Rash and Justine - Life’s a slog, with nothing to vlog | Part 30

[Dani_465]

More shit for Emma. Dinosaurs are now dinos aka trashy style. Why the fuck does she have to abbreviate every damn word???? How the fuck will Emma learn the real name for ANYTHING if trashy always uses a shortened word for it??

She’s going to fuck up her child for life. Dinos for dinosaur isn’t too bad, but let Emma do it. Let emma come up with her version.

Something tells me, beau beau, neigh neigh and now Dinos were all trashy’s ideas not Emma’s. I mean she’s already teaching Emma slang.

Most obnoxious IG with her awful rap. Poor kids will never know a normal life with a damn camera in their face 24/7.

[jrockjoy]

Maybe I'm missing something here (and I'm not just trying to defend Rachelle, I think she's a pos, please don't just tell me to fuck off lmao) but what's the issue with her potentially not breastfeeding anymore? Is the issue that she's being dishonest or that she's not breastfeeding? I know breast milk is preferable to formula but I also know some women really struggle with it, more than others. Not everybody holds the same beliefs/priorities. I think the only thing that really matters here is that the boys are fed, if that's an unpopular opinion then so be it.

Even though it's Rachelle and we all know what she's like, I just don't really understand all the harsh judgements around whether or not she's breastfeeding, especially when it's speculative anyway.

I'm also just thinking of Alex (from Phil and Alex) and her hyperfixation on breastfeeding and how she's literally been letting her baby slowly starve instead of give in to the alternatives. It's really disturbing, and deserving of seriously harsh judgement.

Just... At the end of the day who really gives a fuck as long as the babies are getting all the nutrition they need? At least Rachelle isn't pulling an Alex.

Srsly though if I am missing something here feel free to explain. I'm not trying to be a dick I just don't understand.

It’s the dishonesty about it for me. Also, it just doesn’t add up. When my daughter was a new baby I was CONSTANTLY nursing. That doesn’t appear to be the case with her and she has 2. She supposedly sticks to a strict schedule which I don’t like either in the beginning. They need to eat and they need to eat a lot. But she seems to care more about her own sleep and free time than feeding them.

I breastfed twins until they turned 2.
I was basically glued to the sofa nursing them almost around the clock until around 3 months old. She doesn’t tandem nurse either so nursing would take up even more of her time than what I went through. I tandem nursed my twins and it still took literally all of my time in those first few months.

For those of you unfamiliar with breastfeeding—in those first few months, babies get really lethargic after nursing. They also want to nurse ALL the time. It makes their sleep and feeding really sporadic which makes scheduling a nightmare. But Rash claims the boys have scheduled feeds and naps already, and is literally never shown nursing or pumping for them? It’s obviously a lie.


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[Baz1_]

I don’t understand why after only a handful of weeks she decides it’s time to put her kids on schedules. She did it with Emma too. When you decide to have kids, you have to accept the fact that you’re going to just have to go with the flow for a while. YOU have to adapt to what your baby needs, not the other way around. If my one month old wants to nurse an hour after being fed, then that’s what we do. If he’s going through a growth spurt and is up more than usual at night, then that’s fine. It’s not like they have anything to do or anywhere to go, they are able to adapt WAY easier than the average family. She needs to get over herself. Don’t have kids if you can’t handle their needs being more important than your own.

[ALittleStitious]

Maybe I'm missing something here (and I'm not just trying to defend Rachelle, I think she's a pos, please don't just tell me to fuck off lmao) but what's the issue with her potentially not breastfeeding anymore? Is the issue that she's being dishonest or that she's not breastfeeding? I know breast milk is preferable to formula but I also know some women really struggle with it, more than others. Not everybody holds the same beliefs/priorities. I think the only thing that really matters here is that the boys are fed, if that's an unpopular opinion then so be it.

Even though it's Rachelle and we all know what she's like, I just don't really understand all the harsh judgements around whether or not she's breastfeeding, especially when it's speculative anyway.

I'm also just thinking of Alex (from Phil and Alex) and her hyperfixation on breastfeeding and how she's literally been letting her baby slowly starve instead of give in to the alternatives. It's really disturbing, and deserving of seriously harsh judgement.

Just... At the end of the day who really gives a fuck as long as the babies are getting all the nutrition they need? At least Rachelle isn't pulling an Alex.

