MesssFam: Disney Trips And Etsy Shit (Part 110)

[tabii0223]

Does Jess really believe that Easter is sometimes in March??? She said the twins birthday is 2 days before easter this year and sometimes it’s on easter


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Easter can fall in March also


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[peylizt192]

I was just watching the video where she is showing the outfits for the twins party.

And I’m white myself, but I’m sorry white people dabbing is the cringiest thing ever, especially white kids. It’s old to, I haven’t seen someone dab in awhile. I would never let my kids dab, let alone buying them shirts with animals dabbing.


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They’re like what 6? Let kids be kids

[peylizt192]

Sorry for the double post, but I definitely think she tries to express Gabe and it’s just odd. I don’t blame her though, he seems to be a better father then Chris and drake are. And this may be a unpopular opinion, but I think he is the most attractive out of the three of them.

Does anyone know why they broke up?


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They drifted apart. Makes sense because they dated for 4 years of high school and people change a shit ton during that period

[peylizt192]

Wtf is dabbing? Ugh guess I'll have to actually go watch the vlog...

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It’s a dance move

[Captain Smooth]

Totally agree!! I definitely don’t care if they make any money. They could do it the old fashion way and EARN it!!!


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Jess does earn it; YTMDers just don't like the way she earns her money. It takes her several hours a day to record and edit in order to pump out a few vlogs a week. Chris's role in the marriage is to run interference with the kids so she can do it. Youtube brings in good money for families that can grow their channel. If I condemn Jess for doing this, do I condemn the parents who vlog their child's cancer treatment to make money to get better care? Do I condemn the family who vlogs their autistic child? ( and they now make enough for both parents to stay home, do youtube and care for their child.) It's not a choice I would make but there are far worse ways to make a living (i.e. being a drug executive and raising the price for epi-pens to the point where nobody can afford them!)

Of course it takes work to do Youtube, I never doubted that. Though, doing Youtube fulltime and use it as an excuse not to get further education is what's annoying me. I know Jess is not alone in this, many Yts do that. I don't know what's going on behind the scenes, maybe their management keeps encouraging Yotubers to devote every free minute to the videos. Stupid idea, when the bosses up in headquaters restrict what content is allowed and what isn't and suddenly your only source of income is gone.

I would say it depends on the reason you make videos of your children. If they're informative, like videos about asd, cancer treatment (though only if the child agrees to be filmed), developement process, or even simple things, like experiments, or homework, then fine, go ahead. Filming your children in the bathtub, or while breastfeeding, or holding a camera into their face as soon as they wake up, is a different matter. But of course many Yt-Moms need that content, otherwise their videos would pool around the 6 minute mark.

There is tons of material Jess could use, without having to film her children all the time. The thing is, she's not the kind of person who does anything, besides trying to get sponsorships, so she can take that money and throw it out the window for something stupid. Tons of content about food (if she would cook), or organise laundry for 5 children (if she would do that regularly), or cleaning a house with that many people inside (if she wouldn't think about hiring a maid), or recommendations about the furniture they got. Tipps and tricks abut doing homework with stubborn children, research about speechproblems (two of her children had a problem at some point), what kind of healthy diet she's trying to set for herself to get into shape, something about what she found out about her operation....etc. There is so much stuff that could be interesting material for other Moms, or Moms-to-be, where her children don't need to be involved all the time.

[Newmomma]

I was just watching the video where she is showing the outfits for the twins party.

And I’m white myself, but I’m sorry white people dabbing is the cringiest thing ever, especially white kids. It’s old to, I haven’t seen someone dab in awhile. I would never let my kids dab, let alone buying them shirts with animals dabbing.


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What has color of the skin got to do with a dance move?

[Princesskris77]

Just remember prostitution is making money too... but it doesn’t mean it’s a good living


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[Britxo]

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[Jwhite_momof4]

I'm uncomfortable with the idea of the stay-at-home spouse having to get permission from the working spouse to buy things. Having said that, I can't imagine anyone in a healthy relationship making such a huge purchase without consulting their partner. Did she say that he just went out and bought it without telling her, or that she said no and he did it anyway? I feel like those are different things.

