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Playsinrain wrote:This whole emotionally letter and video they have made for the agent to present to the seller with their offer is absolutely ridiculous and i find it hilarious. No seller gives a shit about a letter begging you to accept their offer.
It is common in some markets. My husband and I were told we needed to write a letter to the seller when we put the offer in on our house. We thought it was stupid at the time but made it as heartfelt as possible because I guess that's what they wanted. I work at a title company and I have seen letters as parts of a few files. I agree it is ridiculous, but that's the way it works sometimes. Their real estate agent probably told them to do the same. However, yeah, if they were offering way below what other buyers were, no letter was going to give them an edge, unless they were planning on doing something else that would make their offer competitive like paying all closing costs.
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Oh please!!! They really are scumbags! Sure Corbin. I don’t believe anything this jerk says. He isn’t happy that he’s stuck in Boise, a looser, living with his MIL and has a dying channel. This is just another attempt to try and get sympathy “oh poor me”.


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jmoysa wrote:
Oh please!!! They really are scumbags! Sure Corbin. I don’t believe anything this jerk says. He isn’t happy that he’s stuck in Boise, a looser, living with his MIL and has a dying channel. This is just another attempt to try and get sympathy “oh poor me”.


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Remember when Corbin said he had paternal post-partum depression? Yeah.
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fossilfinger wrote:
jmoysa wrote:
Oh please!!! They really are scumbags! Sure Corbin. I don’t believe anything this jerk says. He isn’t happy that he’s stuck in Boise, a looser, living with his MIL and has a dying channel. This is just another attempt to try and get sympathy “oh poor me”.
Remember when Corbin said he had paternal post-partum depression? Yeah.
Corbin definitely has some problems, but I don't think it's S.A.D. He seems miserable and unhappy and unsatisfied all the time. Why do they need to pick up and move every 10 months? Why does Corbin need to flee all the time? It appears he can't even hold down a job. He seems like he has a classic case of constantly running away from his problems.

If he does suffer from S.A.D. then why did they leave SoCal? He says he loved Portland, but I grew up there and really suffered from S.A.D. and got the heck out of there and now love living in Florida. Portland is gloomy, rainy and cold at least 6 months of the year! I'm sure Boise is about the same, but with LOTS more snow and WAY colder.

If he's really that miserable in Boise, then they shouldn't be looking to buy a house there. I think all the baby and house-hunting vlogs are clickbait for views and BTS they have NO CLUE what they are planning to do this year. People in the comments are even saying they are stressing themselves out with all this stuff. It's almost like Corbin is in a manic mode. I wouldn't be surprised if their living situation is causing him to freak out.
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I also don't think they're completely happy in Boise but don't see any other unrealistic options for themselves. They have lived in Idaho before, and there's a reason they left. They're probably going to be pretty miserable once they realize that owning their own home isn't the be-all-end-all of everything. Once the novelty wears off, life will be the same dissatisfied life they tried to leave behind. Kelsey is probably happier there than Corbin because she likes being near her family, but I'm sure they both wish on some level that they could still afford to live in Portland or wherever else they really like.
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fossilfinger wrote:I also don't think they're completely happy in Boise but don't see any other unrealistic options for themselves. They have lived in Idaho before, and there's a reason they left. They're probably going to be pretty miserable once they realize that owning their own home isn't the be-all-end-all of everything. Once the novelty wears off, life will be the same dissatisfied life they tried to leave behind. Kelsey is probably happier there than Corbin because she likes being near her family, but I'm sure they both wish on some level that they could still afford to live in Portland or wherever else they really like.
But they COULD afford Portland or another city they like or even Hawaii if they GOT JOBS. Most of their problems are because of YT and refusing to realize they aren't going to be the next DBs. They would easily make more than YT if they both went back to work, but they are too stubborn.

They just really need to evaluate their lives and decide if YT is really worth all the stress.
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ewokfan11 wrote:
fossilfinger wrote:
jmoysa wrote:
Oh please!!! They really are scumbags! Sure Corbin. I don’t believe anything this jerk says. He isn’t happy that he’s stuck in Boise, a looser, living with his MIL and has a dying channel. This is just another attempt to try and get sympathy “oh poor me”.
Remember when Corbin said he had paternal post-partum depression? Yeah.
Corbin definitely has some problems, but I don't think it's S.A.D. He seems miserable and unhappy and unsatisfied all the time. Why do they need to pick up and move every 10 months? Why does Corbin need to flee all the time? It appears he can't even hold down a job. He seems like he has a classic case of constantly running away from his problems.