Srsly though if I am missing something here feel free to explain. I'm not trying to be a dick I just don't understand.

It’s the dishonesty about it for me. Also, it just doesn’t add up. When my daughter was a new baby I was CONSTANTLY nursing. That doesn’t appear to be the case with her and she has 2. She supposedly sticks to a strict schedule which I don’t like either in the beginning. They need to eat and they need to eat a lot. But she seems to care more about her own sleep and free time than feeding them.

I breastfed twins until they turned 2.
I was basically glued to the sofa nursing them almost around the clock until around 3 months old. She doesn’t tandem nurse either so nursing would take up even more of her time than what I went through. I tandem nursed my twins and it still took literally all of my time in those first few months.

For those of you unfamiliar with breastfeeding—in those first few months, babies get really lethargic after nursing. They also want to nurse ALL the time. It makes their sleep and feeding really sporadic which makes scheduling a nightmare. But Rash claims the boys have scheduled feeds and naps already, and is literally never shown nursing or pumping for them? It’s obviously a lie.


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Yeah this gets me too, about the schedules. I know of some moms who. Have successfully gotten a singleton on a relative schedule as far as nursing goes, but I just don't buy shoes managed to do it with two, without ignoring feeding cues and/or using more formula than she claims. To be fair, I think she still is breastfeeding, but i don't think she's doing it a lot. Maybe once a day for each boy. The way she schedules and pushes off feeding and forces sleeping through the night, there's no way her supply would be adequate to sustain them. She's 100% using way more formula than she let's on. Remember all the free samples from the pediatrician? And how in the first few weeks she was oBSeSsED with talking about how much she's nursing? She's been talking about it much less now.

[annakapp54]

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This is from her tik tok. Is that a bruise on one of the twins arms?? And do you think she is holding he’s arm to tight??


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[HereForTheTeaaa]

Ok I can totally understand that if she's being dishonest then that's a big problem. But we also don't know for sure that she's being dishonest..

And I won't go too much into it because this isn't Alex's thread. But you should go and read her thread if you think there's nothing wrong with how she's been handling her baby's feeding problems. Obviously what Rachelle and Alex are going through is COMPLETELY different, I'm not comparing it for any reason except to say that Alex is an example of how not to keep your baby fed. If Rachelle is missing hunger cues that is a big problem, but her baby's are hitting milestones at least right? They're fattening up good. Meanwhile Cassidy is still not gaining weight. I understand that women might be disappointed if they can't breastfeed properly, but Alex is letting Cassidy starve instead of give her all the formula she needs either by mouth or by feeding tube. Letting her go long stretches without food, not caring when Cassidy is banging her little head on her chest trying to get fed. Not taping her feeding tube properly and when Cassidy inevitably pulls it out (which feels fucking awful by the way) and is clearly in pain, instead of comforting her Alex starts recording Instagram stories, yelling angrily into her phone while still wearing Cassidy. Even yanking the fucking feeding tube out of her hand, pulling on the end that's still taped to her face. Alex isn't gentle, she doesn't comfort her baby, seems so disconnected. She's completely focused on her OWN experience (disappointment in problematic breastfeeding) and Cassidy's wellbeing is an after thought. She won't even buy a scale to check if she's gaining.

Sorry that's all I'll say. I know it's not very relevant here, I only brought it up initially because Alex is straight up starving her kid so whatever Rachelle is doing with the twins doesn't seem so bad. Not that she couldn't do better. She definitely doesn't feed Emma properly, but that involves real food. Breastmilk or formula at least is pretty simple. If she wasn't feeding the boys enough, I don't think they'd be as chubby as they are and Rachelle would probably be exploiting the situation so we'd know about it. "doctor says TWINS are too small??" Etc etc.

As someone who’s child through infancy had a feeding tube and now relies on a g-tube for their food intake I don’t see how Alex is starving her daughter. My son was on fortified breast milk until he was a year old (24kcal) and only received a small amount through his tube along with bottle feeding every three hours. When I pumped he ate. Heart babies burn so many calories that they have a hard time gaining weight, she is being heavily monitored by her doctors and they are working with Alex to get the right fix for Cassidy so she can continue to get breast milk (doctors do prefer giving breast milk to formula) and get the right number of calories so she can absorb more than she’s burning (hence the fortifying). If Cassidy was truly being starved they would intervene forcing the formula and as of now they’re saying it’s in the future and Alex is open to the fact that she might have to switch over.

