Gardner Quad Squad - The Freeloaders (Part 10)

[amyisnewhere]

Last year's Halloween video with their great expectations for this year because the girls were magically going to know how to behave (FF to the last few mins)

They looked a lot happier last year


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I watched about two minutes of their "we're tired vlog" because it made me happy to see it... lol. And Ashley said she and Tyson had wanted to do wizard of oz for a long time and they were glad it turned out do cute. So they admitted it. Why ask the kads what the girls should be??? And why weren't the girls something THEY would know and enjoy??? This holiday is about kids and their enjoyment. It literally has nothing to do with parents. The first Halloween is the parents Halloween after that--not yours.

[Snarkadoodle Doo]

This vlog is old & pretty interesting, the girls were still on oxygen & she has everyone with a propped bottle, not holding anyone, & then at the end Tyler talks about his fmla leave, we all know how that ends, he never worked again

I get why parents of multiples without help prop bottles but they had lots of help and her husband got to stay home. Never mind they're so spaced out how can she watch any of them well enough. Aspiration risks. OMG.

Without a doubt there is no way around propping bottles with multiples, but why couldn’t she have switched off holding one of them instead of propping all 4 which I thought was strange, at least one would get some one on one attention, but of course who would have done the vlogging? Apparently Tyler was MIA , they pretty much said they did all on their own back then

Yet the blog description says "This is how we feed them WHEN we are on our own".... Meaning they were not always on their own, like they always say. I don't remember if it was here or on the other site that shall not be named (hahaha), but I swear that I remember someone sharing something that proved they had nannys or nurses and family with them pretty much 24/7 when they came home and then for a while afterwards. I have two sets of triplets in my family and try as they may, both of them needed a lot of help when they came home. It's hard, I'm not discounting that. But it just proves that their facade started a long time ago and now it's starting to crumble. Pretending you don't need help because you're perfect parents will come back to bite you in the ass at some point. The sad thing is they started this facade thinking it would gain them a huge following and "fans". But they would have found just being themselves and showing people that life's not perfect, especially with multiples, but they try their best would have probably gotten them a lot further.

[Sammy16]

I got a good laugh out of today's vlog. She doesn't know what's wrong with the girls to make them behave so badly?! I'll tell you what's wrong with the girls: it's their parents!!!

A Cabbage Patch doll was the first doll Tyson remembers having

[DoodleBop]

Without a doubt there is no way around propping bottles with multiples, but why couldn’t she have switched off holding one of them instead of propping all 4 which I thought was strange, at least one would get some one on one attention, but of course who would have done the vlogging? Apparently Tyler was MIA , they pretty much said they did all on their own back then

Yet the blog description says "This is how we feed them WHEN we are on our own".... Meaning they were not always on their own, like they always say. I don't remember if it was here or on the other site that shall not be named (hahaha), but I swear that I remember someone sharing something that proved they had nannys or nurses and family with them pretty much 24/7 when they came home and then for a while afterwards. I have two sets of triplets in my family and try as they may, both of them needed a lot of help when they came home. It's hard, I'm not discounting that. But it just proves that their facade started a long time ago and now it's starting to crumble. Pretending you don't need help because you're perfect parents will come back to bite you in the ass at some point. The sad thing is they started this facade thinking it would gain them a huge following and "fans". But they would have found just being themselves and showing people that life's not perfect, especially with multiples, but they try their best would have probably gotten them a lot further.

Most people with multiples, even more so ones with 2 or more have help. They just presented themselves as going in it alone which isn't the reality. I just don't see why she didn't have them propped in like a semi circle with her in the middle or her holding 1-2 of them while the others were propped and switching out since they usually have help. Them propped over the entire living room with the dog jumping up on the sofa where they're propped ah stress.



Side note those babies came home on a NICU 3 hour routine why didn't they carry that on into older baby and toddlerhood. I don't see why some people think there is more freedom in no routine.

[Guest]

I think the Costco vlog is an older vlog. Tubby says that they haven't been to Costco in two weeks. But in the whining vlog yesterday a KAD said they saw them in Costco that day.

You'd think that they would have cA$hley'ed in on Jimmy Kimmels "We ate all your halloween candy". Except I bet that is EVERYDAY with Tyler in the house and the ff would not react.

