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polar_bear wrote:Addi posted a Q&A video with Trent and in one of the comments she said that they will move out this summer. The comment was an answer to the question "How long you and Trent are gonna live in Florida/live with Cam and the kids?". I think that Cam will have to live alone since Addi said a couple of times that she wants to move out of Florida to Colorado or another state and I don't think that Cam wants to move away again from her family, she needs that extra support. Maybe I am wrong and Cam will tag along too but that would be a dick move tbh, because they said in that video that they wake up in the middle of the night, wake up early, deal with messy kids, screaming etc and they can't live like a young, child-free couple. No matter how much they love Cam and the girls, their presence is gonna affect Trent and Addi's relationship if they don't get their privacy. They are still a "new couple" and when the whole "honeymoon" phase is gonna wear off, their relationship will be on thin ice
Yea cam mentioned this in one of her first lives back, that Addi staying at the new place would just be temporary and then she and the kids will be by themselves.


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I'm kind of dying rn because I just had a look at cam's tiktok (yes yes i'm procrastinating) and it just really looks like my life when i was younger, same music, same outfits, same activities lols (minus the whole two children and a dead husband thing, altho two of my exes died soon after the end of my relationships with them so there was some grief in my life). That was my life before I started working full time and being a responsible adult and I'm not gonna lie it made me nostalgic, altho I do feel better now in general. Not a snark just an observation.
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Some of the outfits she wears are cringey. Definitely not my style. But atleast she's happy
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futureccl wrote: Wed Jan 13, 2021 7:49 am I'm kind of dying rn because I just had a look at cam's tiktok (yes yes i'm procrastinating) and it just really looks like my life when i was younger, same music, same outfits, same activities lols (minus the whole two children and a dead husband thing, altho two of my exes died soon after the end of my relationships with them so there was some grief in my life). That was my life before I started working full time and being a responsible adult and I'm not gonna lie it made me nostalgic, altho I do feel better now in general. Not a snark just an observation.
Speaking of the whole dead husband thing, how long do you think she'll be milking the "Widowed Single Mother" bit? It's already getting old, especially since she wants to say "Yeah, I hate putting that label on myself", but then LITERALLY titles the same video "Widowed Teen Mom!".

I'm getting tired of the fake bullshit. You don't want to wear your dead husband's ring because it reminds you too much of him? Just say so. Don't put out a 15 minute segment on your Q/A video just to milk the title. Say "I don't like wearing it because it reminds me too much of him" and move the fuck on. Between her and Maddie, I can't tell who's more fake. Stop trying to milk your dead husband's memory for every penny and then some, like you did on the GoFundMe, and maybe put some more effort into being a better mother for your daughters.
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I am curious about that necklace that she has. It is a big lock (see her recent tik toks for refrence). Does it have anything to do with Landon? Maybe his ashes are in there, but I highly doubt it
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Seller-Of-Souls wrote: Thu Jan 14, 2021 11:30 pm
futureccl wrote: Wed Jan 13, 2021 7:49 am I'm kind of dying rn because I just had a look at cam's tiktok (yes yes i'm procrastinating) and it just really looks like my life when i was younger, same music, same outfits, same activities lols (minus the whole two children and a dead husband thing, altho two of my exes died soon after the end of my relationships with them so there was some grief in my life). That was my life before I started working full time and being a responsible adult and I'm not gonna lie it made me nostalgic, altho I do feel better now in general. Not a snark just an observation.
Speaking of the whole dead husband thing, how long do you think she'll be milking the "Widowed Single Mother" bit? It's already getting old, especially since she wants to say "Yeah, I hate putting that label on myself", but then LITERALLY titles the same video "Widowed Teen Mom!".

I'm getting tired of the fake bullshit. You don't want to wear your dead husband's ring because it reminds you too much of him? Just say so. Don't put out a 15 minute segment on your Q/A video just to milk the title. Say "I don't like wearing it because it reminds me too much of him" and move the fuck on. Between her and Maddie, I can't tell who's more fake. Stop trying to milk your dead husband's memory for every penny and then some, like you did on the GoFundMe, and maybe put some more effort into being a better mother for your daughters.
Yeah I do feel weird about cam when she says "this is the real me" because her whole identity is all over the places, but then again my life was quite similar in a lot of ways (I was more "alt" as a young teen, then pretty normie for a few years, then alt again after 20). sorry I'm becoming a bit of a cam apologist after finding out her birth chart, cause in a way it's like mine lols!

