OKTimeToWorkAgain | Part 17

[Steps_to_STFU]

There is a lot missing from their relationship. There is no compromise. It's always what Oscar wants, when Oscar wants and how he wants. He doesn't like a kitchen table so they don't have one. He doesn't like the color blue on a Christmas tree so he changes it. He doesn't want to get married at all so there is no talk of it. He likes to go to the jump park so they're always there. Kyra is missing something in her life that she just settles for that. Fuck what Kyra wants. She's stupid for accepting it all. She needs help to find out why she settles for less than she is worth.

[Adp1993]

I definitely agree that Oscar is a controlling ass, but pushing for a marriage that one partner doesn't want will backfire. It NEVER works out. She needs to cope with the fact that if she stays with Oscar she may never get married (or atleast not anytime soon) or she needs to stop planning babies with a selfish jerk and find a man that treats her how she deserves.

[Steps_to_STFU]

I definitely agree that Oscar is a controlling ass, but pushing for a marriage that one partner doesn't want will backfire. It NEVER works out. She needs to cope with the fact that if she stays with Oscar she may never get married (or atleast not anytime soon) or she needs to stop planning babies with a selfish jerk and find a man that treats her how she deserves.

Oh I agree. Them getting married to each other will never work, they won't last and it would be the biggest mistake. They need to find new people..

[Adp1993]

She looks up to Jess so the real question is...Is Oscar a Gabe or a Drake?

[missy-1010]

All she is to Oscar is his baby momma . I’ve known some Hispanic guys that knocked up his girlfriend have two kids and then dumped the women found the one and married her .


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What kind of comment is this lol “I’ve known some Hispanic guys”
Jesus woman....


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[ckks]

people of all races/ethnicities do that? lol. Oscar being Hispanic is completely irrelevant.


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[ohanapanda]

All she is to Oscar is his baby momma . I’ve known some Hispanic guys that knocked up his girlfriend have two kids and then dumped the women found the one and married her .


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What kind of comment is this lol “I’ve known some Hispanic guys”
Jesus woman....


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She’s right though!!! Our culture is fucked... especially in Mexico, almost all my male relatives cheat on their wives and do whatever the fuck they want and expect the wives to be home at the end of the day lol. Of course not ALL are this way, but it’s defintely trend I’ve seen. Although idk if Oscar was ever exposed to that side of the culture. I live super close to Mexico and spent a lot of time there

Girl I know right I know so many Dominican men who be treating their gfs like shit . They find the right women and all of a sudden they’re husband of the year . My bf is Mexican and guys in his family are like that


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[cklein31]

Ohhhh noooo Kyra’s reaction was so bad... she watched the proposal video, teared up, said it was cute and she can’t believe it, and then said “Let me take a moment to be selfish” shoved oscar and said “WHAT THE FUCK is taking you so long” Then a few min later said “Maybe oscar will propose tomorrow” and he said “you’re pushing it!”and laughs. I feel for her. I do. But wow. That’s so uncomfy. Reminds me of when I got engaged and the girl in my friend group who everyone thought would be ‘first’ bc they’d been together for like 6 years started crying and excused herself and later said she was ‘just so overwhelmed by how happy she was for us’ mhm... :/


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[doveminibites]

I feel like maybe a lot of their problems might come from the fact that Oscar is like emotionally unavailable to Kyra? I remember when they were doing the relaunch video Kyra was talking about how Oscar doesn’t always open up to her and tell him how he is feeling so maybe when he is constantly telling her not to proposing and no to marrying right now that he isn’t saying why he isn’t emotionally ready? I don’t know. I think you can see glimpses that he cares and loves her but I don’t know if he’s in love with her. I feel bad for her and I understand that she might have partially put herself in this position unfortunately but I hope that she is able to figure out that maybe her and Oscar aren’t a forever couple. Or that Oscar opens up to her and isn’t such an asshole. I think she really wants a family but I think she doesnt realize she can have that without Oscar. Her family is Levi and Alaya, she’ll always have them whether she is with Oscar or not.


