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sasha186 wrote: Fri Mar 01, 2019 11:09 am
ewokfan11 wrote: Fri Mar 01, 2019 10:35 am
jmoysa wrote: Fri Mar 01, 2019 9:59 am Where does it say that they sold 100 shirts? I find that hard to believe.
It's on the t-shirt website. They are at 102.

https://www.bonfire.com/be-where-your-feet-are-2/

As for the doctor stuff, why don't they just have a normal family doctor?? I don't know how their insurance works, but we are required to use a primary care physician and get referrals from that doctor. Also, my primary care physician takes care of most things, including ordering blood tests (even more in-depth tests), doing "annual exams" and he and his nurse practitioners are available to answer questions or fill a prescription via email usually within just a couple hours. Plus, all of my medical info is then available to me online—a system Kelsey's midwife obviously didn't have.

Her story was also confusing. She said she would see the same OB/GYN when she was in high school? Maybe Idaho is different, but I think you can get your "annual exam" and birth control, etc. from your regular doctor. Then she said it would take months to get in to that doctor so she just looked for any OB/GYN covered by her insurance?! Why not try the primary care physician? It would certainly be faster and probably also cheaper than seeing a specialist without any real information. Plus, once you've seen your regular doctor they can definitely help you see the doctors you need to see.

I think they are exaggerating things (as usual) or they are really not very smart and could be wasting a ton of time and money.
[Personal] Hmmm, I don't know - I have a GP that I only see for a physical once every few years or if I am sick with something that is not lady-parts related. I don't think my GP would perform a pelvic exam unless it was an emergency of some kind. I go to my OBGYN for pretty much everything else, including the hormone testing that I needed this year when I went off birth control and had extremely irregular cycles (I had already been tentatively diagnosed with PCOS years ago, so they were quick to get me in and start testing). I assumed this was the normal way to do it, but I guess it could depend on your insurance (I'm in MD, for reference). I'm also guessing they probably don't have a local GP since they just moved, and most adults that I know don't go to the doctor very regularly.

Anyway, my point is that that part of their story doesn't seem confusing to me, but agree wholeheartedly that they are probably wasting time and money, and literally 15 minutes worth of reading reputable websites on the internet could probably send them in the right direction in terms of what kind of care and testing she needs.
Maybe it does depend on where you live/insurance (I live in FL). I like using my primary care physician because it really keeps things organized, plus—like I mentioned—referrals are easy to get and schedule through my PCP's office system. It sounds like Kelsey is making more work for herself the route she's going.

They'd be smart to at least find a doctor they can all see if they need to. It wouldn't kill Kelsey or Corbin to get a routine annual physical. I even thought most insurance companies make you chose a PCP. Does June even have a pediatrician? They technically moved back to Idaho last August, so they aren't exactly new there. They just aren't very organized and don't really plan ahead.

In reality, I think they are just dragging this whole thing out for clickbait and views. If she wanted to see a doctor she could. She doesn't even seem to know the actual results of her last test. She doesn't seem to take advice. As much as she SAYS she wants another baby, she's certainly dragging her feet about taking this seriously.
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Oh good lord it's so tempting to tell them my assumptions about them.

I assume you guys don't want to get a job.
I assume you mooch off of your parents.
I assume you literally do nothing 95% of the day.
I assume the rest of the day is spent sending out emails begging for sponsors.
I assume you both pout, A LOT, if you don't get your way.
I assume kelsey just lays there like a dead cat during sex because her husband smells and has bad breath. "just get it over with."

OK I'm done. I could go on all night!

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I am so tired of their click bait

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All I could think of watching today's video was that Corbin's hair looks like overgrown pubes. Does he know how bad he looks?

I am starting to think Kelsey is already pregnant. Her face looks so much fuller than even a few months ago. She also appears to be hiding her stomach area more lately.
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ewokfan11 wrote:All I could think of watching today's video was that Corbin's hair looks like overgrown pubes. Does he know how bad he looks?

I am starting to think Kelsey is already pregnant. Her face looks so much fuller than even a few months ago. She also appears to be hiding her stomach area more lately.

Funny you should say that... I was thinking the exact same thing. When they were sitting at the table she definitely looked like she could be. Also the comment about “maybe adding to our family before the end of the year”. That’d be possible if she was already pregnant.

