Rash and Justine - Life’s a slog, with nothing to vlog | Part 30

[discretechristine]

Wow Rashy really sucks at these, can’t even keep it together for one second. So not funny.

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[spicy_dreams]

Wow Rashy really sucks at these, can’t even keep it together for one second. So not funny.


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I only watched the clip from her stories so not the whole thing. But fuck it's cringey. Oh my god she is trying so hard and every time it is embarrassing to watch! And why are her only ideas about pranking Justin? Poor guy lmao. I hate him but it's hard to watch him getting pranked by his dumb wife every day if he's resenting decisions to get married and have three kids by 25, this ain't gonna help.

And I get it, it's kinda fun to fuck around with your partner sometimes. But you can't have ALL of your humour/fun be based on ridiculing each other. Justin does it to her too, his sense of humour is saying something mean and following it up with "just kidding". That's a red flag imo. Laughter together is important, but if it's all based around mutual disrespect masked in sarcasm, there's some big problems simmering underneath.

[GGF1987]

I know it's been brought up over and over but why on earth does she dress Emma like it's 20 degrees outside in the middle of Summer? She doesn't need a thick bunny sweater on!

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[Dani_465]

I know it's been brought up over and over but why on earth does she dress Emma like it's 20 degrees outside in the middle of Summer? She doesn't need a thick bunny sweater on!
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I honestly don’t know lol. She’s a complete moron, she puts tights, long sleeved dresses and now sweaters on her kids and it’s 100 out. I can only hope there’s little to no humidity in SOCAL. Emma would have heat exhaustion or worse where I live.

[Tweedles3]

That sweater is part of the new Jamie Kay collection. To me, it’s obvious she wants Emma noticed in attempt to get free clothes or other perks, or it was part of a deal for Rash getting the new collection earlier than everyone else. She probably had the sweater on Emma for two minutes and will never wear it again.

The clothes are okay, but why fight so hard for something that doesn’t fit your climate or lifestyle. There was a picture upthread of Emma wearing a long-sleeve dress and tights with her sandals, coming at Annabelle. She looks like a possessed Victorian doll come to life. And I think Emma is cute, but that look for summer is horrendous.


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[Dani_465]

As I non parent I might be wrong. But isn’t it ridiculous that that she buys Emma Emma AND the boys new clothes EVERY week? I honestly do not know anyone who does this. People I know buy per season and that’s it. If they need fillers or what not then obviously they go and buy more. But every week? Hell no, even people I know who have money don’t do this shit. They actually SAVE money!

[Tina9900]

As I non parent I might be wrong. But isn’t it ridiculous that that she buys Emma Emma AND the boys new clothes EVERY week? I honestly do not know anyone who does this. People I know buy per season and that’s it. If they need fillers or what not then obviously they go and buy more. But every week? Hell no, even people I know who have money don’t do this shit. They actually SAVE money!

It’s ridiculous. Kids grow so fast they usually only wear their clothes a few times, especially when they are the twins age. My kids had so many cute clothes they never got to wear because it was out of season and they outgrew them. Rachelle is just a shopaholic.


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[amsoap]

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That is really bad. Not surprised.

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That poor baby!

I have never posted anything on here but I find this to be the most infuriating trend with family vloggers. They do something dumb, whether on purpose or accidentally, that causes their child harm then they parade that harm on the internet with stupid pouty faces that any sane person would struggle not to question after the first few times the same sympathy card is played.

I truly hope she takes a critical look at her treatment of her children because even I, a 21 year old child-less woman, can recognize and hurt over the negligent abuse of poor Emma. I can only imagine how she will treat Reuben once he is old enough to leave on his own...


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[Dani_465]

So the loser went to play his snatch all night instead of spending time with his wife.

[jasminag]

Just saw the story she posted about layin on your childs lap and Emma gave Rash a kiss and wiped it. Just like Rash does when Emma gives her a kiss..kinda makes me sad.

