JesssFam: Crying About "Homeschool" to Pay for the Pool (Pt 144)

[Hoe4Christmas]

why are these kids bday parties so over the top? themed food, plates, table decor, background for pics, cake, etc. it’s insane. what happened to the simple backyard parties with a white cake and happy birthday banner?

also her blatantly ignoring cdc guidelines not to travel is absurd. she is going to give her grandmother covid and she will die because of jess. i hope jess is ready for that kind of guilt. plus, she tried to defend it by saying that it was a small family gathering. newsflash, it isn’t small when you just had a party and have been associating with everyone you know this whole time! she will be exposing her beloved grandmother to: everyone at the party and their close contacts, people who sat near them on the plane, kids from dance class and their families and other friends, etc. jess does not have a bubble of close contacts and unfortunately i think she will see the consequences of that.


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[ReyRey61]

She posted pics of them on the plane. Looks like T&C didn’t go.


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[MiloandMax1]

She posted pics of them on the plane. Looks like T&C didn’t go.


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That looks like Tommy sitting by Kyson (Kaden is by Mimi). Not sure which boy is by Chris (assuming Landen). She also panned over her shoulder and it was Lilia and there were 3 in that seat (although not sure why Lilia would want to sit by Caden lol).

[Bella0609]

Cunfused are they going to New Jersey or New York?

[ReyRey61]

She posted pics of them on the plane. Looks like T&C didn’t go.


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That looks like Tommy sitting by Kyson (Kaden is by Mimi). Not sure which boy is by Chris (assuming Landen). She also panned over her shoulder and it was Lilia and there were 3 in that seat (although not sure why Lilia would want to sit by Caden lol).

Got it. Thanks!!!

[MiloandMax1]

In the seats it looks like Jess/Kyson & Tommy
With Chris Addie/Landen?
Behind Chris is Mimi/Kaden
Behind Mimi I think that's Caden

Behind Jess is Ben/Gf
The 3 in a row is Lilia/Amanda and Dane (I think).

[Beyou8]

So as I’m reading these posts, it looks like the whole family is going to NY? Like why? There’s a pandemic going on and NY is literally shut down. My whole family lives there and my bestfriends. I can’t believe Jess is at it again and is going to make the entire family get covid just because she can’t quarantine at home.

[daisyisabella1]

So as I’m reading these posts, it looks like the whole family is going to NY? Like why? There’s a pandemic going on and NY is literally shut down. My whole family lives there and my bestfriends. I can’t believe Jess is at it again and is going to make the entire family get covid just because she can’t quarantine at home.

While I do agree they shouldn’t travel during the pandemic, NY isn’t shut down... pretty much everything is open. Shops, restaurants, museums... I don’t think she said they we’re going f to the city. I thought it was to visit her grandmother

[MiloandMax1]

So as I’m reading these posts, it looks like the whole family is going to NY? Like why? There’s a pandemic going on and NY is literally shut down. My whole family lives there and my bestfriends. I can’t believe Jess is at it again and is going to make the entire family get covid just because she can’t quarantine at home.

While I do agree they shouldn’t travel during the pandemic, NY isn’t shut down... pretty much everything is open. Shops, restaurants, museums... I don’t think she said they we’re going f to the city. I thought it was to visit her grandmother

Aren't they saying there could be fines for literally having holiday gatherings? Some of their guidelines are ridiculous. Even if NY/Jersey (where I think she's going) aren't shut down her state of California is headed there and had family gathering guidelines (I have friends in Cali). I just don't see them going all of that way to just go visit her grandma, especiallt since she told T & C NYC and even said how much he liked NYC, since her other kids besides Lilia haven't been there I am sure she has some tourist type thing planned. And that's 4 families (Jess, Ben, Amanda/Dane, Mimi - remember Mimi doesn't live with Ben full time).

[mbell197]

So as I’m reading these posts, it looks like the whole family is going to NY? Like why? There’s a pandemic going on and NY is literally shut down. My whole family lives there and my bestfriends. I can’t believe Jess is at it again and is going to make the entire family get covid just because she can’t quarantine at home.

While I do agree they shouldn’t travel during the pandemic, NY isn’t shut down... pretty much everything is open. Shops, restaurants, museums... I don’t think she said they we’re going f to the city. I thought it was to visit her grandmother

Aren't they saying there could be fines for literally having holiday gatherings? Some of their guidelines are ridiculous. Even if NY/Jersey (where I think she's going) aren't shut down her state of California is headed there and had family gathering guidelines (I have friends in Cali). I just don't see them going all of that way to just go visit her grandma, especiallt since she told T & C NYC and even said how much he liked NYC, since her other kids besides Lilia haven't been there I am sure she has some tourist type thing planned. And that's 4 families (Jess, Ben, Amanda/Dane, Mimi - remember Mimi doesn't live with Ben full time).

