KeyonaBBaby Part 1

[KatieLynn]

Long time lurker.
Alright, you guys expect everyone to respect your right of free speech and gossip away about people on this site. Then the next second you turn around and tell others who are telling you their opinions (about themselves often enough I might add) to "not comment on everything"? What about their freedom of speech? I just would like an honest and LOGIC explanation to that, please. Cause I really don't understand how that makes sense.

As to Keyona, I think she is a great mother and I'm convinced that she is giving her best to give her children the best life can offer them. Unlike other Mom's who can't even control their cravings for McD's during pregnancy.
All the best to you and your family, Keyona

[KatieLynn]

Oh ya, not gossipping about you guys gossipping btw. Gossip is what humans do. But it's important that nobody hurts anyone's feelings too much AND respects each other's opinions.

[Blondie]

I just started watching her and I think she's amazing!! She is very mature..I would've never guessed she was only 17.
Normally, when a teen mom gets pregnant a second time I'll sit here and criticize them and talk about how stupid it is....but it's different with her. She is a wonderful mother and they have their shit together. Married, got their own place, good head on their shoulders etc. Yes it would've been ideal for her to finish college first, but they can do this. I believe she will still finish school and be very successful

[emmaelizabeth]

Reading through this post & I don't get how people can be so rude? This girl is obviously a fantastic mother, especially at a young age. And I don't think anyone has any right to critise someone over something so personnal as having children or sex. People ESPECIALLY have no right to be nasty, since she is not on gorvernment assistance (which is from tax payers money from the working persons earnings). If you don't want to have children young like me and would rather travel or study or whatever like me, thats your choice. If you want to have children young & feel you look after them and give them a loving home (like this girl can) then thats thats good too. Teen and young mothers are not something to be looked down on. Accidents happen no matter what BC you use, and no one is above mother nature, so people make the best with the situation they are in. As young women, we are extremely fortunate to live in an era where we can do WHATEVER we want, so why not let each other be? But please, don't look down on a mother who is doing the best she can for her family.

[Girlygirl2012]

Not sure if you read this whole thread but most people like her. No one said she wasn't a great Mom in fact mostly everyone who posted thinks she is doing a great job and we told her that. People have different opinions and that isn't going to change!

[placebo]

"KeyonaBBaby 12 seconds ago
Sex feels good. Birth control is to prevent pregnancy but it doesn't prevent it completely. There isn't a problem with having sex. But everyone knows what can happen if you have sex. If you are in a commited relationship sex isn't something most people would just not do. That's why they use birth control. (But that's not even 100).
Reply · in reply to Carolina Fernandez (Show the comment)"

Lolwut, facepalm.

[KatiesMomma]

"KeyonaBBaby 12 seconds ago
Sex feels good. Birth control is to prevent pregnancy but it doesn't prevent it completely. There isn't a problem with having sex. But everyone knows what can happen if you have sex. If you are in a commited relationship sex isn't something most people would just not do. That's why they use birth control. (But that's not even 100).
Reply · in reply to Carolina Fernandez (Show the comment)"

Lolwut, facepalm.

those teen moms are having a fit in the comments on vanessas video it.is entertainment.

i personally get what she was saying it was in response to some person responding to tayler or lindsey I couldnt keep up so.im jot.quite aure but shes was just sayin y people choose to.hace sex instead of not

[KatiesMomma]

excuse my sentences im on my phone typing this it always messes up.my wording

[mpetrie8]

Um did this girl not say her now husband use to hit her? and he went to anger management. Great environment to bring another child into other than that i love this girl.

[Silly_smile]

Um did this girl not say her now husband use to hit her? and he went to anger management. Great environment to bring another child into other than that i love this girl.

When did she say that...?

[mpetrie8]

Um did this girl not say her now husband use to hit her? and he went to anger management. Great environment to bring another child into other than that i love this girl.

When did she say that...?

i believe it was either in comments or a blog ill look for it!

[mpetrie8]

http://keyonabbaby.blogspot.com/

[mpetrie8]

Well, all this has been an emotional rollercoaster full of mixed emotions too. But these past few weeks have been going pretty good for me. I have realized that I didn't want to let him go at the time and I was so blinded by what could've been and what I wanted that I wasn't willing to step back and see everything for what it really is.

I haven't cried over him in about 2 weeks. I still get sad sometimes but it quickly passes over me.

I know what I need to do to make sure my daughter and I are safe from him. He needs to sort out his problems and take classes to work on himself so that he is safe for everyone to be around.

I need to get that protection order put in place this time and not back out because of what I want. I need to accept the things I cannot change and move on with my life.

I'd feel terrible if Malaya got hurt or put in danger because of him and I KNEW I could have prevented it.

