GQS: Bitches, stitches & pull-up britches | Part 68

[GA Peach70]

So I was thinking (dangerous, I know), I’ve never been diagnosed with or claimed to have been diagnosed with OCD and I am not a germaphobe. But if someone was really OCD and a germaphobe, would they really be able to eat out all the time (even order take out), be willing to stay in hotels, go to a public swimming pool, or even a gym?

Wouldn’t all those trigger his OCD since he’s not in control of the situation? And I couldn’t imagine a real germaphobe being able to do a lot in public at all.

I haven’t been diagnosed with OCD and I don’t think I am but then again maybe I am slightly? I want my home to be clean, tidy, things put away, and organized which I think most people do. Obviously not all, look at the greedy Greedturds. I do check to make sure things are turned off or are unplugged several times before leaving. I don’t have a routine that I do every time I leave the house. I don’t need to have canned goods alphabetized but they all need to be facing forwards grouped with like ones together. For example, green beans together, peas together, corn together, etc. The same goes for my fridge, all of my body lotions, and body sprays. Everything has to be facing forward. The clothes that are hung up on hangers all have to be facing the same way in the closet. I can’t go to bed if there is laundry in the dryer. It all has to be washed, dried, and put away the same day. I don’t like things on the counters or dirty dishes in the sink or on the counters. I sweep/vacuum every single day. I make my bed every single day even if I am sick or having a fibro flare just to unmake it and get back in it. To me I’m a germaphobe. I try to not ever stay at a hotel. If I absolutely have no other choice and I have to then I make sure I take my own blankets and pillows. I refuse to even touch any the bedding on a hotel bed. My blanket is always big enough so I can lay on half of it and fold the other half over me and use it as my cover. I sleep in pajama pants, a t-shirt, and socks. My body can’t touch anything except my blanket that I brought from home. It doesn’t matter how expensive the room is. We’ve stayed in hotels before that cost over $600 a night that were beautiful. I still did the same things. I lay towels/wash clothes down in the shower so my feet don’t touch the bottom of the tub/shower. I also put towels down on the bathroom floor so I don’t walk on the bathroom floor with bare feet the entire time I’m there. I wear socks all the other time I’m in my hotel room. I will not use any of their cups or ice buckets if they have them. I will always ask for a straw for my drink when eating out. I won’t put my mouth on the cups/glasses. I haven’t gotten to the point of taking my own silverware yet but we hardly ever go out to eat because I know what kinds of things that go on behind the scenes at restaurants, no matter how good or expensive they may be. The few times that we do go, I try so hard not to think about it, even though it is very difficult, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to eat my food. When we do travel and stay with friends and family I will only stay with people that I know that keep their homes extremely clean. I know, what a snob. Even then I still do the same things I do at a hotel. I hate sleeping anywhere except my own bed or showering anywhere but my own home. I refuse to swim in a public pool. There is nothing that could make me get in one, sadly not even my grandchildren. I will not use a locker room and walk around there barefooted. I won’t go to a water park. I won’t go to the movie theater as well. I refuse to sit in a booth at a restaurant. It has to be a regular table. It feels so disgusting and dirty to me. I’m not trying to make light of anyone that has anxiety, my daughter suffers from it terribly and is on medication for it, or compare what happens to me when we do eat out or stay at a hotel but in my own way I do have anxiety about it. We do travel frequently to see family and friends. We try to stay with our children as much as we possibly can. They all are like I am unfortunately and they know how I am about staying places so they make my stay as comfortable for me as possible. I don’t see how Porky can say he is OCD. I started watching this shit show shortly after they brought the girls home. Asswipe used to say Porky was OCD when she would sit on her ass while he cleaned up the kitchen after he cooked dinner or whatever. I always thought to myself no, that’s just what people do after they make a mess. I figured princess didn’t know how to do that since mommy and daddy did everything for her growing up. When she says he has OCD I want to bitch slap her. She is making light of others who suffer from it and it pisses me off. Of course that’s her self diagnosing once again. Sorry for such a long post about myself. I’m sure since the Greedturds read here, they’ll claim that they do these things too.


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[GA Peach70]

So I was thinking (dangerous, I know), I’ve never been diagnosed with or claimed to have been diagnosed with OCD and I am not a germaphobe. But if someone was really OCD and a germaphobe, would they really be able to eat out all the time (even order take out), be willing to stay in hotels, go to a public swimming pool, or even a gym?

