Gardner Quad Squad: Part 18

[DoodleBop2]

I totally believe he's abusive to her. He groomed her at 13. The power dynamic in their relationship was and has always been very messed up. I used to believe she was entirely a victim -but- she's also willing to exploit her own kids to make her life easier. That was the kicker for me. She willingly admits she will do what's easiest for her. Abused or not I can't settle that and so why I think of 13-year-old Ashley alone with 19-year-old Tyson I also know she's fine with Pedos having blogs about her girls and will film them in diapers and lock them in cages because she's tired.

[Ham Fried Rice]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I agree with you 100%



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[Howlin17]

At the beginning of dance class that Screech showed, it starts off with bratty Heffers punching Esme.....Esme goes over and clings onto the teacher to get away from the Heifer.

[BumblebeeBubbles]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I’ve thought before that it is a very father/daughter relationship on that respect.


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[Howlin17]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I’ve thought before that it is a very father/daughter relationship on that respect.


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Absolutely! Screech is his oldest daughter. He took over from Old Creeper.....

[Tinytoes11]

Ohhhhh my goodness, finding this site and then this board; I'm practically giddy. I cannot believe that I have so many kindred spirits, woohoo! Sorry, I'm new here
All I could think of was what kind of a nanny is going to want to work for people who have every single room, closet, bathroom, window and wall in their home covered by security cameras?? Not to mention all of them controlled by Tysons phone? Good luck with that one you huge ass freak show.

I feel sorry for their nanny!!

[B4bfmmom]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I’ve thought before that it is a very father/daughter relationship on that respect.

I agree. He is very controlling of her and the girls. They must LOVE him and only him. He must be the man of the house. I still hope one day SOON she will wake up and see SHE is the one making the money while he does NOTHING. She needs to realize her happiness DOES NOT come from or rely on him. If she would wake up I think she and the girls could be happier. She could send them to school and get them help without his lazy butt saying he wants to be the one teaching them...what a lie. Yeah, you’re teaching them...to act bratty, not be smart, eat and drink only crap and to lie around doing nothing. He is living off his wife and it doesn’t bother him in the least. I would love for her to kick him to the curb, find her backbone and realize her daughters deserve so much more than what they’ve been given their 3 years of life. I doubt it will ever happen though. She is too used to the men in her life controlling and babying her...in order for her to continue to think she NEEDS a man to make her happy and take care of her. I wish she could see they aren’t caring for her, they are controlling her and using her for the money she has made off her little girls. They are all so truly pathetic. Put the damn phones/cameras down you fools and PARENT your children. Show them they matter, teach them or put them in a place that will and stop allowing poor behaviors and feeding them crap. I, too, wonder if the pediatrician brought some things up and recommended they stop so much vlogging and get their girls help. We will never know.
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[AthenaA]

I truly think they will never go back to regular vlogging because the girls are talking and they will expose their lies. I suspect that's why they don't go live with the girls.

[BumblebeeBubbles]

Apparently any cries to maybe not post their little girls with their legs wide open went on deaf ears. I live in Utah but grew up elsewhere. I find some in Utah are very sheltered and can’t imagine some pervert having fun with these pictures. I find them not appropriate.


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[AthenaA]

On IG one of the girls is walking on the bench with those slippery heeled plastic shoes on. Why don't they just tie them to traintracks if they want them to hurt themselves.

[mia]

Instagram if full of date night pics with the "BingGardVelli's", er HamNerSnoopy's.

I don't know which pic is worse. Bison boomeranging Ca$h from behind or Branden bromancing Bison by jumping into his arms.

These people are gross.

[SnarkyJ]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I totally agree. I see a lot of similarities with them that I had in my marriage. Except we didn’t have the meeting before legal age and grossness like that lol.

Not to get too personal, but my ex husband was very emotionally controlling and it took me a while to realize it. I’m fiercely independent and have always been able to take care of myself so staying with him had nothing to do with dependency. I was always afraid to leave because I was afraid of admitting I failed. It took a major event for me to walk out and not look bad. I felt I always needed that excuse to leave because most people saw us as the perfect couple. And until people get to see the real side of my ex they think he is wonderful.

I definitely believe that Tyson has some weird control over her. And I bet Ashley feels stuck because of her religious views, as well as, not being able to care for the girls on her own. I bet she’d be a much better mother without him around. We’ve seen glimpses of that the rare times she has been alone. I think Tyson feeds on her insecurities and makes her feel like she’ll fail without him when he’s really just a loser pimping out his kids and riding on the coattails of his wife.

It’s very easy as an outsider to say leave, get out, why do you stay with him. I think if she left she would feel a huge amount of relief. But right now their story hinges on what a perfect couple they are. Tyson does his part to push that idealistic view by posting how much he loves her and whatever other garbage he spews. Notice she rarely reciprocated.

[NotSusan]

So I watched the Bingham’s vlog about their date last night and Tyson looks so out of place there. He’s such a slob. Anyway, his biggest addition to the conversations: “ we liked the food better than the golf.” SHOCKER!!
The rest of the group looked like they were having fun but I imagine it’s both hard to manoeuver in and out of that seat when you’re an oompa-loompa and also drag yourself away from the food long enough to open your mouth and take part in activities or conversation. He’s sooo gross.

