Daily Bumps: On The Road To Nowhere (part 109)

[Hereforthemamadrama]

Wait why would they leave their dogs to their parents and sister

[PirateWench8]

Wait why would they leave their dogs to their parents and sister

They were in Tennessee and left the dogs with family while they were away and Finn stayed with Cassie as well. As far as I know now Luna is still with Cassie and Carlo's with CeeCee and Cassie's dog Koda is at Mimi and Papa's with Karma. Cassie's dogs still do not get along. CeeCee gets along a lot better with Luna than she does with Koda. Koda still goes after CeeCee.

[roseter]

The new vlog titled “We’re Moving to Nashville” - are they though, or is it the usual click bait BS? I did skip through the video so maybe I missed it, but I didn’t see them say they were moving anywhere in the video


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[PirateWench8]

The new vlog titled “We’re Moving to Nashville” - are they though, or is it the usual click bait BS? I did skip through the video so maybe I missed it, but I didn’t see them say they were moving anywhere in the video


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They said nothing about moving in the video. They visited a cemetery, Bryan sang a crappy new song off key, Ollie went looking for Critters in the yard, Ollie and Bryan got their haircut by Travis and they sang happy birthday to Bryan while facetiming with Finn who is in California. My heart broke for poor Finn. He always seems like an afterthought. Hopefully they definitely do not have another child. Poor Finn is already ignored and treated like a second class citizen.

[Emily48098]

What the flying FUCK?

I haven't watched these losers in over a year and Bryan is even MORE narcissistic than he was before. He has also packed on quite a bit of weight.

[PirateWench8]

They just did a quick Family Update. They're in California and they say they're going to look at more houses so I guess that means the Vlog Title the other day was indeed Click Bait.

[Amelia322]

I’m curious to know their financial situation lol


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[Edenberry]

I’m curious to know their financial situation lol


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According to Social Blade, they've lost over half their income since this time last year. Down over $500k. But that would be if they were making the high end of their Social Blade earnings (which is unlikely).

[BishandDish]

Their views have steadily declined for the past 2 years. There's no way they are financially okay.

[amyfalafalagain]

Did they also take out a PPP loan?

[Landongmama]

Bryan posted a reel on YouTube a few days and asked Finn if he wanted to get a house or an RV. Finn answered him and the only thing that could be understood was "RB" the rest sounded like a toddler was answering. He's 5. This is gross negligence for his parents to allow his speech to go unchecked this long. I'm so angry for that kid. They have done him such a disservice. Have they ever had his ears checked? It is very possible that his "uncontrollable" behavior comes from being unable to communicate appropriately and have his needs met. Shitty parents! I think they will string along the move for months. Maybe RV for a while and then keep talking about different locations to move to before finally settling on a house? If their channel totally tanks maybe Mimi and PaPa will let them move into their garage and they will have come full circle. Quite honestly unless they sold their house for a profit they probably cannot afford another house. Even in Nashville, houses are not cheap. I personally don't think they will move to Nashville because the entire time they were there Missy complained about being cold. Between Bryan wasting tons of money of music and Missy wasting tons on her horses and chickens, they are going to have to pinch those pennies and not blow through it or they really will be moving back into Mimi and Papa's garage.

[PirateWench8]

Bryan posted a reel on YouTube a few days and asked Finn if he wanted to get a house or an RV. Finn answered him and the only thing that could be understood was "RB" the rest sounded like a toddler was answering. He's 5. This is gross negligence for his parents to allow his speech to go unchecked this long. I'm so angry for that kid. They have done him such a disservice. Have they ever had his ears checked? It is very possible that his "uncontrollable" behavior comes from being unable to communicate appropriately and have his needs met. Shitty parents! I think they will string along the move for months. Maybe RV for a while and then keep talking about different locations to move to before finally settling on a house? If their channel totally tanks maybe Mimi and PaPa will let them move into their garage and they will have come full circle. Quite honestly unless they sold their house for a profit they probably cannot afford another house. Even in Nashville, houses are not cheap. I personally don't think they will move to Nashville because the entire time they were there Missy complained about being cold. Between Bryan wasting tons of money of music and Missy wasting tons on her horses and chickens, they are going to have to pinch those pennies and not blow through it or they really will be moving back into Mimi and Papa's garage.

Missy actually did address Finn’s speech issues awhile back. He was evaluated shortly before the pandemic hit last year. He was scheduled to start therapy and then California went into lockdown the first time. Missy said she would not go into details about what is wrong with Finn and the therapy he is receiving to protect his privacy. She even stated she wouldn’t have even addressed it at all if people weren’t criticizing Finn’s speech to them constantly.


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[Ehxsnohs]

Did they leave the chickens and goats behind? Sorry I haven't watched their vlog in forever, just follow along here and IG.

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[lmmomSD]

Did they leave the chickens and goats behind? Sorry I haven't watched their vlog in forever, just follow along here and IG.

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The goats were gone long ago. Bryan gave some fairy tale about how they were "just fostering" the goats, and had to give them back. Right. That's why they were referred to as "new family members", and allowed in the house. I think once they weren't tiny and cute, and were used to having the run of the house, they got rid of them.
And I don't believe for a minute that they aren't discussing Finn's issue to protect his privacy. They have been pimping both of those kids out since the pee stick had 2 lines. They used Ollie sitting on a potty in the thumbnail. She probably can't explain what his issue is coherently. This is the same woman who went on a rant on Snapchat about how Ollie was reciting Shakespeare at age 3, and they just hadn't caught it on camera back when people were asking about Ollie's speech delays. And why aren't they doing speech therapy via telehealth like millions of parents who actually put effort into raising their children?
They really are shitty people. Pets are "new family members", but are given away the minute they require any effort. I am still convinced that the only reason they didn't rehome Luna before now was because they were afraid of the backlash. Missy is just like Ellie and Katie. No way they are "best friends". They all wanted kids "so badly", but when parenting turned out to be hard work, basically gave up.
Rant over.

