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[Sapphire]

I'm working on getting medication with my doctor.

[actuallydear]

Seriously, Root and others, stop antagonizing her. Does it really matter if you are right at this point?

After reading the latest posts by Sapphire, I felt sympathetic to her because it does seem like she's been through a lot. But to go ahead and add on extra tragedies that are lies doesn't help. It makes me think "what if this is another lie too?".

Sapphire, I hope one day you find yourself and your happiness. I do think it might be a good idea for you to step away from the forum for a bit and if you come back, be yourself. Don't create a new persona and have us guessing "is that her?" while you create new lies, because the same thing will keep happening again and again.

[Sapphire]

I think the main reason why I kept coming back pretending to be someone else was because I knew I wouldn't have been accepted if I came explaining myself and apologizing. I knew a mod would ban me if I came back. I knew nobody would actually want to be my friend. When I was Motheringthem, that was me. I liked being here. I was feeling okay. Nothing had happened to draw me over the edge. I was able to make friends and nobody would have shunned me because I was Sapphire. That's the only reason I came back with a different username, different story. In the hopes of not being obvious and being able to enjoy this forum and have friends.

[actuallydear]

I think the main reason why I kept coming back pretending to be someone else was because I knew I wouldn't have been accepted if I came explaining myself and apologizing. I knew a mod would ban me if I came back. I knew nobody would actually want to be my friend. When I was Motheringthem, that was me. I liked being here. I was feeling okay. Nothing had happened to draw me over the edge. I was able to make friends and nobody would have shunned me because I was Sapphire. That's the only reason I came back with a different username, different story. In the hopes of not being obvious and being able to enjoy this forum and have friends.

Why did you snap when you were you/motheringthem?

People are only acting like this toward you because no one knows what to believe at this point. It's all very confusing and takes away from the reason most of us come here: for YT gossip.

[RootBeerFloatie]

Seriously, Root and others, stop antagonizing her. Does it really matter if you are right at this point?

This isn't therapy corner where we all sit around and hold hands and tell her we love her and forgive her. Her entire history here has been lies, lies, lies and people fall for it every single time.

[Mammabear]

I personally don't think any online forums are the place to be looking for friendship. We may all come for the same purpose to openly discuss the vlogs, but it is not the basis for a friendship. Friendship requires so much more .. #justmyopinion


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[westwuff]

Seriously, Root and others, stop antagonizing her. Does it really matter if you are right at this point?

This isn't therapy corner where we all sit around and hold hands and tell her we love her and forgive her. Her entire history here has been lies, lies, lies and people fall for it every single time.

Never said we should be providing therapy. And if you take everything anyone says as the truth, then that's kind of your own fault if you believe what random strangers say on the internet.

[saltliferocks]

You're right. It's not a place for therapy. However, if you saw someone standing near the edge of a cliff, you would never yell "jump"...

The whole situation feels very heavy and dark to me.. Sapphire, I honestly wish you could keep it together & snark with us. It seems like this board brings you much more pain than fun, though.

[gwsb]

I have a feeling every time one of us says "my husband.." in comparison to Bryan or we talk about our kid near Ollie or Finn's age it's a trigger for Sapphire. If Missy is a reminder of what Sapphire lost then we are triggers too because most of us originally connected to B&M for some commonality. I don't think this place will ever not cause pain for you Sapphire.

There's an infant loss and miscarriage board on baby center. I used it and found it helpful. There's also a lot of off topic boards from relationship advice, debit management,etc. maybe you can find something there and bond over that instead of snark.

[Sapphire]

I have a feeling every time one of us says "my husband.." in comparison to Bryan or we talk about our kid near Ollie or Finn's age it's a trigger for Sapphire. If Missy is a reminder of what Sapphire lost then we are triggers too because most of us originally connected to B&M for some commonality. I don't think this place will ever not cause pain for you Sapphire.

There's an infant loss and miscarriage board on baby center. I used it and found it helpful. There's also a lot of off topic boards from relationship advice, debit management,etc. maybe you can find something there and bond over that instead of snark.

Every place in a sense will be triggering because everyone talks about they're husband and child(ren). It's not anyone else's fault. It's just something that I have to come to terms with. I've lost a lot and I haven't found much healing. I'm in the process. I'm just trying to find a way to keep myself stable until the miracle happens.

I did enjoy my time here. The board doesn't necessarily cause me pain, it's me who's making things worse for myself. The board was a great way to get snarky because I wouldn't do that in real life. I was able to release a lot of anger and resentment that I felt towards some YouTuber's who take everything they have for granted. The board was a great distraction. I'm still just trying to find balance. Being sad and angry is normal but I'm an extremist. I can't just feel a little sad or a little angry. It's all negative emotions flooding me and I'm trying to find the proper coping mechanisms, like breathing through the intense times.

[Sapphire]

I think what threw me over the edge recently was that I was in a very sad point and I saw people were finding out I was Sapphire and so I exploded because I knew I was done. Nobody was going to give me a chance if they knew I was, well, me.
I made another account for a reason that made sense at the time but now that I think about it, it lacked sense.

