JesssFam: Physician Suspicion (Part 91)

[creamsoda99]

She's invented her very own way of baby led weaning! You don't just give them a slice of avocado!

[LilaLavender]

Long time lurker (since after landen but before buzzgate).
I'll always remember the exact moment I had an instant 180 on opinions of jesssssss YouTube channel. I started out thinking she was such a responsible, attentive, educated mother for being a teenager. I had respect for her based on what she was putting out. (Little didn't we know at the time JGPOP) But the very second I saw Drake pop up in a video and saw her hair dyed dark, that's when I stopped viewing her for admiration and started watching through the lens of what a train wreck she was becoming. I was disappointed for her moving on and changing her personality quickly. Done!

Someone was just saying how they are glad she is being more real. I've noticed in her last couple videos, I don't think she is being more "real" about the hardships of motherhood, she is just being her personality-changing old self once again and now she is trying to emulate that Kally friend of hers. Jessica will twist herself to fit whatever she feels like will get her favor or benefit. She did it to please Drake's tastes, Chris, popular YT trends and moms, her minions, etc


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What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

[S_tine05]

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I have always wanted to be a mom even dressed up as a mom for career day when I was in grade 2 or 3, having said that as I got older and when I became a teen mom my ideals and visions for motherhood changed and there were def stages where I found motherhood hard and questioned my childish ideals if you want to call them that, I always wanted at least 4 I got to 3 and was like ok close up shop I'm done now my family is complete, everyone is different but I think it is important to not let motherhood be the only thing that defines you and your personality

[smom12]

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I have always wanted to be a mom even dressed up as a mom for career day when I was in grade 2 or 3, having said that as I got older and when I became a teen mom my ideals and visions for motherhood changed and there were def stages where I found motherhood hard and questioned my childish ideals if you want to call them that, I always wanted at least 4 I got to 3 and was like ok close up shop I'm done now my family is complete, everyone is different but I think it is important to not let motherhood be the only thing that defines you and your personality

I've always wanted to be a mom too but always said 2 was my limit lol... boy then a girl. I'm done now. Had my first when I was 29...lived some first before I Had a baby. But I never ever ever just imagined having babies and not think of when they grow up, like what Jess seems to do. She thinks babies are cute, which they are, but can't see past that. Now all her babies are growing up with their own personalities and she's in OH SHIT WHAT HAVE I DONE mode.


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[colemanl1997]

Long time lurker (since after landen but before buzzgate).
I'll always remember the exact moment I had an instant 180 on opinions of jesssssss YouTube channel. I started out thinking she was such a responsible, attentive, educated mother for being a teenager. I had respect for her based on what she was putting out. (Little didn't we know at the time JGPOP) But the very second I saw Drake pop up in a video and saw her hair dyed dark, that's when I stopped viewing her for admiration and started watching through the lens of what a train wreck she was becoming. I was disappointed for her moving on and changing her personality quickly. Done!

Someone was just saying how they are glad she is being more real. I've noticed in her last couple videos, I don't think she is being more "real" about the hardships of motherhood, she is just being her personality-changing old self once again and now she is trying to emulate that Kally friend of hers. Jessica will twist herself to fit whatever she feels like will get her favor or benefit. She did it to please Drake's tastes, Chris, popular YT trends and moms, her minions, etc


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What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I'm from a huge family and loved the idea of being a mum, that being said I really had the dream of working finding my perfect man getting married having a home and then a baby or 5 that did not happen I'm now 19 nearly 20 with a four month old, I love being a mum but this isn't the way I wanted to do it and is nothing like what I imagined it would be when I was younger. I thought labour would go as planed and part of me would enjoy it but me and my son nearly died.
It's hard and I guess I never got the urge to have one right that second of that makes sense I can't imagine choosing to be a teen mum


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[ClitoricTease]

Long time lurker (since after landen but before buzzgate).
I'll always remember the exact moment I had an instant 180 on opinions of jesssssss YouTube channel. I started out thinking she was such a responsible, attentive, educated mother for being a teenager. I had respect for her based on what she was putting out. (Little didn't we know at the time JGPOP) But the very second I saw Drake pop up in a video and saw her hair dyed dark, that's when I stopped viewing her for admiration and started watching through the lens of what a train wreck she was becoming. I was disappointed for her moving on and changing her personality quickly. Done!