[Snarkadoodle Doo]

Testing, testing 123.... Does this photo show up?
So Tyler says he has stopped drinking Coke, huh? That is definitely not the smoothie you see the girls drinking later.
Actually... Look closely.... The smoothie is tucked in his elbow behind the churros

[eskayem]

Our dearest AssWit,

We get it, you're tired. Most of us are. I'll be the first to admit I am too. My husband has been gone most of the last few months due to fires that were beyond his control that wiped out thousands of homes and buildings. Including your dear friend Stephanie's relatives home. I don't know if he personally helped with that home, but he was over there while Santa Rosa was on fire. It rubbed me the wrong way when you showed off your ill deserved mansion house while I saw and heard stories of other homes being destroyed. Bet you didn't see what I did there. No? That's ok, I'll proceed. You don't realize how fortunate you are to be able to sleep in and stay at home with your girls, I'd love a day to sleep in past 6, but you know what? I can't. Since I was in college, and then out, I worked from the ground up creating my business, what I do, is really none of your business so I won't post it here, but I will say it was a lot of hard work, dedication, and money. I had saved up my money for a breast augmentation and actually spent most of that money helping my business grow. Reaching out for clients, most of whom, are still with me. Loyalty where it counts, because it's been almost a decade. When my oldest was born, we were thrilled. She came with a whole host of health issues. Insurance is amaaaaaaaazing, look into it. She's alive now because of doctors and nurses understanding her condition. My father in law, who is an interesting fellow, helped me run my business while the first 3 months my husband and I spent some time in the Ronald McDonald house. Please, don't pray for us. Our daughter is fine. By the time our second daughter was born I was beyond exhausted. I had a little one; don't worry, it doesn't matter how far apart they are, and a newborn. You want to talk exhausted? At least your girls had a routine after the NICU, I had to create one. Was it hard? Absolutely. My hat was off to you when you were able to actually keep the 3 hours routine when they all came home. I didn't know how you and your LardAss husband did it. Then I saw you got help. Yeah, hat is firmly placed on my head and away from you. Not that there's anything wrong with help, because there isn't, but because you lied to so many of us. I've even visited Utah, saw you in public a few times, and you weren't overly obnoxious like the Vlogs portrayed. Then I met with my friend, she was one of your nurses. I won't disclose her name, I respect her. Yeah, to hear stories about you upsets me. Especially because you seldom visited your girls. I don't know why you didn't, and don't try and explain yourself. The past is the past, won't change how I feel about you. You weren't working, full or part time, so you really have no excuse that's worth my time reading. When my youngest was born, she was early. Again, doesn't matter how much. That isn't the point. But she was in the NICU for more than a month. I'll tell you that much. Leave you guessing. It's fun to create suspense huh? I still had a business to run and manage, and 2 little girls at home who needed their Mom. Your girls were all together for most of their NICU stay, so you went to see one, you could see all. Whether you did or not, whatever at this point. But I still spent time with all 3 girls. I have wonderful memories in the form of pictures. Yes we have some videos but I'm not always in them. Neither is my husband. It's about seeing and hearing the girls and the crazy/silly things they do. As my girls have gotten older we've explored individually and collectively their strengths and weaknesses. With no shame attached. My youngest has a lisp. It's the cutest thing ever. Hearing her sing Moana's You're Welcome last night? Down right comical. But it's what I need in my life. Comedy. Marriages can't work on my dry sarcasm or my husband's over the top cheesiness alone. Each of my girls knows how loved they truly are. I can't begin to tell you how exhausted I am come the weekend. Having my girls in dance and soccer is pretty overwhelming, but seeing them enjoy themselves is the best reward. I put my dreams of becoming a Principal Dancer aside so I could be a mother. Never once have I regretted it, and I was damn good. I even had a few scholarships I had to turn down. And that's ok. But telling us you're exhausted because you refuse to actually parent your kids, and instead be the babysitter? Isn't ok. It's funny how you always tell us how one of the girls did something cute right before you turned the camera on, seems unnatural. It'd be believable if the girls could effectively communicate, but they can't. Your girls have so little chance to be an individual. Even with the costumes, it was a group costume. Indie didn't look happy at all, and by your own admission, she was rubbing her eyes all night as well as crying. Over stimulation is the worst, but that's ok, you had fun. All that matters, right? I honestly laugh when you tell me you're exhausted because it's all self created. You don't "deserve" or have "earned" a break. You're a Mom, like it or not. The second your needs and wants became priority is when it all went downhill. Your children's needs and wants should have com first the day you found out you were pregnant. And should continue to this day, 35 months later. But they don't, and they never will. Your girls crave structure, they crave boundaries, and they crave real food. Stop doing what's easiest, and start doing what benefits them the most. There's so many toddler friendly freezer meals, I've even sent you messages offering to send you some, but you've blocked me and I've since deleted that account. You can try Googling them but it was never my real name. The recipes are all over the internet, instead of blasting your face with chemicals, look them up. You could even claim to go to the Library instead of the Massage Parlor and look up recipes, print them up, laminate them, and create meal plans. And stick to them. If you mapped out how often your girls eat out, you might be surprised. Hell, you make enough, you could even pay someone to do this or even a KAD would do it for free. You could even try and pimp out a Toddler Friendly cook book. More money, right? And where's that infertility calendar that proceeds would have paid for someone's infertility? Oh I was so proud of you when you said that, now? With the year almost over and you promising your poor little KADs it would be done before Christmas? Yeah. Broken hearted KADs, no calendar.

