Gardner Quad Squad: A Miracle Unraveling | Part 7

[Guest]

Im not at my table top computer or i would post a screen save...
7:04 Indie appears to have contractures in her index fingers as well as her shoulders? She points several times and is unable to fully point her finger.
15:49 the way the old coot ate seemed creepy to me,

[Sandocan]

Oh Gosh Fudgenuts that is just horrible. My sincere condolences. Sending you strenght during this difficult time.

[eskayem]

Please asking for prayers for our little family. We have custody of our little grandson who just turned 9, joint with our eldest son who lives with us as well. He was visiting his mom's house this weekend and we just got a phone call. His 3 1/2 year old baby brother became unresponsive and quit breathing. Rescue attempts were unsuccessful and he passed away. We are still in a state of shock and I am very worried about my 'bud', been on the phone with the authorities all afternoon long. Prayers appreciated......

Fudgie, my heart breaks for you. Can I do anything to help?

[Guest]

I was curious as to the long term outcome of twin to twin syndrome. This is from a quick search

http://fn.bmj.com/content/83/3/F171

[Abbiedownunder]

So sorry to hear Fudgy. Hope it gets better quickly for you. I know the pain must be bad but try and look after yourself as best you can.

[Abbiedownunder]

Oh I'm so sorry, that was meant for Donits. I'm trying to do too many things at once. Apologies again.

[GA Peach70]

Then the other...I love my snarky sissies. Have there been times any of you have said something I did not agree with? Yes. Did it bother me? Hell No! We are all different with different outlooks and beliefs who have come together with the same regards/feeling/disgust for the Greedners and I for one respect all of you and your opinions and am grateful we have this site to express our feelings.

I agree with SnarkyLady. Yes there has been things said that I don't agree with but I choose not to respond or call someone out for saying how they feel or what they think. I feel if we start attacking each other then we are just like the KAD who attack because of a difference of opinion. Honestly I am an extremely private person and I don't share my opinion with a lot of people. It is nobodys business what I think of certain things or certain words and I don't need everyone to know my opinion. I'm not going to jump all over anyone else who doesn't share my same thoughts or beliefs. I will not call someone else out because they have a different opinion than I do. You believe what you want and I will believe what I want. You think what you want and I'll think what I want to think. I will not jump all over someone trying to convince them to change their point of view. I will not be, as some say nowadays, butthurt over stupid shit or if someone uses certain words. I do not get offended over such words as others do. I just keep on reading. Why? Because it is not physically hurting me. I had an extremely difficult upbringing and have thick skin so words do not bother me one bit. I know - I sound like a cold hearted person right? To certain people yes. But I agree with SnarkyLady - I'm grateful that we have this site to say what we want about Dumb and Dumber. We are able to vent about them to others who feel the same way and shouldn't have to worry or watch what we say. If you don't like or agree with something someone says just keep scrolling. Of course that is my opinion and others may not agree. I too respect others opinions.

[eskayem]

I'm too afraid to post, Fudge, my family and I send you our best.

To the one who fell on your tailbone, I send good vibes as well.

*I'll watch a vlog and give family updates tomorrow*

[Donits]

I had a bad fall yesterday and broke my tailbone.
Oh my Lord - the pain!
If only I could lounge around in bed like Ashley, except "you know you are a real Mom when" you still have to carry on taking kids toilet, cooking tea, doing the waahing... *cries*

Did they suggest a Sacroiliac Belt for you? Its worth paying out of pocket for if the insurance doesn't pay. You can sleep with it on if you don't become too reliant on it.

Never heard of of this, I will do some googling, thanks.
(i'm in NZ so don't know if we have them here, but anything that can help would be fabulous!)

Thanks for the best wishes SISsies

[Snarkadoodle Doo]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did. My life is too stressful right now due to my own private family situations that I can not and will not share here.

Frankly, I just can't handle being worried all he time that something I say is going to make you all mad at me. I shared my own opinion, and I WELCOMED people to share their differing opinions with me. I knew people had differing opinions on the subject and knew from past conversations that it could turn heated so I chose to ask people to remember we are all on the same side. The issue with talking online like this is you just read my words. You can't hear what I also mean but don't write. The ONLY thing I wanted was for a conversation to be had. Not for people to fight.

How the heck all of that blew up into everyone getting mad at everyone else - me especially- and my subsequently getting several DMs from people accusing me of trying to start fights, I will never know. Thank you to those of you who just reached out to be a friend or make sure I was okay.

Honestly, less that a year ago I was a what you call a KAD, who just got a funny feeling about this family when I had a problem with a blanket I ordered. Then, I Found you all on GOMI & followed you here because I enjoyed the conversation. Maybe I'll be back sooner or later. But for now, my life needs me more than this board does. And since the fear I have for those 4 children causes my so much internal turmoil trying to figure out how to save them, my anxiety level will definitely be better for a break too.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

[eskayem]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did. My life is too stressful right now due to my own private family situations that I can not and will not share here.

