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Lady6 wrote:Cranberry, I thought that we were going to get a pregnancy announcement when
the video 'we got a big surprise for you' came out this week. Turns out it was one of those
wind back videos lol . but I definitely think they will have another baby, especially
given their financial situation.
Me too! I posted this before they uploaded the video, as soon as I saw the title I was ready to race back to YTMD for cred on my psychic abilities. Oh well.

Colette has said that she wants one more, it's just a matter of when. I have a whole theory on when they'll have it (I'll spare everyone the explanation, at least for another page lol), either very soon (hence my prediction post) or in 3 or 4 years. If they have another boy, I think they might have a seventh.
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Lady6 wrote:Does anybody know if Shay was always upbeat and optimistic?
I'm curious to know whether it is a learned behaviour
(something he taught himself later in life) or whether
it's a part of his personality. I'd be interested to know
what he was like as a child, how he behaved at school,
what his social circle was like.
Always now? Yes. Before? Not so much.
It's more learned because when the vlogs began and prior to, they struggled with money a bit (and when you don't have money to support yourselves how is anyone happy?). Such as their story of taking Taco Bell toilet paper because they couldn't get their own, or something similar to that.
As a child he and Casey were super close because of their ages (Like Carlie and Logan are close), and they spent a lot of time with neighborhood kids. They moved a bit because of his father's jobs but Pocatello was always where they ended up anyways. Shay has always been a more "friendly and I enjoy making others laugh" type of guy, hence him working as a radio DJ.
I can't snark on this family because I've been watching since I was in 4th grade and I'm now going into 11th. I'm a minion and up their ass lol even if I don't watch the vlogs much now. But I'll help with questions :D


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I found them during their first year of vlogging and avidly watched up until this last year.. No real reason, I just lost interest. I think they're great people and I admire how much love they have for each other. And I'm totaly ex minion lol, I talked to shay on the phone once and have been in a vlog. I just can't sit through their videos much anymore.
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jadedd_ wrote:I found them during their first year of vlogging and avidly watched up until this last year.. No real reason, I just lost interest. I think they're great people and I admire how much love they have for each other. And I'm totaly ex minion lol, I talked to shay on the phone once and have been in a vlog. I just can't sit through their videos much anymore.
I don't watch anymore because I barely watch any vlogs. I don't even watch Ellie and Jared much lately, and I don't even watch the vlogs of the people I stark on the most (dailybums).
I do watch them sometimes but I don't care for the rewinds so I miss a lot.


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spacekitty wrote:
Lady6 wrote:Does anybody know if Shay was always upbeat and optimistic?
I'm curious to know whether it is a learned behaviour
(something he taught himself later in life) or whether
it's a part of his personality. I'd be interested to know
what he was like as a child, how he behaved at school,
what his social circle was like.
Always now? Yes. Before? Not so much.
It's more learned because when the vlogs began and prior to, they struggled with money a bit (and when you don't have money to support yourselves how is anyone happy?). Such as their story of taking Taco Bell toilet paper because they couldn't get their own, or something similar to that.
As a child he and Casey were super close because of their ages (Like Carlie and Logan are close), and they spent a lot of time with neighborhood kids. They moved a bit because of his father's jobs but Pocatello was always where they ended up anyways. Shay has always been a more "friendly and I enjoy making others laugh" type of guy, hence him working as a radio DJ.
I can't snark on this family because I've been watching since I was in 4th grade and I'm now going into 11th. I'm a minion and up their ass lol even if I don't watch the vlogs much now. But I'll help with questions :D

Thanks heaps! I'm a newer subscriber (been watching for about 2 years)
and that's always been something I've wondered. It does make sense
because it would be difficult to stay positive and happy when you're
struggling to feed your children etc. I also get the feeling the older
children experienced a different upbringing/ early life compared to the
younger kids. Not having to stress about money would make a huge difference
to the home environment.


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I've been watching since literally the very beginning (found them.through the insomniac challenge on blogtv where the name shaytards was created) so I guess I feel kind of obligated to keep watching even though I end up fast forwarding to parts with just the kids.

I can't handle Shay's monologues. He's either preaching, trying to be funny but coming across as obnoxious, or putting too much pressure on his kids by making the smallest things into a competition. And Colette has turned into such a doormat throughout the years.

