C&K - Boss Babies Part #15

[askeptichere]

I thought the Beth part of yesterday's vlog was really cute. It seemed like Gaines was really into finding toys that she didn't play with anymore and understood that they would go to kids that would appreciate them. BUT. And I really hate to have a "but" for this. BUT then they cut the footage and Katie says they decide to give half to Britany for the kids to play with, and of course Britany's soon-to-be future babies. They should have done that separate from this lesson they were trying to teach Gaines. It sort of defeated the purpose of what I thought they were trying to teach her.

And I don't know how I feel about Katie telling everyone that they decided to donate 2 $100 gift cards to the JK giveaway. Was this the first time we have heard about this giveaway from C&K? If they want to promote her sister's channel, great. If they want to contribute to a giveaway for people in need, great. But I thought it was a little weird that they chose to share they donated $200 after the giveaway was already over, and JK had not only provided 2 $100 GC, but then also 2 additional $100 GC to help 2 more families.

I know YTers doing charity work or doing good deeds is a touchy subject because sharing it seems like asking for ass pats, and not sharing makes them seem like they don't care. But Cullen and Katie rarely will do a giveaway unless it's sponsored and they don't have to use any of their own $$$. Who knows. Maybe she decided to share after the fact so that only JK subscribers would be able to enter. It just felt a little icky to me.

[Playsinrain]

They really do rule the roost. And I know that they struggled to have successful pregnancies, and the kids were very wanted. But that doesn't mean that you have to turn your life over to the children so that they know how wanted they are. It's a disservice to them. It's how people like Missy and Ellie are made.
That whole scene in the car with Grandberry and the books just showed exactly how much Gaines especially runs things. They have given up on the "put your hand on my arm when you have something to say", and just let her yell "Hey guys!" Or just sit there in her car seat yelling until they put the camera on her. Vlogging is a weird way to grow up. And maybe I am cynical, but I would bet serious money she dropped her books on purpose. They were in her lap, and then as soon as Grandberry went to pay attention to Brooks, they were on the floor. Then instead of telling her to wait her turn, it was all about how Gaines needs help! I know I mentioned it before, but it's just such a perfect example. That and the list of things that have to be done by Katie, in order, or Gaines won't go to bed.
I'm personally torn about the ball pit. They haven't been rushing to furnish that room, and at least the kids do play in it. It's better than dumping out an entire box of Cheerios to throw Gaines in.

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I totally see eye to eye with you on the kids and how they drop everything to cater to them. I’ve said it before but I feel like they totally think Bc they wanted these children so badly and they struggled so hard to get the where they are now... they honestly think that not being 100% attentive to those kids 100% of the time that they are with them is somehow saying they aren’t as loved or not as wanted. That is also one reason why I think we have MDO (although I’m a huge fan of it and I’m not saying the kids shouldn’t be going), grandolly day and now aunt Britney day. I honestly think that they think that any time around the kids should be solely devoted to the kids. And that if they need to do work or things where they need the kid preoccupied, then they need to get the kids away from them. While I think it’s great they are that devoted and love their kids so much that they WANT to cater to their every single need, TheirMom (I think it was you lol) said it best. They need to teach these kids how to be bored. They need to be able to entertain themselves. Which makes things like the ball pit ok I’m my eyes Bc I think they play in it every day pretty much. It’s a GREAT way for those kids to entertain themselves
I totally agree that MG with the books in the car was her showing out Bc Brooks was getting attention. But I thought that the tone and the things they said to her made it pretty clear that they knew it too. At one point someone said “maybe brooks can hold on to those books better and not throw them in the floor”. Idk how they dealt with the situation Bc they didn’t show that but I thought all the adults involved acted like they totally knew that she was doing it for attention.

[Playsinrain]

I thought the Beth part of yesterday's vlog was really cute. It seemed like Gaines was really into finding toys that she didn't play with anymore and understood that they would go to kids that would appreciate them. BUT. And I really hate to have a "but" for this. BUT then they cut the footage and Katie says they decide to give half to Britany for the kids to play with, and of course Britany's soon-to-be future babies. They should have done that separate from this lesson they were trying to teach Gaines. It sort of defeated the purpose of what I thought they were trying to teach her.

