JesssFam: Podcast w/ My Ex So We Can Talk About Sex (Pt 146)

[freebeegal]

Honestly to me the fact Landen and Kyson still happily go to Drakes makes me think they are actually having a really good time and enjoy going over there. I think Kaden whining about stuff and Jess inevitably feeding into it and agreeing without agreeing and babying him would be easy to influence their feelings around going.

I know for example if I was little and my brother had refused to go to my grandparents, I probably wouldn’t have gone either. I looked up to my big brother and it’s unlikely I would go somewhere if he was making that big of a deal about how much he doesn’t want to go.


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[Haulnarse]

I dont agree with him staying home. Jess needs to be the parent here and not the friend.

The other boys are going. Their needs are obviously being met there, they arent being neglected or abused. I assume Jess could get in some kind of legal trouble for not sending him? Actually do they even have anything signed on paper?

The longer he doesnt go, the harder it will be when he does go again. She is alienating him from his other parent.

[MiloandMax1]

Jess picking him up after he got the game taken away (as did all of the boys) is the reason he doesn't go. He knows he can get away with things with Jess and probably babied (shopping for example) so he's rewarded. I'm shocked her "shining light" Landen goes since she's claimed he didn't even know Drake and that Chris was always his dad.

[GG_Aussie]

Jess picking him up after he got the game taken away (as did all of the boys) is the reason he doesn't go. He knows he can get away with things with Jess and probably babied (shopping for example) so he's rewarded. I'm shocked her "shining light" Landen goes since she's claimed he didn't even know Drake and that Chris was always his dad.

Of course, Kaden can’t always get his own way there and so he doesn’t like it. Really he should be going because he could learn some valuable lessons!

[NarcoelpsyMom]

Hey! Long time lurker here! I was watching the video about the “er” visit when Amanda’s baby momma video popped up so I clicked it and went to the comments and found these gems.

Those comments are gold.

Aside from that, for being two “dancers”, that was the most cringe baby-mama dance I have seen. Nothing quite like Amanda getting hit in the face by diapers in a super awkward dance.

That alone tells me all I need to know about the quality of the studio.

The people who freestyle it and just have fun look so much better.

[Hoe4Christmas]

wonder if drake will attempt to get his shit together and obtain a court order for regular visitation


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[luci417]

I dont agree with him staying home. Jess needs to be the parent here and not the friend.

The other boys are going. Their needs are obviously being met there, they arent being neglected or abused. I assume Jess could get in some kind of legal trouble for not sending him? Actually do they even have anything signed on paper?

The longer he doesnt go, the harder it will be when he does go again. She is alienating him from his other parent.

Honestly I disagree - if Drake had been in their lives consistently things would be different. But he as a parent abandoned his child and he has to accept that his actions have consequences. Kaden has been raised by a different father for most of his life and if he doesn’t want to have a dad relationship with drake that's absolutely his right. He is a real person with real feelings and it's drake's job to rebuild his relationships with his kids at a pace each child is comfortable with. Kaden is not wrong for not wanting to jump into a new family when it's convenient for drake.

If this happened to my kids I wouldn’t force them to go over either. The kid is the victim here and it's not either parents job to force them to get over that trauma because it will make the adult who hurt them feel better.

[daisy1000]

I don’t think she is keeping him away because as much as she claims she loves this big family of hers, I think she realized how nice it is to have ONE kid home now.

Kyson said that kaden and Drake’s girlfriend’s son are having issues. That’s not up to Jess to fix. A lot of you have shamed Chris for not spending one on one time with his boys but blame Jess for Kaden’s issues with his dad.

Drake is the one responsible for making sure his visits with his children are positive ones. He is the one who decided to come back into their life. Maybe Kaden needs one on one time with him to resolve the issues he has with going over there. A lot of you think it’s because they have rules at their house but Kyson and Landen come from the same house as Kaden, if rules were the problem wouldn’t all 3 boys be wary about going over? This is a Genuine question. This is probably the 3rd time I have heard them mention the issue between the girlfriend’s son and Kaden. Why is no adult investigating for the children’s well being? I know Kaden can be annoying to most of you but he is a child at the end of the day whose overall wellness matters too.

Jess isn’t perfect, don’t get me started, BUT she started letting them go overnight. That’s a big step. Now it’s up to Drake to make up the rest of the way.