As for the Emmi thing, I actually have always seen her as being Shay's favourite :s The other kids may get more camera time but it seems like hes more normal with her and doesn't push her as much. They just seem to have the best parent child relationship in my opinion rather than "cool parent".

Overall I still do think they're decent people. But I think the more kids they've had the less parental they've become. It would be nice to see them from a fly on the wall perspective rather than a in your face vlog way.
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Spacekitty- I would love to know more about their back history (before vlogging) if you don't mind explaining. I've heard stories that they were super poor that they had to steal toilet paper from public bathrooms because they couldn't afford to buy some? I'm curious to know more stories about that.
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hannahbanana wrote:Spacekitty- I would love to know more about their back history (before vlogging) if you don't mind explaining. I've heard stories that they were super poor that they had to steal toilet paper from public bathrooms because they couldn't afford to buy some? I'm curious to know more stories about that.
Unfortunately, I am not Spacekitty, but I have also been watching for many years so I can try and help with backstory.

I'm not completely sure on Colette and Shay's college situation, but they got married very young and had Gavin soon after. So, couple in their early twenties with newborn and limited education, they were pretty poor. Shay did granite work and I think Colette was a waitress, but she might not have been working at this time. Avia was born a year and a half after Gavin, so then they had two babies and all the expenses that come with a newborn and a toddler, but still 1 or 2 minimum wage jobs. I think the toilet paper thing was a one time incident where they didn't have any and instead of spending money on a new roll, Shay went to taco bell to take some until his next paycheck came in. When the vlogs started, Shay was 29 and I think Gavin was 4 or 5. So sometime between his birth and the start of Shaytards, their financial situation improves as Shay gets a job at a radio station and he is getting some money from his Shaycarl channel. Sorry I wish I had a clearer timeline, I'm just going off of memory from what I've watched.
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hannahbanana wrote:Spacekitty- I would love to know more about their back history (before vlogging) if you don't mind explaining. I've heard stories that they were super poor that they had to steal toilet paper from public bathrooms because they couldn't afford to buy some? I'm curious to know more stories about that.
Unfortunately, I am not Spacekitty, but I have also been watching for many years so I can try and help with backstory.

I'm not completely sure on Colette and Shay's college situation, but they got married very young and had Gavin soon after. So, couple in their early twenties with newborn and limited education, they were pretty poor. Shay did granite work and I think Colette was a waitress, but she might not have been working at this time. Avia was born a year and a half after Gavin, so then they had two babies and all the expenses that come with a newborn and a toddler, but still 1 or 2 minimum wage jobs. I think the toilet paper thing was a one time incident where they didn't have any and instead of spending money on a new roll, Shay went to taco bell to take some until his next paycheck came in. When the vlogs started, Shay was 29 and I think Gavin was 4 or 5. So sometime between his birth and the start of Shaytards, their financial situation improves as Shay gets a job at a radio station and he is getting some money from his Shaycarl channel. Sorry I wish I had a clearer timeline, I'm just going off of memory from what I've watched.
Shay went to college and dropped out, Colette did not go. Colette wanted to for nutrition but it never happened though. Anyways, Shay had many odd jobs. I don't remember what they were, but the granite business came a little later because Shay wanted to be more of his own boss. Colette worked at Wingers as a waitress for quite awhile, and they put her tips to as much use as possible. After 2 months of being married, Gavin was conceived and born that December. Like said, 18 months later Avia is born. I think it was at this time they went from an apartment to a house.
They were tight on money mostly because of Shay switching his job often and they had 4 mouths to feed (+Malachi, their old Great Dane). I remember when they posted the vlog of them paying off the loan on the old white van they were thrilled to have put money towards that vs a motorcycle. Anyways, the family ate out A LOT. Hence Shay having his weight gain. It was affordable and easy, especially because he could take it to go. Once the vlogs began, he was radio DJing and Emmi was here. He worked a better time for the family and he enjoyed doing what he did more than he did in the past. They didn't seem to struggle as much as they did prior to the vlogs by now.
They used credit cards A LOT in the past as well, they had a vlog of cutting their last credit card. And debt stayed for awhile even after vlogging.
I don't think it was they were super poor but they did struggle a good amount and with having Gavin and Avia so close and so young, it seemed much more.


