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SoNotOverIt wrote: did you have two kids with him within 3 years of you guys dating? There’s a lot of stress added onto there relationship. They have never really lived with each other alone (without kids), they never even had the time to get to know each other inside there relationship and being young does have a huge factor into fighting(I’m not validating their argument). So it’s a bit of a stretch to compare your relationship to theirs.
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Doesn't matter if they have 0, 2, or 12 kids. I'd dump his ass if he constantly treated me like shit (as Kyra literally said herself). There's no justifying their behaviors. Not a stretch to compare their relationship to mine either considering I'm not married, living with my bf, and started dating each other quickly after first meeting. I will never see how people are okay with their s/o belittling them, calling them swear words, and LITERALLY THREATENING THEM. Call me crazy!
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Not sure why you keep fighting with me when I clearly stated I’m not validating there argument and I still haven’t, but I will state this no one should compare their relationship to someone else’s because everyone’s relationships are different. I feel like if kyra and Oscar want to work things out and have a healthy relationship they should explore couple’s therapy and therapy separately. I also do want to mention mental or physical abuse is never okay, and there are lots of relationships where the woman stays with a man who is physically/mentally abusing them and it’s not something that’s easy to walk away from because in there mind they think they need them. But we saw 30 seconds of kyra and Oscar fighting we don’t know if they get physical or not, we don’t know the severity of their fights or not.
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All I'm going to say is that just because you say "I'm not validating this" doesn't mean that your previous comments didn't literally validate the argument lol. You can't list a bunch of supposed excuses/potential causes of the fight, but then say you're not validating it. PS, don't comment here if you can't tolerate someone replying back to you, literally only 2 times, with a different opinion.
why did the whole “the fight was about kyra getting alaya’s ears pierced” start bc you can see in her snaps that they aren’t or was that just speculation?
I hope they acknowledge the fact that Kyra *accidentally* went live during a very dramatic, and over exaggerated fight that rarely happens between them. I feel like them not even saying "yes it happened, we won't discuss details, but we've worked it out" is so much worse than playing cool. I do feel bad, though, that their dirty laundry was aired out. Hopefully their fights aren't always this tough, but sadly it wouldn't come as a shock to me
murtmagurt wrote:It sounds to me like she got another tattoo after he "asked her not to" and that's what the whole thing is about...
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I really hope he is not making a big deal about a tattoo AGAIN. Kyra is literally doing everything for their family while Oscar does what? Sleep, play video games and complain?
I'm just catching up and watched the video. Sorry to be that person but it was a little triggering for me. I lived it before and it made me very concerned for her. It made me feel sick.
They'll probably take a break but it's sad if you think about it because all they have right now is YouTube. They don't have regular jobs to bring money in so it's like they have no choice but to keep recording the fake bullshit that we've been seeing.
Idk what else to say. I'm just really sad for the whole situation.
I think they should just make a video talking about it but obviously not with all the details instead of just ignoring it and playing it cool when a lot of people saw and the rumor mill starting .
workinprogress wrote:I hope they acknowledge the fact that Kyra *accidentally* went live during a very dramatic, and over exaggerated fight that rarely happens between them. I feel like them not even saying "yes it happened, we won't discuss details, but we've worked it out" is so much worse than playing cool. I do feel bad, though, that their dirty laundry was aired out. Hopefully their fights aren't always this tough, but sadly it wouldn't come as a shock to me
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I think they should at least mention it even if they don't want to go deep into the details. it's already out there, people have seen it, and letting people assume and make up their own stories behind what was going on is worse than them just explaining themselves. They may not owe anyone an explanation, but I think it's in their best interest to tell people what happened since it's already out there (even if they lie about what it was about lol).
sheebz wrote:why did the whole “the fight was about kyra getting alaya’s ears pierced” start bc you can see in her snaps that they aren’t or was that just speculation?
