Rash and Justine: Lazy Spouse, Messy House, Won't Get Off the Dang Couch | Part 31

[ALittleStitious]

I’m pro sleep training and love TCB, but ugh whenever rash talks about it I know why people hate it. She does it for all the wrong reasons and talks about it the wrong way....

And she said that she doesn’t get to ever read with Emma since Justin does bed time. if she loves reading to Emma so much, why not read to her during the day instead of watching so many shows and movies. She kept listing off all the shows that Emma loves....how is she watching so many. Read with her and she’ll start talking more!!!!


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She has the twins napping or in some type of swing/bouncy seat basically all day, how in the world does she think she doesn't have time to read with Emma? Does she not understand that you can read to kids any time, not just bed time? Does she really think she's that busy?

[Tweedles3]

tYp3 a

Lol

That made me laugh so hard! What fantasy world is she living in that she thinks she's type A???

Yeah, I wouldn’t consider myself type A and I saved stuff like this from my firstborn in case I had more kids. It would be funny if this sleep training didn’t work. She hasn’t realized that very little of what they did with Emma is relevant for multiples, especially when they share a room. We put our babies to bed when they’re tired and they get up when they do, we follow their lead (within reason).


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[MarshmallowBreath]

Wow, shocking that they were up at different times!


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[discretechristine]

Is she blaming their not in sync sleep schedules on the fact they aren’t identical twins? I could be wrong but wouldn’t even identical twins have different internal clocks? Aren’t all babies different wether identical, fraternal or siblings years apart?

If they’re up that much, that long at night I don’t think think they’re ready to drop any night feedings. Even a bottle fed baby at their age may still wake up to eat! And that would be normal!

Sleep training is hard but it’s not the instant fix she’s hoping for. I have a friend who did this program and her and her husband lived in a one bedroom apartment with their baby. Baby didn’t have a separate nursery so mom and dad slept out in the living area for two weeks so they could properly do the training and they all shared the same room again once baby was sleep trained. Idk what the specifications are for twins but based on what my friend did it sounds like the baby needs their own separate room, at least while they are being trained, then share a room after.

What is she on anyway?! It’s like she wants perfect little robot babies that eat, sleep, pee, poop, wake up and grow up on command! NEWS FLASH TRASHY! It doesn’t work that way! You are literally nurturing and raising human life, you need to have some leeway, meet them where they’re at while still holding REALISTIC expectations and limits. Again, your CHILDREN ARE NOT ROBOTS.


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[mamabear01]

Is she blaming their not in sync sleep schedules on the fact they aren’t identical twins? I could be wrong but wouldn’t even identical twins have different internal clocks? Aren’t all babies different wether identical, fraternal or siblings years apart?

If they’re up that much, that long at night I don’t think think they’re ready to drop any night feedings. Even a bottle fed baby at their age may still wake up to eat! And that would be normal!

Sleep training is hard but it’s not the instant fix she’s hoping for. I have a friend who did this program and her and her husband lived in a one bedroom apartment with their baby. Baby didn’t have a separate nursery so mom and dad slept out in the living area for two weeks so they could properly do the training and they all shared the same room again once baby was sleep trained. Idk what the specifications are for twins but based on what my friend did it sounds like the baby needs their own separate room, at least while they are being trained, then share a room after.

What is she on anyway?! It’s like she wants perfect little robot babies that eat, sleep, pee, poop, wake up and grow up on command! NEWS FLASH TRASHY! It doesn’t work that way! You are literally nurturing and raising human life, you need to have some leeway, meet them where they’re at while still holding REALISTIC expectations and limits. Again, your CHILDREN ARE NOT ROBOTS.


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So the program actually calls for the twins to be in separate rooms for the 14 days and then to put them back in a shared room after they are both sleep trained. But they bought a house that was too small!!
Rash & Justin probably don’t want to give up their bedroom for that since Justin has to do “school work” in their Bedroom “office”. And also since rash does all the work with them at night, Justin knows that he’d have to help more at night if the babies were in separate room.


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[Sunshineee9]

Is she blaming their not in sync sleep schedules on the fact they aren’t identical twins? I could be wrong but wouldn’t even identical twins have different internal clocks? Aren’t all babies different wether identical, fraternal or siblings years apart?