There will not be fines. Many sheriffs have stated that they will not fine people for this. Stop the fear mongering.


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[CottonCandySky]

In all honestly, if my grandmother was going to die, COVID or no COVID, I would go and say my goodbyes without a doubt. No way I would pass down an opportunity for seeing her a last time.

[MiloandMax1]

While I do agree they shouldn’t travel during the pandemic, NY isn’t shut down... pretty much everything is open. Shops, restaurants, museums... I don’t think she said they we’re going f to the city. I thought it was to visit her grandmother

Aren't they saying there could be fines for literally having holiday gatherings? Some of their guidelines are ridiculous. Even if NY/Jersey (where I think she's going) aren't shut down her state of California is headed there and had family gathering guidelines (I have friends in Cali). I just don't see them going all of that way to just go visit her grandma, especiallt since she told T & C NYC and even said how much he liked NYC, since her other kids besides Lilia haven't been there I am sure she has some tourist type thing planned. And that's 4 families (Jess, Ben, Amanda/Dane, Mimi - remember Mimi doesn't live with Ben full time).

There will not be fines. Many sheriffs have stated that they will not fine people for this. Stop the fear mongering.


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I'm not fear mongering. Look right on some of these states guidelines. I am well aware some cops say they won't enforce it but it doesn't mean it wasn't said, or they wouldn't have anything to enforce (or not). Your missing what I was saying. Californias governor has all these guidelines and Jess is coming back to that where she won't do the 14 day quarantine or any of the 4 families. But people that have tried to follow the guidelines that can't work from home, etc get screwed.

[MiloandMax1]

In all honestly, if my grandmother was going to die, COVID or no COVID, I would go and say my goodbyes without a doubt. No way I would pass down an opportunity for seeing her a last time.

I understand that, but this sounds like it was planned all along for Thanksgiving. I know Jess is rainbows and unicorns so maybe it hasn't hit her yet and that is the reason they are going but she seemed happy in a "vacation" way if that makes sense. I also think all 7 kids (that are loud and don't listen) would be difficult if your saying goodbye.

[MiloandMax1]

I just hope if she does film Grammy and that's why they are there that she is respectful to the other family members. I can't imagine those emotions on camera. Plus we all know how terrible Jess is editing things as they are (and the clickbait, gotta make that money).

[Scrapple]

[disclaimer: I'm in the UK. We are on "full" lockdown. There are different rules here. I am not innately familiar with the US ones]

But I'm absolutely fucking spitting with rage and scorn that she's being this selfish.

So many millions of people's grandmothers are dying or have died these last several months. I've lost friends to Covid. I VERY NEARLY lost family and frankly am amazed that the individual affected pulled through. But I couldn't go to my friends' funerals. I couldn't say goodbye to them. I couldn't go and be with my family member when we thought they weren't going to make it.

Know why? BECAUSE I FUCKING FOLLOWED THE LAW THAT WAS PUT IN PLACE TO STOP THIS THING SPREADING. I put aside my own pain and my own selfish needs to say a goodbye that, at the end of the day, will affect nobody but myself (I do not believe in an afterlife and do not think that a dying person is going to hold it against you if you don't want to risk killing off others by making an unnecessary journey). Because I knew I'd have to bring family along, I'd have to bring my niece, who is too young to keep a mask on and who attends nursery twice a week, so is ultimately a huge risk for infection spread.

I get what people are saying here about wanting to be with a loved one. And I think if you isolate, get yourself tested, travel ON YOUR OWN and observe the strictest hygiene and distancing protocols you can, that is something you should have the right to do, totally.

Jess could have gone on her own. She fucking knows she could have gone on her own, she's got a whole menagerie of gormless adults to watch her feral brood for her. If she really cared about saying goodbye to her grandmother, that's what she fucking well would have done. She wants a trip, she wants to take 7 kids on a trip across the country during a pandemic. There is only one reason she wants to do that: VIEWS. Fuck you and fuck everything your poxy little brain drums up for your own selfish truth-defying needs, Jessica. I relish turning on my ad blocker every time I see your stupid smug face.

/end big angry rant

[Apm1993]

I guess I’m in the minority, but I would 110% take my family to visit my grandmother on what could very well be her last Thanksgiving (or last days of her life) as long as my grandmother was okay with it, of course.
With that said, I do hope Jess is smart and doesn’t go all over creation while in NY/NJ and then the same when she gets back to Cali.
There’s a right/wrong way to do it.
If they travel straight to her family’s house and then straight back home, they are really only coming into contact with other people on the plane and her family....all of whom are choosing to take the risk, honestly.


