Jesssfam: Extreme Makeover (Modesto Edition) Part 89

[LilaLavender]

Jesssss reminds me too much of my mother-in-law. She is really good at making people feel pity for her and she is a good liar. Very few people see past it, which is probably why her minions hang on her every word. My mother-in-law bullshitted her way through court lying so she would be granted Social Security Disability and didn't have to work. Then when her and my husband's father divorced a few years ago, she bullshitted through court to be granted permanent Alimony. She sees dollar bills in her eyes which I don't doubt Jess is the same way, which is probably why she needs a man in her life (like my MIL). My MIL makes more money between SSD and Alimony than I do when I bust my ass at work.
I honestly wouldn't doubt that is why she doesn't give Gabe more court ordered time so she gets more child support but is fine with him taking her whenever because she gets paid the same amount. I see no other reason as to why she won't allow him more time and her "that's what my dad had with me" is not a good enough excuse.
But it also brings me to the point that we don't know what went on it that court room. We don't know what she said or how she spun the story. Sure Drake might not have been taking the boys but she has lied about that, too. She never even admitted to Drake taking them the day they moved. Just said it was easier to move without them.
Obviously, this is all speculation but it is something to consider. I just see too many similarities between my MIL and Jesssss to wholeheartedly bash any one person. She too would call my husbands father a deadbeat and drag him through dirt for not being there when my husband was born but when I asked him he said she never told him. She also has five kids with five different men and only married two of them so.....

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Did she really justify not upping Gabe's time with his daughter because that's all she had with her dad?

Hey, DumbAssica , pay attention. LILIA ISN'T YOU.

I seriously hope your daughter aspires to be more than a teen mom, with 3 baby daddies before she's 24. I hope she aspires to actually graduate college instead of just saying she will. I hope she aspires to be more than you because as a fucking parent you should want your kid to go further than you did.

Why this moron tries to only have her kids aspire to have kids is beyond me. I'd punch my daughter in her face if she acted like HotMessica.

It was in a video she made after she had Lilia, she had finally announced that her and Gabe had broken up and she was dating Drake. She said that was what her dad had and she thought it was appropriate. I thought it was stupid because when she first started vlogging while pregnant with Lilia, she admitted that she never went to her dad's because she didn't want to.

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She really has a bad relationship with him, doesn't she? I think she took it very personally when he cheated on her mom and left their family to be with that woman, and never forgave him fully. Must be why she is so obsessed with getting a picture-perfect family. It also really proves that she is stuck in (pre-)teen maturity because Wendy forgave Jeffrey and is good friends with him and his wife now, even though she was the one cheated on.

[marshmallowfluf]

Jesssss reminds me too much of my mother-in-law. She is really good at making people feel pity for her and she is a good liar. Very few people see past it, which is probably why her minions hang on her every word. My mother-in-law bullshitted her way through court lying so she would be granted Social Security Disability and didn't have to work. Then when her and my husband's father divorced a few years ago, she bullshitted through court to be granted permanent Alimony. She sees dollar bills in her eyes which I don't doubt Jess is the same way, which is probably why she needs a man in her life (like my MIL). My MIL makes more money between SSD and Alimony than I do when I bust my ass at work.
I honestly wouldn't doubt that is why she doesn't give Gabe more court ordered time so she gets more child support but is fine with him taking her whenever because she gets paid the same amount. I see no other reason as to why she won't allow him more time and her "that's what my dad had with me" is not a good enough excuse.
But it also brings me to the point that we don't know what went on it that court room. We don't know what she said or how she spun the story. Sure Drake might not have been taking the boys but she has lied about that, too. She never even admitted to Drake taking them the day they moved. Just said it was easier to move without them.
Obviously, this is all speculation but it is something to consider. I just see too many similarities between my MIL and Jesssss to wholeheartedly bash any one person. She too would call my husbands father a deadbeat and drag him through dirt for not being there when my husband was born but when I asked him he said she never told him. She also has five kids with five different men and only married two of them so.....

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Did she really justify not upping Gabe's time with his daughter because that's all she had with her dad?

Hey, DumbAssica , pay attention. LILIA ISN'T YOU.

I seriously hope your daughter aspires to be more than a teen mom, with 3 baby daddies before she's 24. I hope she aspires to actually graduate college instead of just saying she will. I hope she aspires to be more than you because as a fucking parent you should want your kid to go further than you did.

Why this moron tries to only have her kids aspire to have kids is beyond me. I'd punch my daughter in her face if she acted like HotMessica.

I guess she doesnt see the daddy issues that she has herself. Dont pass that on to lilia!!


