JesssFam: Facing Reality w/ Daiquiris & Taco Bell (Part 87)

[shilohjulia]

He has pictures of the boys in his Facebook featured photos, but they're pictures he stole from Jess's Insta

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[shilohjulia]

It's amazing he doesn't even go to the boys baseball games, considering he plays himself. You'd think that would be a bond he shares with them but nope. He's trash. Natalie is actually very pretty. Wonder what she sees in him. Even if he's good to her and their daughter, I couldnt take a man seriously who abandoned his other kids.


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[hannahbanana]

It's amazing he doesn't even go to the boys baseball games, considering he plays himself. You'd think that would be a bond he shares with them but nope. He's trash. Natalie is actually very pretty. Wonder what she sees in him. Even if he's good to her and their daughter, I couldnt take a man seriously who abandoned his other kids.


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Not to mention, drake was dating a girl named Macie and he dumped her for Natalie. I mean, here is Natalie, an 18 year old girl who was still in high school, dating a guy who left his pregnant wife twice, and his kids. I have no idea what goes through these girls minds thinking they picked the right guy

[Yue195]

It's amazing he doesn't even go to the boys baseball games, considering he plays himself. You'd think that would be a bond he shares with them but nope. He's trash. Natalie is actually very pretty. Wonder what she sees in him. Even if he's good to her and their daughter, I couldnt take a man seriously who abandoned his other kids.


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Not to mention, drake was dating a girl named Macie and he dumped her for Natalie. I mean, here is Natalie, an 18 year old girl who was still in high school, dating a guy who left his pregnant wife twice, and his kids. I have no idea what goes through these girls minds thinking they picked the right guy

I know none of us are big Drake fans but let's not sweep under the facts.
Natalie is the same age as me and I was 19 when Landen was born, she was 19 when she met Drake. She also met him 2 months before graduating and turning 19. Drake left because he knew his marriage with Jess was doomed, they couldn't stop fighting and it was better off. Don't make it sound worse then it is...

[emloha_91]

Funny thing is that these pics remind me of the days that it was just him and Jess and Lilia. If she had of stopped getting pregnant all the damn time, this might have still been them. He was really involved when it was just Lilia. It went downhill super fast after she got pregnant with the twins.

^ not sure who wrote this because quotes messed up when I tried to use it but I completely agree.. He seemed pretty happy with just her and Lilia but Jess couldn't stop at just that.. she had to have more kids so that they would get married.. look how that worked out for you Jess.. Drake should have just protected himself (added that last bit so people don't think I'm completely blaming Jess.. takes two to tango after all!)

[Lucyall]

You guys noticed the massive reduction in Eddie sleeping pics and comments of late? Is she sleeping una safe environment now or is Jesssss just making sure the continued unsafe practices are undocumented?

Also - re the paper plates: was it possible it was from like a birthday party dinner for Landen? That might make it slightly more justified...?


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[dazzled]

My favorite thing about Drake is how he most likely left Jess because he couldn't handle all the kids, and then went ahead and got yet another chick pregnant. I'm not saying I agree with the way Jess handles it, but I sure as hell would be fucking bitter, too.

[Captain Smooth]

I've. Never noticed how CUTE landen was. I never found him cute until recently ! He has adorable features, I think it's her cutest kid.

They all look so different! But then I remember DIFFERENT DADS duhhhhh silly me.


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Apart from the teeth, that are going to look like Drakes exactly, I think he's reeeaaally cute. I have to say, judging from the videos, I like his personality much more than his looks. He seems to be the most unaffected one of her children.

I think it's because he's had the most 'stability'. He never really new Drake so didn't have the heartbreak of him leaving, he has Chris who like him or not, has been a great father figure to him (and still is), he's had Jess' attention the most (one-on-one time when the others were at school). If you think about his living memory, out of all her kids so far he's the only one who hasn't known or is aware of a 'broken home'.

And he is so friggin' adorable

Definitley, but I thought about the time when she was with Drake, were you, most of the time, couldn't tell that there were massive problems, that just didn't seem that serious, until she made a video about it. Then a shit ton of stuff surfaced, that explained a lot. Even when she made a video about having sole physical custody (already married to Chris), I remeber thinking, where did she have the time to actually vlog, do all the things that you have to do as Mom and still go to a lot of court meetings and nobody noticed anything on camera? She was always good at hiding stuff in front of the camera, but judging from the way Landen developed over the last 2 1/2 years, I'd say Chris and her are sort of able to provide a family life (when we think about poor Kaden, who might possibly have some kind baggage now and in later life due to his Mom and Dads erratic lifestyle).

[Sassysea]

My favorite thing about Drake is how he most likely left Jess because he couldn't handle all the kids, and then went ahead and got yet another chick pregnant. I'm not saying I agree with the way Jess handles it, but I sure as hell would be fucking bitter, too.