Malaya is my main focus in my life and I need to do what I can to protect her.

I might have a job now, if not I still work with my dad whenever to make money for Malaya. I'm planning on going to driving school soon and possible studying for my GED.

I spent so much time on him, making him happy, worrying about him. This has opened my eyes to see my life can no longer be on hold for him. And I'm the type of person who feels bad for everything even of I wasn't wrong, just making someone mad makes me feel bad. So the whole protection order thing will be hard to do because I know Luis won't be happy. But I know this is what is best for Malaya and this will give him time to change, get better, and have a good relationship with Malaya in the future when he no longer is abusive, short tempered, and doesn't have anger problems.

So, as you can see. Things are more figured out for me. I'm to the point where I'm ready to move on from him, not completely but almost.

It just sucks cause I know exactly what I wanted for Malaya and thought I knew how everything would be , but life doesn't work that way and I'm ok with that now.

Malaya eats solids now, she sorta takes a sippy cup (only when she wants), tries to walk, she has a ton of hair. Ahh. I love her so dang much. I have been so blessed to have her in my life and she's so amazing!

[ChanelleJo]

[lalaLUSH]

i love how little miss perfect deleted everything she wrote about her boyfriend beating her ass and how depressed she was! yeah yet she can sit there and attack 2011teenagemom for telling it like it is?! OOOOKKKK you've only been married and living together for a few months so stfu! you got pregnant at 15 and now you're pregnant again before you even hit 18..yet you're a good mom for moving back with a guy that beat your ass..way to keep your daughter out of danger...don't attack 2011teenagemom for speaking the truth!
deleting everything you wrote shows how fake you are..

[Silly_smile]

i love how little miss perfect deleted everything she wrote about her boyfriend beating her ass and how depressed she was! yeah yet she can sit there and attack 2011teenagemom for telling it like it is?! OOOOKKKK you've only been married and living together for a few months so stfu! you got pregnant at 15 and now you're pregnant again before you even hit 18..yet you're a good mom for moving back with a guy that beat your ass..way to keep your daughter out of danger...don't attack 2011teenagemom for speaking the truth!
deleting everything you wrote shows how fake you are..

She never stated that he beat her.. She said he was abusive. & she didn't get rid of anything where she admitted to that. She actually posted an entirely new blog restating EXACTLY what she had stated before about him being abusive and actually updated on that situation since the original post about abuse was from over a year ago.

[lalaLUSH]

he put his hands on her, where i come from that's pretty serious either way! and she did delete a lot. who cares when it was from, all day today she's been trying to come off as little miss perfect when she's far from it. go defend her somewhere else.

[KeyonaBBaby]

Actually I didn't delete what I said its still on there at the very bottom. I didn't say I was perfect hence why I left it up. He never "beat my ass" and never did i say that. I said the most he has done ever was grab my ARM and I dint say that was ok. Obviously I took a million steps before marrying him and that happened OVER a year ago he went through all the classes and has never done it again since that day. He is an awesome dad and is in no way a danger to anyone. The only ones i deleted were ones with personal infomation like where we live, where I was, where Malaya was born, ect. And that was one post where I was updating on Malaya and my online schooling and Luis' work. I never ever said he hit me I said he hurt. Ever. I said he would grab my arms. I had to reply to this. That information isn't correct at all. Duh i was depressed I never said I wasn't having to go through not only that but problems at home with my parents was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with. If I thought I was perfect I wouldn't have ever said anything about it I said something because it is something in the past and something that brought us to where we are today and made us both better people. My blog was really only to vent and add memories and keep track of Malayas growth and vent. It did happen but it wasn't him "beating" me ever. He hasn't ever since then and graduated anger management classes HE wanted to take. He's an amazing man. Say whatever you want but at least get that correct.

I'm sorry to come on here and answer but I just can't let you say he beat me, thats far from true.

[truffles92]

Sorry Keyona, but I think you're an idiot.

You're defending whatever kind of abuse he dished out - I don't even care that all he did was grab your arm. You know what? That's still not acceptable. It's NOT acceptable to put your hands on anyone in anger. I would have kicked his ass to the curb and not had a second thought about it.

A year isn't such a long time. But you're 17 .. so I guess to you, it may seem like it. Sincerely hope he never puts his hands on you or your daughter ever again, but defending his actions is a classic sign of someone in denial. It was bad enough that you contemplated ending things all together.

[TaylorKnows]

Look, I just really try to lurk here but my best friend was in an abusive relationship and it took her awhile to get out...but you CAN get out if you want...you do seem to be in denial about the whole thing. I'm trying to be sincere here. Take a look at this site.
http://www.domesticviolence.org/