lalala wrote:Babydustfairy wrote:mac-n-cheese wrote:I've had California rolls before and it's crispy chicken. Not crab or imitation crab.
Idk maybe it's different there. But when we get sushi and order them it's always a crispy chicken
Never heard of California roll having chicken in it? It should be avocado, crab and cucumber. Anyways her eating sushi isn't a big deal to me. I'm pregnant myself and I had a spicy tuna roll once and that's raw fish. Moderation is the key. I do agree though that she needs to be way more responsible when it comes to her being pregnant
One of the problems with raw fish is that it can have listeria which is very dangerous during pregnancy, so for the listeria risk, it's not a matter of moderation. Even if you eat one small piece, if it's contaminated, you could get it. BUT, some doctors say that if you regularly had raw fish in a reputable place and never got sick, it would be safe to continue eating it from that reputable place during pregnancy. And, raw fish is not the only source, fruits and vegetables can also have it, which is why it's important to wash them well.
Anyway, considering their lack of hygiene, I think any food from a restaurant will likely be cleaner than almost anything they can make at home. They are not particularly careful about anything lately, so it does not shock me that she is not taking a lot of precautions that most pregnant women would. She will probably be fine as most people are fine, even drug addicts give birth to healthy children more often than you would expect. But if she isn't, I won't be the slightest bit sorry for her, because she doesn't even seem to try or care.
At this point though, I'm a lot more concerned about Levi than I am about how careful Kyra is being with her pregnancy. Unlike the baby, Levi is already here, very aware of what's happening, with more needs and he is dependent on other to meet them, he doesn't just automatically gets what he needs like the baby, and they are being even more careless with him, most of the time with things they could easily avoid and prevent. And they neglect to do things that are very easy and quick to do, that even in my worst depressions I could still find it in me to do, however hard it may have been emotionally. So it boggles my mind that two apparently healthy people cannot/will not do it. He is just an innocent baby who did not ask to be born, let alone be born to crap parents. I'm really just shocked that they don't see how bad it is, that they don't seem to have any sense of guilt or responsibility. Such as when they left him to cry until he threw up. I really don't understand.
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