Personal but I think it depends on the couple really. My hubby works, I stay at home. A few years ago we had a joint checking account and it was that way for many years. We always fought about money and I suck at managing money, I make impulse purchases etc....I'm just bad with money.
Now he has a checking account on his own and I dont. I don't carry a debit card or anything. If o need something, I tell him and he gives me money.
It works for us....now we have money stacked back in savings and we pretty much never right about money.
Having said that..... If he wants to buy somethinh big....he does talk to me about it first, which I appreciate.
I'm just awful with money. So it's necessary for us.

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[missy-1010]

I was just watching the video where she is showing the outfits for the twins party.

And I’m white myself, but I’m sorry white people dabbing is the cringiest thing ever, especially white kids. It’s old to, I haven’t seen someone dab in awhile. I would never let my kids dab, let alone buying them shirts with animals dabbing.


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What has color of the skin got to do with a dance move?

Stop


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[izziebelle13]

Going back to the whole 'Lilla's an unfortunate looking kid', its most definitely an awkward stage and you can see this through Avia Butler (Princesstard) from the Shaytards channel. Avia was filmed for the whole of her life and she wasn't always the prettiest girl, she had awkward hair cuts, a strange fashion taste, bushy eyebrows and an overbite. Since they've come back to Youtube, shes a year older and looks gorgeous, she wears co-coordinating clothes, has braces, wears light makeup, tames her eyebrows and just has matured overall. Just like Lilla, her genetics aren't anything special so I think that Lillia will be a gorgeous teenager she just needs to mature which shouldn't be happening at the moment as shes only 7!

[peylizt192]

Going back to the whole 'Lilla's an unfortunate looking kid', its most definitely an awkward stage and you can see this through Avia Butler (Princesstard) from the Shaytards channel. Avia was filmed for the whole of her life and she wasn't always the prettiest girl, she had awkward hair cuts, a strange fashion taste, bushy eyebrows and an overbite. Since they've come back to Youtube, shes a year older and looks gorgeous, she wears co-coordinating clothes, has braces, wears light makeup, tames her eyebrows and just has matured overall. Just like Lilla, her genetics aren't anything special so I think that Lillia will be a gorgeous teenager she just needs to mature which shouldn't be happening at the moment as shes only 7!

I was JUST about to bring up the Shaytards return lol

[peylizt192]

Going back to the whole 'Lilla's an unfortunate looking kid', its most definitely an awkward stage and you can see this through Avia Butler (Princesstard) from the Shaytards channel. Avia was filmed for the whole of her life and she wasn't always the prettiest girl, she had awkward hair cuts, a strange fashion taste, bushy eyebrows and an overbite. Since they've come back to Youtube, shes a year older and looks gorgeous, she wears co-coordinating clothes, has braces, wears light makeup, tames her eyebrows and just has matured overall. Just like Lilla, her genetics aren't anything special so I think that Lillia will be a gorgeous teenager she just needs to mature which shouldn't be happening at the moment as shes only 7!

I was JUST about to bring up the Shaytards return lol

[kalakala]

Does Jess really believe that Easter is sometimes in March??? She said the twins birthday is 2 days before easter this year and sometimes it’s on easter


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Easter can fall in March also


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Good Friday is in March this year

[KittyKax]

Going back to the whole 'Lilla's an unfortunate looking kid', its most definitely an awkward stage and you can see this through Avia Butler (Princesstard) from the Shaytards channel. Avia was filmed for the whole of her life and she wasn't always the prettiest girl, she had awkward hair cuts, a strange fashion taste, bushy eyebrows and an overbite. Since they've come back to Youtube, shes a year older and looks gorgeous, she wears co-coordinating clothes, has braces, wears light makeup, tames her eyebrows and just has matured overall. Just like Lilla, her genetics aren't anything special so I think that Lillia will be a gorgeous teenager she just needs to mature which shouldn't be happening at the moment as shes only 7!