About milking the widow thing, I am in the camp that there really isn't a right way of doing it. Like sure I think it's tasteless to put in the titles, but then again she needs views to support her kids and that's what's bringing in the views right now. She could do videos titled "life after suicide" but that sounds too intense for her young viewers. She could also ignore it but she would get shit for that too. I think she will move on when she finds another boo, which with two small children should be fairly difficult. I personally hope it doesn't happen for a couple of years at least, but I do hope she find another partner one day if that's what she wants, hopefully once she's done a looot of therapy.
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futureccl wrote: Fri Jan 15, 2021 8:03 am
Seller-Of-Souls wrote: Thu Jan 14, 2021 11:30 pm
futureccl wrote: Wed Jan 13, 2021 7:49 am I'm kind of dying rn because I just had a look at cam's tiktok (yes yes i'm procrastinating) and it just really looks like my life when i was younger, same music, same outfits, same activities lols (minus the whole two children and a dead husband thing, altho two of my exes died soon after the end of my relationships with them so there was some grief in my life). That was my life before I started working full time and being a responsible adult and I'm not gonna lie it made me nostalgic, altho I do feel better now in general. Not a snark just an observation.
Speaking of the whole dead husband thing, how long do you think she'll be milking the "Widowed Single Mother" bit? It's already getting old, especially since she wants to say "Yeah, I hate putting that label on myself", but then LITERALLY titles the same video "Widowed Teen Mom!".

I'm getting tired of the fake bullshit. You don't want to wear your dead husband's ring because it reminds you too much of him? Just say so. Don't put out a 15 minute segment on your Q/A video just to milk the title. Say "I don't like wearing it because it reminds me too much of him" and move the fuck on. Between her and Maddie, I can't tell who's more fake. Stop trying to milk your dead husband's memory for every penny and then some, like you did on the GoFundMe, and maybe put some more effort into being a better mother for your daughters.
Yeah I do feel weird about cam when she says "this is the real me" because her whole identity is all over the places, but then again my life was quite similar in a lot of ways (I was more "alt" as a young teen, then pretty normie for a few years, then alt again after 20). sorry I'm becoming a bit of a cam apologist after finding out her birth chart, cause in a way it's like mine lols!

About milking the widow thing, I am in the camp that there really isn't a right way of doing it. Like sure I think it's tasteless to put in the titles, but then again she needs views to support her kids and that's what's bringing in the views right now. She could do videos titled "life after suicide" but that sounds too intense for her young viewers. She could also ignore it but she would get shit for that too. I think she will move on when she finds another boo, which with two small children should be fairly difficult. I personally hope it doesn't happen for a couple of years at least, but I do hope she find another partner one day if that's what she wants, hopefully once she's done a looot of therapy.
Here's the thing.. You mention that her being a widow is what is getting views right now, but that's just not true. Her channel has always gotten views, and especially now that she's a widow she's going to get more attention. The news was all over Landon's death like stink on shit, and the GoFundMe (the official one) got over 30K$. Unless she's spending her money on gold-plated bullshit, she's not hurting for cash.