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[spillingthetea]

It’s def trendy. I’m Latina and every single guy is like that. Some aren’t but you have to be really careful when choosing men, they are very very selfish.

I don’t like Oscar. I really like Kyra and the kids but I think he is really immature for his age and for the life he has, I feel like he didn’t really left behind his party days and that he is kind of a teen still. Maybe that is why he doesn’t wanna marry her, his constant selfishness and asshole attitude/comments towards her drive me crazy. I don’t know how she can stand him, no wonder why her mental health isn’t the best, her is slowly but surely wearing away Kyra, will she leave him? I doubt it. I feel like she relays on him a lot and is truly in love, I guess it’s true that when you are in love you are blind about your partner’s actions. She surely is


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[ohanapanda]

[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201802 ... e7ba80.jpg[/img] Lol something kyra isn’t getting anytime soon


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[Elviraa]

Am I the only one shocked that Kyra has a black women on her snap. I have never seen them hang out with anyone who isn’t white. I’m not from America though, so I don’t know if Utah is just a majority white area.


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I’m not American either, but I’m pretty sure Utah is primarily white Mormons. Also, Oscar is Hispanic, so I doubt she’s racist. But you never know, look at Keren who loves #halfasian babies, but still makes some ridiculously racist comments to Khoa about him being Asian.

You too sensitive. Some people can joke with each other and laugh and not be offended every two seconds. I’m sure if it bothered him he wouldn’t be with her.


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[ohanapanda]

Am I the only one shocked that Kyra has a black women on her snap. I have never seen them hang out with anyone who isn’t white. I’m not from America though, so I don’t know if Utah is just a majority white area.


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I’m not American either, but I’m pretty sure Utah is primarily white Mormons. Also, Oscar is Hispanic, so I doubt she’s racist. But you never know, look at Keren who loves #halfasian babies, but still makes some ridiculously racist comments to Khoa about him being Asian.

You too sensitive. Some people can joke with each other and laugh and not be offended every two seconds. I’m sure if it bothered him he wouldn’t be with her.


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Idk if she is or not but Oscar is a white passing Hispanic . Keren does make racist comments here and there with khoa


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[Annavi04]

I think he loves her as the mother of his children and thats it. It seems like hes with her because separating takes too much effort (selling the house, moving, coparenting) and because he wants to be able to see his kids really often (even though hes not father of the year, he loves them a lot and would miss them).

I think Oscar planned Alaya with Kyra so Levi could have at least one full sibling. Many people rather have several kids with whoever they already have one with even though they know it wont work out just so they can say "I don't have 2 baby mamas" or etc. i think hes more skeptical about baby #3 because he feels satisfied that Levi has Alaya and that its enough.

I think they bought a house together simply because it was more comfortable than an apt and they had the money to do so, not because it was a step to further their relationship.


Also people say kids are a bigger commitment than marriage and yeah you do have to deal with your children forever but you can do so mostly alone if you choose. Sure, you can get married, divorce and part ways forever but i think the idea of choosing Kyra forever scares the crap out of Oscar because it seems like he can hardly be with her for now. Also a divorce is a lot of work. I dont think he sees their relationship lasting so he doesnt want to bother with being married. It seems to me that hes stuck between being free and single but missing his kids or being miserable with Kyra and enjoying his children daily. People have been saying he doesn't compromise and that he always gets what he wants but in this case i do NOT think he should compromise and get married if he doesnt 110% want to. Thats unfair.

Kyra should cut her losses and move on.



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[KKand3boys]

I thought it was really sweet how Oscar was telling Robert to let Winter cry. But then I realized if I was Kyra that would have made me really sad because he's always being so passive aggressive and rude to her, so it's weird seeing that he can be really sweet and emotionally tuned in to womens' feelings but he just chooses not to be with Kyra more often than not.

[Annavi04]

I thought it was really sweet how Oscar was telling Robert to let Winter cry. But then I realized if I was Kyra that would have made me really sad because he's always being so passive aggressive and rude to her, so it's weird seeing that he can be really sweet and emotionally tuned in to womens' feelings but he just chooses not to be with Kyra more often than not.