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For some reason I thought Colette was in college at some point... there's an old video where I thought they said she did but of course I can't find it lol.

A little more information I found;

Shay and Colette met when he was 21 and she was 19. They dated for a year and got married two months later. I'm not sure if this is confirmed, but supposedly Shay wasn't a virgin when they got together (Colette wanted to wait 'til marriage).

The reason Shay dropped out of college was he was feeling very disconnected from school since he wanted to be with his family at home. One day he was late to school because he'd been staying up all night with newborn Avia, and when he couldn't find a parking spot he got so frustrated that he went home and never came back.
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I used to watch the Shaytards daily, since Colette first got pregnant with Rocktard. I lost interest there for awhile, and recently started up watching them every now and then. I know Shay gets a lot of shit, and sometimes while watching I shake my head, but I have to say... They have to be doing something right. All the kids seem so sweet and polite, it's unreal.

They have their annoying phases, like the whole issue with Avia for awhile, but I can remember being fairly similar at her age. They all seem so respectful and close, makes me a bit jealous because my own family dynamic is a tad off.


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That is all so interesting! Thanks for the insight! I've only been watching since Daxton was born and I've always been interested in what their lives where like before YT. I've asked these questions on their GG thread, but that thread goes way too fast.
I always found Avia to be very annoying and always wanting to be the center of attention, but then I remembered that I was that obnoxious at that age too. I refuse to watch old home movies because I was such an attention seeker to have the camera on me. Lmao.
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I've always been very #TeamAvia because early in the vlogs she always seemed to be ignored. I could honestly write a whole essay on this but I think she felt very upstaged by Emmi when they were littler and as the middle child needed to be louder to feel heard. Emmi was, admittedly, an astoundingly cute baby/toddler, but I can't imagine what it must be like to be a 4 or 5 year old girl and being told every day how cute your little sister is. Basically, she had to be the funny one because being the cute one was not an option. I think she's settled down now that she's older and more mature, plus she has a newfound niche as the older sister. I, too, was an attention-seeking child and so I understand why she wants the camera on her and I feel bad that viewers have negative connotations about her :(
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I find Shay very annoying now a days. I use to love that goofy dad vibe but now he's starting to become so annoying, I had to stop watching the most recent blog because he would not stfu about his new camera and kept interrupting the photoshoot with his annoying singing. Also I can't stand the fake southern accent he was doing on colettes birthday vlog, he seemed so ignorant saying all those things especially with the way he was dressed.
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I found it odd they FINALLY got a new camera. 2010 they would have had backups at all times and if not would run and buy one.
I don't watch much because I miss the dedication. I was so happy they moved to Idaho because it'd be good for the kids and they wouldn't be moving much. I wonder how it is for them to say oh I have a second home in California. That sounds awesome lol.
I miss when they put up a vlog everyday. Once that stopped, it all crumbled. :/


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Dammit. I actually liked Shay cause I'm only 2 years into the vlogs but now it looks like I'm gonna have to stop playing catch up. He posted something on Twitter, Idk how long ago, basically body policing women. Like why can you not be an ass Shay?!?
Just the opinion of an internet stranger. Don't take anything personally, for your own sake as well as mine.
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I was a daily viewer of them and itsjudyslife for a while but when I moved to my new home it took forever to get internet installed (correctly). We had to settle for satellite internet with a data plan because we lived too far from the main road to feed off the wires. Anyway, since it took over a month to figure this all out I missed so much I just stopped watching (plus the whole data plan thing)

Why do Emmi and Brock share a room? I just watched a vlog of theirs the other day when shay was making them clean their room. I missed all the moving videos.

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Febe wrote:I was a daily viewer of them and itsjudyslife for a while but when I moved to my new home it took forever to get internet installed (correctly). We had to settle for satellite internet with a data plan because we lived too far from the main road to feed off the wires. Anyway, since it took over a month to figure this all out I missed so much I just stopped watching (plus the whole data plan thing)

Why do Emmi and Brock share a room? I just watched a vlog of theirs the other day when shay was making them clean their room. I missed all the moving videos.

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They share a room because Emmi didn't want to have a room to herself in the basement with the older kids.
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Also Avia didn't want to share with her because she's too messy.


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I've been watching for a while, as well. Emmi definitely has always been my favorite kid, and I have always felt that she is Colette's favorite too.
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