Jesssfam: Extreme Makeover (Modesto Edition) Part 89

[Yogabbagabbat]

This is like the fourth time she has claimed different medical professionals have been "extremely rude" to her. Definitely seems like she's just trying to jump on the bandwagon of hating on doctors and exaggerates stories. You know that jess goes into appointments acting like a giant know it all with her google degree, and when she's told something different she gets butt hurt.

Rolled my eyes at the clip of her dramatically eating a salad lol. Calm down everyone knows you went to Taco Bell that night.

Am I missing something or did she give the twins hard boiled eggs for lunch and that's it.......

[Yogabbagabbat]

Idk, I kinda see her point. I understand that Jess is up her own ass and thinks she can do no wrong, but I've had my share of doctors act condescending and belittle me (for my personal heath choices, not my kids) and it's a shitty feeling. The fact that you're a doctor and I'm not doesn't mean it's OK for you to treat me like crap.

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My kid's pediatrician always lectures me about passing on the flu shot. It feels so awkward to be lectured lol so I definitely know what you mean. But idk, I find it kind of hard to believe that a doctor was rolling her eyes and sighing super loud just because of a home birth? Like the pediatrician isn't an obgyn, why would she care? It seemed like another opportunity for jess to bring up & brag about having a home birth haha

[Crazymess1215]

jesss obviously is needing lots of money these days. Her video titles are so clickbait-y. Every. Single. One. I feel like she has noticed her views are going down so now she is gonna start making up shit just to make a video.
And the comments on the landen and chris video are disgusting. Some girl said "i have decided i wanted to marry a man like chris when i am older".... Uhmm what? Please stop.
Chris isnt a horrible father and has done more than drake but it is bizzare how he seems to have no bond what so ever with the other kids only landen and Eddie. Like i get lilia has Gabe in her life but i feel like Chris isnt very close to her at all. It would he refreshing to see chris taking her out on a little step daughter/step daddy date like to get ice cream or to the movies. But no hes always all over landen and Eddie. I bet his boys must feel so great that their father moved on so quickly and pretty much has forgotten all about them.

[Lisey26]

Was Jess really eating a salad? I'm astonished.

Also, it's hilarious how she says she's prone to accept other people opinions and advice but she called a doctor unprofessional for telling her that she's an idiot on vaccination and home birth. He's a doctor, mess, and you are not. Just accept a medical opinion and that not everything you do is gold.

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[dazzled]

The doctor probably heard home birth and no vaccinations and thought that Jess was one of those people... which she is.

[sofreakingnotok]

Lol @ jess saying "it doesnt even bother me, i have my opinions, and you have yours" BUT SHES AN ACTUAL DOCTOR!!


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Being a doctor doesn't make you perfect. Especially when it comes to pregnancy and birth sometimes doctors push women to do things when natural and at home is perfectly fine.
I can understand the doctor being upset about the vaccines, but not the home birth.


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Maybe the doctor knew somethine we(and Jessica) don't? Maybe she saw that Jessica had had 4 kids before Addie and had hernia and muscle separation on top of it all? Maybe something else? Maybe he was concerned her unvaxxed kid could die of TB meningitis? I don't know the doctor but I know Jess and I'm reluctant to believe much of what comes out of her mouth.

[sofreakingnotok]

This is like the fourth time she has claimed different medical professionals have been "extremely rude" to her. Definitely seems like she's just trying to jump on the bandwagon of hating on doctors and exaggerates stories. You know that jess goes into appointments acting like a giant know it all with her google degree, and when she's told something different she gets butt hurt.

Four medical professionals have expressed concern about her home birth and delayed vax schedule? Now I really am skeptical of Jess' version of events and I'm starting to believe Jess' homebirth was risky(Jess' not every woman's homebirth). I find it hard to believe 4 doctors are crazy and Jess is right. Yes, it's possible but not likely, imo.

[Newmomma]

Why do all yt-ers have terrible experiences with doctors? I haven't heard one appreciating or thanking them. It's their job to have opinions/advices cause thats their field of expertise! I would be concerned if my doctor wasn't lecturing/telling me what to do. I'd rather have a doctor who guides rather than "it's your life do whatever the heck you want" attitude. There are arrogant doctors out there but generalizing the whole profession is not right.

[Yogabbagabbat]

This is like the fourth time she has claimed different medical professionals have been "extremely rude" to her. Definitely seems like she's just trying to jump on the bandwagon of hating on doctors and exaggerates stories. You know that jess goes into appointments acting like a giant know it all with her google degree, and when she's told something different she gets butt hurt.

Four medical professionals have expressed concern about her home birth and delayed vax schedule? Now I really am skeptical of Jess' version of events and I'm starting to believe Jess' homebirth was risky(Jess' not every woman's homebirth). I find it hard to believe 4 doctors are crazy and Jess is right. Yes, it's possible but not likely, imo.

Remember she said the ambulance workers were all laughing at her during the drive to the hospital (ya right!) when she had retained placenta.