Oscar can definitely be a sweet guy and i think all it would take is "the one" for him to bring out that side of him. Many guys are punks to their gfs and completely change when they meet the woman for them.

He most likely resents kyra so that's why he acts like that towards her.


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[teddyandmommy]

Since no one will make a new thread lol

OKPleaseProposeToMeToday | Part 18
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[Scar2016]

Anyone who thinks Oscar is anything but a controlling asshole hasn't been watching the vlogs. He treats Kyra like a child and not like a partner. He speaks to her like trash. As I said when I first started chatting here. She's a doormat. At the end of the day she desperately wants to be married and he doesn't. If and only if he does, it will be for the views. He puts more thought into his diet and gym time then he does into Kyra's feelings.

I haven't lurked on this thread in forever. I don't know if this has been mentioned before but I honestly hope Oscar doesn't treat Alaya the same way he does Kyra when she's older, I can see her having major self esteem issues growing up with how Oscar talks to Kyra or even when he mentions food in a negative way and the remarks he makes.

Well he's started off on that road already seeing as his nickname for Alaya is Chubby.

[Steps_to_STFU]

I think he loves her as the mother of his children and thats it. It seems like hes with her because separating takes too much effort (selling the house, moving, coparenting) and because he wants to be able to see his kids really often (even though hes not father of the year, he loves them a lot and would miss them).

I think Oscar planned Alaya with Kyra so Levi could have at least one full sibling. Many people rather have several kids with whoever they already have one with even though they know it wont work out just so they can say "I don't have 2 baby mamas" or etc. i think hes more skeptical about baby #3 because he feels satisfied that Levi has Alaya and that its enough.

I think they bought a house together simply because it was more comfortable than an apt and they had the money to do so, not because it was a step to further their relationship.


Also people say kids are a bigger commitment than marriage and yeah you do have to deal with your children forever but you can do so mostly alone if you choose. Sure, you can get married, divorce and part ways forever but i think the idea of choosing Kyra forever scares the crap out of Oscar because it seems like he can hardly be with her for now. Also a divorce is a lot of work. I dont think he sees their relationship lasting so he doesnt want to bother with being married. It seems to me that hes stuck between being free and single but missing his kids or being miserable with Kyra and enjoying his children daily. People have been saying he doesn't compromise and that he always gets what he wants but in this case i do NOT think he should compromise and get married if he doesnt 110% want to. Thats unfair.

Kyra should cut her losses and move on.



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I didn't mean he should compromise and get married. I mean the man doesn't do anything he doesn't want. It's very much about him, all the time. How he likes things. He never takes anyone else's feelings into consideration. So the chance that he would take a moment to consider how Kyra feels in all this is laughable.

I agree, Kyra needs to GTFO. He is not in love with her. He is not going to marry her and they will never last. Both of them should be with other people.

[MIAMI247]

They clearly feel the need to downsize, and don’t even own their car, they are leasing it... with Oscars dad as a co-signer. They are clearly not rolling in all the money that everyone here seems to think.[/quote]

Yeah lmao that is pretty pathetic and clearly not good financial decisions. Leasing is horrible financially basically throwing away money.. and the fact that he needs a cosigner is pretty telling.[/quote]


Leasing vs financing is definitely a personal preference. I finance my vehicle and got it brand new, it won't be worth even half of what I purchased it for when I finish paying it off and it will be so old I'd want a new car lol. Leasing gets you the car you want without the responsibility of if something were to break or go wrong and you can just upgrade every few years. ALSO the co-signer thing you mentioned really means nothing. I was 19 when I was hired by the state of Florida , I had zero credit but lots of income. So I had my grandmother co-sign on my car for me which got me a GREAT deal. Now i'm 22, I've paid off 5 major loans and maintained a credit card for the past 2 years my credit is great now. As I've said before some of the comments on here aren't well thought out.