Furthermore, she's not exactly keeping the same mask on across her social medias. Her TikToks, Insta, and YT all show a different mask she's wearing, and it's beginning to feel like she never really cared about Landon, especially with how quickly she seems to have moved on. I get that everyone grieves differently, in their own way and such, but putting so many masks and different faces on all of her social medias seems like she's just trying to convince everyone that Landon never really mattered to begin with. Everyone could tell he was awkward, uncomfortable, and didn't really want to be in the whole "teen mom" youtube life style. Personally, I'm of the opinion that she drove him to suicide, especially with a second baby, his declining mental health being what it is, and her being more focused on her channel than on him and his health (from what I see).
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I hated watching her older Tiktoks when Landon was apparently struggling a lot and she was still keeping the "perfect family" vibes.
She also mentioned that moving all alone to Texas was a mistake because they didn't have anyone there but all she was showing at that time was how perfect their life was. She was so fake.
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5:25 this did not age well...
There are many other things that are somehow related to his death in older videos and trust me, I didn't watch her videos like I do now. I wonder how many times Landon foreshadowed his death without anyone noticing, in front of the camera as well as behind it
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polar_bear wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 5:32 am
5:25 this did not age well...
There are many other things that are somehow related to his death in older videos and trust me, I didn't watch her videos like I do now. I wonder how many times Landon foreshadowed his death without anyone noticing, in front of the camera as well as behind it
This is what I meant about Cam prioritizing her channel over her husband and his mental health. How many times do you think he dropped hints? How many times could she have asked him about it?
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polar_bear wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 5:32 am
5:25 this did not age well...
There are many other things that are somehow related to his death in older videos and trust me, I didn't watch her videos like I do now. I wonder how many times Landon foreshadowed his death without anyone noticing, in front of the camera as well as behind it
This is what I meant about Cam prioritizing her channel over her husband and his mental health. How many times do you think he dropped hints? How many times could she have asked him about it?
Lol you think him pointing out a Halloween decoration of someone hanging was dropping a hint? I realize you're trying to grasp at anything to blame Camryn for his suicide but c'mon... That's ridiculous. As a person who has suffered from suicidal thoughts and tendencies for over 15 years, I do not expect nor do I want my loved ones to psychoanalyze everything I say. Commenting on the type of not kid friendly Halloween decorations a place has doesn't sound anything like a cry for help. Saying something like, "Look at the guy who hung himself. Must be nice," would give more cause for concern.

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Y’all crack me up. Cams most recent video, she admitted to and confirmed a lot of what you guys have said in here, like moving away was a bad idea ect ect. But the only response is how she’s so fake... what do y’all want from her she literally stated stuff you guys have mentioned and confirmed it


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blissablake wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:39 pm Y’all crack me up. Cams most recent video, she admitted to and confirmed a lot of what you guys have said in here, like moving away was a bad idea ect ect. But the only response is how she’s so fake... what do y’all want from her ImageImage she literally stated stuff you guys have mentioned and confirmed it


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When you put your entire life on social media and display the "perfect teen mom" lifestyle for long, only for it to come crashing down around you because you ignored the warning signs of your husband suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts/tendencies, and only then do you admit "Yeah, my perfect life wasn't so perfect", you tend to garner a lot of skepticism and doubt. If she's only now admitting to what we all could see, what else is she trying to push to the side?

It's eventually going to come out, whether she likes it or not. The question is, when it does, how will it come out? Will she admit to her whole online persona being fake and (potentially) misleading hundreds of young girls, or will she have something else blow up in her face and be forced to admit it only because she can't hide the truth any longer?

As someone who's suffered from depression and suicidal tendencies since the age of 7, I saw how dead Landon was inside the moment I saw him in her videos. He was uncomfortable on camera, and didn't want to be a part of the "teen mom" life. He might have wanted his wife and their daughter, but he didn't want the drama and bullshit that came with them. In almost every video he's in, I see someone who has given up on life, given up on trying to find a way out because he's trapped. I'm sure that the addition of a second baby (an thus, more drama) only worsened his condition. To him, suicide was the only way out of the lifestyle that he so vehemently abhorred, no matter the public persona he put on for the camera.

That's me, as an outsider, looking in from the tiny window we got into their life. As someone who spent literally years with him, should have seen the signs. She should have seen the changes. Hell, at the very least she should have seen how uncomfortable he was on camera and maybe put the damned thing DOWN. Personally, I've always despised the "teen mom" side of YT, and this is why. It gives people unrealistic expectations of how life will be if you only get knocked up, and doesn't show any of what goes on behind the scenes. It doesn't show the depression, the suicide attempts, the relapses, the drugs, the monetary struggles when you're not making as many videos/views... It's a sham. I think Landon saw that, and decided he should get out as soon as he could.

It's just a shame that's the way he chose to do it.
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Seller-Of-Souls wrote:
blissablake wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:39 pm Y’all crack me up. Cams most recent video, she admitted to and confirmed a lot of what you guys have said in here, like moving away was a bad idea ect ect. But the only response is how she’s so fake... what do y’all want from her ImageImage she literally stated stuff you guys have mentioned and confirmed it


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When you put your entire life on social media and display the "perfect teen mom" lifestyle for long, only for it to come crashing down around you because you ignored the warning signs of your husband suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts/tendencies, and only then do you admit "Yeah, my perfect life wasn't so perfect", you tend to garner a lot of skepticism and doubt. If she's only now admitting to what we all could see, what else is she trying to push to the side?