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[twomommies]

Jesssss reminds me too much of my mother-in-law. She is really good at making people feel pity for her and she is a good liar. Very few people see past it, which is probably why her minions hang on her every word. My mother-in-law bullshitted her way through court lying so she would be granted Social Security Disability and didn't have to work. Then when her and my husband's father divorced a few years ago, she bullshitted through court to be granted permanent Alimony. She sees dollar bills in her eyes which I don't doubt Jess is the same way, which is probably why she needs a man in her life (like my MIL). My MIL makes more money between SSD and Alimony than I do when I bust my ass at work.
I honestly wouldn't doubt that is why she doesn't give Gabe more court ordered time so she gets more child support but is fine with him taking her whenever because she gets paid the same amount. I see no other reason as to why she won't allow him more time and her "that's what my dad had with me" is not a good enough excuse.
But it also brings me to the point that we don't know what went on it that court room. We don't know what she said or how she spun the story. Sure Drake might not have been taking the boys but she has lied about that, too. She never even admitted to Drake taking them the day they moved. Just said it was easier to move without them.
Obviously, this is all speculation but it is something to consider. I just see too many similarities between my MIL and Jesssss to wholeheartedly bash any one person. She too would call my husbands father a deadbeat and drag him through dirt for not being there when my husband was born but when I asked him he said she never told him. She also has five kids with five different men and only married two of them so.....

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Did she really justify not upping Gabe's time with his daughter because that's all she had with her dad?

Hey, DumbAssica , pay attention. LILIA ISN'T YOU.

I seriously hope your daughter aspires to be more than a teen mom, with 3 baby daddies before she's 24. I hope she aspires to actually graduate college instead of just saying she will. I hope she aspires to be more than you because as a fucking parent you should want your kid to go further than you did.

Why this moron tries to only have her kids aspire to have kids is beyond me. I'd punch my daughter in her face if she acted like HotMessica.

I guess she doesnt see the daddy issues that she has herself. Dont pass that on to lilia!!


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Oh she will when Lilia has 3 kids by 23. From different Fathers hopefully outside of Molesto so there's no chance that she might be screwing a half sibling. "Messsfam and The Mound of Half Siblings"

[Ducklings4]

Honestly, I think alot of you think ahout it too much (someone is dreaming about Jess? lol) but Landen is 3 and in his mind everything is simple. I dont doubt for one second he naturally started calling Chris "Daddy" and even if he also calls Drake Daddy as well, in his mind it all makes sense. We as adults are the ones who complicated everything. Children just love. Point being, Mimi is just Mimi. Landen doesnt care or try to determine WHO she is (i.e His Moms mom) that never even crosses his mind. She's Mimi.
Kids can have more than one "Grandma" and it never confuses them. Of course he will have issues when he grows up, his dad left his mom before he was born/missed his birth and was absent most of his life.. would you rather he not have Chris? Atleast Chris is a stable influence in his life and clearly LOVES and adores him.. ya maybe they will break up, Drake could also stp up and sue for custody. He could decide to live with Mimi as a teenager. Could, could, could... Nobody can predict the future so those who say "but Jess and Chris will break up..." you just dont know that. Jess was clearly searching for something and it seems she has found out. Playing what if or one day gets old real quick, it isnt fact. I honestly think for all things considered Landen seems to be very well adjusted.
Jess is... Jess. Of fucking course she takes very opportunity to punish Drake and let everyone know what a deadbeat he is. That's just her. She's petty. I dont really know why THAT'S shocking anymore... anyway, I am not telling anyone how to gossip or trying to be an ass. Really I'm not. I just do find it ironic when people talk about the minions who cant see past saint Jess and what they perceive her to be but are the same way when painting Jess as the devil. You use opinions and "what ifs" as if they are facts.

You're correct Landen knows no different life he was born into chaos and continues to live in chaos that is the life Jesss chose for him and his siblings. She has never once made her present kids a priority. If she did she would have only had Lilia and maybe the latest one. She despises Drake and she will always speak poorly of him never considering her boys are half him. One parent should never publicly discuss another parent for the sake of the children. It may make the parent feel better, but it certainly does not rectify the situation. Obviously, Jesss has not matured passed a high school level and cannot look pass the nose on her face for her children. Sorry I rambled


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They also live in chaos because their Mother refuses to discipline them, so they scream and run around like wild animals, killing that perfect image she paints of them.

Well that is because she wants to be a friend or a babysitter not a parent. She has the maturity of a high schooler. She lives in her bubble world and will never mature. If she had to go out and get a real job and provide care for all of those kids she would have to grow up and it won't be pretty. She is lucky she has had a great support system. She has been unlucky for the same reason because they have enabled her. It won't be long before it all comes around and bites her in the ass. Then everything will hit the fan.