If he does suffer from S.A.D. then why did they leave SoCal? He says he loved Portland, but I grew up there and really suffered from S.A.D. and got the heck out of there and now love living in Florida. Portland is gloomy, rainy and cold at least 6 months of the year! I'm sure Boise is about the same, but with LOTS more snow and WAY colder.

If he's really that miserable in Boise, then they shouldn't be looking to buy a house there. I think all the baby and house-hunting vlogs are clickbait for views and BTS they have NO CLUE what they are planning to do this year. People in the comments are even saying they are stressing themselves out with all this stuff. It's almost like Corbin is in a manic mode. I wouldn't be surprised if their living situation is causing him to freak out.
I agree-- it isn't SAD. One of my good friends lives in Portland and loves it, but she gets SAD and would have to move if she didn't have a sun lamp. Corbin was perfectly happy in Portland. Well, as happy as Corbin can be, anyway.
I think he is just a jerk. And he hates living with his MIL. And he hates that their channel isn't taking off like DB did. And he really hates that everyone seems to be on to the fact that they are broke "I have a dream job and make plenty of money haha". Methinks he doth protest too much.

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onbreak wrote:Oh Kelsey, I know your pain. I didnt think this was going to be the one until I looked at several others. Now its not an option.

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/2816 ... 6995_zpid/

Pissed at myself for not writing a letter and making a video

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Dang! That's all you needed! It's purty. Got one in New Hope for me?

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I'd need to take a film class to get a New Hope million dollar video together.

Step up my game. The starwipe and lazer backgrounds of my 2005 camcorder wouldn't cut it Image

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Random thought: Could Kelsey be legit freaking out about not being pregnant already because CORBIN is putting pressure on her?? If they are stressing about money, then I could see Corbin making it a priority to get knocked up with Baby Clickbait ASAP. I do think they are counting on Baby #2 (aka Corbin's Son) to bring in some income from the womb.

Corbin really is disgusting, so I wouldn't be shocked.
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ewokfan11 wrote:Random thought: Could Kelsey be legit freaking out about not being pregnant already because CORBIN is putting pressure on her?? If they are stressing about money, then I could see Corbin making it a priority to get knocked up with Baby Clickbait ASAP. I do think they are counting on Baby #2 (aka Corbin's Son) to bring in some income from the womb.

Corbin really is disgusting, so I wouldn't be shocked.
And I can totally see him going on about how it's her "fault":that she isn't pregnant yet


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I hope he realizes couch surfing with a toddler and an infant isn't responsible. #mellowout

June is too little to babysit an infant on the beach while they snorkel. They need to adopt an older child. A hormonal tween who will call them out 24/7 and threaten to kick his ass when there's no chocolate. #doitforthevlog

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So another day without a vlog so far. Wonder what the excuse will be this time. He’s got
To be scrambling to come up with content since they’re so boring. Four days of the pregnancy crap and a day of the house hunting drama...so now what? Too soo to start it over again.


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They are doing the whole house hunting thing wrong. They are supposed to be YouTubers, should they be blogging the whole process and sharing it in real time? It would certainly be more interesting for viewers and keep them coming back for the excitement of finding out whether their offer got accepted. But instead of doing this in a way that is engaging to their audience they do a summary video after the fact. Probably because they are too afraid to share in real time because they are afraid of looking like brown idiots if it doesn’t work out.


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Nothankyou wrote:They are doing the whole house hunting thing wrong. They are supposed to be YouTubers, should they be blogging the whole process and sharing it in real time? It would certainly be more interesting for viewers and keep them coming back for the excitement of finding out whether their offer got accepted. But instead of doing this in a way that is engaging to their audience they do a summary video after the fact. Probably because they are too afraid to share in real time because they are afraid of looking like brown idiots if it doesn’t work out.


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lavenderlove wrote:
Nothankyou wrote:They are doing the whole house hunting thing wrong. They are supposed to be YouTubers, should they be blogging the whole process and sharing it in real time? It would certainly be more interesting for viewers and keep them coming back for the excitement of finding out whether their offer got accepted. But instead of doing this in a way that is engaging to their audience they do a summary video after the fact. Probably because they are too afraid to share in real time because they are afraid of looking like brown idiots if it doesn’t work out.


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So true.
I agree. I think they don't have much of a budget to work with, so they are hiding everything because they can't really afford to buy a house. In the end they'll just rent or just stay at Kelsey's mom's house.
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Once up on a time I like these people and managed to ignore the "My love" which to me was like nails on a chalk board everytime they say it. But now, I have lost any form of respect for them. They seemed to be doing amazing with June and again, now?