I also get the impression June is giving them a run for their $$$. When Kelsey was talking about her sauerkraut there was someone else there talking. It looked like they’d been to the market, so I would assume they had to have someone come over to watch June since she’s such a “toddler”! How many times does that idiot have to say that?

I don’t buy his “I’m so happy now” unless she is pregnant.


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If Kelsey is already pregnant and even starting to show, wouldn't she have to at least be approaching her second trimester? If so, they would have been successful in their first or second month trying, and have been hardcore lying in the vlogs for months. I really don't want to believe they'd stoop THAT low. Plus, how would they explain it? The mysterious pregnancy that midwives and doctors missed with their inferior technology and tools?
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jmoysa wrote: Sat Mar 02, 2019 7:46 am When they were sitting at the table she definitely looked like she could be. Also the comment about “maybe adding to our family before the end of the year”. That’d be possible if she was already pregnant.
I noticed that too. If she's not pregnant by now then they are running out of time to have a 2019 baby. They didn't announce being pregnant with June until about 12 weeks (I think), so my bet is she's pregnant and they are waiting to announce...and using all the clickbait they can.

fossilfinger: Carlie Butler lied and lied and lied about being infertile while pregnant. These YTers lie about everything.
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Why is their dog in a diaper?


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scojacar wrote: Sat Mar 02, 2019 8:28 am Why is their dog in a diaper?
He's like 13 years old and can't hold it anymore.
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Yup. I'm definitely leaning toward her being pregnant and they'll string this along as long as possible. I don't think I'll be able to watch 9 whole months of pregnancy and clickbait "IS THE BABY COMING TODAY?!!" videos. The fact that Corbin said something like how much things have changed, but how much they're about to change. Why would you say that if you aren't aleady pregnant? Well, they sure have had quite the infertility battle. My heart goes out to them.

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Yeah, she definitely looks pregnant now. Her face especially. Maybe she got bigger faster because it's her second pregnancy? We also haven't seen her drinking in awhile.

Did I miss why they were dressed in costumes? No one else was.
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I'm sure it's been said here already, but does anyone find it weird that kelsey has 76,000 followers on Instagram, and she can't even get 20 comments most times? I don't follow a lot of people on Instagram, but is that unusual for that size of a following? It seems crazy to me....UNLESS you were buying followers. I wish Instagram would crack down on that shit. What a scam. These people will stop at nothing to not get real jobs.

And I can't figure out this possible pregnancy thing. I was thinking that they had found out she was pregnant in the "our family is changing" video. I assumed she took a test on that day, and got a positive. But it did look a little questionable that she might have a little pooch already in today's vlog. I wouldn't normally say that about a woman, but she's pretty slim and doesn't seem like she normally has a tummy. If she's already been pregnant for a while, I just can't fathom how anyone could lie and insinuate infertility while knowing you're pregnant. I guess it's possible (Carlie).

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ewokfan11 wrote:Yeah, she definitely looks pregnant now. Her face especially. Maybe she got bigger faster because it's her second pregnancy? We also haven't seen her drinking in awhile.

Did I miss why they were dressed in costumes? No one else was.
Didn’t she drink champagne the night they moved into their new house? That was just a couple weeks ago. Maybe she didn’t know yet at that point. Of course a sip or two of champagne won’t hurt anything so who knows.


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fossilfinger wrote: Sat Mar 02, 2019 7:52 am If Kelsey is already pregnant and even starting to show, wouldn't she have to at least be approaching her second trimester? If so, they would have been successful in their first or second month trying, and have been hardcore lying in the vlogs for months. I really don't want to believe they'd stoop THAT low. Plus, how would they explain it? The mysterious pregnancy that midwives and doctors missed with their inferior technology and tools?
I agree. She probably wouldn't be far enough along at this point to be showing or "look" pregnant, even for a second pregnancy. I personally don't see any difference in her face, but that's just me. Low progesterone and endocrine disorders can definitely lead to weight gain and water retention. They would have to be lying about A LOT for her to be showing/close to 12 weeks pregnant and that will be hard to explain.

