JesssFam: Favoritism Still Shows, Guest Room Woes (Part 143)

[MiloandMax1]

could someone fill me in what the issue is with t&c's room? I watch their vlogs like half mostly because its so annoying. i dont remember seeing them cry because they didnt like it?
i get that jesss chose the theme and decoration, but I think its actually cute looking. BUT I might have misses something major. please help me

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They supposedly didn't give her a theme, but one thing they asked for was LED lights (what the twins ended up getting) and she ordered the twinkle lights for their room instead of figuring out and asking what they wanted. She went with the beach theme,not for them but she decorated it with it being a guest bedroom in mind.

Also I think her throwing their room together in a day vs taking her time like with the twins room, or like Lilia is getting custom things from etsy. But again T & C can't have anything personal or for them really since its a guest bedroom.

I think she was in a mad rush to get it done before they went back to their mom’s. She said in the vlog when they left (which was days after the room reveal in real time) that they didn’t know when T&C would be back because of COVID. She probably was worried it’d be months before they could come back and then it’d look really bad on her end to do a room reveal then after her kids had their rooms done for months.

Or it could be that Hannah was sleeping in their closet and she knew that she would need that room.

[Highlighter]

I think chris might leave soon. His breakdown after the boys left showed that it's really starting to bother him. I can't even imagine being in a relationship where you are being controlled 24/7. He has no control over his own self. He is constantly being told what to do, he has absolutely no privacy. He is completely jessicas servant. He is seeing more and more that jess does not care about his son's. She rushed to give them a shitty room. Which I am sure something happened and jess took control, she did end up saying SHE chose the beach theme. Why couldn't they wait and pick something the boys actually wanted. She didn't go when chris took them to the airport. Then as soon as they left they went on "vacation", not the first time that happened. Got that lizard thing, chris probably told her to wait until the boys got back before getting a pet, she probably said its okay just facetime them. She also controls his IG theres no in hell that is him. I believe she responded to someone about the boys bedroom pretending to be him, like how my kids used to text back to someone pretending to be me but it's so obvious. I think he has been emotionally checked out for a long time, but I think he is realizing his kids are growing so fast and he is missing it, and Jess doesn't give a fuck, they are not really included in her family. Wonder how much more he can take. One day he will realize money isn't everything and I think its coming really soon. He is probably holding out because of Addie.

“My parents are moving out and CHRIS is moving into the suite (AND HERE’S WHY!)”

Chris seems like the crack and drive off into the night and disappear for a while type tbh. I wonder what title she'd give that lmao.

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[strikeaposie]

Chris seems like the crack and drive off into the night and disappear for a while type tbh. I wonder what title she'd give that lmao.

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He's definitely not going to bow out respectably if they ever do separate.

[MiloandMax1]

If Jess tracks his phone does she have a GPS tracker on his truck?

Whatever happened to him not paintballing anymore? His only friend is Gabe and then has to watch his wife flirt with her ex if he wants to hang with him.

[NarcoelpsyMom]

I think chris might leave soon. His breakdown after the boys left showed that it's really starting to bother him. I can't even imagine being in a relationship where you are being controlled 24/7. He has no control over his own self. He is constantly being told what to do, he has absolutely no privacy. He is completely jessicas servant. He is seeing more and more that jess does not care about his son's. She rushed to give them a shitty room. Which I am sure something happened and jess took control, she did end up saying SHE chose the beach theme. Why couldn't they wait and pick something the boys actually wanted. She didn't go when chris took them to the airport. Then as soon as they left they went on "vacation", not the first time that happened. Got that lizard thing, chris probably told her to wait until the boys got back before getting a pet, she probably said its okay just facetime them. She also controls his IG theres no in hell that is him. I believe she responded to someone about the boys bedroom pretending to be him, like how my kids used to text back to someone pretending to be me but it's so obvious. I think he has been emotionally checked out for a long time, but I think he is realizing his kids are growing so fast and he is missing it, and Jess doesn't give a fuck, they are not really included in her family. Wonder how much more he can take. One day he will realize money isn't everything and I think its coming really soon. He is probably holding out because of Addie.

