Rash & Justine: Asher the heir, Rueben the spare, and Emma- is she even there? | Part 29

[LisaLulu22]

(Hi, new here but very long time lurker)

Bit random and I know it's been said before, but it drives me super mad that those kids are constantly naked - I'm no parent but I'm pretty sure that clothing your kids is a pretty basic part of being a parent. And on the rare occasions when they are clothed, half the time it looks like they're wearing thermal underwear. Like, how can friends/relatives not say something? It's not normal!
At what age are they going to be like hmmm Emma's probably old enough now that she should probably wear clothes. Poor kid's going to be so confused when she's eventually wearing clothes all the time

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

[WhyAmIHere]

(Hi, new here but very long time lurker)

Bit random and I know it's been said before, but it drives me super mad that those kids are constantly naked - I'm no parent but I'm pretty sure that clothing your kids is a pretty basic part of being a parent. And on the rare occasions when they are clothed, half the time it looks like they're wearing thermal underwear. Like, how can friends/relatives not say something? It's not normal!
At what age are they going to be like hmmm Emma's probably old enough now that she should probably wear clothes. Poor kid's going to be so confused when she's eventually wearing clothes all the time

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Valid points, but then don't plaster your half naked kid on social media. It's very bizarre to me. I don't often take pictures of my child when they aren't fully clothed. And on the rare occasion I do, it's not something to really share with other people, and HECK no on posting that anywhere public.

[Ginatheninja]

Instead of buying Emma books about differences... why not just have friends who aren’t blonde hair and blue eyed? That’s the way to show their kids that they’re loving of everyone. All Emma will associate with are their three friends with 7 kids (how she raved about in the vlog) we know one couple is Kaylee and Patrick.


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This 100% if you want your kids to learn about diversity immerse them in it! All they have is white friends and live in a predominantly white neighborhood! Me and my husband bought a home in November and I was literally telling my mother in law I love our area because it’s so diverse.


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[Justpeachyy]

First time poster here, so bare with me please... I just have a few questions/ thoughts.

First, I wonder what happened between them and Justin’s sister? I mean, wouldn’t it look good for them right now to be hanging around kids that don’t look exactly the same as they all do? I believe that Lauren mentioned on her Instagram that Leo is half Mexican. They never see them anymore from the looks of it. Neither of them mentioned Lauren on her birthday or CJ on his birthday, I don’t even think they mentioned Leo on his birthday which is funny considering she “helped deliver him” and felt “such a strong bond.” And no mention of I believe his name is Aaron (Middle boy) for autism awareness day. They already have a diverse group just in that. I wonder what happened between them. Does anyone know???


I thought the anniversary seemed a little... odd? Not seemingly much of a connection between the two of them. More than anything I get the “roommate” vibes, not husband and wife. They seem stale. I wonder if they ever actually have fun together? It doesn’t seem that way but then again I haven’t watched every vlog. Doubt I’ve missed anything very loving between them though. When they do share the occasional kiss or sweet gesture etc that you would expect from a married couple, it seems pretty forced IMO.

I want to say last week or the week before they posted pics with Kaylee and her family and the kids all together— I guess they’re not social distancing now?— which I think is nice for Emma to at least get some interaction with others, but again I think it’s odd that they didn’t seem to go their own nephews birthday party just before that but can go see their friends. I remember Christian adored Emma. It seems very intentional to me. I’m just curious about what actually happened there, It might be the only interesting part of their otherwise uneventful lives.

One last thing.... I can’t handle the constant need to update everyone on the twins sleeping patterns. We get it, you have to wake up at night.

I normally just read but I doubt anything happened they have newborns and everyones on quarantine. His sister probably hasn't met them in person yet. Rachelle's sister probably hasn't met them in person yet. Justin's parents probably havent met them in person yet.

I'm actually proud of them and their restraint/keeping the boys in the house. I don't want to sound rude or cruel but they're kind of gross people. Super greasy hair and wearing the same 3 shirts in rotation.

If I'm being honest the boys probably have a better chance of catching something from her breastfeeding then covid-19

[Haulnarse]

First time poster here, so bare with me please... I just have a few questions/ thoughts.

First, I wonder what happened between them and Justin’s sister? I mean, wouldn’t it look good for them right now to be hanging around kids that don’t look exactly the same as they all do? I believe that Lauren mentioned on her Instagram that Leo is half Mexican. They never see them anymore from the looks of it. Neither of them mentioned Lauren on her birthday or CJ on his birthday, I don’t even think they mentioned Leo on his birthday which is funny considering she “helped deliver him” and felt “such a strong bond.” And no mention of I believe his name is Aaron (Middle boy) for autism awareness day. They already have a diverse group just in that. I wonder what happened between them. Does anyone know???


