YTMD Pet Peeves

[Playsinrain]

I think preschool will try to get him help, and Missy will be offended at the suggestion he's behind and will pull him out of school. I hope I'm wrong, but given how she's handled everything else that should have been taken seriously regarding the children's health, I just don't think she'll take a suggestion from his teachers seriously.

You are exactly right, she will probably refuse the evaluation or find some way to cheat at the testing, and sabotage it just like the seizure test.

[AutumnLeaves3]

Is this the YTMD Pet Peeve thread or the Daily Bumps thread? lol I really don't mean that as bitchy as it sounds, it's not serious, just saying

[waitwhat]

Is this the YTMD Pet Peeve thread or the Daily Bumps thread? lol I really don't mean that as bitchy as it sounds, it's not serious, just saying

You're right, lol sorry, the discussion went off the rails.

[laughsatytfame]

Well I know what my new YMTD pet Peeve is.

[orangeblossom]

Do people not understand what a cultural difference is? "I don't understand why Americans...". Um probably because you're not American? I don't understand somethings Canadians do but I'm also not Canadian.

[CallieT]

Americans do some pretty weird shit tho lol. If it's about our eating habits for example I can understand that.

[blackroses]

Americans do some pretty weird shit tho lol. If it's about our eating habits for example I can understand that.

Yeah our eating habits are so extreme, I'm talking about the oversized everything burgers milkshakes, breakfast foods, pizzas. Anything really it's actually kind of nasty ( although I have tried the shake and although I didn't have sugar for the rest of the week that shit was so delicious)

[Boredomatitsfinest]

When users become so adamant about getting THEIR point across in their rebuttals that they become completely blind/closed minded to what the other user is even saying.

[imnottired]

When people come here to bitch instead of calling people out on the boards.

And btw, boredom. I'm not closeminded to what anyone else was or is saying. I had a point and I made it. Just because me and HS had conflicting points of view doesn't make me "blind".

[lmmomSD]

Americans do some pretty weird shit tho lol. If it's about our eating habits for example I can understand that.

Yeah our eating habits are so extreme, I'm talking about the oversized everything burgers milkshakes, breakfast foods, pizzas. Anything really it's actually kind of nasty ( although I have tried the shake and although I didn't have sugar for the rest of the week that shit was so delicious)

I gotta admit, my daughter and I are over the moon about Shake Shack opening in San Diego.
But our serving sizes insane. I can eat for at least two days off most restaurant meals take home. My sister lives in London and is always stunned by the sizes of the servings here.

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[Deadhead_kay]

When people come here to bitch instead of calling people out on the boards.

And btw, boredom. I'm not closeminded to what anyone else was or is saying. I had a point and I made it. Just because me and HS had conflicting points of view doesn't make me "blind".

The whole point is to come here to bitch so everyone else doesn't have to see people whine and derail the threads.


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[imnottired]

When people come here to bitch instead of calling people out on the boards.

And btw, boredom. I'm not closeminded to what anyone else was or is saying. I had a point and I made it. Just because me and HS had conflicting points of view doesn't make me "blind".

The whole point is to come here to bitch so everyone else doesn't have to see people whine and derail the threads.


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I know, I know. I should've worded the first part better or made it clear that it was only directed towards Boredomatitsfinest.

Home girl didn't mind to throw in her two cents about me and HS's disagreement after the thread, HS and I moved in from it. And that's fine, everyone has an opinion. I get that. But then had to rush over here to imply that I'm closed minded and blind. And, now that I'm calling her out on that bullshit logic she is nowhere to be found.

Figures.

[blackroses]

I hate it when people act like they're in high school, y'all are (mostly) grown ass women and men there's no reason for anyone to get upset over petty things but we can't please everyone I have wanted to punch so many people through the screen in the threads it's ridiculous, I'm trying to figure out why this happens on the site all the time

[lmmomSD]

I hate it when people act like they're in high school, y'all are (mostly) grown ass women and men there's no reason for anyone to get upset over petty things but we can't please everyone I have wanted to punch so many people through the screen in the threads it's ridiculous, I'm trying to figure out why this happens on the site all the time

I can't say I want to punch anyone, but I get what you're saying. It's a gossip site, and we're all ostensibly adults. We filter everything through our own experiences, which are different. So we have differing opinions. No biggie. Either scroll past, foe the person that bugs you, or explain nicely why you disagree. There's no need to be bitchy or put down the person with whom you disagree.
And just to be sure, I'm using the generic "you". Don't mean you in particular.

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[Boredomatitsfinest]

When people come here to bitch instead of calling people out on the boards.

And btw, boredom. I'm not closeminded to what anyone else was or is saying. I had a point and I made it. Just because me and HS had conflicting points of view doesn't make me "blind".

The whole point is to come here to bitch so everyone else doesn't have to see people whine and derail the threads.


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I know, I know. I should've worded the first part better or made it clear that it was only directed towards Boredomatitsfinest.

Home girl didn't mind to throw in her two cents about me and HS's disagreement after the thread, HS and I moved in from it. And that's fine, everyone has an opinion. I get that. But then had to rush over here to imply that I'm closed minded and blind. And, now that I'm calling her out on that bullshit logic she is nowhere to be found.

