Gardner Quad Squad: Durls, Dollars and Donits | Part 3

[Merikat]

So sorry for your lost, Sophie...

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[Premmie101]

So sorry for your loss Sophie x

[Snarky Lady]

Sophie I sent you a PM but I'm not proficient with this site yet. So very sorry for your loss.

[Aussiegal2017]

Sorry for your loss x


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[Merikat]

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What is it with ASSwit, et al. and their apparent inability to not show their tonsils at least 2-3 times in every vlog?!
ASSwit does seem to have the maturity of a 14 year old! She can't even stand for the adolescents to get camera time without getting into it too. Trampoline today; remember swinging at another get together, and getting in the baby pool with the kids. I wouldn't be able to be around her for more than 15 minutes without losing it...

If anyone put those fireworks off in my area of the country the police would come arrest them!.
Isn't it extremely rude to do that around a suburban neighborhood? Noise, and extreme fire hazard!

My theory on Tuna. She wet her pants,either peeing or spilling. No change of clothes available, so someone (probably ASSwit) thought it was a great idea to let her wear a diaper around. And to be sure and film her.

I really think ASSwit is incredibly obnoxious.
It's really nice to see some of the girls interacting and playing nicely with other kids!


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[Imsorrybut]

I don't post a lot, and this is random, but a few days ago people were discussing when they started to dislike the gardeners.... I remember watching when the girls were 18 months or so and one of them started to learn to take off her clothes. All she did was unbutton her overalls or something and Ashley literally said to her, "oh, it makes mommy SO SAD when you do that. Leave your pretty clothes on." Like what's the big deal, lady, take her out of the overalls and put her in shorts if she keeps taking them off. But then her girls wouldn't have all matched or looked "pretty". It was this moment that I realized how much emphasis Ashley put on their appearance above everything else and how they ALWAYS had to be matching, no matter what. Oh and they weren't allowed to repeat outfits. It annoyed me then and it annoys now.

Also, anyone with multiples? Did you constantly match your kids? I would probably Match them for parties or special events but every day? Seems like it would be easier to just grab clean clothes and put each girl in something different. Anyone with mutiples dress their kids the same all the time? Idk why it bothers me, maybe because the girls have ZERO individuality.

[Aussiegal2017]

The matching clothes annoy me it's like they are not thought of as individuals at all .
Your an identical twin and a quad how do you get to be just be yourself
Imagine when they want to do different sports ect I bet they will want them to do all the same thing


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[Stellaboo]

I don't post a lot, and this is random, but a few days ago people were discussing when they started to dislike the gardeners.... I remember watching when the girls were 18 months or so and one of them started to learn to take off her clothes. All she did was unbutton her overalls or something and Ashley literally said to her, "oh, it makes mommy SO SAD when you do that. Leave your pretty clothes on." Like what's the big deal, lady, take her out of the overalls and put her in shorts if she keeps taking them off. But then her girls wouldn't have all matched or looked "pretty". It was this moment that I realized how much emphasis Ashley put on their appearance above everything else and how they ALWAYS had to be matching, no matter what. Oh and they weren't allowed to repeat outfits. It annoyed me then and it annoys now.

Also, anyone with multiples? Did you constantly match your kids? I would probably Match them for parties or special events but every day? Seems like it would be easier to just grab clean clothes and put each girl in something different. Anyone with mutiples dress their kids the same all the time? Idk why it bothers me, maybe because the girls have ZERO individuality.

The Busby quints are usually dressed identically. Although at least they are allowed to wear appropriate clothes designed for active toddlers. Maybe it's just easier for the Busby's to keep track of clothing that way? And they are all the same size, unlike the quads.

But the Greedner girls are always dressed for fashion rather than comfort. dumbAss buys everything the same size even though it ends up being too big on Indie and too small on Evie. Yesterday two of the girls were wearing jean jacket vests over their dresses - in July!
Ashely said that Evie put it on herself because she liked it, but I call BS on that. She buttoned it all the way up by herself did she? And why then did Scarlett have to wear one too? Those poor kids seem so uncomfortable all the time. Restrictive clothing and filthy diapers will do that I guess.

[Aussiegal2017]

They never seem to ever doubt themselves as parents or what they are doing . Do you think they just don't show that on the vlogs


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[eskayem]

My dear Sophie, my heart goes out to you, I am terribly sorry

One thing I noticed in the Costco vlog, before I shut it off, is Indie struggles to say blue. She's almost 3. She shouldn't struggle as much as she does. And they barely acknowledge her request for blue. They ask her "red or green" 3 times, but don't acknowledge her trying to say blue. You know, "blue like sissie's jacket?" Sigh...it breaks my heart they don't even care that they are struggling.

[Merikat]

They never seem to ever doubt themselves as parents or what they are doing . Do you think they just don't show that on the vlogs


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First of all, don't think they're deep thinkers, or very intelligent.
Maybe because of that, they are very much "live in the moment" people. I doubt they've really given any thought to who's going to, or how they're going to, keep the grass cut in the new house. How much the heating and cooling bills will be. Who's going to fix broken pipes. Any of the things that most people consider when planning on owning a home.

And these not very smart, live in the moment idiots are also told by hundreds of people, day after day, that they're great parents, that their kids are smart and well behaved, and that the entire family is gorgeous.

No, I honestly don't think they doubt themselves as parents or what they are doing. But they will pay for their blindness, ignorance, narcissism very soon.
I can't even imagine what a rude awakening it's going to be when they're forced to deal with the consequences of how they've raised their children and how they've managed their money........