It's eventually going to come out, whether she likes it or not. The question is, when it does, how will it come out? Will she admit to her whole online persona being fake and (potentially) misleading hundreds of young girls, or will she have something else blow up in her face and be forced to admit it only because she can't hide the truth any longer?

As someone who's suffered from depression and suicidal tendencies since the age of 7, I saw how dead Landon was inside the moment I saw him in her videos. He was uncomfortable on camera, and didn't want to be a part of the "teen mom" life. He might have wanted his wife and their daughter, but he didn't want the drama and bullshit that came with them. In almost every video he's in, I see someone who has given up on life, given up on trying to find a way out because he's trapped. I'm sure that the addition of a second baby (an thus, more drama) only worsened his condition. To him, suicide was the only way out of the lifestyle that he so vehemently abhorred, no matter the public persona he put on for the camera.

That's me, as an outsider, looking in from the tiny window we got into their life. As someone who spent literally years with him, should have seen the signs. She should have seen the changes. Hell, she should have seen how uncomfortable he was on camera and maybe put the damned thing DOWN. Personally, I've always despised the "teen mom" side of YT, and this is why. It gives people unrealistic expectations of how life will be if you only get knocked up, and doesn't show any of what goes on behind the scenes. It doesn't show the depression, the suicide attempts, the relapses, the drugs, the monetary struggles when you're not making as many videos/views... It's a sham. I think Landon saw that, and decided he should get out as soon as he could.

It's just a shame that's the way he chose to do it.
I agree with most of what you are saying. In saying that though this isn’t specific to cam and landons situation. A lot of people who are depressed or end up taking their own lives put up a front that they are okay to other people and it’s a shock when they do it. Cam was also not exactly mentally stable at the time either. They were both struggling and of course she’s going to hide that, because that’s what people do. I don’t think it necessarily makes her fake, just someone trying to make it in life. This is why they shouldn’t have moved away from family. They were so isolated and no one could keep a proper eye on them other than what they were posting on social media. Your whole life you are growing up being told that you have to be an adult one day and be independent and I think they were just desperate to get that and their downfall was moving to Austen. If I remember correctly it’s because they used to hang out there when they first started dating and they liked the area which sounds nice but wasn’t thought through. I think all of the decisions that led up to this were never made with malice but wound up being a tragic perfect storm


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Dandelion11 wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 5:32 pm
Seller-Of-Souls wrote:
polar_bear wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 5:32 am
5:25 this did not age well...
There are many other things that are somehow related to his death in older videos and trust me, I didn't watch her videos like I do now. I wonder how many times Landon foreshadowed his death without anyone noticing, in front of the camera as well as behind it
This is what I meant about Cam prioritizing her channel over her husband and his mental health. How many times do you think he dropped hints? How many times could she have asked him about it?
Lol you think him pointing out a Halloween decoration of someone hanging was dropping a hint? I realize you're trying to grasp at anything to blame Camryn for his suicide but c'mon... That's ridiculous. As a person who has suffered from suicidal thoughts and tendencies for over 15 years, I do not expect nor do I want my loved ones to psychoanalyze everything I say. Commenting on the type of not kid friendly Halloween decorations a place has doesn't sound anything like a cry for help. Saying something like, "Look at the guy who hung himself. Must be nice," would give more cause for concern.

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I did not mention Cam, yet you think that I blame her in my post. I just said that Landon made numerous remarks about death in videos, some are subtle "We will love you for the rest of our lives", some are not (as this one) or jokingly saying "We are gonna die". Of course, these kind of words only had a true meaning when he already made up his mind and decided his faith. Some people cry for help in many ways, through music (Linkin Park), art, subtle hints which don't have any real meaning until the person already commited suicide.
The tone of the voice and the wording can give off major red flags and I am sure that there are many other things not caught on camera
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Seller-Of-Souls wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 9:06 pm
blissablake wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:39 pm Y’all crack me up. Cams most recent video, she admitted to and confirmed a lot of what you guys have said in here, like moving away was a bad idea ect ect. But the only response is how she’s so fake... what do y’all want from her ImageImage she literally stated stuff you guys have mentioned and confirmed it


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When you put your entire life on social media and display the "perfect teen mom" lifestyle for long, only for it to come crashing down around you because you ignored the warning signs of your husband suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts/tendencies, and only then do you admit "Yeah, my perfect life wasn't so perfect", you tend to garner a lot of skepticism and doubt. If she's only now admitting to what we all could see, what else is she trying to push to the side?