Figures.

Wow. Lmao. Someone's grumpy.

First of all, home girl, sorry I don't sit on YTMD all day refreshing threads. Funny that I'm "nowhere to be found" after a couple of hours. Yeah. Okay.

Second of all, my post wasn't even directed at you. In fact, your username hadn't even caught my attention until you decided to come here and throw a little hissy fit over something that you mistakenly took extremely personal. Like, I'm really sorry you got your panties all in a bunch, home girl, but that type of thing happens all the time on here. The context of your guys' conversation just reminded me of a pet peeve of mine, but I wasn't directly referring to that conversation, nor was I trying to imply anything about you personally.

I get that passive aggressive posts are annoying as hell, but my post wasn't one of them. Maybe PM or just take a deep breath next time before jumping to conclusions.

[imnottired]

The whole point is to come here to bitch so everyone else doesn't have to see people whine and derail the threads.


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I know, I know. I should've worded the first part better or made it clear that it was only directed towards Boredomatitsfinest.

Home girl didn't mind to throw in her two cents about me and HS's disagreement after the thread, HS and I moved in from it. And that's fine, everyone has an opinion. I get that. But then had to rush over here to imply that I'm closed minded and blind. And, now that I'm calling her out on that bullshit logic she is nowhere to be found.

Figures.

Wow. Lmao. Someone's grumpy.

First of all, home girl, sorry I don't sit on YTMD all day refreshing threads. Funny that I'm "nowhere to be found" after a couple of hours. Yeah. Okay.

Second of all, my post wasn't even directed at you. In fact, your username hadn't even caught my attention until you decided to come here and throw a little hissy fit over something that you mistakenly took extremely personal. Like, I'm really sorry you got your panties all in a bunch, home girl, but that type of thing happens all the time on here. The context of your guys' conversation just reminded me of a pet peeve of mine, but I wasn't directly referring to that conversation, nor was I trying to imply anything about you personally.

I get that passive aggressive posts are annoying as hell, but my post wasn't one of them. Maybe PM or just take a deep breath next time before jumping to conclusions.

I don't sit on YTMD all day refreshing threads. Some days, like today, I'm more active and other days I'm not.

I don't appreciate you constantly repeating the word "home girl". Why does my choice of vocabulary bother you? It wasn't an insult. We all speak in different ways and we don't have to make fun of each other because of those differences.

But, after reading your post, I realize that I did absolutely jump to conclusions. I should have messaged you first or clarified. I apologize for calling you out in the way I did.

[orangeblossom]

Americans do some pretty weird shit tho lol. If it's about our eating habits for example I can understand that.

Yeah our eating habits are so extreme, I'm talking about the oversized everything burgers milkshakes, breakfast foods, pizzas. Anything really it's actually kind of nasty ( although I have tried the shake and although I didn't have sugar for the rest of the week that shit was so delicious)

I agree we generally have terrible eating habits in America but I just think its annoying it has to be pointed out every time an American youtuber does something different, it's repetitive and it goes nowhere.

[Nuna]

My pet peeve is when people are completely oblivious to the tone in their posts. I've seen posters attack others and throw shade, but then get indignant and outraged at the slightest perception that someone is doing the same back to them. If all your posts have a million capital letters and exclamation points, you may want to chill a bit. Not every issue should have you outraged and in the red-zone just because you hate a vlogger. If someone disagrees with you, it could be because they relate to what you are complaining about, and not actually have much to do with defending said vlogger. People do all parent differently, so there is bound to be some debate and variance.

[HelloSweetie]

My pet peeve is when people are completely oblivious to the tone in their posts. I've seen posters attack others and throw shade, but then get indignant and outraged at the slightest perception that someone is doing the same back to them. If all your posts have a million capital letters and exclamation points, you may want to chill a bit. Not every issue should have you outraged and in the red-zone just because you hate a vlogger. If someone disagrees with you, it could be because they relate to what you are complaining about, and not actually have much to do with defending said vlogger. People do all parent differently, so there is bound to be some debate and variance.

Like when a poster throws around "you just love XYZ" but then gets butt hurt if someone implies hate is clouding their judgement. We all have opinions, and if your argument is right then let it speak for itself. Dismissing someone's comment completely because you think is too pro (or anti) a YTer just looks like you're threatened by the counter argument and feel your position isn't speaking strongly enough for itself.

[Boredomatitsfinest]

I don't sit on YTMD all day refreshing threads. Some days, like today, I'm more active and other days I'm not.

I don't appreciate you constantly repeating the word "home girl". Why does my choice of vocabulary bother you? It wasn't an insult. We all speak in different ways and we don't have to make fun of each other because of those differences.

But, after reading your post, I realize that I did absolutely jump to conclusions. I should have messaged you first or clarified. I apologize for calling you out in the way I did.

I'm sorry to offend you. It doesn't bother me at all, I use the term as well haha. You were feisty in your post toward me, so I was just trying to lighten the mood and be jokingly feisty back. I'm sorry that that didn't transfer well.

But thank you, I appreciate the apology! No hard feelings.