[MiloandMax1]

This is if you believe Jess who has been caught in many lies regarding Drake. I don't think Drake is a saint and I think hes a pos but Jess lies so much that it wouldn't surprise me she is manipulating Kaden to cause drama or have for vlog footage. Picking him up did not help, especially since on that phone call she even told Drake "I would have handled it just as you did". Kaden didn't care when he took his brothers gun away, but when Stephanies son does it he calls his mom.

She has said Landen didnt even know Drake, yet his preschool graduation he was in Drake's arms, something she shared on vlogs, just as he would be at sports games. And then she continued to bash him saying they hadn't seen their dad when Natalie was saying otherwise and Stephanie shared pics on her instagram.

Look how T & C are treated when they are there. So they just don't want to come one day because of Jess's kids and it would hit the fan. Also keep in mind Drake said if he doesn't want to come he doesn't have to and it should he left at that but Jess continued babying him while Kaden looked right at the camera, all for vlog footage. That is not helping matters either. But co-parenting queen right?

[sezzajaydee]

Messss has consistently lied about Drake. Even when she’s told the truth, it’s been twisted to suit her agenda.
She only admitted the boys had been seeing Drake when she realised there were public Instagram posts.

Is Drake faultless in all of this? Hell no. I don’t think any of us have said he is. But he is not 100% to blame like Messss makes out. It’s also not just up to Drake to build a relationship with the boys. As their other parents she and Chris need to help build a solid foundation for the relationship between the boys and their father. Heck, everyone in their circle needs to be help with it. Just like every other family in the world does.

[Bambi_]

Coming soon:

DEVASTATED: Disney DENIED ME tickets, due to 15% capacity!!

Not just that, but they said they’re not allowing people from out of the state. I know she’s still in California, but imagine they only allow SoCal residents like they do with the discount they only offer SoCal.


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[MiloandMax1]

Kaden reminds me so much of Jess when she is being told no. And judging by him calling her bawling over a video game he doesnt like being told no, he can laugh when he does it to his brother but doesn't like it when it happens to him. I think it speaks volumes Landen goes because he would be the one that saw Drake the least.

I do think there is a court order. It seems odd she finally admitted it when they moved, I wonder if it has something to do with a court order and distance between parents.

[MiloandMax1]

With the Disney thing isn't it only 8 tickets? Can see her saying its discrimination to big families.

As much $ as she has can't she rent out the park, lol! Vlog footage and she can take her entire family

[Theyneedananny]

I don’t think she is keeping him away because as much as she claims she loves this big family of hers, I think she realized how nice it is to have ONE kid home now.

Kyson said that kaden and Drake’s girlfriend’s son are having issues. That’s not up to Jess to fix. A lot of you have shamed Chris for not spending one on one time with his boys but blame Jess for Kaden’s issues with his dad.

Drake is the one responsible for making sure his visits with his children are positive ones. He is the one who decided to come back into their life. Maybe Kaden needs one on one time with him to resolve the issues he has with going over there. A lot of you think it’s because they have rules at their house but Kyson and Landen come from the same house as Kaden, if rules were the problem wouldn’t all 3 boys be wary about going over? This is a Genuine question. This is probably the 3rd time I have heard them mention the issue between the girlfriend’s son and Kaden. Why is no adult investigating for the children’s well being? I know Kaden can be annoying to most of you but he is a child at the end of the day whose overall wellness matters too.

Jess isn’t perfect, don’t get me started, BUT she started letting them go overnight. That’s a big step. Now it’s up to Drake to make up the rest of the way.

Just from the videos Kyson and Landen seem to follow rules better than Kaden so they may not have as hard of a time there.

[Hayls]

Cannot believe kaden was the first to get a “girlfriend” LOL I thought for sure it would have been Kyson.

[ReyRey61]

I’m glad that, when he goes to Drake’s, Kyson gets some time away from his twin. And vice versa.

[Hoe4Christmas]

if matt leblanc (joey from friends) had a son i’m convinced he would look exactly like kyson


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[Ernestthecow]

if matt leblanc (joey from friends) had a son i’m convinced he would look exactly like kyson


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I'm so glad somebody has finally said this. I've been seeing it for ages too and I don't know why loool

[ReyRey61]

if matt leblanc (joey from friends) had a son i’m convinced he would look exactly like kyson


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I'm so glad somebody has finally said this. I've been seeing it for ages too and I don't know why loool

Maybe he IS the baby daddy.


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[Ginger13]

I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned this or not, but I can’t help but compare Chris’s birthday post for Landen to Tommy’s (his biological son) birthday post it just doesn’t sit right with me and I could only imagine how I’d feel if my father posted that