Oh, I shouldn't laugh at that but I do, because that's really the only reason I peek in here, myselflonghairdontcare1006 wrote:I don't come over to this thread too often really, but when I do find myself over here I always say to myself "is she pregnant again yet? Lol
Iammrsnesbitt wrote:Who's Kayt and why is she relevant to Tayler? Did I miss something?
Oh okay, thank you!whatsername_ wrote:Iammrsnesbitt wrote:Who's Kayt and why is she relevant to Tayler? Did I miss something?
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Fuck this bitch. No seriously, FUCK this bitch.placebo wrote:Tayler Dawn Roetter
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Ladies, please remember that you can't change a nigga unless he wearing diapers.
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Keeping it classy. As usual.
"No racial slurs, ty" is shorthand for Nigg-er. Interesting how I can't type the word Nigg-er on this site because it is so offensive, yet Tayler is "Nigga" this and "Nigga" that and it's totally acceptable. Mind you, I do NOT blame this site and the auto-bots censoring me. I'm just saying, I was censored because words hurt, and in some cases words kill, and yet Tay thinks it's okie dokie to use that same word because she misspelled it? Now THAT is wrong.HeavenOnlyKnows wrote:Fuck this bitch. No seriously, FUCK this bitch.placebo wrote:Tayler Dawn Roetter
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Ladies, please remember that you can't change a nigga unless he wearing diapers.
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"*no racial slurs, ty" is the word used against my granddad, a black man who was born in 1919 in the south. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why he couldn't go to school to learn how to read or write, why he was illiterate until he was in his 70s and retired and finally went to an adult literacy program in secret because he wanted to be an example to his grands and great-grands because he always preached that education was key, and he wanted to practice what he preached. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my granddad owned his own business but couldn't read or sign the checks made out to him. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my flesh and blood, my grandpa, the one man who taught me that education is penultimate and to never rely on no man to make me happy- was discriminated against and damn near killed over the color of his skin. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my granddaddy worked in the fields, the 12th of 13 children, until he went up north and people started treating him like a man and not just a good for nothing *no racial slurs, ty. I am part *no racial slurs, ty and I am damn PROUD of where I came from, I am PROUD of my Negro blood and the blessing I got from being kin to my granddad, I am PROUD that my "good for nothing *no racial slurs, ty" granddaddy made me who I am today and so much more. This man was respected when he died, my God so many people came to his funeral, because after 80+ decades of fighting against being nothing but a "*no racial slurs, ty" he showed the world what it means to be a strong, proud, Black man. Lord how I loved him. I was there in his hospital room when he died and NO ONE can say he didn't fight the good fight. His whole goddamn life was a fight because he was a "*no racial slurs, ty."
And so for Tayler to be so goddamn cavalier about "Niggas"- FUCK HER. I don't care that she spelled it with an "a" instead of an "er"- is that supposed to excuse her ignorance? Is that supposed to erase the history of that hellish word? Is that supposed to signify that her inability to keep her husband happy is comparable to the struggle that blacks in the south went through for their whole lives? Because it doesn't. It really, really doesn't.
I feel you. My dad (he is technically my step dad but adopted me when he married my mom when I was 2 and has been the only father I have ever known) is black, my two younger siblings are biracial. My dad is younger so, he did not endure all the awful things I'm sure your grandfather did but he endured some as we all did as a family. He was one of the first black men to graduate from UNC. He met my mom when she moved here from across the country to get away from my bio dad whom was abusive and they ended up working at the same company together. She came here with nothing and was a struggling single mom and before they ever even dated or had any hint to anything more going on, my dad would give my mom almost his entire paycheck all the time to help keep the electricity on, buy me shoes etc. This was when they were just friends. When he married my mom, his family disowned him for marrying a white woman who already had a white child. While growing up in NC, kids at school would call my mom and I "N word lovers" and call my dad awful things. They seemed to be most angry that he had a better paying job and we lived in a nicer house than most of them in our rural county. Idk. I think that really pissed them off that a black man was doing better than them... I remember being in the grocery store with my dad when I was about 5. Now, mind you I am a pale white redhead lol. We were just grocery shopping as usual when suddenly a police officer approached and grabbed my arm and asked my dad "where did you get this girl from?" Dad looked at him like he was crazy and said "she's my daughter. well, my wife's daughter but I adopted her." The officer then proceeded to take me against my will about 20ft away so dad couldn't hear or see me and asked me "do you know this man?" I said "yes he's my daddy" as if this guy was a complete dumb ass. He let me go back to my dad but just the fact that the store manager had called 911 instead of just approaching and asking in the first place was insane. That was the first and only time I've ever seen my dad cry in 25 years. He was scared to take me out alone for years after that. My parents are still married but even if they weren't, he will always be my daddy and we will always have a close relationship.HeavenOnlyKnows wrote:Fuck this bitch. No seriously, FUCK this bitch.placebo wrote:Tayler Dawn Roetter
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Ladies, please remember that you can't change a nigga unless he wearing diapers.