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[BishandDish]

I cant believe I'm defending these idiots but im pretty sure he was doing telehealth for speech in an instagram story before, but I could be wrong.

I think she doesn't talk about it because his delay is probably due to her inattentiveness as a parent. There has been a rise in speech delay in children in the past decade, and researchers believe its due to increased screen time. We always see their kids face in front of TV or tablet screen.

[lmmomSD]

Don't feel bad for correcting a wrong assumption. If they are doing telehealth speech therapy, I'm glad. And it's probably 100% accurate that it's inattentiveness that at least contributed to his delay. They used to just put them in the "playroom" with a Disney video and leave them there for who knows how long while Bryan and Missy played video games and scrolled IG.

[Edenberry]

If I had to take a guess (a guess, mind you) of Finn's diagnosis, it would be along the line of MERP (Mixed Expressive Receptive Processing) disorder. My son has it and was diagnosed at age 4 (it took forever to get an appt.). He's 8 and has improved drastically in his ability to say words clearly (sounds perfectly normal now) but he still struggles to FIND the words he wants to say.

They basically told me the words he hears go into his brain and get mixed around, and his brain struggles to put them into their correct order (so listening to directions/stories/etc are hard), and then the words he wants to SAY also have to go through that mix and he realllly struggles to explain things (stories he read/how he feels/things that happened to him that day, etc). He just has to slow down and say things in pieces. His ADHD also adds to this struggle. He is still in cognitive behavioral therapy (no meds) and he's really showing improvement in his impulse control and frustration management.

His speech is clear as a bell, but he was incoherent at 3, but I tried EVERYTHING to help his speech and vocabulary. We can't say the same thing for Bryan and Missy.

[PirateWench8]

If I had to take a guess (a guess, mind you) of Finn's diagnosis, it would be along the line of MERP (Mixed Expressive Receptive Processing) disorder. My son has it and was diagnosed at age 4 (it took forever to get an appt.). He's 8 and has improved drastically in his ability to say words clearly (sounds perfectly normal now) but he still struggles to FIND the words he wants to say.

They basically told me the words he hears go into his brain and get mixed around, and his brain struggles to put them into their correct order (so listening to directions/stories/etc are hard), and then the words he wants to SAY also have to go through that mix and he realllly struggles to explain things (stories he read/how he feels/things that happened to him that day, etc). He just has to slow down and say things in pieces. His ADHD also adds to this struggle. He is still in cognitive behavioral therapy (no meds) and he's really showing improvement in his impulse control and frustration management.

His speech is clear as a bell, but he was incoherent at 3, but I tried EVERYTHING to help his speech and vocabulary. We can't say the same thing for Bryan and Missy.

Isn’t it a bitch trying to get appointments for speech evaluations? My now 10-year-old is a stutterer like President Biden. Shortly after his fourth birthday we spent months jumping through hoops because of our health insurance trying to get our son evaluated and therapy. It was so frustrating for us and especially for our son. We were constantly criticized by others as being bad parents for not addressing the issue (little did they know). Now with the pandemic we’ve been jumping through hoops again. Our state was very hard hit by the pandemic in the beginning and our governor put in very strict restrictions which many still exist. Our insurance didn’t want to cover the telehealth and I spent months fighting them. It’s been a nightmare.


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[Edenberry]

If I had to take a guess (a guess, mind you) of Finn's diagnosis, it would be along the line of MERP (Mixed Expressive Receptive Processing) disorder. My son has it and was diagnosed at age 4 (it took forever to get an appt.). He's 8 and has improved drastically in his ability to say words clearly (sounds perfectly normal now) but he still struggles to FIND the words he wants to say.

They basically told me the words he hears go into his brain and get mixed around, and his brain struggles to put them into their correct order (so listening to directions/stories/etc are hard), and then the words he wants to SAY also have to go through that mix and he realllly struggles to explain things (stories he read/how he feels/things that happened to him that day, etc). He just has to slow down and say things in pieces. His ADHD also adds to this struggle. He is still in cognitive behavioral therapy (no meds) and he's really showing improvement in his impulse control and frustration management.

His speech is clear as a bell, but he was incoherent at 3, but I tried EVERYTHING to help his speech and vocabulary. We can't say the same thing for Bryan and Missy.

Isn’t it a bitch trying to get appointments for speech evaluations? My now 10-year-old is a stutterer like President Biden. Shortly after his fourth birthday we spent months jumping through hoops because of our health insurance trying to get our son evaluated and therapy. It was so frustrating for us and especially for our son. We were constantly criticized by others as being bad parents for not addressing the issue (little did they know). Now with the pandemic we’ve been jumping through hoops again. Our state was very hard hit by the pandemic in the beginning and our governor put in very strict restrictions which many still exist. Our insurance didn’t want to cover the telehealth and I spent months fighting them. It’s been a nightmare.


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Agreed. Our insurance would only cover a TINY part of the speech therapy and limited that tiny part to two visits a month, when his therapist needed him in every week. It's honestly ridiculous how hard it is to get help for your children, but I know there are often shortages of therapists and so many children needing help. It's just not a good system. I hope you guys have better luck this year!! Proud of you for fighting.

[lmmomSD]

And with all the money B&M spend on selfish things-- a music studio, outdoor kitchen that is only used to keep beer cold, horses, trips for adults only, how much do you want to bet when they reached the maximum number of visits insurance would cover, they didn't keep him going and paying for it themselves?

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