[GymChick]

I think what threw me over the edge recently was that I was in a very sad point and I saw people were finding out I was Sapphire and so I exploded because I knew I was done. Nobody was going to give me a chance if they knew I was, well, me.
I made another account for a reason that made sense at the time but now that I think about it, it lacked sense.

You need to find a new therapist who is practiced in cognitive behavioural therapy. And for moments when you get triggered try to practice "distraction" therapy. You can google it but it is basically as soon as you recognize those emotions go out and do something that will distract your mind.

[Cgl33]

This really isn't the place to find friends. We don't get very personal at all. If I were you, I would stop watching DB and get off of this forum. Some people here have sympathy for you and have said some helpful things, but we're not going to keep talking about your situation. You're not going to get the support and friendship that you are looking for here.

[cats-or-die]

Dear God I can't anymore. She could be telling the truth, or she could just be an intelligent troll trolling us for the umpteenth time.


xoxo gossip cat

[Theirmom]

Y'all are just playing into her cycle here. In case anyone missed it, I'll post it again.

Angry outburst
Defensive bickering
Woe is me
Sunbathes in a sea of sympathy
Joins in on the gossip gleefully while rug weeping previous outburst
And when the asspats stop because she takes some of the gossiping too far and some members call her out on it, the cycle starts over.

Just to be clear, we're at the "Woe is me" and "bathing her in a sea of sympathy" part of the cycle.
Which means that when Krypto's temporary ban is up, she's going to come back, rug sweep all her behaviour, and join in on the gossip like none of this ever happened. She'll say EXACTLY the right things to get people to agree with her. She'll be delighted with all the head pats and "Yessss! I was just going to say the same thing!" comments. And then, bolstered by all the positive feedback when she posts critical comments, she'll take it too far and wish for physical harm to come to one of them, or something equally disturbing. At which point the whole forum stops to say "whoa whoa whoa. That's a bit much". And then she'll write a ten paragraph post about how we're all hypocrite bitches because we stopped fawning all over her posts. Then back to pages of bickering, followed up with sob stories about her mental health.

This is her cycle. And you're all falling for it. Again.

[hannahbanana]

Goodness I'm just barely catching up. It kinda makes sense why she had such a huge hatred for Missy, because she had everything that sapphire ever wanted.
I'm pretty sure it's also a lie, but I doubt she ever met Bryan at VidCon.
And I agree with TheirMom, how many times has sapphire (and all her other accounts) have snapped at everyone, took a breather, then came back to explain the reason for their outburst? I do feel bad that sapphire came on here hoping to find friends and such, but a YT gossip forum isn't the place. I also agree on how maybe it would be best if sapphire stopped watching DB, or any other YT family, that can cause to trigger any emotions. I can only imagine how sapphire felt when she found out that they were expecting Finn.
Also, if anyone ever suspects a new user to be sapphire (or any other banned user), and you don't want to out them in the forums, please do feel free to pm a mod so we can keep an eye out.

[cats-or-die]

Y'all are just playing into her cycle here. In case anyone missed it, I'll post it again.

Angry outburst
Defensive bickering
Woe is me
Sunbathes in a sea of sympathy
Joins in on the gossip gleefully while rug weeping previous outburst
And when the asspats stop because she takes some of the gossiping too far and some members call her out on it, the cycle starts over.

Just to be clear, we're at the "Woe is me" and "bathing her in a sea of sympathy" part of the cycle.
Which means that when Krypto's temporary ban is up, she's going to come back, rug sweep all her behaviour, and join in on the gossip like none of this ever happened. She'll say EXACTLY the right things to get people to agree with her. She'll be delighted with all the head pats and "Yessss! I was just going to say the same thing!" comments. And then, bolstered by all the positive feedback when she posts critical comments, she'll take it too far and wish for physical harm to come to one of them, or something equally disturbing. At which point the whole forum stops to say "whoa whoa whoa. That's a bit much". And then she'll write a ten paragraph post about how we're all hypocrite bitches because we stopped fawning all over her posts. Then back to pages of bickering, followed up with sob stories about her mental health.

This is her cycle. And you're all falling for it. Again.

I 100% agree with you. It's all a cycle that we've played into numerous times. It's always such a wild ride. Hahahaha


xoxo gossip cat

[twomommies]

http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f ... 07#p688907

Oh and here's where she made a new account, told herself to go "get raped" and then revealed that she was sexually abused as a child.

And fine one stillbirth, no miscarriage. I'm sure you can prove it with a picture, just the way you proved that Bryan and Missy said nasty things to you on facebook.

Didn't she JUST say a few pages back that she had a miscarriage? Please go get help.

class, not ass

[maplecross]

Actually Sapphire said this:

I didn't miscarry. I did have a stillbirth. Again, I could prove that with just one picture.

Nobody has to believe me necessarily. But people wanted an explanation. That's the explanation. There's a reason why I'm messed up and it's not because it's a hobby.

Who knows anymore....

[ashleyrr2k]

Trapped in the closet part 11 sapphire edition

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