Gardner Quad Squad: A Miracle Unraveling | Part 7

[Aussiegal2017]

I can't believe they buy a box of donuts so big! That's obscene


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[amyisnewhere]

So, the picture that was just posted is a share from Loni Smith's FB photography page. Someone commented asking Loni where the dresses came from. Loni responded and said that Ashley does not remember where she bought the dresses. Hmmm, I smell a lie. Didn't she JUST buy those dresses specifically for this "summer" photo shoot? How can she not remember where she purchased them?? She is lying but I can't quite figure out why. Either it's because she doesn't want anyone to know how much she paid for them because they were ridiculously expensive or someone sent them to the girls but did not pay their "feature fee" so she refuses to say where they came from because we all know that shout outs don't come free!

I was incorrect in my earlier post, the one that I said looks evil is in fact Evie, not Scarlett, go figure. It is Scarlett on the end that looks ready to attack someone.

She got those dresses on Etsy. Someone posted a link to it on Facebook because Ashley "forgot" and you're right- She just doesn't want to give any free publicity. Strange how they're so entitled to everything for free but can't help anyone else out without a fee.

She's really become so smug and rude.

[Snarky Lady]

See Esme had the keys at the end opening the door then Evie comes along and then ass yabbers on , next shot Evie had what she wanted the keys .


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Ebbie's turn, Ebbie wants, Ebbie do it, Ebbie gets it The rest of the girls are saying I most of the time now.

[Abbiedownunder]

Agree with everyone on everything. Shoes, fancy taking kids to a playground in uncomfortable sandals which they've already pointed out hurt their feet. AS for taking them on a construction site, and as someone who used to work in the construction field, I can tell you that in Aus, if they were caught, they would be in big trouble. Do these people even think. All I could think of when the girls were running around in those slippers that all it needed was one nail or bolt sticking out from the ground and bingo, big injury. There's a reason tradies wear those big steel capped boots and it's not for looks.

My stomach literally did a flip when I saw those donuts. That is sheer neglect, I['m sorry, but it is. Then pizza and chips for lunch. I also noticed Evie, I think, eating nuggets. Their diapers must smell revolting. I also believe part of their development delay is because of their body not being able to process all the sugar in it. Just look at the donuts, the soft drink at lunch and the slushy thing at home. She puts about half a cup of syrup in their cups when they only need a teaspoon full. How can their little bodies process that.

Lastly, has anyone else noticed the girls don't communicate with each other. If you watch the Busby's the girls chatter away to each other and play with each other. These girls don't seem to do that at all. It's heartbreaking seeing them ignored by their parents and apart from today you never see A&T actually ask them questions and then wait for an answer.

One more lastly The girls are now looking ridiculous in diapers. They are no longer toddlers and they are going to have to work very hard at getting them out of them now. They are more than old enough to tell them when they need to go to the toilet.

Also, Tyler. STOP pulling them up by one arm. Their bones are still fragile you freak.

[snarksite]

Today's vlog.

The house tour was a joke. The girls couldn't have cared less. It was just a new place to run. Dangerous? Absolutely. But T$A have never been about what's best for their girls. It's just about exploiting them.

I enjoyed seeing the girls at the park. They appeared to enjoy themselves and were trying lots of new things.

The shoes, though. Two different environments and two different pairs of shoes. They actually changed the shoes between the house and the park. And none of the shoes were appropriate!

Do these parents have a problem with well fitting tennis shoes/sneakers? There are lots of"frilly girly" ones to choose from so what's the problem? The girls would be more stable and fall less. They would also be so much more comfortable in them!

Spend some of the take out food/donut/date night money on decent shoes for your kids.

T$A: If you insist your kids don't need preschool, then here are some tips.

1. Have them clean up by following directions (i.e. Esme pick up the blue blocks, Indie the red blocks, etc.). You will have to stay with them and encourage them to finish when they won't want to, but this isn't actually about cleaning up the toys. It's about teaching them to complete assigned tasks.

2. If you tell the kids you will take them outside after they clean up, AND they DO clean up, you take them outside. If the sprinklers are on, they go out a different door. Or, they get a little wet.
How do you ever expect them to trust you if you lie to them?

3. Put a stool at the bathroom sink and teach them to stand on it and wash up when they come in from outside or before they eat a meal. Teaches taking turns, and lowers the chances of illness.

Lots of other ideas, but that's a start.

Raising compassionate children with a good sense of self is hard work. More than any other "job" you will ever have. But the results are more than worth it.