[utahmom]

Trashley is sealed to Bison for all time and eternity. He is her Priest. Her God. Her eternal salvation depends on being hitched to Bison. She has no other option. This is why I personally feel Mormonism is a dangerous cult.

Discuss. Let's be polite and respectful of others' views.

[lmmomSD]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

I totally agree. I see a lot of similarities with them that I had in my marriage. Except we didn’t have the meeting before legal age and grossness like that lol.

Not to get too personal, but my ex husband was very emotionally controlling and it took me a while to realize it. I’m fiercely independent and have always been able to take care of myself so staying with him had nothing to do with dependency. I was always afraid to leave because I was afraid of admitting I failed. It took a major event for me to walk out and not look bad. I felt I always needed that excuse to leave because most people saw us as the perfect couple. And until people get to see the real side of my ex they think he is wonderful.

I definitely believe that Tyson has some weird control over her. And I bet Ashley feels stuck because of her religious views, as well as, not being able to care for the girls on her own. I bet she’d be a much better mother without him around. We’ve seen glimpses of that the rare times she has been alone. I think Tyson feeds on her insecurities and makes her feel like she’ll fail without him when he’s really just a loser pimping out his kids and riding on the coattails of his wife.

It’s very easy as an outsider to say leave, get out, why do you stay with him. I think if she left she would feel a huge amount of relief. But right now their story hinges on what a perfect couple they are. Tyson does his part to push that idealistic view by posting how much he loves her and whatever other garbage he spews. Notice she rarely reciprocated.

Sounds like our ex husbands were brothers from another mother! Everyone thought my ex was perfect too. My sister was the only one who saw how he really was, because she came to visit a lot and he let his mask slip. And I had a couple of girlfriends who saw it too, thank goodness.
The thing is, when you're in that kind of relationship, you start to think you're crazy because you're the only one who sees the controlling behavior. Everyone around me kept saying "But he is so wonderful!" So at least Ashley has evidence via the vlogs of Tyson's behavior. I can't even imagine being with someone like that from age 13 on. I was 28 when I got married and had been taking care of myself for a while, and even I got bogged down.

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[DoodleBop2]

I have a friend who's Mormon - she was a young wife with 4 kids. Found out husband had been sleeping with his old high school GF for like a year or something. She tried couples therapy but then learned he was continuing to date his girlfriend while "working on his marriage". She left. Her family was supportive of her. Her mother helped her move. She started going to a new church while some weren't supportive most were. I think Ashely is more isolated because her parents are complaisant in his abuse of her and have been since she was a child. Like I've said before any normal Dad would have run him off with threats of his head on a pike in the front yard if he came back 19 going after an 8th grader. Seriously.

I do think brushing away abuse, even more so within marriage, is common in many churches today. Be more submissive. Turn the other cheek. Be more understanding of how stressful being a husband is. Some churches are better than others. Some families are better than others. Ashely would most likely lose many of her friends and her family if she left. She would, however, have the money to leave and then the internet would almost entirely have her back. I have a friend whose own parents disowned her because she left her abusive husband. Her parents routinely tell her she's going to hell because she left. God apparently forgives cheating, emotional and physical abuse but doesn't forgive leaving. Thankfully I don't know that god they claim to speak for.
Thankfully there are many brave churches and pastors calling this stuff out and bringing it out into the open. Many good discussions and good preaching is happening on these topics.

How many articles wonder why are millennials leaving the church?

[Tigress95]

Can I post an unpopular opinion?I feel AssFace is abused by TightAss. Or he at least has control over her. She has been told (I'm assuming here) on numerous occasions that she is lesser than what she is. One of them mentioned on their old blog how she needed constant positive affirmations. This is why I assume it. Abuse isn't always physical. She won't leave him for fear of "I told you so." And he'll never leave her because he'd have to actually get a job. There's no love between them and I doubt there's even a like.

Remember at 14 she was developmently,morally and legally unable to give true consent, so Tyler IS her abuser.she married him because of religious rules and a cultural expectations. That's why she's stuck at 14, that's why she felt so pressured and frantic to have a baby. That's why he clings to her physically when they are around other people, why she can't go any where without him, and why she is distant from her children (competition).
It’s a very abusive situation, full stop.


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[mia]

If Ca$h did leave Bison, I believe he'd fight her for custody. He robbed her of bonding with the FF, made her feel inadequate as a mother, and now she's afraid to care for them on her own. He'd probably ask for alimony, too. Girl needs to wake up and see the manipulation happening right under her nose.

[lovethispage]

Thoughts? Am I a pervy for looking at this and my first thought being how many sickos could have photoshop fun with this? Come on. You’re on the Internet. You have perverts who get kicks out of little kids.


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That is f¥€king sick. He is a sick perv providing the pedi community with images for their pleasure. You belong in our FB group...

[eskayem]

Well shit. Whole post deleted. Will post more later.