Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
Continuing off of the Julie and Joel would make a great couple discussion on the other thread...
Opposites often attract for a reason. I believe that relationships need balance, and have seen many relationships go wrong because the couples were too similar (but also too different). Pair two passive partners and nothing gets done, and feelings are never expressed. Two lazy partners and there is no drive. If a relationship has two career driven partners, then often the relationship itself takes a backseat and becomes a business deal of its own. It's interesting how we often need a partner that challenges the way we see the world, and the ideals we grew up with. For example, my husband is incredibly frugal, whereas I'm more inclined to spend. Over the years he has learned to lighten up a bit and have some flexible spending, and I have learned to save more.
Specifically to Julie and Joel then, from what I've seen of them they are nurturers who want those around them to be happy and taken care of. Spouse, parents, children, etc. If Julie and Joel were both together they would spend all their time taking care of others, and not taking care of themselves. Joel wouldn't think to fulfill Julie's needs as he does Bonnie's because Julie wouldn't reveal she needed anything. Similarly, Julie with Joel. I think it could be a combination where both were struggling, and just never able to express that out of fear of disappointing the other and disrupting their happy home.
Opposites often attract for a reason. I believe that relationships need balance, and have seen many relationships go wrong because the couples were too similar (but also too different). Pair two passive partners and nothing gets done, and feelings are never expressed. Two lazy partners and there is no drive. If a relationship has two career driven partners, then often the relationship itself takes a backseat and becomes a business deal of its own. It's interesting how we often need a partner that challenges the way we see the world, and the ideals we grew up with. For example, my husband is incredibly frugal, whereas I'm more inclined to spend. Over the years he has learned to lighten up a bit and have some flexible spending, and I have learned to save more.
Specifically to Julie and Joel then, from what I've seen of them they are nurturers who want those around them to be happy and taken care of. Spouse, parents, children, etc. If Julie and Joel were both together they would spend all their time taking care of others, and not taking care of themselves. Joel wouldn't think to fulfill Julie's needs as he does Bonnie's because Julie wouldn't reveal she needed anything. Similarly, Julie with Joel. I think it could be a combination where both were struggling, and just never able to express that out of fear of disappointing the other and disrupting their happy home.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
^^^ came here to say the same thing. Haha
J&J's personalities may mesh well, but that's the type of pairing that would only thrive in friendship. In a marriage, there needs to be balance. Opposites definitely attract for a reason!
J&J's personalities may mesh well, but that's the type of pairing that would only thrive in friendship. In a marriage, there needs to be balance. Opposites definitely attract for a reason!
Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
Both of you are so right on everything! Good you ended the idea of them as a couple before the fantasies got a little bit out there
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This is a great point. I think Joel and Bonnie really balance each other out and adore each other. I could never EVER picture Joel and Julie together. I think Joel loves that Bonnie is a little firecrackerHelloSweetie wrote:Continuing off of the Julie and Joel would make a great couple discussion on the other thread...
Opposites often attract for a reason. I believe that relationships need balance, and have seen many relationships go wrong because the couples were too similar (but also too different). Pair two passive partners and nothing gets done, and feelings are never expressed. Two lazy partners and there is no drive. If a relationship has two career driven partners, then often the relationship itself takes a backseat and becomes a business deal of its own. It's interesting how we often need a partner that challenges the way we see the world, and the ideals we grew up with. For example, my husband is incredibly frugal, whereas I'm more inclined to spend. Over the years he has learned to lighten up a bit and have some flexible spending, and I have learned to save more.
Specifically to Julie and Joel then, from what I've seen of them they are nurturers who want those around them to be happy and taken care of. Spouse, parents, children, etc. If Julie and Joel were both together they would spend all their time taking care of others, and not taking care of themselves. Joel wouldn't think to fulfill Julie's needs as he does Bonnie's because Julie wouldn't reveal she needed anything. Similarly, Julie with Joel. I think it could be a combination where both were struggling, and just never able to express that out of fear of disappointing the other and disrupting their happy home.
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I haven't watched them in a while (or any vloggers really, been tired of youtube lately) can anyone explain what the new title is referencing?
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
Lincoln's attempt to say "backpack" - he almost got it right, lol. And he wore that backpack all day. He loves it, hahah. Quite endearing.Defuego wrote:I haven't watched them in a while (or any vloggers really, been tired of youtube lately) can anyone explain what the new title is referencing?