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Keeping it classy. As usual.
"*no racial slurs, ty" is the word used against my granddad, a black man who was born in 1919 in the south. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why he couldn't go to school to learn how to read or write, why he was illiterate until he was in his 70s and retired and finally went to an adult literacy program in secret because he wanted to be an example to his grands and great-grands because he always preached that education was key, and he wanted to practice what he preached. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my granddad owned his own business but couldn't read or sign the checks made out to him. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my flesh and blood, my grandpa, the one man who taught me that education is penultimate and to never rely on no man to make me happy- was discriminated against and damn near killed over the color of his skin. "*no racial slurs, ty" is why my granddaddy worked in the fields, the 12th of 13 children, until he went up north and people started treating him like a man and not just a good for nothing *no racial slurs, ty. I am part *no racial slurs, ty and I am damn PROUD of where I came from, I am PROUD of my Negro blood and the blessing I got from being kin to my granddad, I am PROUD that my "good for nothing *no racial slurs, ty" granddaddy made me who I am today and so much more. This man was respected when he died, my God so many people came to his funeral, because after 80+ decades of fighting against being nothing but a "*no racial slurs, ty" he showed the world what it means to be a strong, proud, Black man. Lord how I loved him. I was there in his hospital room when he died and NO ONE can say he didn't fight the good fight. His whole goddamn life was a fight because he was a "*no racial slurs, ty."
And so for Tayler to be so goddamn cavalier about "Niggas"- FUCK HER. I don't care that she spelled it with an "a" instead of an "er"- is that supposed to excuse her ignorance? Is that supposed to erase the history of that hellish word? Is that supposed to signify that her inability to keep her husband happy is comparable to the struggle that blacks in the south went through for their whole lives? Because it doesn't. It really, really doesn't.
This. I grew up hearing nigg-er rig and my family isn't racist. Maybe it's a rural thing, idk. I went to predominantly black schools (yes, in Kansas lol) and I guess you could say it was so normal to me that I don't really see color. I mean obviously I can SEE it but it's not different than a very pale white person. All people. There came a point where I realized the phrase was inappropriate and it has not been passed down to my kids so wooo breaking the cycle lol.tieruhhlynn wrote:With the whole "n" word thing... some people are brought up to not even think twice about it. It's no longer a racial slur to them, like some people have been desensitized to it. I used to always say "hold on let me nigg-er rig this" ONLY because I was brought up and heard everyone around me say it. It wasn't until I started having black friends that I realized it was wrong haha Tayler probably lives in BFE, and I live in the same state as her so she probably just doesn't really see it as a big offensive term. I mean I'm just sayin'. No hate. I love my black people. ♥
This just... My heart just breaks reading this. I cried reading this. I am so, so sorry you and your dad had to experience this. But this is what I'm saying; the world, as a whole, is not ready for mixed couples and families. I know that we as a society have come a long way in breaking down racial stereotypes, but when a parent cannot take their child out in public without stares at best and POLICE INTERROGATION at worst- it means we still have a long way to go. It means that we can't take anything for granted, we can't just assume that because "we" as individuals are okay with different races intermarrying that the rest of the world is okay with it- because in most cases, the world is not. I could recount so many stories of how my Hispanic granddad and my Black grandparents were stereotyped and mistreated, but I won't. I can tell you so many instances of how my life was harder being brown and how I would have had it easier if I was white like some of my relatives, but I won't. All I will say is, PLEASE do not think you're being "cute" by talking about Niggas. It doesn't make you a badass. It doesn't make you cool. It makes you a fucking ignorant, delinquent, sorry excuse of a person and someone seriously needs to educate you.SomethingGoodCanWork wrote:I remember being in the grocery store with my dad when I was about 5. Now, mind you I am a pale white redhead lol. We were just grocery shopping as usual when suddenly a police officer approached and grabbed my arm and asked my dad "where did you get this girl from?" Dad looked at him like he was crazy and said "she's my daughter. well, my wife's daughter but I adopted her." The officer then proceeded to take me against my will about 20ft away so dad couldn't hear or see me and asked me "do you know this man?" I said "yes he's my daddy" as if this guy was a complete dumb ass. He let me go back to my dad but just the fact that the store manager had called 911 instead of just approaching and asking in the first place was insane. That was the first and only time I've ever seen my dad cry in 25 years. He was scared to take me out alone for years after that.
