Rash and Justine: Lazy Spouse, Messy House, Won't Get Off the Dang Couch | Part 31

[GGF1987]

Is she blaming their not in sync sleep schedules on the fact they aren’t identical twins? I could be wrong but wouldn’t even identical twins have different internal clocks? Aren’t all babies different wether identical, fraternal or siblings years apart?

If they’re up that much, that long at night I don’t think think they’re ready to drop any night feedings. Even a bottle fed baby at their age may still wake up to eat! And that would be normal!

Sleep training is hard but it’s not the instant fix she’s hoping for. I have a friend who did this program and her and her husband lived in a one bedroom apartment with their baby. Baby didn’t have a separate nursery so mom and dad slept out in the living area for two weeks so they could properly do the training and they all shared the same room again once baby was sleep trained. Idk what the specifications are for twins but based on what my friend did it sounds like the baby needs their own separate room, at least while they are being trained, then share a room after.

What is she on anyway?! It’s like she wants perfect little robot babies that eat, sleep, pee, poop, wake up and grow up on command! NEWS FLASH TRASHY! It doesn’t work that way! You are literally nurturing and raising human life, you need to have some leeway, meet them where they’re at while still holding REALISTIC expectations and limits. Again, your CHILDREN ARE NOT ROBOTS.


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She's a complete moron. First off, identical twins are sill their own individual people with their own unique personalities and needs. Secondly, it makes no sense to make more changes before they've even had time to adjust the last changes. It's a pretty well known fact that changes make babies sleep worse, so she's just going to keep changing thing and whining because they still aren't sleeping.

[IVFwarrior]

There's also an element of size. Little babies don't have big enough stomachs to take in enough milk to keep them satisfied for very long.

If they are both on the "oneth percentile" like Rachelle claims, then their weights are equivalent now to a baby at the 50% centile who is under 3 months old. So she's starving them.

[Ld5]

There's also an element of size. Little babies don't have big enough stomachs to take in enough milk to keep them satisfied for very long.

If they are both on the "oneth percentile" like Rachelle claims, then their weights are equivalent now to a baby at the 50% centile who is under 3 months old. So she's starving them.

I know the answer to this but I’m curious if she even ran this program past their pediatrician being that the boys are barely on the growth charts.


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[Dani_465]

Oh look trashy is throwing a launch “launch party” for pyramid scheme.

IF trashy read as much as she claims her vocabulary would be better. Also, IF she loved books as she claims, they wouldn’t be all shoved in a tub. They would all be on bookshelves/bookcases.

[cece]

kind of random but i was watching the video where trashy found out she was pregnant with emma and she kept talking in this weird baby girl cute feminine voice. just thought that was kind of strange

[Dani_465]

kind of random but i was watching the video where trashy found out she was pregnant with emma and she kept talking in this weird baby girl cute feminine voice. just thought that was kind of strange

I maybe be alone on this one, trashy was not annoying to me when Justina was deployed. I started watching her when he was deployed. I liked her... I then watched videos of them together and was like OMG, they are awful, she was obnoxious! Trashy was a different person when he was deployed. The strong dislike for them grew fast when he came home.

I don’t know how a person can be one way and flip completely another way. Well there are mental issues that cause that. But I’m not a mental health professional.

[Haulnarse]

kind of random but i was watching the video where trashy found out she was pregnant with emma and she kept talking in this weird baby girl cute feminine voice. just thought that was kind of strange

I maybe be alone on this one, trashy was not annoying to me when Justina was deployed. I started watching her when he was deployed. I liked her... I then watched videos of them together and was like OMG, they are awful, she was obnoxious! Trashy was a different person when he was deployed. The strong dislike for them grew fast when he came home.

I don’t know how a person can be one way and flip completely another way. Well there are mental issues that cause that. But I’m not a mental health professional.

She was a whiney little bitch when he was deployed. Yes more tolerable to watch, but soooo whiney.

She found herself in youtube and her head got ginormous.

