Gardner Quad Squad: A Miracle Unraveling | Part 7

[lmmomSD]

ok.....agree to disagree....I don't watch them so I guess I have no reason to criticize. Never heard anyone use it to praise little boys. I'm too old.

Me neither. I guess we're both too old. And I would never be mean about an opinion, unless someone was mean to me first! I totally understand that they probably don't mean it in a sexual way. But when I was growing up, that was pretty much the only meaning. So it did creep me out.

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[AthenaA]

Oh fudgenuts that is just so very sad.

[AthenaA]

I have only heard the term stud used in a sexual manner, I never knew it had a different meaning.

I hope we don't have to agree here all the time. I think we are no better than the KAD's if we can't have differing opinions. I really dislike comments about the girls appearance and unpleasant comments-I don't like them being called feral either. But that's a common topic around here and T & A only have themselves to blame for whoring out their children.

[Laughter6789]

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Trash says FatAss is a stud and we all know it???? Yep......she is definitely mentally challenged. Stuck at 13 years old. Just like TyAssOn likes her to be. And, why he has so many tween/teen KADs. He knows how to groom them. ugh......too bad he has daughters......

"stud" is what Branden Bingham calls his sons. She's copying her crush.[/quote]

WHAT??? He calls his little boys, studs??? And, Mindy allows this?? Sorry.....to me, that is just sick. [/quote]Like I just said, Mindy does it too! "Look at you, you little stud!" I am so glad I'm not the only one who gets skeeved out by it!!

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I personally don't see anything wrong with the term "stud". It is another term for "cool guy". Yes, it can also be used to call someone "hot" but I've heard it used more in the way of referring to someone as being cool. Example: "that kid is great on his skate board, what a little stud!".
And while I'm at it, I'm going to also say that, while seeing Two Ton Bison with his shirt off after his shower is disgusting cuz he's a pig, I don't see anything wrong with a dad cuddling with his child with no shirt on. I feel like some people are trying to sexualize it and I think that's wrong. Don't get me wrong, I LOATHE THAT MAN, but saying that him laying shirtless with his child is somehow a bad or sick thing bit much. My hubby will cuddle my step daughter while out on the boat and he's shirtless while doing so, is this seen as sick or gross? I am all for bashing these awful people but the shirtless thing is a bit out of hand, IMO.

[Laughter6789]

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Trash says FatAss is a stud and we all know it???? Yep......she is definitely mentally challenged. Stuck at 13 years old. Just like TyAssOn likes her to be. And, why he has so many tween/teen KADs. He knows how to groom them. ugh......too bad he has daughters......

"stud" is what Branden Bingham calls his sons. She's copying her crush.[/quote]

WHAT??? He calls his little boys, studs??? And, Mindy allows this?? Sorry.....to me, that is just sick. [/quote]Like I just said, Mindy does it too! "Look at you, you little stud!" I am so glad I'm not the only one who gets skeeved out by it!!

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I personally don't see anything wrong with the term "stud". It is another term for "cool guy". Yes, it can also be used to call someone "hot" but I've heard it used more in the way of referring to someone as being cool. Example: "that kid is great on his skate board, what a little stud!".
And while I'm at it, I'm going to also say that, while seeing Two Ton Bison with his shirt off after his shower is disgusting cuz he's a pig, I don't see anything wrong with a dad cuddling with his child with no shirt on. I feel like some people are trying to sexualize it and I think that's wrong. Don't get me wrong, I LOATHE THAT MAN, but saying that him laying shirtless with his child is somehow a bad or sick thing bit much. My hubby will cuddle my step daughter while out on the boat and he's shirtless while doing so, is this seen as sick or gross? I am all for bashing these awful people but the shirtless thing is a bit out of hand, IMO.

[PrincessFrenchFry]

I'm not gonna lie, I got my new a shirt when he was little that said 'Just a Stud Muffin looking for his Cupcake'. I thought it was cute.


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[PrincessFrenchFry]

Nephew not new!


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[Sammy16]

What post is this on I'd like to read it

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It's on their family photo on the itsabuzzworld Instagram from 3 days ago.

[Snarky Lady]

Gonna weigh in here. I have several old pics of my ex and my daughter (and son) on the bed with him. He was a boat captain and worked offshore 2 weeks in another state. Normally he would get home after the kids were asleep and the first thing they would do is run and get on the bed with him. He never said to our daughter continuously you are so beautiful even though he thought it. So I thought about this today and wondered why TyASSon bothers me when the girls are in the bed with him and it hit me, I don't like him he bothers me regardless. He can be anywhere and he bothers me It does not have anything to do with his having a shirt on or not, I don't care for him!
In saying all that I believe he does things and says things because all these idiotic KADs have blown his head up to the point of explosion I personally think he is a egotistical control freak who is weird and I sure am glad he is not my husband
Then the other...I love my snarky sissies. Have there been times any of you have said something I did not agree with? Yes. Did it bother me? Hell No! We are all different with different outlooks and beliefs who have come together with the same regards/feeling/disgust for the Greedners and I for one respect all of you and your opinions and am grateful we have this site to express our feelings.