If they’re up that much, that long at night I don’t think think they’re ready to drop any night feedings. Even a bottle fed baby at their age may still wake up to eat! And that would be normal!

Sleep training is hard but it’s not the instant fix she’s hoping for. I have a friend who did this program and her and her husband lived in a one bedroom apartment with their baby. Baby didn’t have a separate nursery so mom and dad slept out in the living area for two weeks so they could properly do the training and they all shared the same room again once baby was sleep trained. Idk what the specifications are for twins but based on what my friend did it sounds like the baby needs their own separate room, at least while they are being trained, then share a room after.

What is she on anyway?! It’s like she wants perfect little robot babies that eat, sleep, pee, poop, wake up and grow up on command! NEWS FLASH TRASHY! It doesn’t work that way! You are literally nurturing and raising human life, you need to have some leeway, meet them where they’re at while still holding REALISTIC expectations and limits. Again, your CHILDREN ARE NOT ROBOTS.


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So the program actually calls for the twins to be in separate rooms for the 14 days and then to put them back in a shared room after they are both sleep trained. But they bought a house that was too small!!
Rash & Justin probably don’t want to give up their bedroom for that since Justin has to do “school work” in their Bedroom “office”. And also since rash does all the work with them at night, Justin knows that he’d have to help more at night if the babies were in separate room.


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So she's just following the parts of the program that are easy for her AKA stop feeding her babies. Then we will hear about how it didn't work for weeks

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[Ket52]

She is literally so dumb, it’s shocking. She really thinks identical twins wake up at the exact same times, and have identical internal clocks? Wow. No words for her stupidity. Also, is it just me or does it look like each twin was only up 2-3 times through the night? This seems like a normal amount of times for a 6 month old to eat. Since they both do nothing all day, they should split the twins up and each take one through the night. Justin can bottle feed the one. That way they’re only getting up 2-3 times each. She really thinks she can pop these ugly babies out and they’ll be little sleeping robots who she can just film and make money off of with zero effort. Despicable.

[discretechristine]

Is she blaming their not in sync sleep schedules on the fact they aren’t identical twins? I could be wrong but wouldn’t even identical twins have different internal clocks? Aren’t all babies different wether identical, fraternal or siblings years apart?

If they’re up that much, that long at night I don’t think think they’re ready to drop any night feedings. Even a bottle fed baby at their age may still wake up to eat! And that would be normal!

Sleep training is hard but it’s not the instant fix she’s hoping for. I have a friend who did this program and her and her husband lived in a one bedroom apartment with their baby. Baby didn’t have a separate nursery so mom and dad slept out in the living area for two weeks so they could properly do the training and they all shared the same room again once baby was sleep trained. Idk what the specifications are for twins but based on what my friend did it sounds like the baby needs their own separate room, at least while they are being trained, then share a room after.

What is she on anyway?! It’s like she wants perfect little robot babies that eat, sleep, pee, poop, wake up and grow up on command! NEWS FLASH TRASHY! It doesn’t work that way! You are literally nurturing and raising human life, you need to have some leeway, meet them where they’re at while still holding REALISTIC expectations and limits. Again, your CHILDREN ARE NOT ROBOTS.


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So the program actually calls for the twins to be in separate rooms for the 14 days and then to put them back in a shared room after they are both sleep trained. But they bought a house that was too small!!
Rash & Justin probably don’t want to give up their bedroom for that since Justin has to do “school work” in their Bedroom “office”. And also since rash does all the work with them at night, Justin knows that he’d have to help more at night if the babies were in separate room.


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So she's just following the parts of the program that are easy for her AKA stop feeding her babies. Then we will hear about how it didn't work for weeks

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Wow!!
You would think that Miss “Type A” would follow directions to a T!!

Their current house is just a larger version of their previous house. Same amount of rooms just bigger and also one less bathroom. On another note, I wonder where Misters litter box is since they had a whole bathroom dedicated to it at the old house lol gross


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[sarahelizabeth_1]

Rachelle, dear, type As aren’t habitually late for every doctor appointment. And they typically are far more productive than you. It’s okay to not be type A. It’s okay to be type B.