She doesnt really need justin for anything, she had his sperm firmly frozen at the clinic. She managed to get herself knocked up when he was deployed with no issues. (Which i still think is disgusting, he was due back within weeks.)

[Sunshineee9]

kind of random but i was watching the video where trashy found out she was pregnant with emma and she kept talking in this weird baby girl cute feminine voice. just thought that was kind of strange

I maybe be alone on this one, trashy was not annoying to me when Justina was deployed. I started watching her when he was deployed. I liked her... I then watched videos of them together and was like OMG, they are awful, she was obnoxious! Trashy was a different person when he was deployed. The strong dislike for them grew fast when he came home.

I don’t know how a person can be one way and flip completely another way. Well there are mental issues that cause that. But I’m not a mental health professional.

She was a whiney little bitch when he was deployed. Yes more tolerable to watch, but soooo whiney.

She found herself in youtube and her head got ginormous.

She doesnt really need justin for anything, she had his sperm firmly frozen at the clinic. She managed to get herself knocked up when he was deployed with no issues. (Which i still think is disgusting, he was due back within weeks.)

I didn't watch her back then. But as a military wife and IVFer, it's actually super common to freeze sperm (personally I've had to do it twice) since you never know if they will be there or not. I've done both of my IVF retrievals alone and all 3 of my transfers. The military is unpredictable and doing a transfer while a spouse is deployed is actually extremely smart. It almost guarantees (for as much as the military can since you never know if you'll have to move) that your husband will be there for the birth and part of the first year. My husband's last unit deployed one year and then they would be home the next and then the cycle would repeat. We knew 3 couples (not us because we weren't at that point) who did IVF or IUI during the deployment.

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[wonderwall99]

It upsets me so much that two fucking stay at home, do fuck all, can't even make real breakfast for my toddler adult parents have to sleep train their twins and are going to cut out night feeds.

Im sorry, TEND TO YOUR CHILDREN. I dont personally agree with sleep training. I have seen many parents do it for the wrong reasons, for very selfish reasons. I do acknowledge that sleep deprivation is real, and when it is affecting your mental health then I understand. My cousin sleep trained her son in the early months because she was getting into a dark, depressive state from lack of sleep. Yes, of course do you. I know that sleep training is helpful and necessary in some instances.

But I genuinely can't justify it with these two fuckturds. She may be struggling, but her husband is home 24/7 to help. Take turns, split the boys so each parent has one kid they can tend to. Switch nights. Feed them more during the day, bring them for walks, let them roll outside in the grass and stimulate their senses. Go for drives and walks in nature. Find a regional park and bring emma to explore. Read go them, play music and dance while you hold them. Do chores while you baby carry and talk to them about what they see.

I cant stand parents that actively bring kids into their lives and expect the kids to adjust to the parents lifestyle. Thats not how it works. The ADULT adapts. WE have the ability to change. They are babies!!! Dont complain when they act. Like. BABIES!


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[Dani_465]

WTF! These two fucktards can’t even make sure they have food in the house.

IG story... a damn sponsored ad for blendjet. “Emma usually helps me make BANANA protein pancakes, but we’re out of bananas, so we’re making iced coffee instead.” I’m glad you put YOUR needs ahead of your starving child. Scumbag!

Go to the damn store, send your lazy ass husband to the store.

[Ld5]

WTF! These two fucktards can’t even make sure they have food in the house.

IG story... a damn sponsored ad for blendjet. “Emma usually helps me make BANANA protein pancakes, but we’re out of bananas, so we’re making iced coffee instead.” I’m glad you put YOUR needs ahead of your starving child. Scumbag!

Go to the damn store, send your lazy ass husband to the store.

Exactly.. especially since last vlog, Justin went out JUST to get her Oreos. He could have picked up a bundle of bananas if they were getting low.


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[Tweedles3]

I can’t wait til the twins are crawling and getting into everything, terrorizing Emma, fighting with each other, etc. That recessed play area isn’t going to contain them much longer, they’ll need a mega baby gate, if they even make one that big. It doesn’t get any easier than where they are now, once the babies are done with their bouncers, it’s time to baby proof.