Wouldn’t all those trigger his OCD since he’s not in control of the situation? And I couldn’t imagine a real germaphobe being able to do a lot in public at all.

I have OCD and while germs are not a problem for me, general cleanliness is.
Eating out is a nightmare to the point where I rarely do it. The table has to be immaculately clean. I inspect the seats - not obviously, but I do it - and it wouldn’t be unusual for me to swap seats with whoever I’m with until I find one I’m happy with. Sometimes my husband would clean my seat. Sometimes I even ask for a different table. My family all quietly wait for me to choose my seat before they sit.
I don’t really like to touch menus, and I will check the cutlery out pretty thoroughly. I don’t drink to the bottom of a glass so I can be sure any residue that might have been in the glass doesn’t pass to me. I know that’s not necessarily going to work but it’s my routine and I do it. I’m also really weird about things like dust on surfaces in restaurants, or people sitting around me. I would die if the Gardners were sitting next to me!
It generally causes me such stress that I avoid doing it.
As for staying over in hotels or Air BnBs etc - that’s a complete no go atm. In the past I have taken all my own crockery, plates, cups, anti-bacterial wipes, pillow cases etc. I won’t sit on the seats unless they are covered with clean sheets or towels. If we were somewhere warm, eating on the balcony was preferable to eating indoors. I won’t put things in or take them out of hotel or apartment fridges. I won’t cook a meal in the oven. I can reluctantly drink something from the fridge in my own cup or glass, as long as I don’t see the inside of the fridge.
I am lucky in recent years that my sister has lived in a variety of different countries, so before I became ill I always stayed with her. I still took my own cup etc and don’t put it in her cupboard. I won’t even have a cup of tea in my mother’s house which is spotlessly clean because her cups are quite old!
When I was very ill in hospital last year, I nearly went mad because the nurses in ICU put all of my stuff in the bedside locker. My family had to take it all away and bring new stuff and the staff put a sign on the locker to say nothing had to be put in it unless it was double-bagged first, because it was causing me so much anxiety. They really were very understanding.
They talk about Tyson and his need for cleanliness but I don’t see any real signs of it with him - even the way he eats the girls food. I never could have done that, even though I love my children.
I couldn’t stand how dirty their house appears to be and I don’t even really class cleanliness as one of my major issues. If you asked me if it was a problem for me, I’d probably say it wasn’t. It’s only when I write it down that I realise it is.


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That’s another thing for me. I can’t put my clothes in a dresser in a hotel if we stay at one. I will live out of my suitcase. I won’t unpack any of my things at hospitals either. I keep them in my bag.


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[gram3]

On Bison's IG he posts one of the cats with a Halloween mask on going into Trash's bedroom where Trash is shockingly - lounging on the bed. I wonder if AshyNan got a rare day off and Trash can't take the stress and had to take to her bed. Whoever had the idea to add music to every IG picture/story - fail. It is annoying, obnoxious and irritating. Just like the Dumbsters.

[Haulnarse]

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430pm wheres samlame?

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[DownTheRabbitHole]

A huge thank you and my complete respect to all of our incredible SISsies who have just openly shared with us the details of your OCD and the impact it has on your lives. The only way we as a society can destigmatise issues around mental health, that sadly still exists to some degree, is for courageous people like yourselves to speak up and to share your experiences. As a society we still have some work and education to do to reach a point where mental health conditions are viewed in the exact same way as physical health conditions. Thank you dear SISsies for trusting us and helping us to understand a little more of what it’s like to live with OCD by sharing the details with us. I can only imagine what an insult it must be to you all when the Greedners so casually and incorrectly use the term OCD in reference to Byson.

[DownTheRabbitHole]

430pm wheres samlame?

If she has an ounce of common sense she found an opportunity to escape and made a run for it without looking back. My guess is she’s gone out with NotARealNanny and Trash is in bed sulking cause they didn’t invite her to go with them.

[UnicornSnark]

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He claimed recently that his Fizz is not soda. It’s some sort of water with raspberry something Sure it is....

*note- I can’t remember where he claimed this and I have no desire to go back and look. I also think he’s 100% lying.


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[Alexandra4dreams]

430pm wheres samlame?

If she has an ounce of common sense she found an opportunity to escape and made a run for it without looking back. My guess is she’s gone out with NotARealNanny and Trash is in bed sulking cause they didn’t invite her to go with them.