It's eventually going to come out, whether she likes it or not. The question is, when it does, how will it come out? Will she admit to her whole online persona being fake and (potentially) misleading hundreds of young girls, or will she have something else blow up in her face and be forced to admit it only because she can't hide the truth any longer?

As someone who's suffered from depression and suicidal tendencies since the age of 7, I saw how dead Landon was inside the moment I saw him in her videos. He was uncomfortable on camera, and didn't want to be a part of the "teen mom" life. He might have wanted his wife and their daughter, but he didn't want the drama and bullshit that came with them. In almost every video he's in, I see someone who has given up on life, given up on trying to find a way out because he's trapped. I'm sure that the addition of a second baby (an thus, more drama) only worsened his condition. To him, suicide was the only way out of the lifestyle that he so vehemently abhorred, no matter the public persona he put on for the camera.

That's me, as an outsider, looking in from the tiny window we got into their life. As someone who spent literally years with him, should have seen the signs. She should have seen the changes. Hell, at the very least she should have seen how uncomfortable he was on camera and maybe put the damned thing DOWN. Personally, I've always despised the "teen mom" side of YT, and this is why. It gives people unrealistic expectations of how life will be if you only get knocked up, and doesn't show any of what goes on behind the scenes. It doesn't show the depression, the suicide attempts, the relapses, the drugs, the monetary struggles when you're not making as many videos/views... It's a sham. I think Landon saw that, and decided he should get out as soon as he could.

It's just a shame that's the way he chose to do it.
Cam did see the signs of depression and addiction which is why she convinced him to get therapy..and to go and stay with his parents for help as she cannot be expected to look after him and his addiction and two kids, when someone is addicted and/or suicidal, no one can read their mind or control what they do, she took a break from social media for a couple months so she did put down the camera.. you can see the signs in people of suicide, do everything you can for them and they might still take their life.
Like others have said the move away from all family was a big mistake but she has literally admitted that was a mistake, what more do you people want
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Brambleramble wrote:
Seller-Of-Souls wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 9:06 pm
blissablake wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:39 pm Y’all crack me up. Cams most recent video, she admitted to and confirmed a lot of what you guys have said in here, like moving away was a bad idea ect ect. But the only response is how she’s so fake... what do y’all want from her ImageImage she literally stated stuff you guys have mentioned and confirmed it


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When you put your entire life on social media and display the "perfect teen mom" lifestyle for long, only for it to come crashing down around you because you ignored the warning signs of your husband suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts/tendencies, and only then do you admit "Yeah, my perfect life wasn't so perfect", you tend to garner a lot of skepticism and doubt. If she's only now admitting to what we all could see, what else is she trying to push to the side?

It's eventually going to come out, whether she likes it or not. The question is, when it does, how will it come out? Will she admit to her whole online persona being fake and (potentially) misleading hundreds of young girls, or will she have something else blow up in her face and be forced to admit it only because she can't hide the truth any longer?

As someone who's suffered from depression and suicidal tendencies since the age of 7, I saw how dead Landon was inside the moment I saw him in her videos. He was uncomfortable on camera, and didn't want to be a part of the "teen mom" life. He might have wanted his wife and their daughter, but he didn't want the drama and bullshit that came with them. In almost every video he's in, I see someone who has given up on life, given up on trying to find a way out because he's trapped. I'm sure that the addition of a second baby (an thus, more drama) only worsened his condition. To him, suicide was the only way out of the lifestyle that he so vehemently abhorred, no matter the public persona he put on for the camera.

That's me, as an outsider, looking in from the tiny window we got into their life. As someone who spent literally years with him, should have seen the signs. She should have seen the changes. Hell, at the very least she should have seen how uncomfortable he was on camera and maybe put the damned thing DOWN. Personally, I've always despised the "teen mom" side of YT, and this is why. It gives people unrealistic expectations of how life will be if you only get knocked up, and doesn't show any of what goes on behind the scenes. It doesn't show the depression, the suicide attempts, the relapses, the drugs, the monetary struggles when you're not making as many videos/views... It's a sham. I think Landon saw that, and decided he should get out as soon as he could.