I'm not defending Drake at all but his life with Jess was chaos she had one child then the twins who he felt like she planned and Landon who she planned with his passive agreement plus the house is always a mess and there's a camera always shoved in his face and he said he hated YouTube but that was more important to her than him. With Natalie they did have one oops baby she is shown proof that she had the arm implant and it wasn't put in properly but their house is clean they have one child it's quiet his life is private and they both work it's a much more standard looking life. I could understand how he's happy in his relationship and life with Natalie but wasnt with Jess but not being involved in those boys life 15 minutes down the road is inexcusable because he still created them

[sofreakingnotok]

My favorite thing about Drake is how he most likely left Jess because he couldn't handle all the kids, and then went ahead and got yet another chick pregnant. I'm not saying I agree with the way Jess handles it, but I sure as hell would be fucking bitter, too.

Honestly I'm the first to call Drake out on not being the dad he needs to be but I believe some of the stuff he said about Jess. I wouldn't be so sure Jess was a saint and he left just because.

[smom12]

Oh make no mistake Jess was NOT an innocent party here. I imagine her the type to create drama where there is none and throwing a huge temper tantrum when she doesn't get her way


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[RootBeerFloatie]

At the end of the day they've both made shitty life choices. It takes two to get pregnant, and both shoukd have been more responsible. But I have to at least give props to Jess for raising her kids, not just ditching them like Drake does. She's by no means a perfect parent to them, but at least she tries.

Chris is an incredibly shitty guy and father, but he makes the car ride to go see his kids whenever he has custody. If that were Drake and Jess, Drake would bash her for keeping the boys away all while having no intent or desire to ever drive six hours to see them. Meanwhile, Gabe is fully involved in Lilia's life. Maybe Drake should worry less about the opinion of Jess's youtuber followers, less about making sure Natalie has bling, and more about sucking it up so that his sons can have their father in their life, or money to support their needs.

[dazzled]

Maybe Jess wasn't an innocent party, but the boys sure as hell are. Even if Jess was a huge bitch, what excuse is that for abandoning his three kids? They can't fucking help who their mother is.

[nadsbliss]

Maybe Jess wasn't an innocent party, but the boys sure as hell are. Even if Jess was a huge bitch, what excuse is that for abandoning his three kids? They can't fucking help who their mother is.

His excuse for not seeing them as often as he would is to avoid Jess for calling him a deadbeat infront of the kids when he came to fetch them. So visiting them once a while is better than Jess bitching around him often when he came to her place.

I don't see Drake to be involved in the boys life like how Gabe was. Firstly, Jess will flim him he will be shown on YouTube again. Slowly, if he's not around most of the time people on YouTube will stop talking about him knowing he never stepped up, no point to go over and over again talking about him since he's gone forever.

Drake and Jess relationship has nothing to with how many kids they have or she planned or so. They have their difference.

And Drake and Natalie have plans to have one or two more down the road. But not anytime soon.

[MRES83]

So Drake should abandon his kids because if he shows up Jess will call him a deadbeat. Thats perfectly logical?!? Wtf no, if he actually showed up to pick up the boys he wouldnt be a deadbeat. And its a hell of a lot more damaging to children for their father to never show up to pick them up, than for their mother to make a snide remark when being picked up.
Jess doesnt film him when he picks him up the 3 times a year he actually shows up, so I doubt she'll start now. Even if she tries he can ask her to stop or cover his face or whatever. Thats not an excuse to ignore his children. She was on YouTube before they started dating, Youtube is what provides his boys with food to eat and beds to sleep in. He wants to claim he doesnt need to pay child support because Jess makes money from Youtube (while buying rings and tattoos), he can't use potentially being in a clip of youtube for not picking up his children and seeing them too.
Regardless of their shitty relationship or how much he hates Jess, those are his children. He can put up with 5 minutes of seeing her to be a part of their lives. There are people who deal with a hell of a lot more to see their kids.
They should not be having more children until he is able to support (both financially and emotionally) the 4 children he has now.
Jess has made some really terrible life decisions, but Drake being a deadbeat is not mutually exclusive.

[Captain Smooth]

Maybe Jess wasn't an innocent party, but the boys sure as hell are. Even if Jess was a huge bitch, what excuse is that for abandoning his three kids? They can't fucking help who their mother is.

Those two were just perfect for each other when they met. Perfect if you want the ultimate dysfunctional family. She, a desperate young teenmom who thought every guy that's giving her and her daughter attention is worth enough to marry and have other kids with (and not even in that order) and a dumb irresponsible young guy who was too weak and stupid to make his own decisions.