Frankly, I just can't handle being worried all he time that something I say is going to make you all mad at me. I shared my own opinion, and I WELCOMED people to share their differing opinions with me. I knew people had differing opinions on the subject and knew from past conversations that it could turn heated so I chose to ask people to remember we are all on the same side. The issue with talking online like this is you just read my words. You can't hear what I also mean but don't write. The ONLY thing I wanted was for a conversation to be had. Not for people to fight.

How the heck all of that blew up into everyone getting mad at everyone else - me especially- and my subsequently getting several DMs from people accusing me of trying to start fights, I will never know. Thank you to those of you who just reached out to be a friend or make sure I was okay.

Honestly, less that a year ago I was a what you call a KAD, who just got a funny feeling about this family when I had a problem with a blanket I ordered. Then, I Found you all on GOMI & followed you here because I enjoyed the conversation. Maybe I'll be back sooner or later. But for now, my life needs me more than this board does. And since the fear I have for those 4 children causes my so much internal turmoil trying to figure out how to save them, my anxiety level will definitely be better for a break too.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

I personally will ask you to stay. I honestly feel no one was/is mad at you. I respect Health Issues, Lord knows I have my share. Especially being anxiety. "stud" is a weird word. I know we all here respect each other because we're all here under a common cause.

I've enjoyed your thoughts and love hearing your voice and opinions.

You're wanted here just as much as any of us.

Last year I took up a pseudonym, no idea if I can out myself, and actually called out the babysitters for not being the parents they so claimed they dreamed to be.

I know we will not have the same opinions as everyone but I assure you that everyone wants you to stay here; health permitting.

[Abbiedownunder]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did. My life is too stressful right now due to my own private family situations that I can not and will not share here.

Frankly, I just can't handle being worried all he time that something I say is going to make you all mad at me. I shared my own opinion, and I WELCOMED people to share their differing opinions with me. I knew people had differing opinions on the subject and knew from past conversations that it could turn heated so I chose to ask people to remember we are all on the same side. The issue with talking online like this is you just read my words. You can't hear what I also mean but don't write. The ONLY thing I wanted was for a conversation to be had. Not for people to fight.

How the heck all of that blew up into everyone getting mad at everyone else - me especially- and my subsequently getting several DMs from people accusing me of trying to start fights, I will never know. Thank you to those of you who just reached out to be a friend or make sure I was okay.

Honestly, less that a year ago I was a what you call a KAD, who just got a funny feeling about this family when I had a problem with a blanket I ordered. Then, I Found you all on GOMI & followed you here because I enjoyed the conversation. Maybe I'll be back sooner or later. But for now, my life needs me more than this board does. And since the fear I have for those 4 children causes my so much internal turmoil trying to figure out how to save them, my anxiety level will definitely be better for a break too.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

I'm sorry to hear this as I enjoy your posts. I must have missed the memo on arguments and I'm very sad you received PM's about it. For what it's worth, and I don't know how old you are, but stud to me also only means one thing. I don't know if it's an Aussie thing but truly, please don't be offended. If you feel you need to take a break to let things blow over by all means. But can I just say that my life is a bag of shit at the moment both health wise and personally. I find this board helps me vent on my concern about the girls and I find it helps me de stress a bit. The babysitters are copping a bit of my own stress and anger but I often feel better if I can let out some snarking about someone else. I hope that makes sense. I'm relatively new to snarking and I imagine my time will come when I offend, it's just par for the course. Whatever you decide to do I hope things settle down a bit for you and from me personally, I'll miss your posts if you decide to go. Take care of yourself.

[Laughter6789]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did. My life is too stressful right now due to my own private family situations that I can not and will not share here.

Frankly, I just can't handle being worried all he time that something I say is going to make you all mad at me. I shared my own opinion, and I WELCOMED people to share their differing opinions with me. I knew people had differing opinions on the subject and knew from past conversations that it could turn heated so I chose to ask people to remember we are all on the same side. The issue with talking online like this is you just read my words. You can't hear what I also mean but don't write. The ONLY thing I wanted was for a conversation to be had. Not for people to fight.

How the heck all of that blew up into everyone getting mad at everyone else - me especially- and my subsequently getting several DMs from people accusing me of trying to start fights, I will never know. Thank you to those of you who just reached out to be a friend or make sure I was okay.

