holes. In. The. Wall. Is. Not. Normal!! Comparing that to hitting a punching bag at the gym are you serious? I can't with the stupidity here. Oscar also joked that kyra was fat, smelled, and has done spiteful things to her during arguments. But he says just kidding so it's ok right? I keep seeing the same people here trolling.

how do we know it was Oscar? Did they say it?

I've got thought that too lol maybe it is Kyra you never know

[prettyplease]

Where are the holes in their house? I've never seen them Is there a certain vlog i should go back and watch?

[luci417]

perhaps he did punch a hole in the wall. And? That's like saying people who go to the gym and punch a punching bag are abusive people as well.. Everyone lets out their pent up anger in different ways, and although punching a wall isn't the best looking, it's way better than him hitting Kyra or one of their kids. You guys say punching a wall is SO bad and such a big sign of abuse, but I really don't get how? Because you can see the evidence left behind?
If I get frustrated, I have punched a wall (didn't leave a hole because I'm weak:)), I punch my pillows, scream into pillows. And guess what? The thought of punching my wife or child has NEVER crossed my mind.

Wow you're right. At least he's not smacking his wife and kids around, what an amazing father! Punching a punching bag at a gym is totally different because you're not causing any damage to property and you're doing it in a controlled environment and it's not a reflexive response to anger (presumably, unless you get really mad in a gym for some reason) whereas punching a wall is something you do when you can't control yourself. Breaking things because you're angry is a sign that you can't control your temper and it shows that you can be very destructive as a result. I'm guessing you've never been on the receiving end of that kind of anger because can be incredibly scary. I'd never say it's a sign he's physically abusive to Kyra based unless there was a ton of other evidence because that's a huge leap but I'd definitely consider that to be evidence of him having a nasty temper which could potentially lead to him being emotionally abusive. I'm guessing people think that because he's been shown to be pretty controlling at times.

[luci417]

This might be a stupid question but couldn't the hole be from before they even moved in? Or an accident? It's just being stated like fact now that Oscar punched the wall in an abusive fit of rage and there seems to be no proof?

Also if he thinks talking too much is a girl thing he is in for a shock because it is a 4 year old onwards until puberty thing hahaha. My five year old is a boy and he talks from the second he wakes up until he falls asleep. It is 90% amazing and beautiful, 10% soul crushingly mentally draining to the point where I think my brain might actually scramble and short circuit by 11am hahaha

I always thought that was really funny that people think girls/women talk too much. I mean obviously it's stupid because it's sexist and sexists are stupid people, but there have been studies conducted that show men on average talk more than women, and are more likely to talk 'at' people than to them.

[Ohthehumanity]

Cringing at Kyras snap of both kids in the bike trailer... without helmets. Part of me hopes a minor and scary incident happens to them so they can snap into reality and realize their kids aren't invincible. Good for Kyra for finding something she enjoys and can enjoy with the kids, but put a helmet on Levi and wait till next summer to put Alaya in there. I am surprised they actually spent the money on the baby insert instead of using blankets though.

[ytmamaviewer24]

I guess we have it all figured out from the 9 minute vlogs then. It seems that's enough to diagnose a person these days lol.
That's as stupid as me trying to figure some of you out by the things you post on here.

Let's critize their parenting, which is what we actually SEE and KNOW and stop assuming things.