8 Passengers: can't stop lying, freeze drying, or impulse buying! | Part 19

[CognitiveDissonance]

Maybe Shari is shading her mom because she’s glad that people have moved on to ruby and aren’t making fun of her bangs. Ruby’s hair definitely ages her and is not cute.

Nothing worse than 2 bad haircuts in the house! Actually Shari could blend her bangs back into her hair with no issues.

I'm sure Kevin is missing Ruby's MILF long locks.

Abby definitely looks older now in pics with her glasses on and here braces off. I realllllllly hope she and Julie get back to school in the fall and have some friends again.

[ba1006]

With all this talk about dorms and apartments, I guess she's going to BYU for sure. Visiting other schools must have been for content. I don't think acceptance letters were even sent out yet. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. At least she will find some nice young mormon boy to settle down with.

[mikaydean]

What amazes me is that there is no mention at all about the girls going on a mission. I know Ruby has not been on a mission and also in other Mormon families it is not talked about like the yawi family or the ohana family ect but would that not be the honorable thing to do. Ruby has said in the past that college is for seeking a husband. But wouldn't a daughter going on a mission show more of your commitment to the church and god than just marrying another Mormon? Yet in many Mormon YouTube families you see that a girl does not go on a mission. It would be a good experience for Shari to get to know the church better and to become a little more humble. Which she can certainly use as other girls in college won't let her boss them around like her siblings are obliged to allow under mom's eyes.

[pgn14]

I think it is not common for girls to go on missions and even if they go, they are not allowed to go for 2 years. *irony*How is a woman going to go for 2 years to do something she believes in? And lets not bring in the thought of also going to college and finishing a degree. On their eyes, she would be loosing time to get married and have kids.... I am not religious and obviously don't agree with most of their teachings, but I can't stand when they pretend to support equality when they so obviously don't. It makes me feel sad for the young girls tbh

I think Shari is so used to the idea that she has to move out and they have put in their head so many things like "you should be grateful that we provided food and other necessities like a bed for so many years" and not to complain that to her it is normal. When in reality, in my opinion, that is just a selfish, manipulative and wrong way to teach your children to be grateful or to be independent.

Also, has anyone seen that in one of Ruby's last stories on IG they are in church clothes and there is snow on the ground but Julie is wearing sandals, what??? How is that normal? Not trying to attack Julie but why doesn't she have proper shoes for winter? Or why doesn't anyone teach her to dress appropriately for the weather?

[Gigi7]

To my understanding (which is quite limited since I’m not from the USA and we don’t have a lot of Mormons in my country, at least I never met or heard of anyone being a Mormon) missions are not mandatory for women. You could go after 19 but it’s a choice.

Women have to marry young, like if you’re 24 and single you’re an old maid like in Jane Austen’s books from the 17th century. Also you have to serve your husband and after you’re dead you will be one of his many spirit wives he will have apparently. Also you should have as many children as you can.

What Ruby taught Shari by example is that she should go to a Mormon college to find herself a husband, leave her studies to marry (which can’t wait) and have many children, even if you don’t want any and even if you’re already neglecting the ones you have (we have all heard from Ruby’s own mouth she neglected Julie that she had a flat head and was usually dirty and with a soiled diaper and once she had the grace to give her a haircut and a heavenly bath).

Poor Shari, her future is too predictable and miserable. She can escape it, but I don’t doubt that she won’t

[Ducklings4]

I think it is not common for girls to go on missions and even if they go, they are not allowed to go for 2 years. *irony*How is a woman going to go for 2 years to do something she believes in? And lets not bring in the thought of also going to college and finishing a degree. On their eyes, she would be loosing time to get married and have kids.... I am not religious and obviously don't agree with most of their teachings, but I can't stand when they pretend to support equality when they so obviously don't. It makes me feel sad for the young girls tbh

I think Shari is so used to the idea that she has to move out and they have put in their head so many things like "you should be grateful that we provided food and other necessities like a bed for so many years" and not to complain that to her it is normal. When in reality, in my opinion, that is just a selfish, manipulative and wrong way to teach your children to be grateful or to be independent.