And I don't know how I feel about Katie telling everyone that they decided to donate 2 $100 gift cards to the JK giveaway. Was this the first time we have heard about this giveaway from C&K? If they want to promote her sister's channel, great. If they want to contribute to a giveaway for people in need, great. But I thought it was a little weird that they chose to share they donated $200 after the giveaway was already over, and JK had not only provided 2 $100 GC, but then also 2 additional $100 GC to help 2 more families.

I know YTers doing charity work or doing good deeds is a touchy subject because sharing it seems like asking for ass pats, and not sharing makes them seem like they don't care. But Cullen and Katie rarely will do a giveaway unless it's sponsored and they don't have to use any of their own $$$. Who knows. Maybe she decided to share after the fact so that only JK subscribers would be able to enter. It just felt a little icky to me.

I loved the toy donation part of the vlog. I’m really hoping that they decided to donate more toys than they are taking to Britney, but I also get what Katie was saying when she was explaining it. Kelley handed down a LOT of toys to brooks and Gaines. And I think it’s a perfectly fine idea to do the same with Britney (since they are pushing babies so hard. Ugh) and what I hoped happened was that a lot of the toys going to Britney were ones that were already hand me downs. I hope that the donate pile is much bigger than the Britney pile though.

The way I took the GC money was that they wanted to help with some of the people that shared hardships with JK. I get what you mean that it made it sound like an afterthought, but maybe they were moved by some of the stories and wanted to help those people specifically instead of opening the floodgates for more “competition” by doing it on their channel..

[Playsinrain]

Gaines and her story about the ice cream making yesterday was ADORABLE. it’s things like that that make me realize that Grandolly days really are good for her. She took a lot away from that experience. I remember baking with my grandmother and I cherish those memories.
Always comparing but can anyone here imagine Ollie telling a detailed story like that?? B&m never let Ollie have an independent thought. Everything is always just “good” or completely scripted. They really are stunting that child.

[lmmomSD]

They really do rule the roost. And I know that they struggled to have successful pregnancies, and the kids were very wanted. But that doesn't mean that you have to turn your life over to the children so that they know how wanted they are. It's a disservice to them. It's how people like Missy and Ellie are made.
That whole scene in the car with Grandberry and the books just showed exactly how much Gaines especially runs things. They have given up on the "put your hand on my arm when you have something to say", and just let her yell "Hey guys!" Or just sit there in her car seat yelling until they put the camera on her. Vlogging is a weird way to grow up. And maybe I am cynical, but I would bet serious money she dropped her books on purpose. They were in her lap, and then as soon as Grandberry went to pay attention to Brooks, they were on the floor. Then instead of telling her to wait her turn, it was all about how Gaines needs help! I know I mentioned it before, but it's just such a perfect example. That and the list of things that have to be done by Katie, in order, or Gaines won't go to bed.
I'm personally torn about the ball pit. They haven't been rushing to furnish that room, and at least the kids do play in it. It's better than dumping out an entire box of Cheerios to throw Gaines in.

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I totally see eye to eye with you on the kids and how they drop everything to cater to them. I’ve said it before but I feel like they totally think Bc they wanted these children so badly and they struggled so hard to get the where they are now... they honestly think that not being 100% attentive to those kids 100% of the time that they are with them is somehow saying they aren’t as loved or not as wanted. That is also one reason why I think we have MDO (although I’m a huge fan of it and I’m not saying the kids shouldn’t be going), grandolly day and now aunt Britney day. I honestly think that they think that any time around the kids should be solely devoted to the kids. And that if they need to do work or things where they need the kid preoccupied, then they need to get the kids away from them. While I think it’s great they are that devoted and love their kids so much that they WANT to cater to their every single need, TheirMom (I think it was you lol) said it best. They need to teach these kids how to be bored. They need to be able to entertain themselves. Which makes things like the ball pit ok I’m my eyes Bc I think they play in it every day pretty much. It’s a GREAT way for those kids to entertain themselves
I totally agree that MG with the books in the car was her showing out Bc Brooks was getting attention. But I thought that the tone and the things they said to her made it pretty clear that they knew it too. At one point someone said “maybe brooks can hold on to those books better and not throw them in the floor”. Idk how they dealt with the situation Bc they didn’t show that but I thought all the adults involved acted like they totally knew that she was doing it for attention.