When my son yanked out his feeding tube (as babies do ALL THE TIME) despite how much you tape it well it’s best not to dote on them and make them think something is wrong. You calm them down if it hurt them and reinsert. Alex and Phil are going through a hard time knowing their daughter is going to need a huge surgery and yes she is allowed to grieve that she can’t have a normal breastfeeding experience. When babies are tube fed and on strict diets along with vomiting and possible GI issues you can’t go off feeding cues unfortunately as feeding on cue could cause another round of vomiting from gorging on food when their bodies aren’t ready. My son would beg for food but due to his reflux and GI issues he was only able to eat every 3hrs. You don’t know the whole story and to say someone is starving their child due to their child having complex feeding issues is just disrespectful and disgusting.

Wanna hate on someone? Keep it to Rachelle and her perfectly healthy children who she paid so much money for only to rush their milestones, pretend to breastfeed and blatantly ignore while filming.

[AliCat91]

Ok I can totally understand that if she's being dishonest then that's a big problem. But we also don't know for sure that she's being dishonest..

And I won't go too much into it because this isn't Alex's thread. But you should go and read her thread if you think there's nothing wrong with how she's been handling her baby's feeding problems. Obviously what Rachelle and Alex are going through is COMPLETELY different, I'm not comparing it for any reason except to say that Alex is an example of how not to keep your baby fed. If Rachelle is missing hunger cues that is a big problem, but her baby's are hitting milestones at least right? They're fattening up good. Meanwhile Cassidy is still not gaining weight. I understand that women might be disappointed if they can't breastfeed properly, but Alex is letting Cassidy starve instead of give her all the formula she needs either by mouth or by feeding tube. Letting her go long stretches without food, not caring when Cassidy is banging her little head on her chest trying to get fed. Not taping her feeding tube properly and when Cassidy inevitably pulls it out (which feels fucking awful by the way) and is clearly in pain, instead of comforting her Alex starts recording Instagram stories, yelling angrily into her phone while still wearing Cassidy. Even yanking the fucking feeding tube out of her hand, pulling on the end that's still taped to her face. Alex isn't gentle, she doesn't comfort her baby, seems so disconnected. She's completely focused on her OWN experience (disappointment in problematic breastfeeding) and Cassidy's wellbeing is an after thought. She won't even buy a scale to check if she's gaining.

Sorry that's all I'll say. I know it's not very relevant here, I only brought it up initially because Alex is straight up starving her kid so whatever Rachelle is doing with the twins doesn't seem so bad. Not that she couldn't do better. She definitely doesn't feed Emma properly, but that involves real food. Breastmilk or formula at least is pretty simple. If she wasn't feeding the boys enough, I don't think they'd be as chubby as they are and Rachelle would probably be exploiting the situation so we'd know about it. "doctor says TWINS are too small??" Etc etc.

As someone who’s child through infancy had a feeding tube and now relies on a g-tube for their food intake I don’t see how Alex is starving her daughter. My son was on fortified breast milk until he was a year old (24kcal) and only received a small amount through his tube along with bottle feeding every three hours. When I pumped he ate. Heart babies burn so many calories that they have a hard time gaining weight, she is being heavily monitored by her doctors and they are working with Alex to get the right fix for Cassidy so she can continue to get breast milk (doctors do prefer giving breast milk to formula) and get the right number of calories so she can absorb more than she’s burning (hence the fortifying). If Cassidy was truly being starved they would intervene forcing the formula and as of now they’re saying it’s in the future and Alex is open to the fact that she might have to switch over.

When my son yanked out his feeding tube (as babies do ALL THE TIME) despite how much you tape it well it’s best not to dote on them and make them think something is wrong. You calm them down if it hurt them and reinsert. Alex and Phil are going through a hard time knowing their daughter is going to need a huge surgery and yes she is allowed to grieve that she can’t have a normal breastfeeding experience. When babies are tube fed and on strict diets along with vomiting and possible GI issues you can’t go off feeding cues unfortunately as feeding on cue could cause another round of vomiting from gorging on food when their bodies aren’t ready. My son would beg for food but due to his reflux and GI issues he was only able to eat every 3hrs. You don’t know the whole story and to say someone is starving their child due to their child having complex feeding issues is just disrespectful and disgusting.