[Snarky Lady]

I'm not gonna lie, I got my new a shirt when he was little that said 'Just a Stud Muffin looking for his Cupcake'. I thought it was cute.


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lol I think we had the same shirt lol

[fudgenuts]

Thank you all for the kind words towards our family over the loss suffered today. We just don't know what happened and have many questions ourselves. Tried to call back so we could speak with our 'bud' (grandson) but it keeps going to voicemail. Driving out isn't feasible since they live well over a hour away. I just need to talk to him to make sure he isn't getting 'lost' in the hubbub.

Then came the calls from the detectives... needing backstory and things that have transpired over the last several years. They would make your head spin. I just cannot wrap my head around a little 3 1/2 yr. old boy dying. LE are calling it suspicious at this time as there were no outward signs showing something medically awry.

Please just pray. Our little ' bud ' is a sensitive soul with a heart of gold. Right now I would give anything just to scoop him up in my arms and hold him.

God Bless you all......

[SnarkieSophie]

Please asking for prayers for our little family. We have custody of our little grandson who just turned 9, joint with our eldest son who lives with us as well. He was visiting his mom's house this weekend and we just got a phone call. His 3 1/2 year old baby brother became unresponsive and quit breathing. Rescue attempts were unsuccessful and he passed away. We are still in a state of shock and I am very worried about my 'bud', been on the phone with the authorities all afternoon long. Prayers appreciated......

You have our thoughts and prayers fudgenuts.

Stay strong Sissie.

[Sammy16]

Biggest liar competition?! I had no idea such a thing existed. That storyteller only won because A$hley and Tyler weren't competing. How do we enter them for the next competition?
Tyler topless in bed with "my heebie my hebbie". There are some things that just don't belong on the internet and that is one of them, stud

[Harkette]

"stud" is what Branden Bingham calls his sons. She's copying her crush.

WHAT??? He calls his little boys, studs??? And, Mindy allows this?? Sorry.....to me, that is just sick.

Ok, I'm prepared for this to be the unpopular opinion on this issue... But I've never heard them call the boys "studs" and take it in a sexualized manner.... I've always taken it to mean "dude" like in an "oh my gosh I can't even believe you did that, it's so cool!" Kind of way. The Binghams don't say that to sexualize their kids. It's meant to encourage them and show pride. Could he choose a different word? Probably. But if you listen to it in the context that it is said in, it sounds fine to me. It feels vastly different than Tya$$ going on an on about how beautiful his girls are, showing video oh himself laying naked in his bed with his child. Branden would NEVER do that with Hazyl. And when he calls his kids studs, it's when they've done something "epic" (which he also says a lot, lol)

Go ahead, feel free to reply to me with contrasting opinions, just be nice. We're on the same side hahaha

I actually agree. I don't have a problem with how they use it.


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[Harkette]

I have only heard the term stud used in a sexual manner, I never knew it had a different meaning.

I hope we don't have to agree here all the time. I think we are no better than the KAD's if we can't have differing opinions. I really dislike comments about the girls appearance and unpleasant comments-I don't like them being called feral either. But that's a common topic around here and T & A only have themselves to blame for whoring out their children.

I agree. If I see comments that I don't like I will say so. It doesn't mean I'm saying you're wrong, I'm saying that sometimes I think people make inappropriate comments or take it too far. We're all entitled to our own opinion here.


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[Merikat]

I'm so sorry there have been some hurt feelings among some of us recently. We live in different States, countries, even continents, but have bonded together primarily out of our concern for the damage we feel is being done to the poor Gardner girls. Of course we're going to have different feelings, reactions, ideas of what we consider appropriate. But I think we all pretty much respect each other, even care for each other on many levels. I love this site and all of my Sissies here! It's a fun, safe, and enjoyable place to visit! So many awful things going on in the world right now; I hope we can continue to find support, escape, laughs, and enjoyment by visiting each other here. We're an awesome group of people!!

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[Donits]

I had a bad fall yesterday and broke my tailbone.
Oh my Lord - the pain!
If only I could lounge around in bed like Ashley, except "you know you are a real Mom when" you still have to carry on taking kids toilet, cooking tea, doing the waahing... *cries*

[Merikat]

Donits, wishing you a very speedy recovery!

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[Laughter6789]

I would like to add that one of the great things about this forum is that we can have differing views on things and that's OK! We don't all have to agree on everything. As long as we are respectful of one another that's all that matters. What we do agree on is that the Greedy Greedners are the most vile, lazy, disgraceful pieces of shit parents. If we begin TO attack the each other for having differing views and opinions about things... well...then we are no better than the Greedners or their KADS. I know we are better than them! No question!

Fudge- I'm so sorry for your loss and the heartache that you and your little one must be feeling. HUGS!!!

[Guest]

I had a bad fall yesterday and broke my tailbone.
Oh my Lord - the pain!
If only I could lounge around in bed like Ashley, except "you know you are a real Mom when" you still have to carry on taking kids toilet, cooking tea, doing the waahing... *cries*

Did they suggest a Sacroiliac Belt for you? Its worth paying out of pocket for if the insurance doesn't pay. You can sleep with it on if you don't become too reliant on it.