Let’s not lay all of his choices on Messs. He chose not to work anymore so he could stay home with the kids. He enjoys all the perks of being a baby daddy without having to do anything. He chose to move hours away from his kids, chose not to push getting them more often, chose not to be more involved. They have the money for him to fly down a few times a year and spend time with the boys alone. He chose not to.

He may be getting in over his head now, but everything he has done, he chose to do.

[sianny_threepac]

could someone fill me in what the issue is with t&c's room? I watch their vlogs like half mostly because its so annoying. i dont remember seeing them cry because they didnt like it?
i get that jesss chose the theme and decoration, but I think its actually cute looking. BUT I might have misses something major. please help me

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They supposedly didn't give her a theme, but one thing they asked for was LED lights (what the twins ended up getting) and she ordered the twinkle lights for their room instead of figuring out and asking what they wanted. She went with the beach theme,not for them but she decorated it with it being a guest bedroom in mind.

Also I think her throwing their room together in a day vs taking her time like with the twins room, or like Lilia is getting custom things from etsy. But again T & C can't have anything personal or for them really since its a guest bedroom.

I think she was in a mad rush to get it done before they went back to their mom’s. She said in the vlog when they left (which was days after the room reveal in real time) that they didn’t know when T&C would be back because of COVID. She probably was worried it’d be months before they could come back and then it’d look really bad on her end to do a room reveal then after her kids had their rooms done for months.

Covid has been here for nearly 10 months.
Mess genuinely only sees T&C once or twice a year for a weekend.
I’m genuinely surprised Ashley let them go up. I wonder how much Mess paid her

[MiloandMax1]

I don't think they left early because of covid. They always seem to leave towards the end of July, but Jess has to keep up with the lie that they get them the whole summer so it doesn't look bad. Covid didn't stop custody arrangements, that was one of the exceptions. So there was nothing Ashley could have done. If she didn't send them then her and Chris would be going back to court abd Jess/Chris have the money to do so.

The rush to do their room in 1 day before they left was no excuse. Not like the move came as a surprise. Why wasn't she planning for their first room before the move? Then she had Landen/Addie room done (with things she bought before the move, although Landen continued his dino theme). So why didn't she try to make T & C first room special? She bought twinkle lights when if you look up led lights you would know they aren't twinkle lights. She can't be that dumb. She had a Pinterest board for the new house, yet right before they leave she decides to look up tween boy room? It was 100% decorated as a guest bedroom.

[twomommies]

I think chris might leave soon. His breakdown after the boys left showed that it's really starting to bother him. I can't even imagine being in a relationship where you are being controlled 24/7. He has no control over his own self. He is constantly being told what to do, he has absolutely no privacy. He is completely jessicas servant. He is seeing more and more that jess does not care about his son's. She rushed to give them a shitty room. Which I am sure something happened and jess took control, she did end up saying SHE chose the beach theme. Why couldn't they wait and pick something the boys actually wanted. She didn't go when chris took them to the airport. Then as soon as they left they went on "vacation", not the first time that happened. Got that lizard thing, chris probably told her to wait until the boys got back before getting a pet, she probably said its okay just facetime them. She also controls his IG theres no in hell that is him. I believe she responded to someone about the boys bedroom pretending to be him, like how my kids used to text back to someone pretending to be me but it's so obvious. I think he has been emotionally checked out for a long time, but I think he is realizing his kids are growing so fast and he is missing it, and Jess doesn't give a fuck, they are not really included in her family. Wonder how much more he can take. One day he will realize money isn't everything and I think its coming really soon. He is probably holding out because of Addie.

“My parents are moving out and CHRIS is moving into the suite (AND HERE’S WHY!)”

Chris seems like the crack and drive off into the night and disappear for a while type tbh. I wonder what title she'd give that lmao.

