YTMD Pet Peeves

[kiki]

Most annoying thing by far is the diagnosing of children on here. Kid doesn't speak perfectly at age 2? Speech delay. Kid doesn't act like your kid does? Autism! The number of yt kids with "autism" and "speech delay" is astounding...

A close second for most annoying kind of goes along with the above.. "MY kid started talking at 9 months!!!/MY kids sat up at 2 weeks old!1!!!1/MY kids only eat healthy, nutritional food!!11!" OK, we get it. You're kid is a genius, and you're a perfect parent. No one cares. It's probably mostly not true anyway.

Lastly, people who are too involved with this site and all its rules. A also don't understand why people get so upset about others posting on social media. If someone writes something on a yters page and it makes "all of us", look bad... doesn't bother me. It wasn't me, No one on this site knows who I am, and it's in no way connected to any of my personal accounts, so none of my friends/family/acquaintances would know that I'm associated with such a "crazy" site....

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[Yue195]

Influx of loyal followers of YT moms deciding to post here are hella annoying and they usually find us through members delibritly posting nasty stuff on their social media, screen shotting then coming here posting and bragging for ass pats. We're searchable now.

It's just common sense that this place was created for discussion/gossip/debate whatever you want to call it without getting into online cat fights with the YTers and loyal followers. So why go out of your way to make nasty crap/ harass then come back here expecting to be a higher deity and bring in unnecessary drama?

[saltliferocks]

If someone posts a personal story, making a disclaimer that it's a personal story as someone recently did, is nice. Then people can choose to scroll on.

[MichaelScarn]

If someone posts a personal story, making a disclaimer that it's a personal story as someone recently did, is nice. Then people can choose to scroll on.

I really like when people do this too. That way if all you're there for is gossip and details you can scroll right past and not waste your time!


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[blackbetty]

Most annoying thing by far is the diagnosing of children on here. Kid doesn't speak perfectly at age 2? Speech delay. Kid doesn't act like your kid does? Autism! The number of yt kids with "autism" and "speech delay" is astounding...

A close second for most annoying kind of goes along with the above.. "MY kid started talking at 9 months!!!/MY kids sat up at 2 weeks old!1!!!1/MY kids only eat healthy, nutritional food!!11!" OK, we get it. You're kid is a genius, and you're a perfect parent. No one cares. It's probably mostly not true anyway.

Lastly, people who are too involved with this site and all its rules. A also don't understand why people get so upset about others posting on social media. If someone writes something on a yters page and it makes "all of us", look bad... doesn't bother me. It wasn't me, No one on this site knows who I am, and it's in no way connected to any of my personal accounts, so none of my friends/family/acquaintances would know that I'm associated with such a "crazy" site....

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My issue with it is that it is harassment and we don't promote illegal activity here so it's extremely hypocritical. We can't stop people from doing it, but don't come here for asspats about it.

[lmmomSD]

Not that I disagree with you babyspice, but I thought of this earlier when someone mentioned Bryan's personality changing depending on who he is around... That can be a sign of mental illness in that some people don't really have a sense of self, so they adapt the way they act to try and fit in. Not to suggest that all people that do it have mental illness, but I do and (as I mentioned earlier) we talk about what we know... And I guess it's my way of offering up an explanation since I likely either have or will do this at some point.


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I don't necessarily change my opinion to fit in, but if I say something, and someone else makes a really good point disagreeing with it, I'll say so. The point is to discuss/gossip, right?

[zipadeedodah]

Can we stop the fat shaming already?

I don't mind discussing DBs weird parenting and crap but PLEASE stop the fat shaming. I guess it's a personal thing because so many people gave me a hard time about gaining weight years ago, I don't know (said weight has been long gone)

It's about to drive me crazy though. I hate to stand up for them but I would hate to come into a website and see people talking crap about my weight.


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[babyspice]

Thank you! The DB has gone to shit. No offense, but people fat shame 24/7 and try to hard. Just be yourself. I'm sick of hearing about Bryan and Missy's weight. When people on the thread struggle with being healthy. It's honestly getting out of control

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[cats-or-die]

I used to poke fun at Bryan's weight, but I realized what a shit thing that was to do and stopped. To make fun of Missy's weight (2 weeks postpartum) and claim it's because "her lifestyle is so terrible OMG she brings it upon herself" is SO FUCKED UP.
What is wrong with that thread now???
I honestly don't care how strangers choose to live their life. If Missy wants to eat junk 24/7 and sit around - her poor decision, not ours. It shouldn't be so offensive to random people.