[Dani_465]

Just saw the story she posted about layin on your childs lap and Emma gave Rash a kiss and wiped it. Just like Rash does when Emma gives her a kiss..kinda makes me sad.

The whole thing made me sad. She needed a Tik tok to do this?? Poor kids.

Emma breaks my heart way too much. If trashy only knew what a shitty mother she was. She’s teaching her daughter to wipe away kisses, I’m sure her aunties and other relatives will love that and her future bf/gf/spouse.

[SomeoneActually]

So the loser went to play his snatch all night instead of spending time with his wife.

I don't blame him, would you want to spend all day and night with trashy? Plus his snatch is better company than she is.

[spicy_dreams]

So Rueben was crying so hard he tore his frenulum, while Justin was talking care of the babies and Rachelle was dropping Emma off at Kaylee's. Ugh.

Also while Emma was asking for water while Rachelle was doing her stupid grocery haul, and she just goes "I don't know where it is." And carried on without helping Emma. What the fuck is wrong with her? Stop what you're doing for one minute and get your (probably dehydrated) toddler some water!!! Who cares if you can't find her sippy cup, get her a fresh cup. She can't sort it out herself. She's literally relying on you for the most basic thing and you ignore her.

And this is dumb but it really bothers me how she uses the word "little". She uses it CONSTANTLY and almost never in the right way. Instead of saying "smores kit" or "little smores kit" she said "smores little kit". It's so annoying.

She also repeats herself so fucking much. Like when she was talking about Reuben tearing his frenulum she just cycled through the same three details over and over. Can she just not remember she already said the same exact things? Does she have issues with short term memory loss?? Half joking but seriously... It's so stupid.

She also said Emma was having a sugar crash when clearly it was a sugar high. Her stupidity is her brand at this point lol.

[spicy_dreams]

Sorry I know I just posted but I suddenly remembered that beau was purchased as an ESA and I find that so hilarious. He's literally just a pet who they enjoy having around which is definitely not the same as an ESA. Did they ever mention this? He was supposed to go into specific training so he could perform tasks, but that never happened. Instead they just got preoccupied with having more babies, which is definitely not a fucking substitute for mental health care.

On that note, when and why did Rachelle stop getting therapy? She clearly still needs it, and probably now more than ever. Therapists are currently doing appointments via phone, so it's not impossible by any means. If it's money she's worried about she could just funnel her shopping addiction money into therapy which could have the added bonus of helping treat her shopping addiction.

[saltybitters]

Sorry I know I just posted but I suddenly remembered that beau was purchased as an ESA and I find that so hilarious. He's literally just a pet who they enjoy having around which is definitely not the same as an ESA. Did they ever mention this? He was supposed to go into specific training so he could perform tasks, but that never happened. Instead they just got preoccupied with having more babies, which is definitely not a fucking substitute for mental health care.

On that note, when and why did Rachelle stop getting therapy? She clearly still needs it, and probably now more than ever. Therapists are currently doing appointments via phone, so it's not impossible by any means. If it's money she's worried about she could just funnel her shopping addiction money into therapy which could have the added bonus of helping treat her shopping addiction.

IIRC, Rash stopped going to therapy around the time of the embryo transfer that resulted in Emma. Not sure why, but I speculate it's because the idea of having the possibility of a new baby gives her a temporary high and even sort of feels like it fills the whole in her life for a while, then wears off after the kids are born. So she probably thought she was miraculously "all better" rather than actually managing her issues.

Also, do we even know if it was an actual licensed grief counselor she saw? I know some churches offer "counseling" that isn't really any kind of therapeutic help beyond "trust in ThE lOrD and all will be right," which really isn't helpful for someone with her kind of issues.

[Sunshineee9]

Sorry I know I just posted but I suddenly remembered that beau was purchased as an ESA and I find that so hilarious. He's literally just a pet who they enjoy having around which is definitely not the same as an ESA. Did they ever mention this? He was supposed to go into specific training so he could perform tasks, but that never happened. Instead they just got preoccupied with having more babies, which is definitely not a fucking substitute for mental health care.