Wanna hate on someone? Keep it to Rachelle and her perfectly healthy children who she paid so much money for only to rush their milestones, pretend to breastfeed and blatantly ignore while filming.

Take a breath and vent in here instead:


Phil and Alex: Struggling With Maternity After Laboring For Eternity | Part 10
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Far worse being discussed on there!


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[discretechristine]

“Oh Rachelle your house is so clean!” SAID NO ONE EVER! [IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202008 ... 7646bf.jpg[/IMG]

Did you know that when someone touches their nose it means they’re subconsciously lying or being untruthful!


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[Tina9900]

They are so freaking lazy! Neither one of them has a real job yet they have to have someone come and clean their house! What do they do all day? Every one of their kids probably has terrible diaper rash because their diapers are so full!
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[KKand3boys]

As soon as she started that fake ass yawn, I knew there was a sponsorship coming

[spicy_dreams]

Ok I can totally understand that if she's being dishonest then that's a big problem. But we also don't know for sure that she's being dishonest..

And I won't go too much into it because this isn't Alex's thread. But you should go and read her thread if you think there's nothing wrong with how she's been handling her baby's feeding problems. Obviously what Rachelle and Alex are going through is COMPLETELY different, I'm not comparing it for any reason except to say that Alex is an example of how not to keep your baby fed. If Rachelle is missing hunger cues that is a big problem, but her baby's are hitting milestones at least right? They're fattening up good. Meanwhile Cassidy is still not gaining weight. I understand that women might be disappointed if they can't breastfeed properly, but Alex is letting Cassidy starve instead of give her all the formula she needs either by mouth or by feeding tube. Letting her go long stretches without food, not caring when Cassidy is banging her little head on her chest trying to get fed. Not taping her feeding tube properly and when Cassidy inevitably pulls it out (which feels fucking awful by the way) and is clearly in pain, instead of comforting her Alex starts recording Instagram stories, yelling angrily into her phone while still wearing Cassidy. Even yanking the fucking feeding tube out of her hand, pulling on the end that's still taped to her face. Alex isn't gentle, she doesn't comfort her baby, seems so disconnected. She's completely focused on her OWN experience (disappointment in problematic breastfeeding) and Cassidy's wellbeing is an after thought. She won't even buy a scale to check if she's gaining.

Sorry that's all I'll say. I know it's not very relevant here, I only brought it up initially because Alex is straight up starving her kid so whatever Rachelle is doing with the twins doesn't seem so bad. Not that she couldn't do better. She definitely doesn't feed Emma properly, but that involves real food. Breastmilk or formula at least is pretty simple. If she wasn't feeding the boys enough, I don't think they'd be as chubby as they are and Rachelle would probably be exploiting the situation so we'd know about it. "doctor says TWINS are too small??" Etc etc.

As someone who’s child through infancy had a feeding tube and now relies on a g-tube for their food intake I don’t see how Alex is starving her daughter. My son was on fortified breast milk until he was a year old (24kcal) and only received a small amount through his tube along with bottle feeding every three hours. When I pumped he ate. Heart babies burn so many calories that they have a hard time gaining weight, she is being heavily monitored by her doctors and they are working with Alex to get the right fix for Cassidy so she can continue to get breast milk (doctors do prefer giving breast milk to formula) and get the right number of calories so she can absorb more than she’s burning (hence the fortifying). If Cassidy was truly being starved they would intervene forcing the formula and as of now they’re saying it’s in the future and Alex is open to the fact that she might have to switch over.

When my son yanked out his feeding tube (as babies do ALL THE TIME) despite how much you tape it well it’s best not to dote on them and make them think something is wrong. You calm them down if it hurt them and reinsert. Alex and Phil are going through a hard time knowing their daughter is going to need a huge surgery and yes she is allowed to grieve that she can’t have a normal breastfeeding experience. When babies are tube fed and on strict diets along with vomiting and possible GI issues you can’t go off feeding cues unfortunately as feeding on cue could cause another round of vomiting from gorging on food when their bodies aren’t ready. My son would beg for food but due to his reflux and GI issues he was only able to eat every 3hrs. You don’t know the whole story and to say someone is starving their child due to their child having complex feeding issues is just disrespectful and disgusting.