I thought the anniversary seemed a little... odd? Not seemingly much of a connection between the two of them. More than anything I get the “roommate” vibes, not husband and wife. They seem stale. I wonder if they ever actually have fun together? It doesn’t seem that way but then again I haven’t watched every vlog. Doubt I’ve missed anything very loving between them though. When they do share the occasional kiss or sweet gesture etc that you would expect from a married couple, it seems pretty forced IMO.

I want to say last week or the week before they posted pics with Kaylee and her family and the kids all together— I guess they’re not social distancing now?— which I think is nice for Emma to at least get some interaction with others, but again I think it’s odd that they didn’t seem to go their own nephews birthday party just before that but can go see their friends. I remember Christian adored Emma. It seems very intentional to me. I’m just curious about what actually happened there, It might be the only interesting part of their otherwise uneventful lives.

One last thing.... I can’t handle the constant need to update everyone on the twins sleeping patterns. We get it, you have to wake up at night.

I normally just read but I doubt anything happened they have newborns and everyones on quarantine. His sister probably hasn't met them in person yet. Rachelle's sister probably hasn't met them in person yet. Justin's parents probably havent met them in person yet.

I'm actually proud of them and their restraint/keeping the boys in the house. I don't want to sound rude or cruel but they're kind of gross people. Super greasy hair and wearing the same 3 shirts in rotation.

If I'm being honest the boys probably have a better chance of catching something from her breastfeeding then covid-19

This makes no sense.

Firstly kaylee burst her own bubble, that has her children and emergency services husband in it - all to watch emma cos Rash and Justin got caught out.

The her mom traveled from across the country to burst her bubble and theirs AGAIN.

They had a photographer come to the house.

Memorial day (?) they went to kaylee’s house.


Why havent the sisters seen the babies yet? Or justins parents?

In saying that, emma was like 8-10 weeks old when she finally met christian since he had had a cold

Justins sister seems to have dubious custody of her boys - one IG post the middle boy was in isolation with his father for weeks. Just odd.

[AliCat91]

(Hi, new here but very long time lurker)

Bit random and I know it's been said before, but it drives me super mad that those kids are constantly naked - I'm no parent but I'm pretty sure that clothing your kids is a pretty basic part of being a parent. And on the rare occasions when they are clothed, half the time it looks like they're wearing thermal underwear. Like, how can friends/relatives not say something? It's not normal!
At what age are they going to be like hmmm Emma's probably old enough now that she should probably wear clothes. Poor kid's going to be so confused when she's eventually wearing clothes all the time

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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[mikanai]

(Hi, new here but very long time lurker)

Bit random and I know it's been said before, but it drives me super mad that those kids are constantly naked - I'm no parent but I'm pretty sure that clothing your kids is a pretty basic part of being a parent. And on the rare occasions when they are clothed, half the time it looks like they're wearing thermal underwear. Like, how can friends/relatives not say something? It's not normal!
At what age are they going to be like hmmm Emma's probably old enough now that she should probably wear clothes. Poor kid's going to be so confused when she's eventually wearing clothes all the time

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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I see no problem with naked kids running around the house. It only becomes a problem once a parent films it and posts for thousands of strangers to see.


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[chattydragon]

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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I see no problem with naked kids running around the house. It only becomes a problem once a parent films it and posts for thousands of strangers to see.

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This is kinda what I mean, there are some times it 100% makes sense to be unclothed in the house (e.g. messy painting) but it's literally most of the time - including at friends' houses and on the internet for strangers to see. That just seems inappropriate to me.
Although, on second thoughts, maybe Emma is rejecting wearing those ridiculous clothes Rash dresses her in and that's why she's always naked haha

[Sunshineee9]

(Hi, new here but very long time lurker)

Bit random and I know it's been said before, but it drives me super mad that those kids are constantly naked - I'm no parent but I'm pretty sure that clothing your kids is a pretty basic part of being a parent. And on the rare occasions when they are clothed, half the time it looks like they're wearing thermal underwear. Like, how can friends/relatives not say something? It's not normal!
At what age are they going to be like hmmm Emma's probably old enough now that she should probably wear clothes. Poor kid's going to be so confused when she's eventually wearing clothes all the time

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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It's definitely not. I was a nanny and also worked in childcare. The kids I worked with were always dresses.

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[LisaLulu22]

I don't normally defend them but as a mom I know how annoying it is to constantly dress and re-dress kids all freaking day. If it's warm enough for them to just be in a diaper (we typically do diaper and shirt) then go for it. Plus for toddlers it's basically impossible to keep a kid in clothes. Walk into the kitchen to get them a snack, come back 30 seconds later and you've got a fully naked kid who will instantly throw a tantrum when you try to re-dress them. I don't know about you but a kid screaming at the top of their lungs multiple times a day isn't something I want to hear. Tantrums/naked time is totally developmental and normal. If the boys were under 4 weeks then I would have an issue with it cause they would still be working on regulating their temperature, but they should be better at that now and it seems like she generally had a blanket over them or had them swaddled without clothes so it's fine

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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It's definitely not. I was a nanny and also worked in childcare. The kids I worked with were always dresses.