Someone was just saying how they are glad she is being more real. I've noticed in her last couple videos, I don't think she is being more "real" about the hardships of motherhood, she is just being her personality-changing old self once again and now she is trying to emulate that Kally friend of hers. Jessica will twist herself to fit whatever she feels like will get her favor or benefit. She did it to please Drake's tastes, Chris, popular YT trends and moms, her minions, etc


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What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I've always wanted them, but the older I got the more aware I became. When I was younger I wanted lots of kids but now I'm older I only want two because I want to get to know my kids and I feel like the more you have, the less that's possible. I don't just want one because although I have siblings, there is a very big age gap between me and them so I was essentially brought up and only child and I definitely wouldn't wish that on my own children. However, now I'm at university so a child isn't in the plans for a while.

[Lisey26]

Long time lurker (since after landen but before buzzgate).
I'll always remember the exact moment I had an instant 180 on opinions of jesssssss YouTube channel. I started out thinking she was such a responsible, attentive, educated mother for being a teenager. I had respect for her based on what she was putting out. (Little didn't we know at the time JGPOP) But the very second I saw Drake pop up in a video and saw her hair dyed dark, that's when I stopped viewing her for admiration and started watching through the lens of what a train wreck she was becoming. I was disappointed for her moving on and changing her personality quickly. Done!

Someone was just saying how they are glad she is being more real. I've noticed in her last couple videos, I don't think she is being more "real" about the hardships of motherhood, she is just being her personality-changing old self once again and now she is trying to emulate that Kally friend of hers. Jessica will twist herself to fit whatever she feels like will get her favor or benefit. She did it to please Drake's tastes, Chris, popular YT trends and moms, her minions, etc


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What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

Same here, I'm 25, no kids but two cats lol. I really wanted one when I was 18, but I never thought for a second of really getting pregnant. That's when I started watching Jessica. Later I'm university I went through a stage where I didn't want any, now I do but I'm still full of doubts. I'm an efl teacher for kids, so working with you them I sometimes have some I wouldn't like to be the m other of lol

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[lizpuff2006]

When I was young 10 or under, I wanted 6 kids. I also wanted 6 dogs 6 cats and a minivan...lol. As I grew older though things changed and when I was 21 I thought I never wanted kids. I had my daughter at 26 and she was unplanned but after I had her I realized what I was missing in my life. It is like the last piece of the puzzle fell into place. She is almost 3 now and I am considering another. All that to say that I didn't know how much I wanted to be a mom until I was one

[blackroses]

I've always wanted a lot of kids but as I got older I only want one or two I love them and I'm great with kids I'm just scared I'll be a shit mom

[Bsveach15]

Long time lurker (since after landen but before buzzgate).
I'll always remember the exact moment I had an instant 180 on opinions of jesssssss YouTube channel. I started out thinking she was such a responsible, attentive, educated mother for being a teenager. I had respect for her based on what she was putting out. (Little didn't we know at the time JGPOP) But the very second I saw Drake pop up in a video and saw her hair dyed dark, that's when I stopped viewing her for admiration and started watching through the lens of what a train wreck she was becoming. I was disappointed for her moving on and changing her personality quickly. Done!

Someone was just saying how they are glad she is being more real. I've noticed in her last couple videos, I don't think she is being more "real" about the hardships of motherhood, she is just being her personality-changing old self once again and now she is trying to emulate that Kally friend of hers. Jessica will twist herself to fit whatever she feels like will get her favor or benefit. She did it to please Drake's tastes, Chris, popular YT trends and moms, her minions, etc


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What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

Not me, I knew I wanted babies since I was probably 5. I've always wanted like 10 but I just has my first at 19.


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[Bsveach15]

What are you expecting? She had kids very young and hasn't really been single since she was a young teenager. Her whole personality is based around being a mother and a girlfriend/wife. Of course her personality is going to switch depending on who she's with/who she wants to be, she never gave herself the chance to find out who Jess (not a mother and not a partner) REALLY is.

