I mean, it's been 5 years. It's actually a bit weird to still be actively mourning a failed pregnancy after half a decade. A few private moments to remember? Normal. Full on public grieving every anniversary? Totally not normal.queentee20 wrote:I think it's sad they choose not to talk about Gabriel anymore... he's still their baby ofc they don't have to talk about him, but they used to & they got their fame off of it... everyone knows of him so why try & hide it now? Guess it's not kid friendly
I know everyone handles loss differently, but, as someone who lost multiple pregnancies, choosing not to dwell on it indefinitely is perfectly acceptable. I'm gonna be honest, I no longer even remember what day my second trimester loss was anymore. It was ten years ago and I've got three healthy children now. I'm not mourning the ones I lost anymore, and it's not callous to move on.
They don't have to ever mention their losses again if they're at peace with it. It'd be different if they trotted it out constantly for views and then ignored the anniversary, but their losses are really only brought up when media interviews them and covers their backstory/YouTube beginning. They're allowed to stop observing the anniversary of a five year old pregnancy loss if it no longer causes intense heartache.