Dumbledore wrote:Frootloops3 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 14, 2019 12:09 pm
It’s so strange with how she tried so hard to have Charlie, but then can’t even take care of him or Lily now.
Well, to be fair, she didn’t try that hard. She got pregnant the second month of trying I think. And I’m pretty sure she didn’t get pregnant sooner because they didn’t start trying until after her ovulation the first month.
She just wanted to prove to everyone that she could do things “the right way”. She got David to marry her (because he joined the military and its easier to get married than to deal with arranging legal custody and child support) and she wanted to have a baby within wedlock. She wanted her friends and family to celebrate the pregnancy. Once all that was done and over with, she realized she didn’t actually like being a mom. She just liked the idea of it for her image and for YT and it gave her an excuse to stay home and not work or go to school even though she was hardly even taking care of her own kids.
She never liked being a mom, it was just easy for her because she never had to struggle with finding a job, a place to live, money or finding a baby sitter. She didn’t have typical mom struggles because everything was handed to her, now here she is finally alone after 7 years and she can’t deal with REAL mom life.
She has it soooo easy compared to other moms that have to work real jobs with no help and yet she’s constantly complaining about the simplest tasks. Then she says she’s planning on being in the military for 20+years lol yeahhh I don’t see that happening, Vanessa
won’t make it through another leave.