It all seems to have gone to shit since the California move. Corbin irritates the hell out of me. Kelsey seems to lie the majority of a vlog (or drunk) and then the stupidity of these pregnancy vlogs that screamed attention seeking and LIES. Not to mention the stupid sit down shit they keep doing and only vlogging 4 minutes of a day. There is so many issues showing with them from car seat safety, the fact June seems to have issues with ankles and inturned feet they have ignored and then the lies about trying for a baby before she even had her iud out and surprise...She did a vlog on getting it removed even though they seemed to convince people they were trying (I wasn't fooled coz I listen to the lies each vlog). Something has gone totally wrong at some point between the move the bumps and their failing life. Kelsey seems to be lacking any kind of friendship and does corbin even have friends? Even the family situation seems messed up and only natural when she is alone with her sister and mum. It's like watching a car crash in slow motion at the moment.
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Mummyuk wrote:Once up on a time I like these people and managed to ignore the "My love" which to me was like nails on a chalk board everytime they say it. But now, I have lost any form of respect for them. They seemed to be doing amazing with June and again, now?

It all seems to have gone to shit since the California move. Corbin irritates the hell out of me. Kelsey seems to lie the majority of a vlog (or drunk) and then the stupidity of these pregnancy vlogs that screamed attention seeking and LIES. Not to mention the stupid sit down shit they keep doing and only vlogging 4 minutes of a day. There is so many issues showing with them from car seat safety, the fact June seems to have issues with ankles and inturned feet they have ignored and then the lies about trying for a baby before she even had her iud out and surprise...She did a vlog on getting it removed even though they seemed to convince people they were trying (I wasn't fooled coz I listen to the lies each vlog). Something has gone totally wrong at some point between the move the bumps and their failing life. Kelsey seems to be lacking any kind of friendship and does corbin even have friends? Even the family situation seems messed up and only natural when she is alone with her sister and mum. It's like watching a car crash in slow motion at the moment.
That is a big thing. Corbin is one of those guys that seem to cut their partner off from others. He got her out to Portland and away from family of which she seems very close to. She has zero friends at all. It is so strange that she has not one single girl friend. He got so grumpy and moody and they admitted to fighting a lot around the time when they needed to leave Cali and move back home. I think it is because then Corbin wouldn't be the center of Kelsey's world. She would be home with her mom and siblings. He wouldn't be able to be as nasty as he is off camera. The man has serious anger issues. You can just tell in how he speaks to people when they upset him. He is controlling and overbearing. Things always have to be his way and he is always right. He is trying to knock her up again not only to raise their channel because he does not want to work, but to load Kelsey down even more make sure she never leaves him.

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Another vlog that has pregnancy in the title!!!! All she does is talk about weaning June for couple of minutes.

So they skipped a days vlog but this thing today was filmed at two different times (different outfits). I’m sure Corbin is thinking that he’s hit a goldmine with the pregnancy vlogs, so they don’t have to vlog everyday to get the views.

This is getting to be ridiculous. I was thinking about what that other poster said. They really don’t have any life or friends. He’s coming off as being more and more controlling and an even bigger douchebag.

No Corbin, you’re not looking for your next house. You’ve never bought a house before and probably not getting one now unless you rent.


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That's the vibe i get as well with tieing her down with another child. It was obvious with the first talk about it she really didn't want another yet and with how long it's taken her to have the iud out im guessing she still isn't ready. Which i don't blame her as she seems to do it all with June and he pretends to be doing his fair share.

Even the vlog needing help with time management. What is he doing that kelsey doesn't get a minute in the day to do what she needs? Also the decorating. He was happy to go and leave kelsey to it. He is just plain lazy and moans about any work he has to do.

He really does give of a bad vibe in the vlogs and the childish way he responds to people. I remember the eating healthy and running thing that I thought was odd. He would go shopping and get himself a takeaway but kelsey wasn't allowed it and then they started running and it ended with kelsey doing it alone and he pulled out due to "injury" but she still had to go.

He is very controlling with her. He has really isolated her and any thing she does with June, like mummy groups, he is right there so she can't make friends. That in itself is a red marker for abuse in That relationship, be it verbal, emotional or violence. Something is off with the relationship and I just hope her mum can see it and gets her to see sense. Kelsey would do so much better without him. She is such a good mum but seems to be backing off from her parenting role. Wouldn't surprise me if he tells her she is a shit parent that's why she seems to be going down hill with it.
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How convenient. After a string of fake pregnancy click-bait vlogs that were not well received, Kelsey is suddenly talking about weaning. Have to get pregnant as soon as possible for those views!

"I was thinking about that question in the beginning of the vlog- would I rather win the Nobel Peace Prize or save a person's life? I don't know, that's such a hard one." He really couldn't be any more self-important or narcissistic if he tried. These are the things he asks himself? How about...why don't I have a real job so that I didn't have to live in my mother-in-law's house?
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