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Sorry but you cannot compare babysitting, where children don't push boundaries to parenting.

I do however agree with the filming situation.. I would never post my children without clothing on.

[Sunshineee9]

Is it hard to keep toddlers dressed?

I have a 5yo girl and a 3yo boy, born wear clothes all the time. They have never run around in just nappies. Maybe I’m different!


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It's definitely not. I was a nanny and also worked in childcare. The kids I worked with were always dresses.

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Sorry but you cannot compare babysitting, where children don't push boundaries to parenting.

I do however agree with the filming situation.. I would never post my children without clothing on.

I spent more time with those children than their parents. I was there 7 days a week from the time they got up to an hour before they went to bed. It wasn't just babysitting.

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[Mammababe111]

She really needs to quit it with the twins looking good in their colors. She has said it a million times already and in every vlog and it’s so damn annoying. It just goes back to when she constantly talked about what Emma was obsessed with. She should be more focused on Emma’s color pallet and wardrobe

[Dani_465]

She really needs to quit it with the twins looking good in their colors. She has said it a million times already and in every vlog and it’s so damn annoying. It just goes back to when she constantly talked about what Emma was obsessed with. She should be more focused on Emma’s color pallet and wardrobe

Trashy is too stupid to realize the same colors that look good on the boys look best on Emma.

[spicy_dreams]

At the start of the anniversary vlog Justin plopped himself down on the bed right where one of the babies was sleeping, and Rachelle says something like "wow be careful _____ is right there." And she has to fucking reach over the bed to pull the baby away and fix his head because it's bent all the way backwards (he was on his side). Justin doesn't seem to give a shit. Then a few minutes later Rachelle has to fix him again because he's slid back into the black hole that is Justin's lazy butt on the edge of the bed. Once again Justin doesn't make any effort to help the baby himself. Like Jesus dude, they're still so little, you can't be that careless!

And I thought it was awful when Justin said "it feels like 20 with you" after Rachelle said that they'd been married for 6 years. What a mean thing to say when your wife brings up your anniversary! This is what I'm talking about with this asshole, his whole sense of humour is being mean under the guise of sarcasm. You know he means it tho. Rachelle ignored it but did some hardcore weird face touching/rubbing so you know it bothered her. They both try so hard to make it look like he's this sweet thoughtful husband but he does nothing but treat her like crap and laugh in her face. Any nice gestures he actually does is nothing but performative, I guarantee there's nothing nice he does that doesn't get publicised.

And agree about how flimsy that whole racism conservation was. 100% was just because that's what they thought the audience expected. Justin crying was fucking gross. The guy is emotionally devoid and emalthetically deficient, there's no way those were real tears. Either way, THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE EMOTIONS OF WHITE PEOPLE. If they don't understand that, they are not properly educating themselves on how to be an ally. Do not fucking start blubbering into your vlog camera. Donate money, sign petitions, find out how you can directly help in your area. Volunteer at homeless shelters for example. But don't make this about yourself. And y'all hear about performative activism? This is the lazy douchebag family vlogger version of that.

You can tell Rachelle was very uncomfortable with that portion of the vlog. She would NOT stop slapping the fuck out of the baby's back (I forget who she was holding) with her giant man hands. It was like a nervous tick at that point lol.

[mikanai]

Trashy's bias toward Asher is so obvious and upsetting.
She always talks about how he looks good in stuff
She always holds Asher if she can
She trashed Reuben for not loving tummy time and posted how cute Asher was for falling asleep on his tummy.

What a narcissistic psycho. She likes him more because she looks like her ugly self.

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[mahamilton]

Nothing irritates me more in vlogs than Rachelle aggressively showing grocery/clothing hauls. Calm down with the hands girl!

[hatinghannah]

Let’s be honest, Justine was crying at the end of that vlog because he can’t get high, eat, and play video games all night anymore. Now his wife makes him go to bed at 9pm and wake up all throughout the night with 2 babies


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[chattydragon]

Yeah 6 years of marriage should not feel like 20 - that's not a good sign for their future
I'm the same age as them and I cannot imagine having already been married for 6 years, they are at such a different stage of life from most people their age.
I can imagine them getting more and more resentful of each other as the years go by as they realise they have nothing outside of their marriage and children.

[Dani_465]

I’ll add one how about not posting about how to be anti-racist. Just no words... yet this is missing have diversity in your friend circle. So you don’t post stupid shit like this.

[Maite5]

Let’s be honest, Justine was crying at the end of that vlog because he can’t get high, eat, and play video games all night anymore. Now his wife makes him go to bed at 9pm and wake up all throughout the night with 2 babies


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Hahahahahaha


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