I think it's absolutely reasonable to believe they felt some sort of cultural/religious pressure to have kids. I don't think in any way parenting comes naturally to them (they're far too selfish). And yes, the LDS church does place emphasis on the family, but also stresses that the mom's physical and mental health should be of more consideration than "multiplying and replenishing". FTYOs have done absolutely no favors for her emotional/mental health.littlemissmuffet123 wrote:I have the feeling that both of these useless parents don't actually want children and the responsibility that it takes to raise them. Please correct me if I am wrong, but since the Mormon church has such a strong message of family, these two felt they had to have children, it was the societal expectation that drove them to IVF. I know many, many couples use IVF as an attempt to make a family which I think it is wonderful that science can provide us with that opportunity. However, from seeing how these two are so inept at looking after children, particularly Ashley, it makes me wonder whether if they actually wanted children. Their actions speak volumes in regards to how disconnected they are from the realities of being a parent.
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That would entail that the parents had good manners and were just neglecting to teach their daughters those manners. Watch the two of them, they have horrid horrid manners themselves. UGH UGH & UGH.LindyLouWho wrote:And that's the part that gets me as well. I simply do not understand why they don't realize that their girls will not just one day adopt all these necessary skills without constant teaching and reinforcement on the parent's part. That they have to teach them table manners, and appropriate behaviour, and how to be nice to other people and to respect them and their property. My whole goal as a parent was to raise kids that I would like as people at the end of the day - not just because they were mine but because they were likeable, decent, enjoyable-to-be-around human beings. That is not going to happen in this situation. Not even their parents are going to find them likeable as they mature. They might love them, but they won't like them. How sad is that?Stellaboo wrote:
The Greedners prove their stupidity every day by allowing their children to act like feral animals.
It has never once occurred to them that doing the hard work with their kids up front will allow them to take it easy in the long run.
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Several times during their LOOOOOOOOOOOONG 8 YEARS of infertility *cough cough* (boy can they lie) Ashley almost seemed panicked as month after month she was not pg and everyone around her was. Just the way she talked of it seemed to paint a picture of an almost hysteria and not just the sadness of infertility. She was SUPPOSED to be pg and by God she wasn't. Also those posters commenting on her ball cap and possible grandeur thinking of being incognito. Haven't you noticed how she is when they go out and she gets surrounded by "her fans" ....she gets absolutely giddy and while they were shopping on their anniversary Tyson grousing about standing in line while Ashley is surrounded by 'her fans', he is trying to play it off but isn't as convincing to me , almost seems like he is jealous with her getting all the attention. They both are such fame whores and I am absolutely sick with their constant O faces. BLARFlittlemissmuffet123 wrote:I have the feeling that both of these useless parents don't actually want children and the responsibility that it takes to raise them. Please correct me if I am wrong, but since the Mormon church has such a strong message of family, these two felt they had to have children, it was the societal expectation that drove them to IVF. I know many, many couples use IVF as an attempt to make a family which I think it is wonderful that science can provide us with that opportunity. However, from seeing how these two are so inept at looking after children, particularly Ashley, it makes me wonder whether if they actually wanted children. Their actions speak volumes in regards to how disconnected they are from the realities of being a parent.
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Someone has commented that perhaps Assley wore her baseball hat celebrity style so as to not get recognized. I skimmed the anniversary vlog and was watching on my phone so I didn't notice or wasn't able to see very well. I heard "tiny" say that Asswipe ran into some followers in Barh and Body works. Did she have a crowd around her or was it just one person and he made it sound like she was being mobbed?
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It wasn't a crowd she wisheslovethispage wrote:Someone has commented that perhaps Assley wore her baseball hat celebrity style so as to not get recognized. I skimmed the anniversary vlog and was watching on my phone so I didn't notice or wasn't able to see very well. I heard "tiny" say that Asswipe ran into some followers in Barh and Body works. Did she have a crowd around her or was it just one person and he made it sound like she was being mobbed?
