Yes it's been noticed and discussed before (like ages ago so don't worry about missing that convo). Like you said we all know Landon appeared to be the more nurturing parent in the family. It might be that Cam is not much of a baby person and she prefers older kids, or it might be related to the tragic events of last year. Delilah was born in a very rough situation which only got rougher, but let's not forget that Coco's early life was also not the easiest and she's the one old enough to notice that her old life is gone. It would be a tricky situation for any parent let alone Cam. I don't think her being herself is that bad, but I also don't know if tiktok cam is the real cam. I'm not sure she's trying to send out a message as much as trying to find excitement in life through fun clothes and music and hanging out with pals. I'm kind of past judging her at this point, I just hope things turn out ok for this family.lolidkwhyididthis wrote: ↑Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:33 pm Made this account just to post this. I typed a long post but it didn’t post so I’m going to make this shorter. Has anyone noticed how different cam treats Delilah compared to how she treats coco?
1. Addi is usually the one holding or feeding her
2. At her apartment, she just plopped her down in a way too small bassinet in the corner for a nap. Didn’t kiss her or say goodnight or tuck her in. Just set her down while reading comments on her live video and walked out.
3. She calls her “baby” or “sissy” a lot. Rarely uses her real name. Not that that’s bad but coco is always yelling at her “no baby!” Or trying to pull her away or whatever. Maybe it’s a toddler thing but maybe she is mocking cam?
4. Not a single picture with her on her New Years post
5. Rarely does any activities with her like she did with coco. Not even just leaving the house cause I know there’s a pandemic. But even things inside. Ik coco was an only child & that’s why she got so much attention but I feel like Delilah is always being pushed aside
6. I think I’ve seen cam kiss or hug Delilah like once. Coco is always getting hugs. Not so much kisses but. I feel like cam realized after landon passed that maybe she didn’t want to be a mother as bad as she thought. But I don’t blame her. She didn’t think she’d ever be doing it alone especially with the kids so young. I feel like she strived for that “perfect teen family” picture perfect life & now that Landon is gone she’s over it. Looking back at their old vlogs too, it seems like Landon was always the one taking care of coco & the chores & everything else that came with that life. Cam does not seem mothery to me like the rest of the teen moms on YouTube do. It’s so sad to see. However I’m happy to see her finding herself again. It’s sad to “let go” of the old cam that I started watching years ago, but it’s nice to see her doing better. Side note: her tik tok’s & comments under them that she makes really make me feel like she felt held back by Landon. Almost as if now that he has passed, she can be herself unapologetically. Idk if that’s the message she is trying to give off but that’s what I’m getting from it.
I’ll elaborate more but please tell me someone noticed this too.
Also I really don't think most other teen moms are that maternal. Look at someone like Sophie Gonzales, she's even less attached to her twins, I guess cause her baby daddy is still around and seems to be the nurturing one like Landon. I don't think teens need to be maternal to choose to get pregnant/not to end a pregnancy, I think it's got a lot to do with their upbringing, what they've been taught about abortion, and whether they think becoming a mom will solve something for them.