Doesn't it look like someone might be in bed with her? To the right, looks like someone in dark clothing. Maybe she was invited to sleep in the master bed with fatso and the whore. Or maybe fatso got kicked to the guest room and samlame is having a sleep party with trash.

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[GreenEyedWitch]

A huge thank you and my complete respect to all of our incredible SISsies who have just openly shared with us the details of your OCD and the impact it has on your lives. The only way we as a society can destigmatise issues around mental health, that sadly still exists to some degree, is for courageous people like yourselves to speak up and to share your experiences. As a society we still have some work and education to do to reach a point where mental health conditions are viewed in the exact same way as physical health conditions. Thank you dear SISsies for trusting us and helping us to understand a little more of what it’s like to live with OCD by sharing the details with us. I can only imagine what an insult it must be to you all when the Greedners so casually and incorrectly use the term OCD in reference to Byson.

Yes! Thank you all! I didn’t intend my post to blow up like that! It is quite interesting hearing (reading) your stories, as insensitive as that might sound. Again, I don’t have OCD, so this has opened my eyes A LOT! And I agree, whole heartedly, mental illness should be viewed the same as physical illness.

I have mild depression, generalized anxiety, and (I would say severe) social anxiety. I understand how mental illness sucks and I hate when people use it as a way to garner attention, especially when they don’t suffer from it.

[Puhlease]

So Ashley never had a snow day ever, didn't the Bingham's just have a snow day, school cancelled?

What is up with the way she's talking lately, all ghetto, freeking this and f-ing that, is she trying to reinvent herself.

It is so weird what she’s been saying lately. She hates taking the kids to music class, she hates cooking with her kids, she hates the snow. So much negativity, not the usual stuff she tries to portray.

Also can’t believe she confirmed on the ER vlog that Ev was wearing a pull up.


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I watched it, but must have missed this? What did Assley say?

Regarding the pull-ups in the ER vlog, Ash was sitting on Ev’s hospital bed and said your pull up is wet? Then she turned to the camera and said I bet it is, she’s been drinking a lot of orange juice. Then she continued to talk to the camera while her 5 year old sat in a wet diaper.


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[Haulnarse]

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Nobody cares.... literally nobody

[Lionking23]

Sorry one last thing - the cinema!

I can’t bear the cinema. I cannot see how clean the seats or floors are. The thoughts of taking a blanket from home to the cinema and contaminating it with dirtiness from the cinema, horrifies me every time I see them do it!
It actually makes me feel ill


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I highly doubt they even wash it when they get home


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[DownTheRabbitHole]

430pm wheres samlame?

If she has an ounce of common sense she found an opportunity to escape and made a run for it without looking back. My guess is she’s gone out with NotARealNanny and Trash is in bed sulking cause they didn’t invite her to go with them.

Doesn't it look like someone might be in bed with her? To the right, looks like someone in dark clothing. Maybe she was invited to sleep in the master bed with fatso and the whore. Or maybe fatso got kicked to the guest room and samlame is having a sleep party with trash.

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From Byson’s Insta stories it looks like it’s pillows piled on the bed next to her. Pink, grey, white and a black or some other dark coloured one. Plus the dark coloured blanket or whatever it is spread over the bed. I could be wrong though cause that’s not an uncommon occurrence.

[MervelllaB]

A huge thank you and my complete respect to all of our incredible SISsies who have just openly shared with us the details of your OCD and the impact it has on your lives. The only way we as a society can destigmatise issues around mental health, that sadly still exists to some degree, is for courageous people like yourselves to speak up and to share your experiences. As a society we still have some work and education to do to reach a point where mental health conditions are viewed in the exact same way as physical health conditions. Thank you dear SISsies for trusting us and helping us to understand a little more of what it’s like to live with OCD by sharing the details with us. I can only imagine what an insult it must be to you all when the Greedners so casually and incorrectly use the term OCD in reference to Byson.