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The laws in Utah are very lax in homeschooling. Looked them up, they do not require any type of documentation on curriculum, hours , etc. This is a perfect storm in the making for this family. The only thing that one could possibly hope for is if there is some obscure law that could hold them for neglect. Unfortunately that would entail the girls having already having an even longer duration of neglect and their continued delays developmentally as well as their continued educational delays. Poor girls. The only thing that one could hope for is them "hiring" someone to teach their kids.
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These girls are doomed if they get homeschooled.
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Well sure they'll say they are home schooling them and then they'll hire helpers and take the credit. They'll go to the extent of showing their lesson plans and everything. Asswit will let Tiny take care of all this because she will too busy schooling her lipshit KAD.fudgenuts wrote:The laws in Utah are very lax in homeschooling. Looked them up, they do not require any type of documentation on curriculum, hours , etc. This is a perfect storm in the making for this family. The only thing that one could possibly hope for is if there is some obscure law that could hold them for neglect. Unfortunately that would entail the girls having already having an even longer duration of neglect and their continued delays developmentally as well as their continued educational delays. Poor girls. The only thing that one could hope for is them "hiring" someone to teach their kids.
Wait I think I have missed something. Did the twits say they wanted to home school? Catch me up here please...
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I too thought it was utterly stupid the way Tyson made a fairly big deal out of Ashley being "mobbed" by fans. They clearly have a an obsession with being famous and it is becoming more obvious in their vlogs. Also, it was quite strange the way the visited their building site and according Ashley stayed their for well over an hour. Having a quick visit to see how it's going is normal, but staying for that long while you've been away from your children all day is bizarre. That "scene" was about as lazy as you can get, literally lying around doing absolute fuck all, just to procrastinate from returning home to your family.
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Such a random thought, but my inner mean girl is coming out
Do you think in all their packages/letters and such that go to their PO Box, they ever get any hate mail or articles pointing out all of the (countless. OH SO COUNTLESS!!!) errors in their parenting philosophies? I'm guessing they do, but obviously that's not the sort of thing they'll advertise. I kinda wanna send one Oops, did I say that out loud?
Do you think in all their packages/letters and such that go to their PO Box, they ever get any hate mail or articles pointing out all of the (countless. OH SO COUNTLESS!!!) errors in their parenting philosophies? I'm guessing they do, but obviously that's not the sort of thing they'll advertise. I kinda wanna send one Oops, did I say that out loud?
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Isn't Hugsy studying to be a teacher?
T$A will just tell her to teach the kids.
Thus ensuring that Hugsy never escapes.
Those poor girls. I hope someone at least teaches them to communicate so we can all read their tell-all books if they ever get out of there.
I'm amazed at how much I loath these people.
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T$A will just tell her to teach the kids.
Thus ensuring that Hugsy never escapes.
Those poor girls. I hope someone at least teaches them to communicate so we can all read their tell-all books if they ever get out of there.
I'm amazed at how much I loath these people.
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I think that's what he is referring to, as well. And it's a very Utah thing. When I moved here and was turning 25 on the 25th, I noticed some here called it my golden birthday. Other called it my silver birthday. I am sure that's what he meant. 12 years on the 12th.SnarkyJ wrote:GA Peach70 wrote:Yes another post but my God these two are fucking morons. Titboy posted that they celebrated their "golden 12 year anniversary." Ummm no you dumbshit the "golden anniversary" is 50 years. And he is going to homeschool his miracles?
My guess is he meant Golden anniversary because 12 years on the 12th. I've never heard anyone use Golden Anniversay like that, but I know where I live we celebrate your Golden Birthday which would be turning 12 on the 12th.
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I think she wanted a child or two because it's what her sisters have and what is expected. I think she also had a very naive view of what motherhood is. Remember our theory that mentally she's at 13/14. Think of that age getting pregnant - what do they say. Oh it'll be like a little doll I can dress up and hold and she will love me back. That is totally Trashley! With no clue of the responsibility of a child - let alone 4! And just like a teenager, she grows tired of them when they aren't cute anymore and being a "mother" takes work. But Tyson's family just enables them. When they want a 12-hour day of free babysitting four creatures that have no manners - I'd say 'Hellllll no."littlemissmuffet123 wrote:I have the feeling that both of these useless parents don't actually want children and the responsibility that it takes to raise them. Please correct me if I am wrong, but since the Mormon church has such a strong message of family, these two felt they had to have children, it was the societal expectation that drove them to IVF. I know many, many couples use IVF as an attempt to make a family which I think it is wonderful that science can provide us with that opportunity. However, from seeing how these two are so inept at looking after children, particularly Ashley, it makes me wonder whether if they actually wanted children. Their actions speak volumes in regards to how disconnected they are from the realities of being a parent.