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I think someone on IG commented about that, then someone here said "a bug buddy commented this on Kyra's pic...", which someone else here interpreted as "Kyra got Alaya's ears pierced". I think it was like a bad game of telephone bc you can never truly express what you mean via internet lol
workinprogress wrote:I hope they acknowledge the fact that Kyra *accidentally* went live during a very dramatic, and over exaggerated fight that rarely happens between them. I feel like them not even saying "yes it happened, we won't discuss details, but we've worked it out" is so much worse than playing cool. I do feel bad, though, that their dirty laundry was aired out. Hopefully their fights aren't always this tough, but sadly it wouldn't come as a shock to me
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I agree I would be so embarrassed, I am sure all of us here would not want our private arguments to be made public. I think they should just acknowledge the incident in the vlog and give the viewers some comfort since many of them are so concerned about the situation.
workinprogress wrote:I hope they acknowledge the fact that Kyra *accidentally* went live during a very dramatic, and over exaggerated fight that rarely happens between them. I feel like them not even saying "yes it happened, we won't discuss details, but we've worked it out" is so much worse than playing cool. I do feel bad, though, that their dirty laundry was aired out. Hopefully their fights aren't always this tough, but sadly it wouldn't come as a shock to me
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Ok me reading this back, it makes like no sense (it's 11:57 and I'm exhausted, sorry). BASICALLY I think ignoring it is worse than acknowledging it!!
I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
workinprogress wrote:I hope they acknowledge the fact that Kyra *accidentally* went live during a very dramatic, and over exaggerated fight that rarely happens between them. I feel like them not even saying "yes it happened, we won't discuss details, but we've worked it out" is so much worse than playing cool. I do feel bad, though, that their dirty laundry was aired out. Hopefully their fights aren't always this tough, but sadly it wouldn't come as a shock to me
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Ok me reading this back, it makes like no sense (it's 11:57 and I'm exhausted, sorry). BASICALLY I think ignoring it is worse than acknowledging it!!
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I understood, and I feel you lol. this thread has been so active tonight that I don't feel like I've made much sense at all or expressed things the way I've wanted because I'm trying to type faster than other replies are coming in. I feel like some of what I've said has came across differently than I meant.
ohanapanda wrote:I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
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Well I think that’s bullshit and there’s no excuse for anyone to think they can control their SO like that.
ohanapanda wrote:I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
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I agree but he has to understand that Kyra is not a Hispanic woman, hell I am and I don't agree with the "macho" ideals Hispanic culture endures.
ohanapanda wrote:I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
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I agree but he has to understand that Kyra is not a Hispanic woman, hell I am and I don't agree with the "macho" ideals Hispanic culture endures.
I don’t agree either how it is. And so many Hispanic women and non Hispanic women take that bs ? Like you know that thing they say about Dominican men and how they cheat on every girl until they find the right girl ? People act like that’s okay
ohanapanda wrote:I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
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Well I think that’s bullshit and there’s no excuse for anyone to think they can control their SO like that.
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Unfortunately that’s part of their culture . It’s not right and it should be changed
Why is everyone forgetting what we've been saying about Oscar for months? that he treats Kyra like shit. That there are weird marks in the walls like he's punched them. That he seems angry at her for the tiniest things. The way he treats Kyra is NOT NORMAL. Kyra's not perfect but she's come really far these past few months and the things he said to her are not okay. Their relationship is unhealthy and she needs to get out or it will just get worse.
ohanapanda wrote:I would say that it’s common for the women to do everything for the Hispanic male ( not all Hispanic male are the same ofc ) but it’s very common for that to happen . They also like to dictate everything and control everything that their women does also . Not all but it’s common. My bf tries it with me but doesn’t work . His dad does it to his mom too
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I agree but he has to understand that Kyra is not a Hispanic woman, hell I am and I don't agree with the "macho" ideals Hispanic culture endures.
I don’t agree either how it is. And so many Hispanic women and non Hispanic women take that bs ? Like you know that thing they say about Dominican men and how they cheat on every girl until they find the right girl ? People act like that’s okay
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It is ridiculous, the worst part is that women including their mothers play along with these detrimental ideals.
