BumpsAlongTheWay Part 19

[nzmum512]

Anybody else think it's nasty how they were walking around with the pregnancy test even days later without the cap on it. They put a cap in the box for reason.

Yeah, that was grossing me out.


For all those saying they didn't include the Nulls etc - they found out thee day after Playlist. Wouldn't a few people have already left? They wouldn't be able to catch everyone.

Also - I'm glad they mentioned their losses today. I would've been SO mad if they had skimmed over that.

[MamaJoAnna]

she turns 26 in october of this year.

Shit. Both BabyCenter and The Bump say girl then...for age of conception 25 and month of conception January...

To be fair though, my month of conception was September and my age was 26, and the two were different. BabyCenter ended up being right.

[justarandomperson22]

Ok so does no one else find it weird that missy kept the old test instead of taking a new one to show everyone with?
I get keeping tests but no one wants to see an old nasty yellow stick.

[Youtubemommy]

They waited to announce because they didn't want to take the spotlight off of bryans trip - pretty obvious. also they don't "Struggle to conceive" they have never had a negative pregnancy test.

[celticrain13]

My guess is she said she's due at 39w which is likely the date given if she's having another c/s. Granted I have watched the vlog. I expect her to preach vback til the end then have a c/s because the "doctor said...."

Oh that will piss me off!!! I'm a HUGE vbac advocate after having my vba2c. I'd hate for her to spread misinformation. I want more women to fight for their birthing rights and not be forced into unnecessary surgeries. The more women fight for it, then doctors will have to change their policies.
She could actually do a lot of good as a vbac advocate. But I doubt it.

Im going to be mad if she has another unecessary C-secton. I had 2 and then i had a natural and safe fast homebirth with my son.
She does not need another c-section but shes so fucking dumb and lazy she would

[lidialove29]

I didnt even have a c section with a 10 lb baby they didnt know she would be so huge. They were careless though. Next child im switching OBs

[HowBoutThatSchnizel]

My guess is she said she's due at 39w which is likely the date given if she's having another c/s. Granted I have watched the vlog. I expect her to preach vback til the end then have a c/s because the "doctor said...."

Oh that will piss me off!!! I'm a HUGE vbac advocate after having my vba2c. I'd hate for her to spread misinformation. I want more women to fight for their birthing rights and not be forced into unnecessary surgeries. The more women fight for it, then doctors will have to change their policies.
She could actually do a lot of good as a vbac advocate. But I doubt it.

Im going to be mad if she has another unecessary C-secton. I had 2 and then i had a natural and safe fast homebirth with my son.
She does not need another c-section but shes so fucking dumb and lazy she would

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious

[celticrain13]

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious[/quote]

Yep im sorry but im all for natural homebirths and med free. I am probably the only one here that is for natural homebirths, homeopathic remedies and such. So yes shes lazy and c-sections are very Unnecessary when there is no medical problem.

[HowBoutThatSchnizel]

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious

Yep im sorry but im all for natural homebirths and med free. I am probably the only one here that is for natural homebirths, homeopathic remedies and such. So yes shes lazy and c-sections are very Unnecessary when there is no medical problem.[/quote]


But there WAS a problem, she had a septum in her uterus and Olly would've died had they waited longer, would you have let your child die so you could have the natural birth YOU wanted? That's selfish. I'm all for homebirths and natural births too if that's someone's choice and they are able to do it but you can't insult people because they don't have the same views. If you see a group of 5 year olds lined up I guarntee you'd never be able to figure out if they were natural, c-section, home birth, prem, over due etc etc so let's stop acting as if the way she births a child will be a detriment

[spacekitty]

Oh that will piss me off!!! I'm a HUGE vbac advocate after having my vba2c. I'd hate for her to spread misinformation. I want more women to fight for their birthing rights and not be forced into unnecessary surgeries. The more women fight for it, then doctors will have to change their policies.
She could actually do a lot of good as a vbac advocate. But I doubt it.

Im going to be mad if she has another unecessary C-secton. I had 2 and then i had a natural and safe fast homebirth with my son.
She does not need another c-section but shes so fucking dumb and lazy she would

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious

I agree, I don't love Missy and Bryan at all but the way she has her baby is none of our business. As long as she has a healthy baby and no complications I don't know why anyone of us care when October comes. Are we gonna hope she has a boy to spite her? Sure! Maybe not like the name they pick? Why not? But to say she's lazy because of how she'll have her next kid is just fucked up because no birth goes exactly the same.


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[MamaJoAnna]

Um...he was under fetal distress, more than likely bc he had run out of room to grow because of the septum. His birth was basically an emergency C-section without the label. I hope you never need one.

Would I be "lazy" if my hydrocephalus resulted in me having a C section BY CHOICE rather than risk killing myself pushing my son out due to extra cranial pressure? Think before you speak.