On that note, when and why did Rachelle stop getting therapy? She clearly still needs it, and probably now more than ever. Therapists are currently doing appointments via phone, so it's not impossible by any means. If it's money she's worried about she could just funnel her shopping addiction money into therapy which could have the added bonus of helping treat her shopping addiction.

ESAs don't actually require any training. All you need is a note from a doctor or therapist.

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[spicy_dreams]

Sorry I know I just posted but I suddenly remembered that beau was purchased as an ESA and I find that so hilarious. He's literally just a pet who they enjoy having around which is definitely not the same as an ESA. Did they ever mention this? He was supposed to go into specific training so he could perform tasks, but that never happened. Instead they just got preoccupied with having more babies, which is definitely not a fucking substitute for mental health care.

On that note, when and why did Rachelle stop getting therapy? She clearly still needs it, and probably now more than ever. Therapists are currently doing appointments via phone, so it's not impossible by any means. If it's money she's worried about she could just funnel her shopping addiction money into therapy which could have the added bonus of helping treat her shopping addiction.

ESAs don't actually require any training. All you need is a note from a doctor or therapist.

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Oh I know that, it was Rachelle that said he was going to go into training because she didn't know enough about it. I believe she wanted him to be able to recognise when she was upset and deliberately comfort her. But then she got pregnant and I guess Emma became her ESA.

[spicy_dreams]

Sorry I know I just posted but I suddenly remembered that beau was purchased as an ESA and I find that so hilarious. He's literally just a pet who they enjoy having around which is definitely not the same as an ESA. Did they ever mention this? He was supposed to go into specific training so he could perform tasks, but that never happened. Instead they just got preoccupied with having more babies, which is definitely not a fucking substitute for mental health care.

On that note, when and why did Rachelle stop getting therapy? She clearly still needs it, and probably now more than ever. Therapists are currently doing appointments via phone, so it's not impossible by any means. If it's money she's worried about she could just funnel her shopping addiction money into therapy which could have the added bonus of helping treat her shopping addiction.

IIRC, Rash stopped going to therapy around the time of the embryo transfer that resulted in Emma. Not sure why, but I speculate it's because the idea of having the possibility of a new baby gives her a temporary high and even sort of feels like it fills the whole in her life for a while, then wears off after the kids are born. So she probably thought she was miraculously "all better" rather than actually managing her issues.

Also, do we even know if it was an actual licensed grief counselor she saw? I know some churches offer "counseling" that isn't really any kind of therapeutic help beyond "trust in ThE lOrD and all will be right," which really isn't helpful for someone with her kind of issues.

Ugh that's so frustrating. Having big life changes, especially pregnancies, is DEFINITELY the time to have therapy. Even if you've never had it. But especially if you just recently had a traumatic miscarriage and aren't over it yet, how the fuck are you supposed to have a mentally healthy approach to a new baby? Her mental health has suffered and her kids have suffered as a result. She has a responsibility. She even has big issues with a parent, which is an ongoing problem. That will affect your ability to parent, and if you don't address it, it's not going away.

The fact that she's just stuffing down her unresolved trauma with babies, a shopping addiction, and an obsession with being the "perfect" mother, it's really sad. I can't see it going well for those kids. She can find one hour every week to speak to a therapist, she can afford it, she can find a good one who suits her. Why not!!??

[wonderwall99]

I think every parent should have therapy, period haha.

Its something that consumes you physically, mentally and emotionally to the point where I think therapy to deal with all of those changes would be helpful.

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[discretechristine]

“Bugs are smart” and Rash is dumber than a bug.

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I’m not 100% sure how sponsored content works but I can’t help but laugh that a bug repellent company reached out to them because they know how nasty the Swassies are with this bug issues. Pincher bugs in Rashy’s water bottle and ants in their kitchen at the old house


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