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[Gre]

Because identical twins are most likely carried by genetics. Therefore, either the dad or the mom can have it in their genes.

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I clicked on "thank" instead of "quote" accidentally: as far as I know, a dad who is a twin cannot influence fraternal nor identical twin likelihood.

A man is a twin because his mom either ovulated with 2 eggs or had her egg split. She might pass that characteristic on to her son if it's a genetic thing (as opposed to age-related), but it won't make a difference for her son's chance of having twins, because he is not the one providing the egg for that fertilisation. However, if he has a daughter, he could pass the gene onto her, and SHE might have a higher chance of having twins.

This all mostly counts for fraternal twins though; there not a lot known about how identical twins form, it appears to mostly be a random mutation, and a family with multiple sets of identicals are very rare (which is why they often hit the news when they appear).

Wouldn't make sense as to why my friends family is full of twins. I can't find a picture of his dad and his brother or his grandpa and his bother any were but I did find a pic of his adorable sets of twins. Guess twins will forever be a mystery, Genetics are insane. On another note, no way in hell would I be able to raise 2 sets of twins so close in age. Nope! [img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201703 ... 64dcdf.jpg[/img]

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I decided to look up the identical twin thing and it turns out identical twins are not genetics. Lol. Forgive me and my ignorance.

Atrigsdad do have a interesting case though. Reminds me of the twin village in India too. I always thought it was gene playing the part.

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[mydietsucks_1]

Jesssss reminds me too much of my mother-in-law. She is really good at making people feel pity for her and she is a good liar. Very few people see past it, which is probably why her minions hang on her every word. My mother-in-law bullshitted her way through court lying so she would be granted Social Security Disability and didn't have to work. Then when her and my husband's father divorced a few years ago, she bullshitted through court to be granted permanent Alimony. She sees dollar bills in her eyes which I don't doubt Jess is the same way, which is probably why she needs a man in her life (like my MIL). My MIL makes more money between SSD and Alimony than I do when I bust my ass at work.
I honestly wouldn't doubt that is why she doesn't give Gabe more court ordered time so she gets more child support but is fine with him taking her whenever because she gets paid the same amount. I see no other reason as to why she won't allow him more time and her "that's what my dad had with me" is not a good enough excuse.
But it also brings me to the point that we don't know what went on it that court room. We don't know what she said or how she spun the story. Sure Drake might not have been taking the boys but she has lied about that, too. She never even admitted to Drake taking them the day they moved. Just said it was easier to move without them.
Obviously, this is all speculation but it is something to consider. I just see too many similarities between my MIL and Jesssss to wholeheartedly bash any one person. She too would call my husbands father a deadbeat and drag him through dirt for not being there when my husband was born but when I asked him he said she never told him. She also has five kids with five different men and only married two of them so.....

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Did she really justify not upping Gabe's time with his daughter because that's all she had with her dad?

Hey, DumbAssica , pay attention. LILIA ISN'T YOU.

I seriously hope your daughter aspires to be more than a teen mom, with 3 baby daddies before she's 24. I hope she aspires to actually graduate college instead of just saying she will. I hope she aspires to be more than you because as a fucking parent you should want your kid to go further than you did.

Why this moron tries to only have her kids aspire to have kids is beyond me. I'd punch my daughter in her face if she acted like HotMessica.

DumbAssica is my new favorite nickname hahahaha

[RubyRed]

How many years of schooling does Jess have left? Lilia is turning 7 this year, so if she becomes a teen mom like Jesss did... that could be in 10 years. Will Messica even be finished school and have a career to support her potential future grandspawn by then, or will she be too busy popping out baby number 9 to have begun a career?

[blackroses]

How many years of schooling does Jess have left? Lilia is turning 7 this year, so if she becomes a teen mom like Jesss did... that could be in 10 years. Will Messica even be finished school and have a career to support her potential future grandspawn by then, or will she be too busy popping out baby number 9 to have begun a career?

She'll have gabe pay for everything because she needs to spend that money on wedding #6 and baby #17

[missy-1010]

I remember growing up and being rather embarrassed that my mom was the only mom who didn't have a real career, couldn't drive, and my parents were separated.
I knew I was different from other kids.
I'm sure Jessica's do too. She really screwed up their lives


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[Yue195]

Didn't Jess get Drake's visitation/custody reduce after BuzzGate? Because up until then the boys were frequent at Drake's and Nat's place and then they were dropped right after...

[Mel1011]

When I first saw the video thumbnail I knew right away that she was being spiteful. Why can't she just be happy that drake seems to have stepped up a bit.. sometimes I get the notion that she still has feelings for drake.