It's just a shame that's the way he chose to do it.
Cam did see the signs of depression and addiction which is why she convinced him to get therapy..and to go and stay with his parents for help as she cannot be expected to look after him and his addiction and two kids, when someone is addicted and/or suicidal, no one can read their mind or control what they do, she took a break from social media for a couple months so she did put down the camera.. you can see the signs in people of suicide, do everything you can for them and they might still take their life.
Like others have said the move away from all family was a big mistake but she has literally admitted that was a mistake, what more do you people want
Some people are just out for her and if you call them out on it they will use the "tHiS iS a sNaRk WeBsItE" response

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Highlighter wrote: Sun Jan 17, 2021 10:14 am
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Seller-Of-Souls wrote: Sat Jan 16, 2021 9:06 pm

When you put your entire life on social media and display the "perfect teen mom" lifestyle for long, only for it to come crashing down around you because you ignored the warning signs of your husband suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts/tendencies, and only then do you admit "Yeah, my perfect life wasn't so perfect", you tend to garner a lot of skepticism and doubt. If she's only now admitting to what we all could see, what else is she trying to push to the side?

It's eventually going to come out, whether she likes it or not. The question is, when it does, how will it come out? Will she admit to her whole online persona being fake and (potentially) misleading hundreds of young girls, or will she have something else blow up in her face and be forced to admit it only because she can't hide the truth any longer?

As someone who's suffered from depression and suicidal tendencies since the age of 7, I saw how dead Landon was inside the moment I saw him in her videos. He was uncomfortable on camera, and didn't want to be a part of the "teen mom" life. He might have wanted his wife and their daughter, but he didn't want the drama and bullshit that came with them. In almost every video he's in, I see someone who has given up on life, given up on trying to find a way out because he's trapped. I'm sure that the addition of a second baby (an thus, more drama) only worsened his condition. To him, suicide was the only way out of the lifestyle that he so vehemently abhorred, no matter the public persona he put on for the camera.

That's me, as an outsider, looking in from the tiny window we got into their life. As someone who spent literally years with him, should have seen the signs. She should have seen the changes. Hell, at the very least she should have seen how uncomfortable he was on camera and maybe put the damned thing DOWN. Personally, I've always despised the "teen mom" side of YT, and this is why. It gives people unrealistic expectations of how life will be if you only get knocked up, and doesn't show any of what goes on behind the scenes. It doesn't show the depression, the suicide attempts, the relapses, the drugs, the monetary struggles when you're not making as many videos/views... It's a sham. I think Landon saw that, and decided he should get out as soon as he could.

It's just a shame that's the way he chose to do it.
Cam did see the signs of depression and addiction which is why she convinced him to get therapy..and to go and stay with his parents for help as she cannot be expected to look after him and his addiction and two kids, when someone is addicted and/or suicidal, no one can read their mind or control what they do, she took a break from social media for a couple months so she did put down the camera.. you can see the signs in people of suicide, do everything you can for them and they might still take their life.
Like others have said the move away from all family was a big mistake but she has literally admitted that was a mistake, what more do you people want
Some people are just out for her and if you call them out on it they will use the "tHiS iS a sNaRk WeBsItE" response

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See, as much as you're correct about this being a gossip/snark site, I genuinely don't give two shits about Cam. She's average, boring, and quite honestly doesn't appeal to me. If she goes on to live a happy life, good for her. If she drops dead tomorrow, I feel bad for those kids. But I'm certainly not "out to get her" like you seem to think.

Putting the camera down for a few months isn't nearly the same as leaving the lifestyle. So she took a break for a few months, whoopdee doo. She came back to it in the end, because that's where she gets all the attention she craved. Landon knew that, and so the main source of his discomfort wasn't gone, but merely delayed.

As for seeing the signs... Trust me, I know what that's like. I wish I had been old enough to see the signs when my father killed himself when I was 7. For years I blamed my mother, telling myself she didn't do enough, she wasn't there enough, and that's strained our relationship. The thing with Landon is that it wasn't just his depression that was causing him discomfort, it was their entire lifestyle. Sure, she couldn't be asked to look after him AND two kids, but convincing him to go stay with his parents was arguably the wrong idea.