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[Oookarrr]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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[Mammababe111]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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No. She’s literally psychotic and shouldn’t have kids for this reason. I keep thinking about those boys crying out at night because their mothers watered down breast milk isn’t enough for them and they are hungry!!! They should go right down after a diaper change and a good full feeding in the night..she needs to feed them as often as they can during the day, get 3 good naps in, and then try the sleep program a little later on. They are NOT ready. The boys haven’t even had a lick of solids or anything substantial and she wants to take AWAY feedings???? You do that much later on when you know they are eating enough to be sleeping that long!

[Dani_465]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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There’s a blogger who stopped night feedings at 6 weeks.

[mamabear01]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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There’s a blogger who stopped night feedings at 6 weeks.

I know a lot of babies who naturally stopped all feedings anywhere from 7-15 weeks old. I did drop all feedings over night with my first at 5months old. Second baby still has 1 feed at 9 months old. Both of them exclusively breastfed.
I think it all depends on the baby, the mothers milk/formula, and how much the babies eat during the day.
Rash doesn’t feed often enough and her milk surely can’t be fatty enough on her diet and because she doesn’t tandem feed, one baby is always just getting “leftover” milk. So that’s why her babies probably still need feedings overnight.


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[mamabear01]

Rash needs to realize that the reason The boys are so awake at night and for long periods is because they’re not getting enough stimulation during the day. They realize that she’s paying more attention to them during the night and they’re craving interaction and are bored during the day.


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[penny17]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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Exactly. My last baby I started formula only around 7 weeks old and it wasnt until 6 months or so to sleep through the night. Even now at 10 mo old occasionally i still have an extra night feed. I did last night... I always feed on demand and look for hungry cues. It isnt that hard but ol' Rash just dont have that motherly instinct I dont think... I absolutely hate seeing her try to force these babies on a schedule. Shes just making it harder on everyone involved.


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[Oookarrr]

Okay so I wasn’t crazy foe thinking she’s crazy for stopping the feedings, my 1yo still feeds once or twice at night so I just really thought that was crazy absurd


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[Dani_465]

I’m sorry I’m a mom of 3 but do people really stop night feedings all together at 5 months?! I just find that absolutely freaking crazy!


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Exactly. My last baby I started formula only around 7 weeks old and it wasnt until 6 months or so to sleep through the night. Even now at 10 mo old occasionally i still have an extra night feed. I did last night... I always feed on demand and look for hungry cues. It isnt that hard but ol' Rash just dont have that motherly instinct I dont think... I absolutely hate seeing her try to force these babies on a schedule. Shes just making it harder on everyone involved.


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She has to be one of the worst parents. If she would feed the boys when they WANT to eat, they would be happier. My mom was a scheduler but we were all formula fed and eating solid at 2/3 weeks (that’s what they did back in the day). My mom told me she would still bring me a bottle in the middle of the night. She never made me cry it out.

[Mombie1719]

She’s probably so mad he woke up and took time away from her making tik toks and sitting around

[Tina9900]

Rash needs to learn what it means to be mother! It means giving up things for your children including sleep! Babies wake up at night because they are hungry or wet or uncomfortable somehow not just because they want to bother you Rachelle. You chose to implant 2 embryos and that gave you twins, that means 2 separate babies. Each baby has their own personality and their own sleep patterns. You go without sleep for a couple of years and it will get better. You give up time to yourself when you become a Mother. Neither of them work so it should not be that hard to take care of these kids, what else do they have to do? It’s time for them to grow up and act like parents not babysitters!


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[Boy_mom12]

What really bothers me is how bad she wants them on HER schedule. We decided when i was pregnant that i wouldn’t go back to work after our son was born. I thrive off routine and schedule. However, I started following my sons lead from day one and still haven’t tried to force him into any type of schedule. And he thrives off his as well. I nursed on demand until i got mastitis and stopped at 6 months (he stopped wanting to nurse). If he woke up at night, i nursed him. When he stopped waking up overnight, i let it be. He’s slept through the night since 3 months and he’s 18 months now.. i get wanting to have twins on the same type of schedule because otherwise you would need 24 arms.. but Justin is home. There’s no reason why she can’t follow their personal schedules. It’s not like she has anywhere to be during the day.