Also, has anyone seen that in one of Ruby's last stories on IG they are in church clothes and there is snow on the ground but Julie is wearing sandals, what??? How is that normal? Not trying to attack Julie but why doesn't she have proper shoes for winter? Or why doesn't anyone teach her to dress appropriately for the weather?

Because it is the first day of spring. Dress for the calendar not the weather.


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[Kattiness Everdeen]

I think it is not common for girls to go on missions and even if they go, they are not allowed to go for 2 years. *irony*How is a woman going to go for 2 years to do something she believes in? And lets not bring in the thought of also going to college and finishing a degree. On their eyes, she would be loosing time to get married and have kids.... I am not religious and obviously don't agree with most of their teachings, but I can't stand when they pretend to support equality when they so obviously don't. It makes me feel sad for the young girls tbh

I think Shari is so used to the idea that she has to move out and they have put in their head so many things like "you should be grateful that we provided food and other necessities like a bed for so many years" and not to complain that to her it is normal. When in reality, in my opinion, that is just a selfish, manipulative and wrong way to teach your children to be grateful or to be independent.

Also, has anyone seen that in one of Ruby's last stories on IG they are in church clothes and there is snow on the ground but Julie is wearing sandals, what??? How is that normal? Not trying to attack Julie but why doesn't she have proper shoes for winter? Or why doesn't anyone teach her to dress appropriately for the weather?

They were taught never to ask for anything they need and that being exceptionally grateful for the scraps their parents allow them to have is what their god wants (i.e. why Shari refused socks until her 18th birthday). So Julie wore sandals in the snow rather than tell her mother she outgrew her dress shoes. And Ruby is too self absorbed to even notice her children are going without most of the time.

They were also taught that finding a husband and father for your children is the primary goal of your teen years. I don't think any women in the family went on a mission, because that puts you at a disadvantage for pairing off.

[holiday89]

This video is so cringey. They have hidden the amount of Likes/Dislikes. According to ruby, self-neglect is at the core of depression and anxiety. "Connexions has given me the tools to help my children understand where their responsibility is and understand where self-care comes from. They've really learned to love themselves and they have dug themselves out of their own depressions and anxieties and acting out behaviors."

[CognitiveDissonance]

In her newest IG shill she has Russell sitting on her lap reading to her. She states that the books Eve and Russell have been reading are "too sassy" and make them want to be bad. So she has doubled down and found even more bland things for them to read now instead. Thanks for shopping hints with Ruby y'all. She's actually answering questions back and most are her trying to do a re-frame of what the person is commenting, but trying to make her appear the genius. She does know more than the average joe.

[CognitiveDissonance]

In her newest IG shill she has Russell sitting on her lap reading to her. She states that the books Eve and Russell have been reading are "too sassy" and make them want to be bad. So she has doubled down and found even more bland things for them to read now instead. Thanks for shopping hints with Ruby y'all. She's actually answering questions back and most are her trying to do a re-frame of what the person is commenting, but trying to make her appear the genius. She does know more than the average joe.

Joe.

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[boychik0830]

In her newest IG shill she has Russell sitting on her lap reading to her. She states that the books Eve and Russell have been reading are "too sassy" and make them want to be bad. So she has doubled down and found even more bland things for them to read now instead. Thanks for shopping hints with Ruby y'all. She's actually answering questions back and most are her trying to do a re-frame of what the person is commenting, but trying to make her appear the genius. She does know more than the average joe.

Of course she would do that considering she posted about that in a previous video she posted last year. I really wish I could see her story but unfortunately I can't because I'm blocked by ruby and shari. I guess they can only read lame things because the books they have been reading make them sassy.

[lmmomSD]

In her newest IG shill she has Russell sitting on her lap reading to her. She states that the books Eve and Russell have been reading are "too sassy" and make them want to be bad. So she has doubled down and found even more bland things for them to read now instead. Thanks for shopping hints with Ruby y'all. She's actually answering questions back and most are her trying to do a re-frame of what the person is commenting, but trying to make her appear the genius. She does know more than the average joe.