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Ehhhh. I like Bonnie a lot and I really love Joel, but I definitely did not need to hear him fart multiple times in today's vlog lol. Gross.
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I like the blooper videos but couldn't finish this one. By 30 secs it wad already driving me nuts because of the horrible editing. Bloopers are already random clips, there is no need to split each individual "blooper" into a bunch of 3 second clips and mix-and-match them. It was very confusing and annoying to watch, I had no idea what was happening.
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I thought the bloopers were funny at first and a nice addition every month but now they just show how often they refilm something and how set up some things are
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
Ive never been a fan of the bloopers, but Im not even going to try and watch todays. I have no desire to see a video of them farting.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
I hate how Bonnie makes 6 year old Cody out to be a wimp because he's scared to kill spiders, yet she's a grown woman and freaks out worse than him when it comes to spiders. Adult up and kill it yourself, or at the very least change your attitude so your child doesn't think he should be scared of spiders. When you act terrified in front of a 6 year old, they're going to feel the same way.
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These were actually the first bloopers I enjoyed, i laughed out loud multiple times. Especially at 7.13 when Lincoln inadvertently said ‘you bitch’
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Man, this thread has been dead lately. Haha *tumbleweed rolls by*
I just wanna put it out there that, while watching today's vlog, I realized how biased I am (duh) and had to laugh at myself for it. As I watched the clip where Bonnie and Julie bump mouths, I was thinking about how Bonnie is probably going to get hell for it here, and how I actually thought the clip was funny. But, then I imagined if Bonnie would've done the same thing with Ellie, how grossed out and irritated I would have been.
I just wanna put it out there that, while watching today's vlog, I realized how biased I am (duh) and had to laugh at myself for it. As I watched the clip where Bonnie and Julie bump mouths, I was thinking about how Bonnie is probably going to get hell for it here, and how I actually thought the clip was funny. But, then I imagined if Bonnie would've done the same thing with Ellie, how grossed out and irritated I would have been.
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It still was gross. I am very close to my sister but nope would never do that. I can laugh at bonnie and Julie though. I think they are just more likeable people. Now if Ruby and Ellie did that..........barf
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^ Haha I totally agree. It definitely was still gross, but I think the, "I feel so alive!" comment afterward is what made it funny.
Omg...Ruby & Ellie bumping mouths... *shudder*
Omg...Ruby & Ellie bumping mouths... *shudder*
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I can hear the screaming from Ellie already!Boredomatitsfinest wrote:^ Haha I totally agree. It definitely was still gross, but I think the, "I feel so alive!" comment afterward is what made it funny.
Omg...Ruby & Ellie bumping mouths... *shudder*
But I agree. I wasn't bothered by things like this from Ellie in the beginning either. For example, I used to think it was sweet how she'd kiss Jared, but now I can't help but honk she's trying to Hoover his face offer suck out his soul. I also used to think Jared was sweet and funny. I guess maybe it's a fine line between funny and obnoxious and after awhile you just start to get annoyed by the same things you used to think were amusing. It's like overusing a joke
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I agree about the short cuts on the blooper vlog. I would have preferred to have just seen the whole clip at one time. I also didn't need the farting, but I don't think I would have even realized that was what was happening if I hadn't read it here first. They should have just left that out. Not everyone finds potty humour that funny.
Lincoln saying "bitch" was just adorable though! I also like the little bloopers of the kids. Seeing them start over and set up some of their talks didn't bother me because it makes sense for sponsorships and things. I didn't feel we were seeing a change in personality between takes, so it didn't make me think they were being fake like Jared's famous playdate scene. I totally thought the thumbnail of Boston was Cody!
Lincoln saying "bitch" was just adorable though! I also like the little bloopers of the kids. Seeing them start over and set up some of their talks didn't bother me because it makes sense for sponsorships and things. I didn't feel we were seeing a change in personality between takes, so it didn't make me think they were being fake like Jared's famous playdate scene. I totally thought the thumbnail of Boston was Cody!
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Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13
I honestly love how much Bonnie laughs in vlogs. I think she has a lot of genuine joy in her life and can find happiness in the simplest of things. I also love her wheezy laugh because I laugh the same!
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