OldCountry wrote:
As much as It looks like it is doomed, I just have this feeling there will be some kind of rescue. Don't know who or when,, there just has to be, hopefully soon. I can't imagine other people/family will let this continue, I don't care how much money they are making someone will step in and set them straight... Hopefully the damage that has been done will be taken care of and the girls will get the attention/therapies they need. I truly think that will happen, it has to..
I had hoped for a while someone would step in but I really don't think it's going to happen. T$A are the way they are because of how they were raised. Look at Tyson and look at his family. They're all grossly overweight so they don't know the first thing about being healthy or active. A$hley's parents are huge too and her dad eats condensed milk from a can for crying out loud so we know he doesn't have a clue. A$hley said she used to sit on the table/counter when she was little and she doesn't anymore so it's okay if her kids do it. It's obvious A$hley has always gotten whatever she wants when she wants it and she's raising her kids the same way. Anyone with half a brain would realize that type of upbringing/expectation is the reason she already has a bankruptcy under her belt. She has an incessant need for THINGS. She's training her children to have that same need for meaningless crap by giving them gifts every single day. Why would they be motivated to potty train those poor girls if Tuna (again, they have stupid nicknames because that's what the whole family does) is still in diapers and she's older than the girls? T$A are just continuing the Gardner/Weisenburger cycle because they're too stupid (despite how highly educated they claim to be) and too lazy to better themselves and break it.
When it comes to the girls' development/delays, my theory is everyone just keeps their mouths shut for fear of being cut off. We've seen Tyson when he's angry.. can you imagine his wrath if someone suggested his perfect miracles may need a little assistance? They'd never see those girls again. I'm also realizing why their family members agree to babysit so much: they jump at the chance to spend time with the girls WITHOUT T$A. I've said it before- A$hley's sisters never come over but when T$A come home after her parents have been babysitting, the entire family is there. If my sister was like A$hley constantly screeching, talking like a baby, and putting a camera in my face, I'd avoid her too. If my brother-in-law was anything like Tyson I'd stay far far away and keep my kids even farther away.
It's really sad to think this is the hand the girls have been dealt, but sadly I think this is it. Unfortunately when T$A got their miracles, the world got 4 more A$hleys.