I used to get frustrated by people who would say their OCD wouldn’t let them do this, that or the other. Now I just put it down to ignorance. Every one has tendencies towards obsessive behaviours and we will all have some element in our lives that could be suggestive of obsessive behaviours. However, that doesn’t equate to OCD.
The things I described above are uncomfortable and anxiety provoking, but I’m used to them now. I know they’re not rational and I know that I could with very hard work, probably learn to overcome them. People with OCD have insight into their condition, they generally know their obsessions and rituals are not rational. I have tried to change things like eating out in the past, but the anxiety it produces is much greater to me than the desire to eat out. Therefore, I choose to manage it instead. I don’t eat out often (especially since I have been ill) and on the rare occasion, I have to, I deal with it then.
What most people - and for certain the Gardners - don’t understand about the OCD is, that the obsessions and rituals etc are merely symptoms of much deeper irrational, uncontrollable thinking that although the sufferer will have insight into, they have absolutely no ability to control. The obsessions and rituals merely manifest themselves as a means of responding to those anxieties. Many sufferers experience irrational, intrusive, often disturbing thoughts that until they are diagnosed will be very, very upsetting. I can’t tell you what those thoughts are like. As a child and teenager I used to think I was mad. When I was diagnosed as an adult I was so relieved and now I know better how to manage them.

OCD is such a debilitating condition. It impacts on and restricts your life in so many ways. I personally don’t understand how anyone with OCD could be a daily vlogger and we wouldn’t see much more evidence if it in their life. I can’t say he doesn’t have it but I can say I don’t see it. If he has it, he must be working damn hard to not show it. If he wants some interesting, useful, worthwhile content, why not do a vlog of a day in the life of an OCD sufferer. Do something worthy for a change.


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[MervelllaB]

A huge thank you and my complete respect to all of our incredible SISsies who have just openly shared with us the details of your OCD and the impact it has on your lives. The only way we as a society can destigmatise issues around mental health, that sadly still exists to some degree, is for courageous people like yourselves to speak up and to share your experiences. As a society we still have some work and education to do to reach a point where mental health conditions are viewed in the exact same way as physical health conditions. Thank you dear SISsies for trusting us and helping us to understand a little more of what it’s like to live with OCD by sharing the details with us. I can only imagine what an insult it must be to you all when the Greedners so casually and incorrectly use the term OCD in reference to Byson.

Yes! Thank you all! I didn’t intend my post to blow up like that! It is quite interesting hearing (reading) your stories, as insensitive as that might sound. Again, I don’t have OCD, so this has opened my eyes A LOT! And I agree, whole heartedly, mental illness should be viewed the same as physical illness.

I have mild depression, generalized anxiety, and (I would say severe) social anxiety. I understand how mental illness sucks and I hate when people use it as a way to garner attention, especially when they don’t suffer from it.

Sorry I replied to DowntheRabbitHole before I saw this. I can laugh a lot of the time at my obsessions and rituals. I don’t mind talking about it because I really think people need to understand it better
Depression and anxiety is horrible to live with. I hope you keep well


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[DoodleBop2]

I have just spent the day in hospital with my 23 year old daughter who was diagnosed with a malignant melanoma, her prognosis at this stage is not known and I am gutted and terrified, as a Mum there is nothing worse than feeling so helpless and frightened for your child’s life.

I know this is a gossip site but if you ever need to talk PM me.Last year my daughter almost died and went through three major surgeries in nine months. We spent over 200 days in the hospital. It was a lot and we got through it.

[DoodleBop2]

I suspect the girls have asthma or allergies not croup. NEVER in my life have I known kids to get "croup" so often. They were preemies asthma wouldn't be unheard of.

[DoodleBop2]

If these parents and their 'doctor' weren't so shitty these girls would be regularly followed by a pulmonologist because they were preemies and really early preemies at that.

[MervelllaB]

If these parents and their 'doctor' weren't so shitty these girls would be regularly followed by a pulmonologist because they were preemies and really early preemies at that.

Exactly. When my daughter was little she had recurrent out of hours episodes of croup-like symptoms. We had to take her to the out of hours doctor a few times in one week - out of hours GP service and not ER. The out of hours GP emailed our own GP and asked him to see us. They started oral steroids and an inhaler as a trial for asthma to see if it helped improve the situation. It did within days and they placed her on an extended dose of oral steroids and inhalers to get in top of it. She remained an two inhalers - a preventer and reliever - for many years. Now she only uses a reliever but when she gets a cold she has to back on both for a period of weeks. The last time she needed oral steroids as well. She’s now 18.
They don’t follow anything through and I’m not sure if the US health care system allows for sharing of information easily between professionals. Wherever I’m seen my entire medical history can be accessed by my doctors etc - with my consent, of course. This is hugely beneficial because frequency of visits, reasons for attending, outcomes etc can automatically be seen.


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