He needed his wife, not his mother and father. He needed the comfort of the one he loved, not the ones who loved him. I can almost guarantee you that by convincing him to stay with his parents, she (unintentionally) pushed him away and worsened his depression.

You guys keep asking "What more do you want from her", as if I'm 'out to get her'. I don't want anything from her. I'm giving my observations on a situation that I think could have been avoided. Would it be nice if these types of situations didn't exist? Sure, it would. But we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a world where a preteen/teenage girl can spread her legs, pop out a baby, then make dozens of thousands of dollars by putting her entire life online. Meanwhile, individuals with college degrees struggle to find even a minimum wage job in their field due to being "over-qualified."
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Re: Cam&Fam | Part Three

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Seller-Of-Souls wrote:
Highlighter wrote: Sun Jan 17, 2021 10:14 am
Brambleramble wrote: Cam did see the signs of depression and addiction which is why she convinced him to get therapy..and to go and stay with his parents for help as she cannot be expected to look after him and his addiction and two kids, when someone is addicted and/or suicidal, no one can read their mind or control what they do, she took a break from social media for a couple months so she did put down the camera.. you can see the signs in people of suicide, do everything you can for them and they might still take their life.
Like others have said the move away from all family was a big mistake but she has literally admitted that was a mistake, what more do you people want
Some people are just out for her and if you call them out on it they will use the "tHiS iS a sNaRk WeBsItE" response

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See, as much as you're correct about this being a gossip/snark site, I genuinely don't give two shits about Cam. She's average, boring, and quite honestly doesn't appeal to me. If she goes on to live a happy life, good for her. If she drops dead tomorrow, I feel bad for those kids. But I'm certainly not "out to get her" like you seem to think.

Putting the camera down for a few months isn't nearly the same as leaving the lifestyle. So she took a break for a few months, whoopdee doo. She came back to it in the end, because that's where she gets all the attention she craved. Landon knew that, and so the main source of his discomfort wasn't gone, but merely delayed.

As for seeing the signs... Trust me, I know what that's like. I wish I had been old enough to see the signs when my father killed himself when I was 7. For years I blamed my mother, telling myself she didn't do enough, she wasn't there enough, and that's strained our relationship. The thing with Landon is that it wasn't just his depression that was causing him discomfort, it was their entire lifestyle. Sure, she couldn't be asked to look after him AND two kids, but convincing him to go stay with his parents was arguably the wrong idea.

He needed his wife, not his mother and father. He needed the comfort of the one he loved, not the ones who loved him. I can almost guarantee you that by convincing him to stay with his parents, she (unintentionally) pushed him away and worsened his depression.

You guys keep asking "What more do you want from her", as if I'm 'out to get her'. I don't want anything from her. I'm giving my observations on a situation that I think could have been avoided. Would it be nice if these types of situations didn't exist? Sure, it would. But we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a world where a preteen/teenage girl can spread her legs, pop out a baby, then make dozens of thousands of dollars by putting her entire life online. Meanwhile, individuals with college degrees struggle to find even a minimum wage job in their field due to being "over-qualified."
It is no ones job to save people. You placing that blame on your mother, is misogynistic and gross. It’s no ones job to fix their partner, ever. Especially not when you are mentally unwell yourself. Much like cam was, you talk about what she should and shouldn’t have done as if she was mentally well herself. She was not at all. How is she expected to have known any of this?

The only responsibility is on the person who did it. And I say this as someone who has had a few people in my life take their own life. One was last year. It was NO ones fault. NO ones responsibility. If someone wants to, they will.

If someone was depressed because they had to work a 9-5 job, would you demand they drop out of working to make an income because they are “still living the lifestyle that makes them unhappy” or would you accept people have to make a living?

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Re: Cam&Fam | Part Three

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Landon made the decision to stop living. Landon made he decision he didn’t want that life anymore. Landon did, not her.

To expect her to drop her whole life and throw it away because he chose to do so? Seriously? Life is for the living and he chose to end his. It’s fucking sad, yes, but he did that and she still has to live her whole life after him. She is a person on her own and she shouldn’t just have to stop existing because he made that decision.


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