So, T$A, it's up to you. Are you doing the best you possibly can for your miracles?
The best parents are always willing to do better.


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[Aussiegal2017]

Even the snow cones Evie gets hers first and Esme always last


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[amyisnewhere]

How can you feed your toddlers donuts every day and go out to eat every day?? I feel bad when my toddlers eat chick fill a too many times in one week.

And when she rudely stopped him from talking about the instant pot because it wasn't sponsored. They said they hadn't done a live feed in a while.... Wasn't there one last week?

[Snarky Lady]

Lastly, has anyone else noticed the girls don't communicate with each other. If you watch the Busby's the girls chatter away to each other and play with each other. These girls don't seem to do that at all. It's heartbreaking seeing them ignored by their parents and apart from today you never see A&T actually ask them questions and then wait for an answer.

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I have noticed that for a while. Not only do they not communicate with each other unless it is to take something away from the other they do not use their imagination. When they have a doll instead of sitting down feeding it a bottle, or rocking they put them in a cart and run up and down the hall way the same way they do everything.

In the Busby's last video, Adam was v'logging and two of the girls were at the window and he caught them talking to each other. I did not catch what they were saying but it was the absolute cutest moment ever. I have noticed they do that a lot with the girls. World of difference.

[tusky]

ok but why are they letting their kids run around in moccasins on a building site?

I'm really curious how Ashley is going to bond with those girls when they are older and don't bend to being cute objects. I think they are going to have a lot of tension

[Harkette]

Oh the Bingham video of hazyl being born was so sweet it just came up on YouTube . They seem so nice why do they want to be friends with the greedners


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I watched a Bingham vlog last night where they are filming with another blogging family. Branden says they reached out to the Gardners and it got them more viewers so he was doing the same for this blogger who reached out to him.

So, their relationship is all business and now I really wonder if the Bingham's paid T$A because when do they do anything nice for anyone?


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[Premmie101]

Finally caught up here. I've been AWOL for a while we just moved house and have been waiting for out Internet to be connected. Haven't watched any vlogs from Greedners, Binghams or Busby's for a week. No idea what I've missed there.
Just wanted to quickly say how sorry I am to Fudgenuts and hope Donits is feeling better.
I am one who got very upset with the spaz term as I am Aussie and do take offense especially as my daughter and granddaughter both prems have this to varying degrees. I do scroll on when I see this but I also call people out on it in real life. It's just unnecessary. And that's all I have to say on it for now.
I've missed you sissies and hopefully my Internet is fully setup tomorrow and I can get back to watching some vlogs and participating

[mia]

ok but why are they letting their kids run around in moccasins on a building site?

How unbelievably idiotic! There could be nails, staples, broken glass, splinters, sheetmetal shards, insulation, ... you name it! T$A get more views when they vlog their McMansion, so perhaps that is why they drag FTYOs to a construction site. Everything for a buck.

Which leads me to believe today's vlog is sponsored by Daylight Donuts and Olive Garden. Notice the sales pitches. That's probably why they got the large box of donuts and the girls had their own plates at lunch. Freebies!

[tusky]

So I couldn't make it all the way through the gardner vlog but i did watch the bingham vlog and it was interesting to hear kids learn about 9/11 (though i thought the title of the vlog was SUPER tacky), did the gardners discuss it at all?

[Aussiegal2017]

Anyone got a link to Ass old blog ?


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[mia]

Anyone got a link to Ass old blog ?

Enjoy!!!! (extra exclamation points)

https://ashandtys.blogspot.com

[Sneaky_snarky]

I remember when my twins first started wearing actual gym shoes/tennis shoes. I thought to myself "what a fat pain in the ass this is" when it took what felt like an eternity to shove their fat little feet into the shoes. It was an adjustment period for me, but guess what? I got over it lol. So my guess is they don't put gym shoes on them because it takes time and work to do that with FTYO almost F3YO.

So dumb to go to a house tour without proper shoes. That's asking for a nail through the foot.

Regarding the potty training, I read a book and followed a plan called "oh Crap! Potty training". Anyway, in that book she states that the ideal age to train is between 20-30 months of age. She said once you get beyond that age it's difficult. She also stresses not to wait until they are 3 as that's when they typically assert their own independence and can flat out refuse to do it.

Obviously there are endless methods or tips for potty training, but I am anxiously waiting to see if any of the theories I read about will ring true here. We all know they won't be potty trained by their 3rd birthday.


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[tusky]

Anyone got a link to Ass old blog ?

Enjoy!!!! (extra exclamation points)

https://ashandtys.blogspot.com

I'm dying at the graduation post "YAY I AM GRADUATED" are you sure ash?!

