DailyUltrasounds Part 25

[violet-kelsey black]

lets see if Missy will take care of Bryan for Father's Day. btw when is it in America? for Germany it's this Thursday

[Avocado_love]

Missy was complaining in today's vlog about how she'll have to throw away a bunch of Ollie's clothes that don't fit him anymore. They looked good as new, and she wanted to THROW THEM AWAY.
I left a comment suggesting she keep the clothes for when the next baby is big enough to wear them.
If anything, she better donate them. It would be so fucking wasteful for her to throw away a bunch of perfectly good clothes that another mother could use.

[rdt1004]

K&C also had a moment in their blog where they expressed their feelings of envy at other couples at their church who got to have their babies dedicated every Sunday while they were struggling with their loses. Katie opened up about how she felt during past Mother's Days and how grateful she is to finally have her child. No one is asking Bryan and Missy to bawl on camera, but it's just strange that they just ignore it like it never happened.


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[cats-or-die]

I grew up with an awesome mom until I turned about 12, when she became addicted to the Internet. Then it was like she wasn't even around. It wasn't until my dad passed away two years ago that she started to be a mom again. That's 10 years I went with a mom who wasn't present. For Missy to sit there and go on and on about what an awesome friendship and bond her and her mother have was kind of off putting. I know many people have amazing relationships with their moms, and as an adult I can appreciate that. But for their young viewers who DONT have that, or have moms who passed away, that video probably brought up really terrible feelings for some.

I'm not saying Missy can't be proud of the relationship she had, but I think Missy forgets that not everyone has a relationship like that and she should have talked about those things as well.

I personally think Bryan should have made a video similar talking about him and his mom. It could have related to a lot of people. These two just don't use their platforms well at all.


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[babyspice]

^^^^ I agree! When I first started watching Bryan and Missy, I was envious of Missy and Suzanne's relationship. I'm not really close with my mom and I've always wanted that. I realize that Missy and Suzanne's relationship is more friends than Mother and Daughter. I would to see loved Bryan's video about his mom, but of course it's never going to happen because of Missy :/

[mommyluvv]

I am waiting for a nursery reveal in that extra room they have. Unless they didn't do anything to anything because they are planning to move.

But it still boggles my mind, they are renting, but they bought a new fridge. Isn't something like that the landlords responsibility to fix? Not the renter.
I mean, my washing machine died on us and the landlord bought a new one.

Oh wait, I'm sure they opted to by their own because the landlord may have just settled with something generic...

-_-

[HelloSweetie]

I am waiting for a nursery reveal in that extra room they have. Unless they didn't do anything to anything because they are planning to move.

But it still boggles my mind, they are renting, but they bought a new fridge. Isn't something like that the landlords responsibility to fix? Not the renter.
I mean, my washing machine died on us and the landlord bought a new one.

Oh wait, I'm sure they opted to by their own because the landlord may have just settled with something generic...

-_-

This would totally explain why the "old" refrigerator ended up in the garage and not given away to Goodwill. They just bought a new one because they wanted to. Spending money to show off is a slippery slope and they're on it!


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[KatB0420]

I am waiting for a nursery reveal in that extra room they have. Unless they didn't do anything to anything because they are planning to move.

But it still boggles my mind, they are renting, but they bought a new fridge. Isn't something like that the landlords responsibility to fix? Not the renter.
I mean, my washing machine died on us and the landlord bought a new one.

Oh wait, I'm sure they opted to by their own because the landlord may have just settled with something generic...

-_-

The fridge was theirs to begin with they took the one out that the Landlord had in there.

[HelloSweetie]

I am waiting for a nursery reveal in that extra room they have. Unless they didn't do anything to anything because they are planning to move.

But it still boggles my mind, they are renting, but they bought a new fridge. Isn't something like that the landlords responsibility to fix? Not the renter.
I mean, my washing machine died on us and the landlord bought a new one.

Oh wait, I'm sure they opted to by their own because the landlord may have just settled with something generic...

-_-

The fridge was theirs to begin with they took the one out that the Landlord had in there.

They mentioned putting the other one in the garage though for their extra food. So they have 3 then?


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[mommyluvv]

I got it, they bought theirs second hand I think because there was no fridge when they moved in.

[QueenBooBoo1216]

There are very few charities in CA at least that will take used refrigerators. There is no guarantee they work and it costs them money to dispose of them if they don't.

[HelloSweetie]

There are very few charities in CA at least that will take used refrigerators. There is no guarantee they work and it costs them money to dispose of them if they don't.

I'm sure they could put it on Craigslist or Facebook and give it to someone in need. These two buy new crap they don't need and just throw away the old stuff. That's not very crunchy!


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[Theirmom]

and she acts like she handles grief the same way. no one is asking you to bawl on camera. but an acknowledgement that you are the mother of 4 little boys, 2 of those in heaven, is more than what pithy ever does.