Wanna hate on someone? Keep it to Rachelle and her perfectly healthy children who she paid so much money for only to rush their milestones, pretend to breastfeed and blatantly ignore while filming.

Don't take it personally I was talking about Alex not you. I wasn't gonna say anything more about it but since you don't seem to understand what's going on, I suggest you take a look at Alex's thread. She hasn't been using the feeding tube enough at all, she's also using it while Cassidy is lying down flat so she's not doing much at all to prevent reflux. I know CHD babies need more calories, that's why it's so poor that Alex isn't doing enough. She's holding out hope that she won't have to use formula or the feeding tube, but she's not able to breastfeed properly either so she's letting Cassidy go far too long in between feeds. I mean she chose to feed Cass straight cooking oil instead of formula ffs. Who the fuck does that? She's also still not gaining any weight, and Alex has been putting off buying a baby scale.

And I realise babies will pull out tubes, but Alex isn't taping it properly. If you look, you'll see. There's a huge space that isn't taped that Cassidy can EASILY get her fingers under. And while I do think you should comfort your baby who is suffering after having just pulled a feeding tube out, it's not just that Alex wasn't doing that. She was angrily YELLING, and absolutely seething while still wearing Cassidy, while Cassidy was still in pain. I'm sorry but that's totally unacceptable and unnecessary. You don't yell or get that upset while wearing a baby, especially if they've just experienced something traumatic. I'm really done talking about Alex here but seriously, unless you have been following along or reading her thread, maybe don't defend her so hard, she doesn't deserve it.

[TrainwreckTottie]

Just getting caught up on the thread and sent my husband a screen shot of Emma’s back and had to share his response. Even my husband has a disgust for this family!

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[gossip-guru]

Did she really leave a sink full of dishes for the cleaners!?!?!?! They have a dishwasher ! No one wants cleaners wasting time doing dishes when they live in filth like the swans jeeeeez

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[Ginatheninja]

Did she really leave a sink full of dishes for the cleaners!?!?!?! They have a dishwasher ! No one wants cleaners wasting time doing dishes when they live in filth like the swans jeeeeez

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How the hell do they even have that many dirty dishes it’s only them two making the dishes I wonder what their sink will look like when all 3 kids are making dirty dishes too.


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[Nik_8989]

The level of laziness with these two is sickening


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[Mammababe111]

Yalllllllll wtf. Cleaning lady for two stay at home parents?! Come on! Their house isn’t even big...she NEEDS to shut the fuck up about those kids sleep schedules. Feed them more during the day and maybe they will sleep more at night! I just don’t understand the rush.. like someone else said they don’t have shit to do all day but pay attention to those kids. The twins probably aren’t stimulated enough during the day either. Go on a walk with them, bring them to the park, bring a blanket on the grass, change up their scenery. My son is 10 months and always in a better mood when I bring him outside or even a little car ride, something to break up the day. Idk how they do it. I’m a stay at home mom now and my day is very routined similar to a daycare center my son used to go too. Kids like knowing what’s next.

[Dani_465]

Well that’s hard to believe since Emma is half dressed most of the time. Oh wait, the trashys only give a shit abut the twins until the next child comes. Who cares if Emma is cold. And for a 600k+ home y’all sure have piss poor insulation. 600k must be a 50k house elsewhere. It’s a ranch, no high ceilings, it shouldn’t have to be an icebox. Stupid kids probably didn’t even ask about insulation.

[Boy_mom12]

For someone who had a “degree” in early childhood she sure yanks on Emma’s arms an awful lot. Obviously never heard of nurse made elbow. My god.

[Mammababe111]

For someone who had a “degree” in early childhood she sure yanks on Emma’s arms an awful lot. Obviously never heard of nurse made elbow. My god.

I always get the feeling that she’s really mean to Emma when the camera is off. I think she puts a lot on for the camera that isn’t true and it explains why Emma’s development is not where it should be.

[mahamilton]

I'm still trying to figure out the extra editing that rachelle has apparently been doing lately and working soooo hard on. Like one of you said in here, all the clips are literally just slapped together.

And she took another one of your guys advice and caught herself constantly saying 'this guy'