And I know that every pregnancy is different, but the first trimester for me (and a lot of women) is so exhausting. I worked out 4 days a week for years and by the time I was 6 weeks pregnant (two weeks after my missed period) I was feeling the extreme fatigue women talk about. I'm lucky if I can manage to walk a couple miles and do a yoga workout in a week. I couldn't fathom running 9 miles (something Kelsey mentions in today's video) or training for a half marathon. Your progesterone is sky high and that makes you tired for no reason. This can also lead to low blood pressure and low blood sugar. If she gets pregnant, I would be very surprised if she continues training.

I took the "welcoming our second baby" in 2019 comment to just be more self delusion on Kelsey's part because she's desperately hoping she's pregnant now despite her unwillingness to take a pregnancy test. She's admitted that every time she "thinks" she "might" be pregnant, she looks up the astrological sign. They teased getting pregnant in Hawaii even though it was their first month trying. She was convinced she was pregnant at the end of December/beginning of January because of "implantation spotting." The midwife clearly agreed to see her to address the "irregular bleeding," not because the midwife thought she could be pregnant. Kelsey was getting negative pregnancy tests. But they milked that appointment and acted like the midwife should have done a freakin pelvic exam and ultrasound. Her and Corbin joked before the midwife gave them the results of her progesterone test that they were nervous because maybe she was going to tell them that Kelsey was pregnant. They're either lying through their teeth and she's already pregnant, or she's just desperate for a second pregnancy and grasping at straws. I personally think all of the "journey to second baby" and "our family is changing" titles are click bait mixed with a heavy dose of wishful thinking.
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HashtagBlessed wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 1:29 pm I couldn't fathom running 9 miles (something Kelsey mentions in today's video) or training for a half marathon.
You have to remember they never SHOW her doing anything—including running 9 miles. The reason I think her face looking puffy is a sign is because she looks like she's been barfing a lot and that's what happens to your face. Wasn't she also super nauseous with June???

Her boobs also look a lot fuller than usual. I'm not body-shaming her at all. It just looks like she's pregnant.
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Oops, too late to edit. Also, they never said they would announce right away, so they'd totally have to lie about it for 9-10 weeks. They definitely hid the pregnancy the first time, but no one was expecting it back then.
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ewokfan11 wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 2:12 pm Oops, too late to edit. Also, they never said they would announce right away, so they'd totally have to lie about it for 9-10 weeks. They definitely hid the pregnancy the first time, but no one was expecting it back then.
They wouldn't have to actually lie about it. They could just not mention it. Most YouTubers who have any shred of decency would not actively perpetuate the lie that they were struggling with fertility and making doctors' appointments because they were concerned about not getting pregnant if they were already pregnant, they would just keep their mouths shut. Not saying you're wrong; they very well could be lying through their teeth about this for money, but if they are, I will never be able to watch one of their videos again (even though I use AdBlock, I just couldn't give them those clicks), even though I really want to watch this trainwreck. That would be incredibly insensitive of them, not only toward their audience, but also just in the fact that they're using their unborn baby for such a sick, twisted purpose for the sake of money.

Also, they put up their pregnancy announcement video on August 1, 2016, which was when Kelsey was only about eight weeks pregnant, so they didn't wait very long to announce it after they found out.
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Maybe they are waiting to announce the pregnancy at this "big" birthday party for June??? Kelsey grandparents are apparently flying in from Maryland for it. I could see them hiding it until then.
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If she is pregnant and they’ve been lying about infertility it could very well be the death of their channel. A lot of their viewers are already complaining about click bait infertility titles and the unnecessary use of infertility in the first place. If they’re lying a lot of their viewers are going to be (rightfully) angry. They don’t have the views to sustain a large group leaving.
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FakingIt_MakingIt wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2019 3:16 pm If she is pregnant and they’ve been lying about infertility it could very well be the death of their channel. A lot of their viewers are already complaining about click bait infertility titles and the unnecessary use of infertility in the first place. If they’re lying a lot of their viewers are going to be (rightfully) angry. They don’t have the views to sustain a large group leaving.
Well...they'll just say they were hiding it until they wanted to announce. They haven't really said they are "trying" recently. They said they are trying to make appointments.

All YTers lies about stuff like this. I mentioned Carlie Butler because she blatantly lied about being infertile WHILE pregnant. The bar is set really low when it comes to YTers being honest.
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