Ugh, this bullshit again?
I have three kids. I consider myself a mother of three. I don't constantly talk about my two miscarriages I had prior to my three living children, and I don't tell people I'm a mother of five.
If you've had losses, and that's how you choose to reference them, that's your choice. But not everyone considers a fetus a child. I always considered them my potential children. And yes, I grieved when I lost the pregnancies, especially with my second trimester loss. But it's not the same thing as having a living child. It's just not. Not in my mind anyway.
Not everyone has to give the same consideration to their lost pregnancies as they do to their living children. It's a personal choice and not one that should be thrown back in your face if you don't choose to acknowledge your loss at every opportunity.

[HelloSweetie]

and she acts like she handles grief the same way. no one is asking you to bawl on camera. but an acknowledgement that you are the mother of 4 little boys, 2 of those in heaven, is more than what pithy ever does.

Ugh, this bullshit again?
I have three kids. I consider myself a mother of three. I don't constantly talk about my two miscarriages I had prior to my three living children, and I don't tell people I'm a mother of five.
If you've had losses, and that's how you choose to reference them, that's your choice. But not everyone considers a fetus a child. I always considered them my potential children. And yes, I grieved when I lost the pregnancies, especially with my second trimester loss. But it's not the same thing as having a living child. It's just not. Not in my mind anyway.
Not everyone has to give the same consideration to their lost pregnancies as they do to their living children. It's a personal choice and not one that should be thrown back in your face if you don't choose to acknowledge your loss at every opportunity.

Except they used to refer to them as their children.

You aren't doing videos where you mention "loss moms". We've debated whether she should really be mentioning the infertility thing if she's unable to relate. The losses she can relate to... That's where their YT journey started! Is weird that they do a Mother's Day video, mention loss, but seem somehow removed from it.

They are VERY different than they were when they started. Gender is a bigger issue than Missy's ability to have a healthy pregnancy for once. Come on...

1.5 years ago...
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I'm a loss mom too. 2 of mine are secret. I speak of none of them... unless the topic comes up. Before I say anything about loss I mention it because it's relevant to my understanding. Missy doesn't want to mention it, that's fine. Don't do a Mother's Day vid about loss and infertility.



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[babyspice]

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Did Bryan and Missy finally take Oliver to the doctors about his seizures? I really hope they did and that he's okay.

[Greys Encyclopedia]

Missy was complaining in today's vlog about how she'll have to throw away a bunch of Ollie's clothes that don't fit him anymore. They looked good as new, and she wanted to THROW THEM AWAY.
I left a comment suggesting she keep the clothes for when the next baby is big enough to wear them.
If anything, she better donate them. It would be so fucking wasteful for her to throw away a bunch of perfectly good clothes that another mother could use.

I'm pretty sure she said she was separating them into donations and using them for the baby. I do the same thing, I'll say I'm throwing something out when I mean donating.

[cmm216]

My husband and I have a 3 year old son and are now pregnant with our second. We find out what we are having in 3 more weeks. Everyone keeps asking me if we hope it's a girl and that they would love for us to have a girl next. It's always one of the first things people ask and I find it kind of rude. Of course we would be thrilled to have a boy and a girl, but I would love to have another little boy! I would love for our son to have a little brother. People are pushing the idea of the "perfect family" with one of each. A perfect family is a healthy and happy one.

I don't understand Missy. I totally get the initial gender disappointment, but shit...pull yourself together and stop being an ungrateful little brat.

[HelloSweetie]

My husband and I have a 3 year old son and are now pregnant with our second. We find out what we are having in 3 more weeks. Everyone keeps asking me if we hope it's a girl and that they would love for us to have a girl next. It's always one of the first things people ask and I find it kind of rude. Of course we would be thrilled to have a boy and a girl, but I would love to have another little boy! I would love for our son to have a little brother. People are pushing the idea of the "perfect family" with one of each. A perfect family is a healthy and happy one.

I don't understand Missy. I totally get the initial gender disappointment, but shit...pull yourself together and stop being an ungrateful little brat.

I agree! A perfect family is one that's happy and healthy. People can just be ignorant. What about families that have only one child, or those with special needs? They aren't perfect? Total ignorance.

What would Missy do if it turned out Ollie does have delays? Or if the next baby has special needs of some sort? Would she mourn the loss of her "perfect family"?


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[cats-or-die]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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[cats-or-die]

It seems Bryan and Missy were more open about their losses back then because it was still something they wanted to express and inform about. They can't live the rest of their lives talking about their losses. They have a healthy child HERE and one on the way - to dwell on their losses forever isn't healthy.

I think everyone mad about her never acknowledging her losses anymore need to seriously pipe the fuck down. It might be something they're trying to fully move past (moving forward and forgetting are two different things).
I lost my father. He was a living, breathing human who I adored. I don't go around finding ways to talk about him, constantly bringing him up to people. Why? That's too painful. I want to move past the pain and hurt of losing him, and get to a point where I can remember him and talk about him without crying.


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