I think we are right-- that since they struggled with the losses and wanted Gaines especially (I don't mean more than Brooks-- just that she was the "rainbow baby" for lack of a better word.) that they think they have to appreciate EVERY single moment. It's not healthy for anyone. Theirnom is right that they need to learn how to handle being bored. Life isn't about always being catered to. That could be the cause of some of Gaines' occasional acting out in school-- she gets catered to at home. We're such good armchair shrinks, lol.
Anyway, it's just such a disservice to the kids. Just like Bryan and Missy giving Finn and Ollie everything material they could desire, but not _real_ quality time where they're engaged, boundaries, or discipline. These kids are all growing up with such a warped sense of self. And what's sad is that they all seem to think they're the best parents ever. I know Katie expresses doubt, so maybe there's hope. Because it's been my experience that good parents worry about being good parents.

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[RootBeerFloatie]

I think it's wonderful that the kids get the experience and structure of MDO and the memories of spending time with their Aunt and Grandmother. I don't have an issue with those things at all, more that CK are constantly talking about how hectic and busy their lives are as two stay at home parents who have at least two days a week without their kids. Not to mention there's two of them and one could be watching the kids while the other gets things done. It's honestly infuriating to watch them bitch and moan when they live the world's easiest, most privileged lifestyle imaginable.

[RootBeerFloatie]

I also agree with whomever mentioned Gaines being just as spoiled (if not more) as Oliver. A lot of people think Ollie is on the path to being a spoiled bully but I think he is going to grow up very shy and anxious because he doesn't have a good grasp on friendships or appropriate social interactions. I don't think he'll enjoy the camera or spotlight that YouTube has put on him. Gaines, on the other hand, is at risk of turning into your typical princess spoiled brat. She gets everything she wants as soon as she wants it and everyone is at her beck and call. The YouTube attention will only make that worse.

[ewokfan11]

Dang, that Pendleton blanket Ellie and Jared sent them was $250! Do these YTers really spend that kind of $$$ on presents for friends or do they re-gift items that were sent them for free??? Missy and Bryan also spent a lot on their friends Kelsey and Corbin - probably $500+.

It seems weird to spend that much on people who are more YT friends than actual REAL friends. Or maybe they are just showing off for the vlogs.

[lmmomSD]

Dang, that Pendleton blanket Ellie and Jared sent them was $250! Do these YTers really spend that kind of $$$ on presents for friends or do they re-gift items that were sent them for free??? Missy and Bryan also spent a lot on their friends Kelsey and Corbin - probably $500+.

It seems weird to spend that much on people who are more YT friends than actual REAL friends. Or maybe they are just showing off for the vlogs.

I think it's showing off for the vlogs. Bryan and Missy loooove to show off. So do E&J. And it's tacky showing the gifts your friends sent you like that. They don't have to thank them publicly on the vlogs.

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[lmmomSD]

If anyone has any doubts about whether or not those children rule that house, Cullen just posted an instastory of the kids still up. Gaines is jumping up and down on him. He's laughing and saying "Santa's not coming!"
Number 1: it is after 1:30 AM where they are. On Christmas Eve. Why are the kids still up? Much less jumping up and down on Cullen and acting like little hellions? Even with the excitement of Christmas, most kids do get to bed at a decent hour on Christmas Eve.
Number 2: You don't make threats you can't follow through on. You don't say things like "If you don't come now, I'm leaving you at the store". And you don't say "Santa's not coming". Because he is. Katie knows that. It's such a basic tenet of child psychology. If you make threats you can't follow through on, the kids don't respect you or believe you mean what you say.

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[lmmomSD]

Too late to edit-- Brooks is also jumping up and down on Cullen. So he just _happened_ to have his phone in hand to film this spontaneous act of the kids jumping on him?
Staging behavior that they would normally discipline the kids for, for social media. Way to send your kids mixed signals!