But wait-- I thought nobody can make you act a certain way, and that you can think your way out of acting out, and even anxiety and depression. So how can a book make her children "act out"?
Part of her problem is that she is confusing being unhappy and situational anxiety with anxiety disorder and clinical depression. And she is spreading dangerous misinformation. Someone could really have clinical depression and fall for her BS about how you can "rewire" yourself and just stop being depressed or anxious. She is as bad as Shay Butler with his "happiness is a choice" crap. The only difference is that at least I don't think she's day drinking like he was when he was spewing his armchair psychology.

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[Lolllaslife]

And also, I don't think it's because of a positive influence of Ruby's that Shari is excited to move out on her own. Most 18 year olds are excited to go to college or move out and get their first real job. And for Shari I believe a lot of it is escaping her whacko mother, having to parent her siblings, and having some freedom.

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Lol never heard an 18 year old be excited about anything you just said. Most 18 year olds are just as nervous and anxious about what they should do beyond high school just as much as a person who’s in their twenties.

lol my 18 year old couldn’t wait to move out and go to university. she was excited for the independence not because we hadn’t given her some, but there’s whole new independent living on your own. especially when shari would barely have any freedom from ruby

[SamPatel99]

Can someone spill the tea or give a recap about what Shari said to shade her mom?! Was it about the bad hair decisions or about her bad idea to post confusing vlogs or an entirely different thing?!!?

[SamPatel99]

QUESTION FOR YOU ALL! PLEASE QUOTE/THUMBS UP IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO PARTICIPATE!

Would you be interested in joining a call on the discord to have a fun lil discussion about ruby and her recent antics? If you are concerned about safety: this forum has an associated discord server, it's safer and easier for you to join and still stay anonymous. Video cameras can be optional and if you don't want to talk, you can just stay mute and listen too! Just thought it would be fun to connect with some of you without having to write paragraphs and goss/rant.

The call can be ~ an hour for the first one? You can join on the discord and leave whenever you would like! Based on how many people respond to this we can figure out a day/time

Topics:
-Shari's mysterious MS
-Ruby's new Do
-The big BYU move?
-Kevin and Rubys weird dynamic?

Open to suggestions about additional topics!

[boychik0830]

In the newest video shari says she likes Boston because people are educated here which I find ironic because Shari's not as smart as she claims to be. Why waste all of the effort going to Boston if you are going to byu. I wonder who watched the kids while they were gone. I don't think Chad should be responsible for everyone all by himself and someone should help him out with this too. How can he call for help in a emergency if he doesn't have a cell phone.

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[Happy+Charlie]

Boy, gotta make those last dollars off of Shari. Lots of vlogs with Shari as the star. Since she's turned 18, SHE should get to vlog the ones about herself and get the money.

[boychik0830]

Boy, gotta make those last dollars off of Shari. Lots of vlogs with Shari as the star. Since she's turned 18, SHE should get to vlog the ones about herself and get the money.

Ruby would say Just be grateful that you get to visit Boston instead of asking for the money for your videos as we know that ruby will do whatever she can to make sure that shari doesn't get to have access to any of the money that she has earned.

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[theSubtle-poster]

Oh My Goodness!! I haven't watched more than 10 seconds of their new vlog, but Ruby opened it up with "I feel like I haven't left my house in year". Like how dumb can you be, she people really haven't left their houses, and you've gone on what? 5 vacations (lol I'm not actually counting). She makes it seem like she's ben living in a cave since this started.

[Herroyaldorkness]

In her newest IG shill she has Russell sitting on her lap reading to her. She states that the books Eve and Russell have been reading are "too sassy" and make them want to be bad. So she has doubled down and found even more bland things for them to read now instead. Thanks for shopping hints with Ruby y'all. She's actually answering questions back and most are her trying to do a re-frame of what the person is commenting, but trying to make her appear the genius. She does know more than the average joe.

What are shopping hints with Ruby? And where is she answering questions? TIA