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[Sammy16]

I cannot keep CRAP's family straight. I know she has a brother and two sisters. Are Kya and Stella sisters? Who does Linkin and Tuna belong to and that cute little boy younger than the quads?

From what I understand she has a brother and two sisters but she refers to the man that lives with her parents as her brother as well so I'm not sure about him. Linkin belongs to the brother that lives out of state. He also has the older girl that went with the Greedners to that farm where the girls rode those little horses and licked the railings along the animal pens. Kya's mom is the eyebrow sister, Whitney. Her other sister, Leslie, has Stella, Tuna, a son (can't remember his name), and Alex the little redhead that's younger than the quads.

[Sunnyunicorn]

First off, I'm so sorry for your loss and ongoing medical issues Sophie. My heart goes out to You!

Second, regarding the potty training, it's the same thing as the cribs in my eyes. The girls have shown they're ready to start potty training and sleeping in beds that aren't cages, but their parents ignore them for their own convenience! My daughter slept in her crib until she was three, didn't day potty train until she was three, and used night pull ups until she was 5.5 because she just wasn't ready- and we started working with the potty when she was 18 months! She never climbed out of her crib, never indicated when she was wet or reacted at all to a soiled diaper (which was crazy because I cloth diapered her), I could never tell when she was about to poop/ per, etc. But the Greeders aren't letting their girls lead the way, they're ignoring them to make their lives easier. It sickens me. If the Greeders think four two year olds is hard then they have a world of hurt coming with four three and four year olds. Difficult and poorly behaved two year olds don't get easier to handle if you don't parent them correctly.

[OldCountry]

So sorry Sophie, take care of yourself. From one of your fellow "Sissies"

[Aussiegal2017]

I hate saying this about Evie but she's a big kid that photo on Instagram she looks huge for her age with all the grandkids


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[blackroses]

Slightly off topic but why to they call her Tuna? that's an awful nickname for a kid.

[BumblebeeBubbles]

I cannot keep CRAP's family straight. I know she has a brother and two sisters. Are Kya and Stella sisters? Who does Linkin and Tuna belong to and that cute little boy younger than the quads?

From what I understand she has a brother and two sisters but she refers to the man that lives with her parents as her brother as well so I'm not sure about him. Linkin belongs to the brother that lives out of state. He also has the older girl that went with the Greedners to that farm where the girls rode those little horses and licked the railings along the animal pens. Kya's mom is the eyebrow sister, Whitney. Her other sister, Leslie, has Stella, Tuna, a son (can't remember his name), and Alex the little redhead that's younger than the quads.

Leslie has Stella, Max, Sabrina (Tuna), and Alex. I'm pretty sure that's right. From what I gather, there are three girls in the family Whitney, Leslie, and Ashley. The two "brothers" actually are cousins that Mimi and Steve basically adopted and grew up as brothers. But biologically, Mimi just has the 3 girls.

I try to lay off the family as much as possible with criticism. My family sure wouldn't be perfect if we had video cameras in our faces at every function. My kids and my nieces and nephews don't always behave, sometimes wander in diapers, and we sure aren't model thin. We are loud, crazy, eat more than we should, and the kids run a little wild at family reunions. Mimi always wearing black is a sign of her being self-conscious of her weight, I am sure.

I feel like the family didn't chose this life and they seem to be getting more and more withdrawn from it. And fed up with it. So I try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I'd be so ticked if everywhere I invited my sister and her kids, a video camera was going to be placed in my face and out on YouTube. I'm not sure they all want their kids on YouTube. But Ash and Ty don't seem to care. I'd be tempted to say "put down the damn camera and enjoy the moment".

[BumblebeeBubbles]

Slightly off topic but why to they call her Tuna? that's an awful nickname for a kid.

Yes it is. But nicknames tend to stick. She was large as a baby. Tall and big. So I think it stated as calling her Big Tuna. And it stuck. They are definitely a nickname family. We were too and they weren't always flattering. But Tuna is a new one.

[blackroses]

Slightly off topic but why to they call her Tuna? that's an awful nickname for a kid.

Yes it is. But nicknames tend to stick. She was large as a baby. Tall and big. So I think it stated as calling her Big Tuna. And it stuck. They are definitely a nickname family. We were too and they weren't always flattering. But Tuna is a new one.

It's just so awful it feels weird in your mouth when saying it I feel really bad for her

[PrincessFrenchFry]

I cannot keep CRAP's family straight. I know she has a brother and two sisters. Are Kya and Stella sisters? Who does Linkin and Tuna belong to and that cute little boy younger than the quads?

From what I understand she has a brother and two sisters but she refers to the man that lives with her parents as her brother as well so I'm not sure about him. Linkin belongs to the brother that lives out of state. He also has the older girl that went with the Greedners to that farm where the girls rode those little horses and licked the railings along the animal pens. Kya's mom is the eyebrow sister, Whitney. Her other sister, Leslie, has Stella, Tuna, a son (can't remember his name), and Alex the little redhead that's younger than the quads.

Asshat has 2 older brothers and 2 older sister. One of the brothers, I think his name is Blake, has only been seen on the vlogs like 3-4 times. He's the one who back in the day had a baby and Asshat liked that she could play and then give the baby back because even though it was one of their '8 years of infertility', she wasn't ready for kids yet.


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