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I'm from a huge family and loved the idea of being a mum, that being said I really had the dream of working finding my perfect man getting married having a home and then a baby or 5 that did not happen I'm now 19 nearly 20 with a four month old, I love being a mum but this isn't the way I wanted to do it and is nothing like what I imagined it would be when I was younger. I thought labour would go as planed and part of me would enjoy it but me and my son nearly died.
It's hard and I guess I never got the urge to have one right that second of that makes sense I can't imagine choosing to be a teen mum


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OT but I'm also 19, 20 in July with a 4 month old son!


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[whattheactual]

I have always wanted kids but as I have gotten older the age at which I desire to have them has increased, as I have set other goals for myself (career wise).

[blackroses]

I mean in 19 turning 20 I was due in August but that didn't turn out so great. I used to think I was the only one under 20 in the forums so it feels nice to know I'm not the only one

[dazzled]

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

I've always wanted kids (up to four at one point), and now I'm just like... meh, seems like too much of a hassle. Maybe should the right guy ever come along. So probably never, for me.

[smom12]

You all are babies to me lol I feel so old.


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[Anniekins]

You all are babies to me lol I feel so old.


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I do too! My kids are about the same age as Jess's oldest kids. My oldest was born only a few days before her oldest. However, I had my first at age 30, lol. Of course, I was married, owned a home, had a college degree and almost a decade of work experience by that time!

[pianogossiper]

I'm 19, 20 in September and right now I don't have any kids of my own but I have part custody of my cousin (my aunt is in and out of hospital a lot & im also named in her will as my cousins guardian), and I've always said I wanted kids but only 3 max. I've never had major baby fever until maybe the past 6 months, but I put that down to my friends having babies as well as my boyfriends brother & sister both starting families. I've always said I wanted to get my foot in the door of a career before having kids, but I also want to have my first before I'm 27, so I can have larger age gaps between them while still not being too old myself


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[MamaJoAnna]

I flip-flopped constantly between wanting kids and not wanting kids. I met my now husband and after some pretty shitty stuff that happened in his life regarding kids (not things I wish to make public) and after we got married, we did away with birth control and it took us about a few months once we really started trying to get pregnant. We have an almost 2 year old together and while I doubt my abilities sometimes it's awesome seeing those two together. We keep going back and forth on wanting another because our son has a speech delay and isn't potty trained yet or even close.

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[luci417]

Well she's not a dancer, that's for one .

Curious (especially to those of you that have kids): have you experienced the "I always wanted to be a mom" - sentiment Jessica used to describe? I personally have always gone in phases, from wanting a hundred babies, to none, to 5, to 2, to eh I don't know maybe when I'm 30, etc etc. Even right now, having strong baby fever, it still goes combined with a bit of doubt of "ugh but they're so much work and what if I don't do a good job or have medical issues" etc. I'm curious if any of you experienced it similarly.

Oh yeah, that's totally normal and pretty much my experience. I've always sort of wanted kids but it was like an 'eventually' thing and I went through phases where I wanted like 5 and then none and then maybe just one, etc. I think I always wanted them really, but when I was younger it conflicted a lot with the kind of lifestyle I wanted and the idea of being like those yt moms with 7 kids and a minivan made me shudder. Honestly it still kind of does but now I have a toddler and I'm due to have twins very soon. The only thing that's changed is that I've figured out a balance between traditional 'mom' stuff and what I actually want my life to look like. Kids ARE a lot of work and it IS really hard even if they're perfectly happy and healthy but you get to decide what your family life is like and you don't have to completely lose your personality to motherhood to be a good mom, it doesn't have to be all you ever wanted or even something you consistently wanted in the past. I guess what i'm trying to say is, my attitude was always 'I want to be a mom but I also want to be a person outside of that with other things in my life' which can be hard rn because i'll have 3 under 3 but I think I'm doing a pretty good job balancing my needs vs theirs. Get back to me on that when I have twin babies though lmao.

ETA: Forgot to say but I'm happy with 3 and I think we're gonna stop there. I feel like once you hit 4 kids you have the kind of lifestyle where you NEED things like a minivan and a costco card and I'm really not about that.

[snarkyblonde]

I've always wanted kids. But, I also had some really specific goals for myself (grad school, passing my boards, owning a home) etc that I really wanted to accomplish prior to having a baby, so I waited a while. I always wanted a large family, but had a really tough pregnancy so am gun shy about having another.


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