And then the dr that removed the placenta told her "if you plan on having any more babies, we discourage you from having another home birth" and jess was going on and on about how she was soo rude and that's 'saying a lot because she's had a ton of bad experiences with doctors'

I think it's a total exaggeration/lie, and she was probably just paranoid over her decision to have a homebirth since she had to be rushed to the hospital

Now this doctor is apparently side eyeing jess too.. i think she's just an idiot lol

[Yogabbagabbat]

Why do all yt-ers have terrible experiences with doctors? I haven't heard one appreciating or thanking them. It's their job to have opinions/advices cause thats their field of expertise! I would be concerned if my doctor wasn't lecturing/telling me what to do. I'd rather have a doctor who guides rather than "it's your life do whatever the heck you want" attitude. There are arrogant doctors out there but generalizing the whole profession is not right.

I think it's so disgusting that she bashes them like that. She tried minimizing what the doctor who removed her retained placenta did, because she thought if she would have just waited longer for her uterus to contract the midwives could have removed it. Like what makes her think she knows better than a doctor when it comes to something like that?

[whattheactual]

Just watched the new video. I'll let someone else summarize. BUT... does anyone in that home ever eat?! Why do we never see anyone make dinner in her vlogs? It was dark outside and almost bedtime and they still hadn't eaten. Do they all live on chocolate milk and a positive attitude?


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Maybe they just don't show it?

[Ripley]

I am late, but wanted to say something about buzzgate. I am astill a couple pages behind. But I know some here were , and some still are under the impression that it was the twins FIRST haircut. I could MAYBE see Jess being upset by a first haircut( still would not excuse her exaggerated reaction though). It it was not the twin's first hair cut ! Lol. They were 3 and would have hair down their backs if that were the case.

[sofreakingnotok]

Why do all yt-ers have terrible experiences with doctors? I haven't heard one appreciating or thanking them. It's their job to have opinions/advices cause thats their field of expertise! I would be concerned if my doctor wasn't lecturing/telling me what to do. I'd rather have a doctor who guides rather than "it's your life do whatever the heck you want" attitude. There are arrogant doctors out there but generalizing the whole profession is not right.

I think it's so disgusting that she bashes them like that. She tried minimizing what the doctor who removed her retained placenta did, because she thought if she would have just waited longer for her uterus to contract the midwives could have removed it. Like what makes her think she knows better than a doctor when it comes to something like that?

Well that just goes to show how full of shit Jessica is. If she was so sure the midwives could have removed the placenta, why did she go to the hospital? She's that classic type of person who badmouths doctors and discredits them until she needs them, then she gets help from them and then she goes back to bashing them. I've asked(politely) plenty anti vaxxers/naturopath meds only parents if they were willing to sign a document stating that should their child get tetanos or meningitis or whatever else, they are not to be offered any medical assistanc(be it antitoxin, emergency vaccine, antibiotic). No one ever wants to answer because other than truly commited parents(like Ezekiel Stephan's parents who kept the kid with meningitis at home until he died), most of these people change their minds and seek medical assistance when shit gets real.

[creamsoda99]

The problem is, we will only ever know her side of it so she can exaggerate it as much as she wants. She may think the doctors are laughing at her and telling her don't do this, but they see this every day!
They see a mum who wants to give birth at home which I see no problem with. But I'm guessing that they see it that due to Jess choosing to give birth at home and things going wrong, she then needed an ambulance called out. The way I see it is that she put herself in that situation and that ambulance could have gone to someone who probably had fallen unwell at home. Just the way I see it.

[smom12]

I refuse to believe every. Single. Doctor Jess has ever seen had been rude to her. I know there are some out there but come on.

She probably goes in there thinking she's the smartest and most amazing mom and the doctor basically calls her an idiot for risking her life and she gets her wittle feewings hurt.

Grow up Jess.


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[nrsunshine]

Do they all live on chocolate milk and a positive attitude?


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[Bsveach15]

I'm just curious. Has Mess ever acknowledged this site? I'm surprised she hasn't made a video, at least that I've seen, about it. Maybe she just doesn't want to put it out there for people who don't already know about it to join? Thoughts?

[Bsveach15]

I'm just curious. Has Mess ever acknowledged this site? I'm surprised she hasn't made a video, at least that I've seen, about it. Maybe she just doesn't want to put it out there for people who don't already know about it to join? Thoughts?

[MamaJoAnna]

I'm just curious. Has Mess ever acknowledged this site? I'm surprised she hasn't made a video, at least that I've seen, about it. Maybe she just doesn't want to put it out there for people who don't already know about it to join? Thoughts?

She has mentioned it in comments before, particularly to Vanessa (2011teenagemom) when she did a video about this site. "Oh they hate me too" lol

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[blackroses]

I'm just curious. Has Mess ever acknowledged this site? I'm surprised she hasn't made a video, at least that I've seen, about it. Maybe she just doesn't want to put it out there for people who don't already know about it to join? Thoughts?

She probably Reads here lol. A lot of people know about it.I knew it back when I really liked her but I came because of the Britney scandal I never joined though I just forgot about it and kept going with my life, and I joined about a year and a half later when I realized she's a nut