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Something dramatic where as per usual she's the victim. If he leaves her she's had 3 guys leave her because so miserable to be with because everything is her way or the highway.

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[MiloandMax1]

“My parents are moving out and CHRIS is moving into the suite (AND HERE’S WHY!)”

Chris seems like the crack and drive off into the night and disappear for a while type tbh. I wonder what title she'd give that lmao.

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Something dramatic where as per usual she's the victim. If he leaves her she's had 3 guys leave her because so miserable to be with because everything is her way or the highway.

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She's never been told no and never had to compromise. Remember how she was telling family/friends that they were moving with her? I can't imagine saying that to people. She wasn't saying it jokingly either it was an expected thing.

[allienc1]

I'm wondering what Jesssss uses the sand timer for.It's not like anyone in the house is on any kind of timed schedule.

pregnancy tests?

[MiloandMax1]

I think she just picked the sand timer up for decoration because 2 other vloggers also just got one at a place like Hobby Lobby or one of those stores. Although with online learning I have to set timers for my kids, they get so many minutes per subject. So that could be it to.

[luci417]

Addie is, in my opinion, a very cute toddler. The lipstick is not. My daughter was obsessed with makeup at that age too, I bought her tinted chapstick so that she didn't make a mess and dry out her skin.

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I also think addie is a very cute toddler and will be a pretty girl. The make up in and of itself isn't a problem but letting her wear it like that is just so stupid. If I was one of the older kids i'd be so embarrassed to be seen with addie running around in clown lipstick. Plus the hair dye incident shows that not taking the time to correct her is clearly teaching her to think 'i dont need an adult's help or permission, i am capable of doing the same things as a grown up' which is such a dangerous attitude in a little kid.

[MommaMia3]

Jess is being a total brat about these wildfires. She always posts about how it sucks having to breathe in smoke, but not once about the families that have lost their lives, homes or loved ones. It's always about her.[IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202009 ... 3f6601.jpg[/IMG]

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[MiloandMax1]

Jess is being a total brat about these wildfires. She always posts about how it sucks having to breathe in smoke, but not once about the families that have lost their lives, homes or loved ones. It's always about her. //uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202009 ... 3f6601.jpg

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Im not in Cali and working with a rescue bringing pets people surrendered because they don't know where they will be living or have homes to go back to. Jess wasn't even affected by covid, so why does her 2020 suck? She continued being around people/having friends over and didn't lose her job like people did, moved into a new build, bought a car. But her 2020 sucked. If its not the fires its her complaining about not going to Disneyland, it must be so rough.

[MiloandMax1]

Is Ben still a wildfire firefighter? Jess complains about the fires but you would think she would talk about the firefighters and her brother especially. But that would take the attention off of her I guess.

[emlyx]

Lilia's room is adorable, things change when she puts done effort lol I'm still mad about T&C room

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[missparzival]

I love Lilia’s room. It’s really nice and will transition as she becomes a teen nicely.


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[nowherewarm]

I tried to watch a Jess vlog, (haven’t watched since before quarantine) and I can’t get over how fake and overly edited they are now a days. I watched Dear greysons and two hearts lady vlogs from their trip and they were just easily watchable compared to the screaming and music overall fakeness in Jess videos.


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Absolutely. I enjoyed her old videos, up until when she only had 3 kids. After that, her videos are just unwatchable.

Are there videos about Chris' dad dying?

[tuttifruittitea]

Jess is being a total brat about these wildfires. She always posts about how it sucks having to breathe in smoke, but not once about the families that have lost their lives, homes or loved ones. It's always about her.[IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202009 ... 3f6601.jpg[/IMG]

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totally! when we had the bushfires in australia the amount of donations of things across the country was amazing. they had to ask people to drop donating because there was too many. She could at least post a link for donations or something


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[ReyRey61]

Jesss blocked me. I replied , “Agree ” to a comment about someone saying she threw together T And C’s room and that it shows she plays favorites by the way the rooms were done. Jess replied defensively to that comment and blocked, so I hope it means she was triggered.