Honestly, less that a year ago I was a what you call a KAD, who just got a funny feeling about this family when I had a problem with a blanket I ordered. Then, I Found you all on GOMI & followed you here because I enjoyed the conversation. Maybe I'll be back sooner or later. But for now, my life needs me more than this board does. And since the fear I have for those 4 children causes my so much internal turmoil trying to figure out how to save them, my anxiety level will definitely be better for a break too.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

I am sorry to hear that you are leaving us and do hope that you will rethink your decision. I'm not sure what happened, I must have missed something but either way, I hope that you change your mind and continue to snark with us. I feel that everyone here is a valued part of our little snark site and losing members should open our eyes to the fact that when we begin accusing each other of things and attacking each other, we truly are no better than the crazy Greedner KADs. Hearing that you received negative DM's from other members really bothers me as its a what the KADs do, not what we should be doing to each other. Can't we all just agree to disagree on certain things and move forward? I do hope to see posts from you again soon!

[Sammy16]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did. My life is too stressful right now due to my own private family situations that I can not and will not share here.

Frankly, I just can't handle being worried all he time that something I say is going to make you all mad at me. I shared my own opinion, and I WELCOMED people to share their differing opinions with me. I knew people had differing opinions on the subject and knew from past conversations that it could turn heated so I chose to ask people to remember we are all on the same side. The issue with talking online like this is you just read my words. You can't hear what I also mean but don't write. The ONLY thing I wanted was for a conversation to be had. Not for people to fight.

How the heck all of that blew up into everyone getting mad at everyone else - me especially- and my subsequently getting several DMs from people accusing me of trying to start fights, I will never know. Thank you to those of you who just reached out to be a friend or make sure I was okay.

Honestly, less that a year ago I was a what you call a KAD, who just got a funny feeling about this family when I had a problem with a blanket I ordered. Then, I Found you all on GOMI & followed you here because I enjoyed the conversation. Maybe I'll be back sooner or later. But for now, my life needs me more than this board does. And since the fear I have for those 4 children causes my so much internal turmoil trying to figure out how to save them, my anxiety level will definitely be better for a break too.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

Stay! Unless I missed something, I didn't think any fighting was going on. I thought people were just saying how they do in fact disagree with some posts but choose not to say anything (myself included) because we all have different opinions. I hate to lose someone on our side so I hope you'll reconsider leaving us.

[lovethispage]

I can't believe you bitches sent pm's to Snarkadoodle Doo accusing her of starting fights.

Really, that's what it's come to? I don't even see how you all came to this conclusion. It never ever entered my mind that this was what her intentions were.

This is ridiculously absurd. You people that sent her negative pm's need to go back and reread the posts with a proper mindset.

And don't hassle me about this post. I don't want to hear your negativity. We've never had shit go down like this before. Knock it off.

I'm just about to start a new topic warning people what word, names and acronyms they might find offensive if they read here. And what actions will bring out the unofficial site police.

[Snarky Lady]

I had a bad fall yesterday and broke my tailbone.
Oh my Lord - the pain!
If only I could lounge around in bed like Ashley, except "you know you are a real Mom when" you still have to carry on taking kids toilet, cooking tea, doing the waahing... *cries*

So sorry to hear this! Get well soon!

[Sisteroo]

I love reading here on this page and discussing/snarking on the Greedners but lately it's turned into discussing everyone's personal lives. My opinion & everyone may not agree with it but I think we should stick to the title of this page and that is the Greedners! Some things said here ppl may find offensive regarding sexuality, gender, child abuse etc. if you don't agree then state your opinion & move on, attacking other members because their point of view is different is childish in my opinion. We are all here anonymously to discuss Tyler & Assley & I think it should
be kept to that line of discussion
We all have personal problems in our lives but I feel they don't belong here & should be
kept private
Ok just my opinion..... sorry

[Snarky Lady]

This will more than likely be the last time I post here. I was not calling anyone out. Nor did I give anyone a hard time here ever because they had a different opinion than I did.

If any of you actually believe that I said anything to offend you (or anyone else) intentionally, then accept my apologies as that was never, EVER my intent.

I hope you decide to stay. I for one enjoy your comments and to be honest I have no idea how this conversation started.

[Snarky Lady]

I can't believe you bitches sent pm's to Snarkadoodle Doo accusing her of starting fights.

Really, that's what it's come to? I don't even see how you all came to this conclusion. It never ever entered my mind that this was what her intentions were.

This is ridiculously absurd. You people that sent her negative pm's need to go back and reread the posts with a proper mindset.

And don't hassle me about this post. I don't want to hear your negativity. We've never had shit go down like this before. Knock it off.

I'm just about to start a new topic warning people what word, names and acronyms they might find offensive if they read here. And what actions will bring out the unofficial site police.

Let me also add, we have a boxing match on this site.

[DoodleBop]

Who the heck took it to PMs and messaged Snarkadoodle Doo. Not cool. I hope you decide to stay. I had the same opinions and I didn't get any messages.

We're not going to agree all the time. I think like the context of this word we need to realize past experience and where we live etc will change how we see things etc.