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[lmmomSD]

So, looking at Cullen's IG when they have the Elf in the pantry-- there's a lot of junk in there. No wonder they are struggling with losing weight. None of them need cheese balls or M&Ms.

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[lmmomSD]

I guess I am the only one here today... I had to work, so they didn't have much to do besides say Merry Christmas to customers and play on my phone.

Merry Christmas, everyone! Or whatever you celebrate. Hope it was wonderful.

And Britany and Cullen are upholding the tradition of getting drunk on Christmas and posting inappropriate pictures! Yay! In the next picture, you can see Gaines. Great.[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201712 ... c4179e.jpg[/img]

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[Scar2016]

If anyone has any doubts about whether or not those children rule that house, Cullen just posted an instastory of the kids still up. Gaines is jumping up and down on him. He's laughing and saying "Santa's not coming!"
Number 1: it is after 1:30 AM where they are. On Christmas Eve. Why are the kids still up? Much less jumping up and down on Cullen and acting like little hellions? Even with the excitement of Christmas, most kids do get to bed at a decent hour on Christmas Eve.
Number 2: You don't make threats you can't follow through on. You don't say things like "If you don't come now, I'm leaving you at the store". And you don't say "Santa's not coming". Because he is. Katie knows that. It's such a basic tenet of child psychology. If you make threats you can't follow through on, the kids don't respect you or believe you mean what you say.
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Answer 1: Because Cullen wants to get steaming drunk and doesn't want an early alarm kid call. And Katie, for once (due to Cullen never getting up with the kids first), wants a lie in.

Answer 2: Because Cullen is cranially challenged, especially in all things pertaining to logic. There's no other way to slice it, Katie married downwards; intellectually, aspirationally and socially. I have been noticing Gaines's lack of respect seeping through the last couple of months and it's only going to get worse with the mixed signals (Cullen speak: It's needed for 'fun' vlog footage) and not being consistent/nipping it in the bud. I don't blame Gaines for behaviour.

[lmmomSD]

Did anyone watch the Livestream?

They lost some subscribers again yesterday. The thumbnail looked like Corbin and Britany drunk and having "fun". Which is fine, in their own home. Not judging them for getting a buzz on on Christmas. But I don't think others want to watch it.

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[Theirmom]

There's no other way to slice it, Katie married downwards; intellectually, aspirationally and socially.

Katie’s not intelligent, she’s “book-smart”. She’s not aspirational, she is opportunistic. She’s not social, she was well-connected due to her parents, but otherwise, was as much of a party girl as Cullen.

She’s not wise, mature or classy. She lacks poise and self control. She’s always been gaudy and unconcerned with appropriate behaviour in public. She didn’t “marry down”. She was a spoiled rich kid who married her personality equal.

[lmmomSD]

I think she and Grandberry are actually a lot alike. I like Grandberry, though. I think I like her because she is what she is-- a "good ole gal". She doesn't pretend to be anything else. The difference between her and Katie is that Katie wants to be a party girl and a good ole gal like Grandberry, but also wants the high society, monogrammed, country club life. So both styles seem put on.

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[askeptichere]

There's no other way to slice it, Katie married downwards; intellectually, aspirationally and socially.

Katie’s not intelligent, she’s “book-smart”. She’s not aspirational, she is opportunistic. She’s not social, she was well-connected due to her parents, but otherwise, was as much of a party girl as Cullen.

She’s not wise, mature or classy. She lacks poise and self control. She’s always been gaudy and unconcerned with appropriate behaviour in public. She didn’t “marry down”. She was a spoiled rich kid who married her personality equal.

[auntasaurus19]

I am no prude and am not easily offended...

Did anyone see Cullen's latest Instagram post about all of his "ho's" being under one roof... and the pictures are of Katie, his MOTHER, Emma, and his sisters. WTF?

That is disgusting.

[lmmomSD]

I am no prude and am not easily offended...

Did anyone see Cullen's latest Instagram post about all of his "ho's" being under one roof... and the pictures are of Katie, his MOTHER, Emma, and his sisters. WTF?

That is disgusting.

He has no filter. He really should stay off social media when he's buzzed. Especially including Emma in that.

And all the comments are "oh, Cullen, you're so funny!"
Ewwww.

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