[NewEnglandGirl]

There's this super weird oncept of making sacrifices for your children like I sleep in the living room so my son could have his own bedroom I have no privacy as a grown woman but my five year old has his own room because he deserves it if Jess and Chris knew anything about making sacrifices then the twins would get the master to share with Tommy and caden when they visit and Jess and Chris would get one of the smaller bedrooms guess what being a parent is hard boho should have gotten a bigger house

This is exactly what my parents are doing they sleep on the pullout sofa in the living room so that my brother and I can have our own bedrooms... Jess would never and has never put her children needs above her own. I applaud you for the sacrifices you make for your kids and I'm sure your kids are grateful too I know I'm extremely grateful to mine

[NewEnglandGirl]

There's this super weird oncept of making sacrifices for your children like I sleep in the living room so my son could have his own bedroom I have no privacy as a grown woman but my five year old has his own room because he deserves it if Jess and Chris knew anything about making sacrifices then the twins would get the master to share with Tommy and caden when they visit and Jess and Chris would get one of the smaller bedrooms guess what being a parent is hard boho should have gotten a bigger house

This is exactly what my parents are doing they sleep on the pullout sofa in the living room so that my brother and I can have our own bedrooms... Jess would never and has never put her children needs above her own. I applaud you for the sacrifices you make for your kids and I'm sure your kids are grateful too I know I'm extremely grateful to mine

[Captain Smooth]

Don't get me wrong, I'm glad Chris has been such a wonderful person in landens life and he really stepped up to help raise him but the whole video kind of annoyed me because I just got the impression she did it just piss drake off (not that it matters because he seems like a piece of shit, she just seems petty which doesn't make her any better) especially with the thumbnail and how it had an arrow pointing to Chris that said dad.


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The sad thing to me is the fact that, for some reason Chris and Landen really seem to like each other and his biological father was so absent in his first year that Landen called Chris Dad, before his real Dad. I don't think Jess needed to to, or say much to get Chris into the Dad role. As we see with the twins, if Chris doesn't want to play Dad to other peoples kids, he doesn't. Even if Drake stept up now to be very involved, I feel like it's too late, because Landen would be too clingy to Chris, at least as long as he is in the toddlerstage.

Drake and Lilia, people always say that he was a great stepdad to her, that might have been true for the pre-twins-pregnancy time, but afterwards I doubt he had any time to be a great Dad. If he wasn't working, he was busy with his own kids, or fighting with Jessica, inbetween two seperations and twice moving. So Jess had more convincing to do on all sides, that Drake is the perfect Daddy to Lilia, even though everything about this relationship was ill-fitting.

[Captain Smooth]

Didn't Jess get Drake's visitation/custody reduce after BuzzGate? Because up until then the boys were frequent at Drake's and Nat's place and then they were dropped right after...

I was thinking the same, she wouldn't just let that pass off as nothing in court. You could tell, she was really shocked to see Drake had done stupid shit again and this time not to her, but to their kids. It was a perfect opportunity not to have to deal with him anymore than bare minimum. Also in the video Drake made, he reallly didn't have a good explanation why he did it, all he said was something like "oh my god, what kid holds the head still, when there is a buzzer near the ears?", but nothing as to why he had this stupid idea in the first place. That doesn't paint him in a good light and I doubt he had any better explanation when he came to court.

[nadsbliss]

Check out the account I just created. Like I say some of the pictures is actually a video posted. Some short clips.

http://vimeo.com/user64508752

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Check out the account I just created. Like I say some of the pictures is actually a video posted. Some short clips.

http://vimeo.com/user64508752

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[prettyll]

Just watched the vlog with Chris. Damn he's unattractive in every way. He's gained a lot of weight since being with her. His weird women voice and laugh creep me out. His zero personality and anger problems isn't exactly a turn on either.

[nadsbliss]

Check out the account I just created. Like I say some of the pictures is actually a video posted. Some short clips.

http://vimeo.com/user64508752

It doesn't work


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You try typing Nadsbliss on vimeo. I posted 3 videos

[teahathspilleth123]

I found a video called The Struggles Of Co-parenting and it's about when Drake shaved the twins heads. It's from April 30, 2015.

I found another video called Pregnancy & Life Update! and it's about Jess getting full physical custody and Drake's visitation time being reduced to 2 days a month for a few hours. This one is from May 12, 2016 over a year later from the hair buzzing incident.
Jess says in that custody video that she went to court last week and this is what happened in court.

It doesn't seem like he lost his visitation because of the hair buzzing since that happened over a year before he lost custody and his visitation time.

Then in the comments of the May 12, 2016 custody update video there is a top comment showing and Jess left a comment below it she said:

JesssFam10 months ago
+dancenutcracker I honestly hope he does! But out of 112 visits in the last year he missed 101 of them.. so who knows. :/