Just fucking be a Mom. I challenge you.

Signed,
An honestly exhausted BUT happy Momma

[Night lady]

I'd like to challenge her too.
If she thinks HER LIFE is hard, try being in my shoes. I'm going to put this out there cuz I'm not ashamed. I'm a recovering addict who used for 13 years. I'm now 3+years clean by putting myself in a rehab for 5 months in 2014. It's a daily struggle but I DO IT WITH NO COMPLAINTS!! I'm talking about my will to live. This is by far the hardest thing I ever did/do. I lived on the streets and I had nobody. Now I have an awesome husband and grown kids. Moral of the story, I HAD TO LISTEN TO ADVICE FROM OTHERS AND I HAD TO CHANGE!! Just as Ashley needs to listen and change her ways with her parenting. Nobody can do it for you miss Ashley.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.

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[eskayem]

I'm proud of you NightLady, I gave up drinking alcohol last year, I cook with it, but not for the alcohol just for the flavor. I have mass respect for you.

[Night lady]

I'm proud of you NightLady, I gave up drinking alcohol last year, I cook with it, but not for the alcohol just for the flavor. I have mass respect for you.

Thank you so much eskayem!! Love ya!!

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[GA Peach70]

We all know that they had help. Hell, they, especially Asswipe, can’t do anything without help. She can’t even bathe her own children and put them to bed without it. Didn’t she even admit in a blog that her mom came over so much to help when they brought the girls home so they could sleep? I thought I posted the link not too long ago. Hmm...I’ll have to look for it. I would think most people, if they were able to, would have help especially with babies with oxygen tubes, etc., and with multiples. I know I would have been a nervous wreck and would have wanted my mom for sure. However, I would have admitted it. I know not everyone has family or friends who would or are able to but that is definitely not the case with this family. I think she distanced herself from the girls, not holding them and bonding with them, because she does not have a maternal bone in her body. I also don’t think she was happy they were premature and needed all the tubes, etc. It interfered with her definition of “perfect.” She probably though they would come out looking like a full term baby and that they would learn everything on their own. You know, how to talk, use the bathroom, and especially “perform” for her.