I'll say as someone who was a very unfortunate looking child, puberty was the best thing to ever happen to me.

[charmed596]

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BRING BACK BOWS IM BEGGING U JESS

Or give ur child’s hair a break but I know that won’t happen

[waitwhat]

Totally agree!! I definitely don’t care if they make any money. They could do it the old fashion way and EARN it!!!


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Jess does earn it; YTMDers just don't like the way she earns her money. It takes her several hours a day to record and edit in order to pump out a few vlogs a week. Chris's role in the marriage is to run interference with the kids so she can do it. Youtube brings in good money for families that can grow their channel. If I condemn Jess for doing this, do I condemn the parents who vlog their child's cancer treatment to make money to get better care? Do I condemn the family who vlogs their autistic child? ( and they now make enough for both parents to stay home, do youtube and care for their child.) It's not a choice I would make but there are far worse ways to make a living (i.e. being a drug executive and raising the price for epi-pens to the point where nobody can afford them!)

Some of us are not as cool as you are with such online exposure(I will refrain from using stronger language) of a minor's image (they will eventually pass laws for this as they have for child actors, I'm sure, it's just a slow process unfortunately). These kids' privacy and sometimes even safety is out the window (everyone can easily find out where the jessfam kids live, go to school, go to extra school stuff), their image is probably downloaded and saved onto creepy websites(god forbid some creeper becomes obsessed and fixated on one of them) and their peers will soon know aaaall about their messy family life(divorces, cheating scandals, messy house, multiple step siblings, deadbeat dad, step dad knife incident, you name it) and school will probably suck because of that. All so Jess won't have to get an actual job that doesn't involve putting the kids online in such an invasive manner. Also, to answer your question no, I don't think it's ok for the cancer parents or the ASD kid parents either. I've witnessed parents first hand stuggling to stay afloat during their child's cancer treatment, yet they managed to do so without putting the kid online. Same with ASD parents. I will concede that it depends on the nature of the videos(how invasive they are) and whether the child is old enough and of sound mental state to consent (both those conditions at the same time). Finally, I want to point out that the situations you are comparing aren't the same. Jess is a healthy woman with healthy kids and a family support system who has nothing stopping her from having a real job. A child with ASD means at least one parent is usually forced to stay at home, same in the case of a child with cancer and the expenses in both cases are quite high. While I may be reluctant to condone it, I can see where they are coming from and I am hesitant to be as harsh as I am towards Jess. Sorry for the long message but the way you said "YTMDers just don't like the way she earns her money." makes it sound like she works in IT and we're bitching "why doesn't she work in retail instead".

[waitwhat]

Just my 2 cents regarding Jess and Chris and the money: I don't think Jess cares so much that Chris is mooching off because she doesn't know what actually hard worked money are so she doesn't appreciate it. When your income is filming your kids eating and editing a few hours, a few times a week, you're more likely to throw money at Target every day than when the money comes from 8-12 hours(or more) of serious work every day.

Also, even if she would care that Chris is mooching off, she wouldn't dump him I'm sure. Things with Drake were different. She dumped Drake when she had one kid with another guy and twins on the way, because he cheated and she didn't have much back then.Gabe dropped her and so did Drake the second time around. Now she'd have to dump a guy and be stuck with 5 kids, 3 baby daddies(3 different custody situations, courts, child support etc) and the guy would probably get (as someone pointed out) half of what she has plus maybe alimony. I just think she'd be hesitant and would more likely close her eyes at Chris' spending and call it a day.

[nineteenninety3]

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Christ that is not a good look. She looks like those middle aged women in Vegas who spend all their time at the slots.

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[doggo]

Wtf is dabbing? Ugh guess I'll have to actually go watch the vlog...

It’s an arm gesture Cam Newton started. He’s a Qb for the Panthers. It’s out of date. Her kids are obsessed with it and all look dumb doing it.

All the 2nd - 5th graders that I know still dab. It's very cringey but most of their trends (Logan Paul, etc) are to me. They don't know any better lol.