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[babyspice]

I completely agree with you cats-or-die! I'm not about to bring up someone's weigh on a gossip site when they can't defend themselves. That's a coward thing to do.

[cats-or-die]

I completely agree with you cats-or-die! I'm not about to bring up someone's weigh on a gossip site when they can't defend themselves. That's a coward thing to do.

And TBH, she isn't even overweight in my opinion. She looks really average, and really good for just giving birth.
No one looks good in a onesie.
But yeah, everyone is such a try hard in there. I can think of one person in particular who, granted, has been around for a long time, but GOD she is the biggest "I'm so witty and intelligent and hilarious" try-hard. I won't say her username as not to spark more shit, but yeah. The thread definitely isn't what it used to be.


xoxo gossip cat

[babyspice]

I completely agree with you cats-or-die! I'm not about to bring up someone's weigh on a gossip site when they can't defend themselves. That's a coward thing to do.

And TBH, she isn't even overweight in my opinion. She looks really average, and really good for just giving birth.
No one looks good in a onesie.
But yeah, everyone is such a try hard in there. I can think of one person in particular who, granted, has been around for a long time, but GOD she is the biggest "I'm so witty and intelligent and hilarious" try-hard. I won't say her username as not to spark more shit, but yeah. The thread definitely isn't what it used to be.


xoxo gossip cat

Oh I think I know who you're talking about. There's about 3 people who do the fat shamming thing 24/7 and it's horrible and I'll I have to say to them is. They nitpick at everything Bryan and Missy do. I'm not saying Bryan and Missy are amazing, but damn let them breathe. I would hate to have someone talk about my weigh online when I'm struggling with it and I can't defend myself. Sometimes you have to put yourself in another person's shoes. Treat people they way you wanna be treated. That's all I have to say.

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[HelloSweetie]

^^^ I agree with you guys, with ONE exception. If Bryan posts a pic that is very suspect for being photoshopped, then you really just have to expect it will be discussed. It says a ton about his character.

I also have a big problem with Ollie eating French fries every damn day. It's not funny anymore, it's sad.

[babyspice]

Oh most definitely HelloSweetie. Them feeding Oliver French fries is horrible and I agree with Bryan and the whole photo shop situation. It's the constant reaching. Bryan and Missy can drop a penny on the ground not pick up and some users will make a huge deal about it and then there will be 24 pages of them just talking about the penny! I feel like it's a constant try hard fest. Everyone constant wants to be liked on that thread and they know the easiest way is to attack someone's weight. It's getting annoying.

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[ladymama]

I think talking about their shit eating habits is one thing, but definitely not cool to talk about their weight all the time. I was tiny for my whole life until I fell pregnant, and honestly people commenting on my weight doesnt motivate me to lose it. It just makes me not want to leave the house.

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[mommaof2cuties]

daily Bumps is our sites foreverkailyn. Thankfully no one here is as cruel but her threads go so fast on GG and youtalktrash and its usually just nitpicking.

[Yue195]

At this point I am over most of the threads but especially the Daily Bumps thread.

If I am being honest, people have always been nit-picky on this site but there used to be actual discussions happening.

Now it's "annoying" when we have a discussion (not a debate or fight, but discussion) about Bryan taking away Oliver's "guns"... but it's perfectly okay to talk about Missy's weight while nine months pregnant or two weeks postpartum.

I love it when new people join the site, I think it's lovely that our community is growing. However, it seems like a few of the new members have made our veterans/sensible members leave the site. There seems to be no balance anymore and it's really disheartening.

I hate to say this but we're becoming what all of the YouTubers say we are, if you know what I mean.

Bingo. This site is turning into horse shit. 85% sure people are telling tall tales about their own parenting skills as well.

[gossipingloser]

I find the theme on GabeandJesss' thread where people go on about how great Kyson is and how horrible Kaden is, really sad and weird. Oddly, people on there also complain about jess polarizing the twins (saying they're "complete opposites", etc.) but then they do it too! I enjoy reading funny posts about youtubers and it was nice to know I wasn't the only one who saw certain flaws in youtubers... But stuff like this bothers me. Maybe it's irrational. IDK.

[EleanorRigby]

Cats, I know we've had our differences. But I agree with everything you say lately lol.

[zipadeedodah]

I've felt like a bad parent more than once. Hey guess what. My kid eats grilled cheese, chicken nuggets, sandwiches and fruit often. She will not touch veggies unless I purée them and hide it in something.

And you know what? It doesn't bug me because she's at least EATING. But guess I'm a crappy parent.


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