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Surely they have testing for homeschoolers. If they give out diplomas based on the parents word, I understand why Trashley is so dumb, maybe her mom pulled þhe rambunctious tween out of public school and "home schooled" her.fudgenuts wrote:The laws in Utah are very lax in homeschooling. Looked them up, they do not require any type of documentation on curriculum, hours , etc. This is a perfect storm in the making for this family. The only thing that one could possibly hope for is if there is some obscure law that could hold them for neglect. Unfortunately that would entail the girls having already having an even longer duration of neglect and their continued delays developmentally as well as their continued educational delays. Poor girls. The only thing that one could hope for is them "hiring" someone to teach their kids.
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Krouton wrote:Surely they have testing for homeschoolers. If they give out diplomas based on the parents word, I understand why Trashley is so dumb, maybe her mom pulled þhe rambunctious tween out of public school and "home schooled" her.fudgenuts wrote:The laws in Utah are very lax in homeschooling. Looked them up, they do not require any type of documentation on curriculum, hours , etc. This is a perfect storm in the making for this family. The only thing that one could possibly hope for is if there is some obscure law that could hold them for neglect. Unfortunately that would entail the girls having already having an even longer duration of neglect and their continued delays developmentally as well as their continued educational delays. Poor girls. The only thing that one could hope for is them "hiring" someone to teach their kids.
I don't think Utah has testing. I know my state didn't. You were basically on your own.
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That is just frightening that they are talking about home schooling them, especially if there isn't a set curriculum or requirements!
Those girls have no hope. They are doing zero teaching now, and I can't imagine that will improve once they hit school age.
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I'm not going to lie, hearing they *might* want to homeschool makes me upset. It helps if you have SOME sort of formal education. Based on Grammar usage alone, I fear for the girls future. Plus how his BS is just that, BS, I still question it. I haven't brought myself to watch any Vlogs in the last two days, does anyone need a recap or can I spare my ears and eyes?
As far as dancing around the kitchen, that's cute and all BUT do the math, we've seen it, what? Twice in the last 2.5 years? It's not an every day thing, so I hate how they're acting like it is. Plus check out their Instacrap. You can see multiple girls standing in their high chairs, so again, I ask, Meems, you promised us your daughter would never put her girls in danger...well...low and behold.
As far as dancing around the kitchen, that's cute and all BUT do the math, we've seen it, what? Twice in the last 2.5 years? It's not an every day thing, so I hate how they're acting like it is. Plus check out their Instacrap. You can see multiple girls standing in their high chairs, so again, I ask, Meems, you promised us your daughter would never put her girls in danger...well...low and behold.
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Do they getan actûal high school diploma or GED?
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If you can't even get your child to sit when in a high chair what hope have you got with bigger issues in the future .eskayem wrote:I'm not going to lie, hearing they *might* want to homeschool makes me upset. It helps if you have SOME sort of formal education. Based on Grammar usage alone, I fear for the girls future. Plus how his BS is just that, BS, I still question it. I haven't brought myself to watch any Vlogs in the last two days, does anyone need a recap or can I spare my ears and eyes?
As far as dancing around the kitchen, that's cute and all BUT do the math, we've seen it, what? Twice in the last 2.5 years? It's not an every day thing, so I hate how they're acting like it is. Plus check out their Instacrap. You can see multiple girls standing in their high chairs, so again, I ask, Meems, you promised us your daughter would never put her girls in danger...well...low and behold.
Do they ever do any parenting at all ever ?
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Last week tyass said they were not sure if they would send the FF to public or private school, now this week they are going to do home school, what will it be next week, they talk in circles. They are a couple of attention whores who like to give ppl something to talk about with their endless stupid comments! Where ever or how ever the girls get schooled will probably change a million times over the next 2 years!
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