[spacekitty]

Um...he was under fetal distress, more than likely bc he had run out of room to grow because of the septum. His birth was basically an emergency C-section without the label. I hope you never need one.

Would I be "lazy" if my hydrocephalus resulted in me having a C section BY CHOICE rather than risk killing myself pushing my son out due to extra cranial pressure? Think before you speak.

I think they said he was not able to receive oxygen from his cord. Something like that, I've never been pregnant so I wouldn't know.


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[celticrain13]

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious

Yep im sorry but im all for natural homebirths and med free. I am probably the only one here that is for natural homebirths, homeopathic remedies and such. So yes shes lazy and c-sections are very Unnecessary when there is no medical problem.

But there WAS a problem, she had a septum in her uterus and Olly would've died had they waited longer, would you have let your child die so you could have the natural birth YOU wanted? That's selfish. I'm all for homebirths and natural births too if that's someone's choice and they are able to do it but you can't insult people because they don't have the same views. If you see a group of 5 year olds lined up I guarntee you'd never be able to figure out if they were natural, c-section, home birth, prem, over due etc etc so let's stop acting as if the way she births a child will be a detriment[/quote]

i dont know what she did behind the camera. Who she spoke to, what obs they are. so im going by what i think. I would of talked to midwives not OB's. Im done talking about this. everyone has different views about this. And thats fine. i rather just keep that to myself from now on

[spacekitty]

"Another unnecessary" c-section?? Let's not forget Olly would've died had she not had a c-section. I'm all for VBACs but if she's more comfortable with a c-section then that is her choice and to say having a c-section is "lazy" is ridicuous. I've had both and I know c-section is far worse. We don't have to like her but picking on every personal choice they make in their lives right down to how they should birth their child is insane. She's only just announced she's pregnant and already you're predicting what she's going to say wrong. I also think they waited to tell people because of all they've gone through. I'm surprised they waited because if they were money hungry the longer they can play the pregnancy card the better but obviously they wanted to be somewhat cautious

Yep im sorry but im all for natural homebirths and med free. I am probably the only one here that is for natural homebirths, homeopathic remedies and such. So yes shes lazy and c-sections are very Unnecessary when there is no medical problem.

But there WAS a problem, she had a septum in her uterus and Olly would've died had they waited longer, would you have let your child die so you could have the natural birth YOU wanted? That's selfish. I'm all for homebirths and natural births too if that's someone's choice and they are able to do it but you can't insult people because they don't have the same views. If you see a group of 5 year olds lined up I guarntee you'd never be able to figure out if they were natural, c-section, home birth, prem, over due etc etc so let's stop acting as if the way she births a child will be a detriment

i dont know what she did behind the camera. Who she spoke to, what obs they are. so im going by what i think. I would of talked to midwives not OB's. Im done talking about this. everyone has different views about this. And thats fine. i rather just keep that to myself from now on[/quote]

It's fine to have your views but you had NO reason to call her lazy because of how she may or may not have child.


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[blackbetty]

she turns 26 in october of this year.

Shit. Both BabyCenter and The Bump say girl then...for age of conception 25 and month of conception January...

To be fair though, my month of conception was September and my age was 26, and the two were different. BabyCenter ended up being right.

You're supposed to use their lunar age. There's one I used for both kids and it was right for both, Google labor of love gender and use that one.

Assuming I have the dates right (conception 1/20/14, DOB 10/26 or 27 of 1989) it says BOY

[ButterflyB]

I have hydrocephalus too and will be having a c-section in October due to it. Nothing wrong with that.

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[Emcee]

Chinese calendar was right for me both times. You have to use the lunar age, because it'd can give you 2 diff results.

[celticrain13]

I wasn't actually referring to her last pregnancy. I was calling her LAZY because she is a LAZY person. The only reason she acts so immature & lazy is because bryan is. If she found her self a real man who would teach her to be more mature and push her more into doing things that a mother and wife should be like she would not be criticized. At the same time she shouldn't be acting like a teenager at all. being around Bryan makes it worse. I am very sure she would act totally likable, be more fun, open minded if she was married to a different person.

I think should would go for a c-section again (even though she doesnt need one) its because she would have a OB who isnt for Natural childbirth and her family would push her for it. This is why i say shes lazy because of bryan.

[blackbetty]

If you use her lunar age, it's girl.

Google labor of love gender. That one was right for both of my littles.

[MamaJoAnna]

I have hydrocephalus too and will be having a c-section in October due to it. Nothing wrong with that.

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You haven't gone to a neurologist? The neurologist I went to said some people grow out of it (apparently I did) and thus he saw no reason for me to absolutely "need" a C section. Good luck with your pregnancy!