[Captain Smooth]

So Drake should abandon his kids because if he shows up Jess will call him a deadbeat. Thats perfectly logical?!? Wtf no, if he actually showed up to pick up the boys he wouldnt be a deadbeat. And its a hell of a lot more damaging to children for their father to never show up to pick them up, than for their mother to make a snide remark when being picked up.
Jess doesnt film him when he picks him up the 3 times a year he actually shows up, so I doubt she'll start now. Even if she tries he can ask her to stop or cover his face or whatever. Thats not an excuse to ignore his children. She was on YouTube before they started dating, Youtube is what provides his boys with food to eat and beds to sleep in. He wants to claim he doesnt need to pay child support because Jess makes money from Youtube (while buying rings and tattoos), he can't use potentially being in a clip of youtube for not picking up his children and seeing them too.
Regardless of their shitty relationship or how much he hates Jess, those are his children. He can put up with 5 minutes of seeing her to be a part of their lives. There are people who deal with a hell of a lot more to see their kids.
They should not be having more children until he is able to support (both financially and emotionally) the 4 children he has now.
Jess has made some really terrible life decisions, but Drake being a deadbeat is not mutually exclusive.

That's the funny-sad thing at such a situation in general. Drake ran away from Jess, so he didn't have to deal with her anymore, only to realize that he has to deal with her even more now, even if he's a deadbeat. If you think how many times they must have seen each other in court, how many times she probably phoned him about something, than the whole custody/money situation that he actually ows her, she most likely bothered him (in his eyes) about it more than once. That probably didn't feel like he lived seperate from her, but I have to say, he deserved it. He can't completely escape his responsibilities, even if he tries this and if he doesn't pay for his kids, like he should, than the state will sooner or later take up the task to demand the money he ows.

[Aboogabooga]

There's no excuses. If she is that much of an issue then he can call for a police escort or arrange it so that someone else makes the drop offs/exchange. Simple as that. Can't they also go to some sort of a mediation as well? He really doesn't have to be a piece of shit forever. There's still time to make things better if he would just try. I'm not going to comment on how difficult jess may or may not make things for him because it does not matter, those are 3 little lives that need him and he should do what he takes. She'd have nothing to bitch about if he just did what he was supposed to do in the first place. Maybe he's started paying child support by now, but if he didn't I'd be really upset to see he bought the girl who punched him in the face a new fancy ring.

Unpopular opinion but idgaf, I feel a smidge bad for her seeing that drake ran off and literally had the family that she desperately wanted with him, with another woman and in such a short time frame. I can see why there is so much deep seeded bitterness with her and she should seek help for it. It takes an emotionally strong person to be able to forgive someone who hurt you and she obviously isn't strong enough to do so on her own. And yes he did hurt her. Just because you think she's such a piece of shit doesn't mean that him leaving, how he left, and how he's behaved since, didn't destroy her. Plenty of things are her fault but you can't force someone to love you and even if they would of waited to have more kids and done things the 'right' way, there's no guarantee that he wouldn't have cheated or that their marriage would've even lasted.


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[nadsbliss]

So Drake should abandon his kids because if he shows up Jess will call him a deadbeat. Thats perfectly logical?!? Wtf no, if he actually showed up to pick up the boys he wouldnt be a deadbeat. And its a hell of a lot more damaging to children for their father to never show up to pick them up, than for their mother to make a snide remark when being picked up.
Jess doesnt film him when he picks him up the 3 times a year he actually shows up, so I doubt she'll start now. Even if she tries he can ask her to stop or cover his face or whatever. Thats not an excuse to ignore his children. She was on YouTube before they started dating, Youtube is what provides his boys with food to eat and beds to sleep in. He wants to claim he doesnt need to pay child support because Jess makes money from Youtube (while buying rings and tattoos), he can't use potentially being in a clip of youtube for not picking up his children and seeing them too.
Regardless of their shitty relationship or how much he hates Jess, those are his children. He can put up with 5 minutes of seeing her to be a part of their lives. There are people who deal with a hell of a lot more to see their kids.
They should not be having more children until he is able to support (both financially and emotionally) the 4 children he has now.
Jess has made some really terrible life decisions, but Drake being a deadbeat is not mutually exclusive.

I won't say he fully abandoned them and not see them anymore. Just not as much as he should. Bella's birthday is coming up and the boys will attend her sister and Aliyah (Natalie's niece) birthday. That's what i said in my previous, that Drake should take full custody of the boys and the boys can get to see the Roque family when Drake visit his parents and cousins.

Kaden on Bella and Aliyah birthday. Photos posted by Nicole (Natalie twin)

[MamaJoAnna]

All the Roque kids have March birthdays though. How fair is it that the boys go to their sister's birthday but apparently don't get any time with their dad for their own? Only if it benefits the current family, I guess...