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[MiloandMax1]

This would also be different if Jess didn't act like this pandemic has affected her. She works from home, she still had friends & family over (Sunday dinner, birthday parties), she moved, got the car (when so many were out of work), Disney, Utah for the movie Lilia is in, probably more I'm missing. But having to watch her kids was just so hard. When she made them the way they are & now she has to see what their teachers deal with.

She has to have plans to go to NYC or she shouldn't/wouldn't have said that to Tommy. They flew into jersey it looks like. I also doubt she's sat her kids down as to why they are really there if it is for grammy but I'm sure she will have the camera filming it instead of being a parent.

Also its not just her. How many of us know what is promised tomorrow? Nobody does. My grandparents have passed but I see friends not going home because they are trying to do the right thing and know they probably won't have that family member next year.

I go back and forth on this. I'm not a hypocrite but jess NEVER took it serious from the start so those that listened and the 2 weeks went to a month, to 2 months to ok doing ok and then now possible lockdown again its frustrsting seeing her complain about things She's affected by considering what others have gone through actually losing jobs, homes, illness. She's just not relatable.

[hooboy]

why are these kids bday parties so over the top? themed food, plates, table decor, background for pics, cake, etc. it’s insane. what happened to the simple backyard parties with a white cake and happy birthday banner?

also her blatantly ignoring cdc guidelines not to travel is absurd. she is going to give her grandmother covid and she will die because of jess. i hope jess is ready for that kind of guilt. plus, she tried to defend it by saying that it was a small family gathering. newsflash, it isn’t small when you just had a party and have been associating with everyone you know this whole time! she will be exposing her beloved grandmother to: everyone at the party and their close contacts, people who sat near them on the plane, kids from dance class and their families and other friends, etc. jess does not have a bubble of close contacts and unfortunately i think she will see the consequences of that.


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Let's face it, Jessss will never have to 'live with that kind of guilt' because she would just simply not take responsibility. She'd blame her grandma's postman or something before she'd ever look at herself. And beyond that she's got a marching band of like-minded friends and family who would all enable each other and displace blame. Jess isn't the way she is in a vacuum, everyone around her seems to be on the same wavelength. They're just selfish people.

[sondraK]

This would also be different if Jess didn't act like this pandemic has affected her. She works from home, she still had friends & family over (Sunday dinner, birthday parties), she moved, got the car (when so many were out of work), Disney, Utah for the movie Lilia is in, probably more I'm missing. But having to watch her kids was just so hard. When she made them the way they are & now she has to see what their teachers deal with.

She has to have plans to go to NYC or she shouldn't/wouldn't have said that to Tommy. They flew into jersey it looks like. I also doubt she's sat her kids down as to why they are really there if it is for grammy but I'm sure she will have the camera filming it instead of being a parent.

Also its not just her. How many of us know what is promised tomorrow? Nobody does. My grandparents have passed but I see friends not going home because they are trying to do the right thing and know they probably won't have that family member next year.

I go back and forth on this. I'm not a hypocrite but jess NEVER took it serious from the start so those that listened and the 2 weeks went to a month, to 2 months to ok doing ok and then now possible lockdown again its frustrsting seeing her complain about things She's affected by considering what others have gone through actually losing jobs, homes, illness. She's just not relatable.

Well said

[sezzajaydee]

Aren't they saying there could be fines for literally having holiday gatherings? Some of their guidelines are ridiculous. Even if NY/Jersey (where I think she's going) aren't shut down her state of California is headed there and had family gathering guidelines (I have friends in Cali). I just don't see them going all of that way to just go visit her grandma, especiallt since she told T & C NYC and even said how much he liked NYC, since her other kids besides Lilia haven't been there I am sure she has some tourist type thing planned. And that's 4 families (Jess, Ben, Amanda/Dane, Mimi - remember Mimi doesn't live with Ben full time).

There will not be fines. Many sheriffs have stated that they will not fine people for this. Stop the fear mongering.


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I'm not fear mongering. Look right on some of these states guidelines. I am well aware some cops say they won't enforce it but it doesn't mean it wasn't said, or they wouldn't have anything to enforce (or not). Your missing what I was saying. Californias governor has all these guidelines and Jess is coming back to that where she won't do the 14 day quarantine or any of the 4 families. But people that have tried to follow the guidelines that can't work from home, etc get screwed.

Major eye roll.
That wasn’t fear mongering. Asking a question is not fear mongering.