It would be amazing if these two dumb shits would do something for a change for their children. Put them first for once in their lives. You two pieces of shit owe these girls so much more than constantly invading their privacy, exploiting them, and causing them to be so unhealthy and behind developmental wise. It is truly baffling to me how, day after day, you keep doing the same shit then have the nerve to bitch & complain. You did this. You caused them to be like this. People tried to tell you but you don’t ever listen and you won’t listen now. I know if your family ever says anything then they probably won’t be allowed to see the girls but come on people. Step up and get the girls the help the need and please put a stop to all the vlogging by exploiting the girls for money. If you two can’t afford your lifestyle on your own, then why should almost 3 year olds provide it for you? You aren’t doing this for anyone but yourselves. I’m sure your girls would much rather go to the bathroom in the toilet and not their diapers. Seriously, at 3 years old, they don’t want shit and piss touching their butts. I’m sure they would much rather be able to communicate instead of whine, cry, hit and bite. Can’t you see they are so frustrated and bored? I’m sure they would much rather have a routine, fun stuff to do centered around them and not you and learn new things every day like 3 year olds should. Not call a sucker a guckie. Not, when asked a question, throw random words out. They would love to have a actual conversation with their parents without them holding a fucking camera in their faces showing embarrassing moments. They would love to have both parents love spending time with them instead of going on vacations all the time. They would love to have both parents show the same excitement they show when applying their makeup for the KAD and the same excitement the parents show when showing off their new house when spending time with them and their sisters. These poor girls. If you think they are behaving bad now just wait until they see all the vlogs and shit when they are old enough to voice their own opinions. You have really done a disservice to your children and they will hate you for it. You do know that it is a possibility down the road they may not want anything to do with any of the family. Asswipe $ Waddles because of everything you didn’t do and the rest of the family because nobody stepped up to help them. You two are really selfish, horrible parents.

[DoodleBop]

You rock, Night Lady, probably why you have a superhero name.

I care for my disabled children while being disabled myself and the only help I have is my husband when he's not at work. The only reason most people couldn't handle their lives is that most people don't want to live in chaos if they can avoid it.

[GA Peach70]

I'd like to challenge her too.
If she thinks HER LIFE is hard, try being in my shoes. I'm going to put this out there cuz I'm not ashamed. I'm a recovering addict who used for 13 years. I'm now 3+years clean by putting myself in a rehab for 5 months in 2014. It's a daily struggle but I DO IT WITH NO COMPLAINTS!! I'm talking about my will to live. This is by far the hardest thing I ever did/do. I lived on the streets and I had nobody. Now I have an awesome husband and grown kids. Moral of the story, I HAD TO LISTEN TO ADVICE FROM OTHERS AND I HAD TO CHANGE!! Just as Ashley needs to listen and change her ways with her parenting. Nobody can do it for you miss Ashley.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.

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That’s awesome Night Lady! I know it is so very difficult to get and stay clean. I’m proud of you! I used to drink a lot from the time I was 15 until I was 23. I had a lot of family issues and it was my escape. When I met my husband at 23 years old, he changed my life drastically and I quit because of him. Was it hard? Absolutely. But well worth it. I haven’t had a drink in over 30 years.

[Abbiedownunder]

I think that's why so many of us get so pissed off about it all. Because it appears so many of us are dealing with our own constant issues that are out of their realm of understanding.

Like peachie has been saying, these two have shown preciousness since day one and nothing has changed in 3 years. Also, flaunting the excesses, the date nights, the vacations, the new house, the girlsssss clothes just rubs it the faces of those who aren't as fortunate and is maddening.

Their true character has been exposed when they can't even be bothered to write a quick thank you note to people who have sent them stuff. They haven't even given a thought that the gifts sent may have caused a bit of money issue, temporarily, for the person who sent them and so don't even understand how a quick note would mean so much to people.

That they were showing house tours during all the hurricanes and bush fires when thousands of people were losing their homes was just disgusting. They didn't give a shit.

Anyway, I just worry about the girls. I don't know them but to see these little girls lives being destroyed by, greed, selfishness and self obsession is just so very sad.

[lmmomSD]

I'd like to challenge her too.
If she thinks HER LIFE is hard, try being in my shoes. I'm going to put this out there cuz I'm not ashamed. I'm a recovering addict who used for 13 years. I'm now 3+years clean by putting myself in a rehab for 5 months in 2014. It's a daily struggle but I DO IT WITH NO COMPLAINTS!! I'm talking about my will to live. This is by far the hardest thing I ever did/do. I lived on the streets and I had nobody. Now I have an awesome husband and grown kids. Moral of the story, I HAD TO LISTEN TO ADVICE FROM OTHERS AND I HAD TO CHANGE!! Just as Ashley needs to listen and change her ways with her parenting. Nobody can do it for you miss Ashley.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.

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You go! I have 14 years, and it took me a few tries to get it. My blessing is that my kids don't remember me high.
Keep it up!

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[Night lady]

Thank you each and every one of you. For those in recovery too.... God bless you, bravo!!
Anyone struggling, you are worth it to recover. I'm here for anyone who wants to talk.
I don't mean to take the focus off these greedy Greedners... It's just the same type of listening they need to do to have productive members of society with their girls.
Like I said "Nothing changes if nothing changes "
God bless you all.