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[Dani_465]

I can’t wait til the twins are crawling and getting into everything, terrorizing Emma, fighting with each other, etc. That recessed play area isn’t going to contain them much longer, they’ll need a mega baby gate, if they even make one that big. It doesn’t get any easier than where they are now, once the babies are done with their bouncers, it’s time to baby proof.


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They’ll need a baby gate or something. The boys may fall over that step. When they moved in they taught emma to step down.

[Tina9900]

People in the comments of the latest video are asking why she is cutting out feedings. If she is cutting their feedings she should be adding solids during the day.


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[mamabear01]

People in the comments of the latest video are asking why she is cutting out feedings. If she is cutting their feedings she should be adding solids during the day.


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You don’t need to add solids to make up for night time feedings, you just add in more oz during the day/nurse for longer during sessions or add in more nursing sessions.
The saying “food before one is just for fun” is true. Before 12 months old formula or breastmilk should be the majority of nutrition, my pediatrician always said at least 90%. And then you slowly wean to solid foods being majority of nutrition at 12 months.


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[mamabear01]

I can’t wait til the twins are crawling and getting into everything, terrorizing Emma, fighting with each other, etc. That recessed play area isn’t going to contain them much longer, they’ll need a mega baby gate, if they even make one that big. It doesn’t get any easier than where they are now, once the babies are done with their bouncers, it’s time to baby proof.


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They’ll need a baby gate or something. The boys may fall over that step. When they moved in they taught emma to step down.

So I actually have a step down just like that in my living room and my 9 month old can actually crawl up and down it. Granted he’s been crawling since 5 months old and I’ve practiced with him a lot. I don’t see rash and Justin practicing with them. Honestly they’ll probably just lay a bunch of blankets and pillows to create a “ramp”/soft landing.


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[discretechristine]

I was googling Rash and Justin for fun to see if there were anymore drama sites or YouTube videos talking about them. Didn’t find much, there was a post on reddit and that’s about it. Other than that you can easily find so much of their info, exact address and emails, Justines linkdn account, like I didn’t even search hard you can look and see for yourself.

Then I stumbled upon Rash’s Flickr account for photography. She has some pretty... private... pictures of herself on there that she took in 2015. Has no one ever talked about this?

To see them just google search “Rachelle Swannie Flickr” and scroll her profile or even google images and you’ll see. I don’t know if posting them here would violate any copyright things so I’m not going to take a chance. They have her watermark but it says at the bottom of the photo details “This photo is public.” So idk.


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[Ld5]

I was googling Rash and Justin for fun to see if there were anymore drama sites or YouTube videos talking about them. Didn’t find much, there was a post on reddit and that’s about it. Other than that you can easily find so much of their info, exact address and emails, Justines linkdn account, like I didn’t even search hard you can look and see for yourself.

Then I stumbled upon Rash’s Flickr account for photography. She has some pretty... private... pictures of herself on there that she took in 2015. Has no one ever talked about this?

To see them just google search “Rachelle Swannie Flickr” and scroll her profile or even google images and you’ll see. I don’t know if posting them here would violate any copyright things so I’m not going to take a chance. They have her watermark but it says at the bottom of the photo details “This photo is public.” So idk.


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I’ve been on here a couple years and haven’t seen those mentioned... but yikes... watch those disappear now in 3...2....1...


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[Mookiel]

I’m not concerned about sharing lol. Here’s one of them. I don’t think it’s a self portrait though. Not sure who that is.


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[discretechristine]

I’m not concerned about sharing lol. Here’s one of them. I don’t think it’s a self portrait though. Not sure who that is.


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I’m pretty sure it’s of her, I can’t see her taking a picture like that of someone else lol
Plus you can match up the beauty marks to pictures on her instagram.
I bet she took them to send to Justin when he was in the navy. But why even post them for the public to see?


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