Also I was tyson ever attractive? whats the backstory there, he doesn't seem like ashley's type

[Jane]

The wheels are turning. Assley and Tyass think they captured gold tonight by Scarlett repeating "what gonna do" on camera. These are one of those moments that a child's parents would think is delightful, but other people aren't as impressed. They are wishing to go viral again. Remember when Assley posted that one of their older videos was going viral as we speak, but Youtube must've screwed up their viewing numbers suddenly because it wasn't featured anywhere. I felt pretty embarrassed for them that they're holding their breath, waiting to be cast into A-list vloggers with another viral sensation. I feel like Scarlett may have gotten her parents' hopes up tonight.

On the other hand, I felt bad for Scarlett. She got such a positive reaction from her parents, and their attention, which made her beam. She followed them into the other room and repeated the phrase, and was soon brushed off by both parents so they could advertise their pot on camera. Those girls must be so confused, wondering who the hell her parents are staring at and talking to with the vlogging stick. Whoever is watching, it comes before Scarlett getting more than 2 minutes of attention. She slunk back in with her sisters, having given up with Mom and Dad.

I feel like this makes the girls feel alienated by their mixed signals. How can they understand what the heck A$T are doing, who they are talking to, who gets their attention instead of them? They don't know what the internet is, or the realization that there's thousands of strangers, creepers some, psychos hopefully not, mostly old and lonesome women or teens lacking positive attention from their own parents -- well, watching them. Downloading their photos. Taking their pictures out in public. Discussing every thing about them, the constipation and bad teeth and big bellies and lack of skills. Their mom and dad, who they trust more than anybody in the whole wide world, is putting them all on display for any stranger to do as they wish. So freaking dangerous! And all this is happening so mom and dad don't have to get a real job.

Those girls are brushed off all the time so Ass and Tyass can look into their phone and say the girls' name but still give the phone more attention. That's what I hate most about the Greedners. And poor Esme, her heavy, sticky, stinky, itchy diaper sagging to her knees and all her momma is chasing her for is to fix her hair for her audience to enjoy. I have multiples. I love them so very, very much that I changed their diapers the moment they got wet. I didn't care if I changed their diaper 10 times an hour, that was my job. No, I don't spoil my girls. I just CARE ABOUT THEM and a little service from me, a diaper change, can make my daughters feel loved. It infuriates me that they can't keep up with their diapers because they are talking to some strangers online instead. I bet they get so many gift cards to Costco, that they never have to pay for diapers out of pocket. Even when they're free, the girls can't get their mom and dad to give them one.

Thanks for letting my vent, sissies. Remember, we are friends! We need each other.

Wow! Great post.

I cannot believe they are zipped into cages, all night and during a part of the day so they can't get up if they need to. My kids would not nap after 2 so I'm curious how these girls are sleeping so much? When my kids had enough of the crib they moved to a toddler bed. If our kids need something they come wake us up and we are there for them. It seems like it would be awful sit in dark room alone waiting for someone to come? It must feel like eternity. They are duct taped into diapers so they have to sit in their own urine and feces helpless to the discomfort until their power units change them.Their speech gets laughed at and discounted all the time.

Their mother decides what clothes they may or may not want them to wear. By this age my kids were picking out their own clothing and the random outfits, mis-matching patterns, colors (backward shirts sometimes) were so fun! I enjoy seeing my kids becoming themselves. When they were preschool aged went to story times at the library, dance classes, art classes, and 2 mornings a week to a preschool in the mountains where they could run and explore the world with other children.

At almost 3 these girls often have to crawl on tables and beg their parents for food. It seems to reinforce how little they matter as individual human beings. I feel for these girls and wonder if their growing desire for autonomy/individuality, but being held back for their parents needs is an awful sensation. It's really hard to watch. =(

[amyisnewhere]

She was 17 and in high school when they were planning their marriage. She was a month past 18 when she got married. She was obviously desperate to get married.

And what does that say about him? Seriously dating a 17 year old and planning a wedding with an underage girl? She probably had other suitors but none that were ready for marriage like Tyler was.

[Sneaky_snarky]

She was 17 and in high school when they were planning their marriage. She was a month past 18 when she got married. She was obviously desperate to get married.

And what does that say about him? Seriously dating a 17 year old and planning a wedding with an underage girl? She probably had other suitors but none that were ready for marriage like Tyler was.

They mentioned in a live feed once that she actually WAS seriously dating someone else prior to his proposal. I can't remember if it was an engagement or not.


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