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[BellaCat]

You know bison is still drinking soda. They had 4 large soda cups at lunch time. They sell water there for 25 cents a bottle. Why not get a couple pizza slices and water. They had smoothies right before. Give them some damn water!

I'll admit I have things easy over here. I wouldn't want to trade her life for mine. I have put the work into my kids and they are all very good kids. I will even go and say extremely great kids. It didn't happen by some miracle. I shaped them and taught them how they should act and behave. We have rules, a routine, and consequences.


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[lmmomSD]

You know bison is still drinking soda. They had 4 large soda cups at lunch time. They sell water there for 25 cents a bottle. Why not get a couple pizza slices and water. They had smoothies right before. Give them some damn water!

I'll admit I have things easy over here. I wouldn't want to trade her life for mine. I have put the work into my kids and they are all very good kids. I will even go and say extremely great kids. It didn't happen by some miracle. I shaped them and taught them how they should act and behave. We have rules, a routine, and consequences.


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It is hard work. But it's even harder when you don't have limits. And when the kids learn the rules and know there are consequences, it generally gets easier.

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[girlielove]

Ahh, the Greedners. They are entitled to an easy life, you know. Four people in their care be damned. If it's not easy, it's not happening. That's why they still have diapers, and crib tents, and treats, treats, treats! That's why they let the girls hang off the cart, and stand in the cart, and even tell them to "dance!" while they are standing in the cart. That's easier than being a parent and making the girls sit down or go home.

Tubbs comes walking up to their grocery cart with a handful of treats and the girls get excited and yell," I need have it! I need it!" Sticky, sugary treats. Tubbs says he only gets one bite; why have a bite at all. No one in that family is going without their daily treats.

Assley lets the girls put makeup on their lips and when they push each other over it, she just says, "Sisters are always fighting." I guess the girls didn't put on their best performance at Costco today because as Ashley whines at the end of the vlog, "No one came up to us to tell us how good the girls were being." My kids hate shopping with me, so I don't take them. But then I'm not an attention-seeker like the Greedners are.

Assley shares her smoothie with the girls and both Tubs and Ass tell the girls it is a "snooty." One of the girls points to a carton of eggs and both "parents" say, "You're right, that is an eggie." Oh and one more, "Yes, those are wipies." Why oh why do they perpetuate that baby talk?? It's maddening! Those girls stand no chance of learning how to talk correctly when their own "parents" can't even speak properly. Doing those girls such a huge disservice.

The girls apparently want cabbage patch dolls for Christmas. And a $300 nutcracker display. Oh, and "mommy loves little villages." The girls need a size 2-4 for mittens. Didn't they buy them mittens when they went to Cornbelly's? They needed new ones today. The bigger twins were struggling to walk in their boots. Maybe that's why they are always so fussy; they're being hobbled. Esme was on her dad's shoulders without him holding on to her legs, because he was pushing the cart with the other girls standing in it. No one came up to him and told him what he's doing is dangerous? I guess when you want attention, any will do.

"We love pizza huh" Assley tells the girls as they devour giant slices of the stuff. They also had soda cups, not water cups, and they wonder why the girls are so crazy with all the sugar and no way to get it out. Ashely says that the girls are not going out as much because it's been colder out. Whatever happened to that indoor play place with the slides they went to? Or the indoor playground at the mall they always frequent. Sign them up for Gymboree, or even a fast food playground. Something, anything. Instead, at the end of the vlog they are sitting on the couch together, opening presents, being taught that life is all about materialism and "Oh girls, WHAT DID YOU GET?!"

I don't feel sorry for them, they made this bed. I don't believe that someone stole a pot either... That doesn't make any sense. Now Tubby needs to go get another one, even though that plant is dead anyway, and he does still have one on his porch. Their greed is rampant and being passed down to their kids.

[utahmom]

The most recent blog -- take them to Costco on empty stomachs and then give them pure sugar - churros and 'snouties' (smoothies). Quit encouraging the mispronunciation of words. What happened to the mittens from when they went to Corn Belly's? Having to buy new mittens already? And LardAss "one bite of churro is my quota". Not buying it for one minute.